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Topic: What shows the potential for having kids in synastry/composite?
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next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 1202
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 11, 2014 03:23 PM
  
Well, ok. It's not like I wan't kids right NOW, but I'm thinking that I would like kids before I get 30 though, and now I'm 24 and together with THE guy of my life. I cannot imagine having kids with anyone else. Though…I cannot really imagine having kids with him…cause we are like kids ourselves when together lol.But what indicates that you could have children in composite/synastry?
We do have venus in 5th house and sun in 4th house in composite… is this good for settling down some day? We both got cancer rising, which I think indicates the longing for starting a family:P
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Jo B
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From: London, UK
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted April 11, 2014 03:41 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Though…I cannot really imagine having kids with him…cause we are like kids ourselves when together lol.
Well that might make you good parents, cos you would identify with your kids.  IP: Logged |
Emily033
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From: marysville, ca
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 11, 2014 03:46 PM
IME moon aspects in the couples' synastry, especially Jupiter-moon or sun-moon conjunctions IP: Logged |
lifefullofwords
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posted April 11, 2014 03:46 PM
4th house and 5th house placements are definitely good. I've heard Moon-Mars can indicate having kids together. You may also want to check on Ceres. Of course, both people will need to have indications in their natal that they want kids but it sounds like you guys do.In terms of feeling still feeling like kids... maybe you just need to wait a little while? You're only 24, you still have more than 5 years before you turn 30. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 11, 2014 03:53 PM
It would be good to find out first if he wants children at all. By asking him.------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 1202
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 11, 2014 03:58 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
It would be good to find out first if he wants children at all. By asking him.
Yeah you are probably right, but I think it's a bit too early for that:P we have only been dating for a little less than a year, but we are moving in together this summer IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
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posted April 11, 2014 04:07 PM
I don't think it's too early. If you're very serious about it and he never wants to be a parent then it'll surface sooner or later and get ugly. It would be easier to move on at the stage you currently are. Children are not something you can compromise on. I hope you're compatible though. Then the only challenge will be keeping the relationship alive and happy ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 1202
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 11, 2014 04:12 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
I don't think it's too early. If you're very serious about it and he never wants to be a parent then it'll surface sooner or later and get ugly. It would be easier to move on at the stage you currently are. Children are not something you can compromise on. I hope you're compatible though. Then the only challenge will be keeping the relationship alive and happy
well even though I asked him now he might say "no", but that doesn't have to mean it's a no forever…he's just 23, how can he possibly know for sure right now:P A year ago I was sure I would be a bad parent, but I'm thinking more and more about just settling down now IP: Logged |
Leocassandra
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From: Poland
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted April 11, 2014 04:19 PM
for kids? Mars/Jupiter in synastryIP: Logged |
manderin
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From: New York, NY USA
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 11, 2014 04:55 PM
You're both at the most fertile point of your life so unless there's something medically wrong the potential for children will be there regardless of what's in your charts.The only thing a chart might help with is telling you extremes in the matter. For this you can look at both your natal charts. If the lord of the 5th is sitting in the 12th especially in a woman's chart is often a sign of much unhappiness due to biological children. The unhappiness is caused by the children being sickly, dieing at a young age or just making you miserable. Rahu in the 5th house can make someone have several children... Interestingly, many people with this placement who don't have their own kids often become teachers so that they can parent many children during school hours. If there's nothing in your chart that shows the extreme of zero children vs many children, then you can just assume that you'll have the one-three kids you want to have like most people do.
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Knowflake Posts: 1202
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 11, 2014 05:02 PM
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Originally posted by lifefullofwords:
4. You may also want to check on Ceres.
What ceres aspect? Jupiter-ceres? We don't got that aspect unfortunately. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 11, 2014 06:18 PM
I recall a thread a while back where a study was made and lots of people who had kids together had composite north node in Cancer. I also had it in my composite with my daughters father and i.I think 5th house also rules children. My 5th house is in scorpio and my daughters father is a scorpio sun. His 5th house is in gemini and my sun is in gemini.
My daughter has a gemini sun/scorpio moon. Cool right?
Ill check more of the synastry snd get back to u.
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Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 1730
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 11, 2014 06:22 PM
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Originally posted by Leocassandra:
for kids? Mars/Jupiter in synastry
My daughters father and i have mars conjunct jupiter in synastry. IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 1202
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 11, 2014 06:37 PM
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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
I recall a thread a while back where a study was made and lots of people who had kids together had composite north node in Cancer. I also had it in my composite with my daughters father and i.I think 5th house also rules children. My 5th house is in scorpio and my daughters father is a scorpio sun. His 5th house is in gemini and my sun is in gemini.
My daughter has a gemini sun/scorpio moon. Cool right?
Ill check more of the synastry snd get back to u.
My fith house is in libra, and my boyfriend is a libra sun
His fith house is in virgo and I'm a virgo sun! we don't got any jupiter/mars aspect though, neither in the composite  IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 7037
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 11, 2014 06:50 PM
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Originally posted by manderin:
If there's nothing in your chart that shows the extreme of zero children vs many children, then you can just assume that you'll have the one-three kids you want to have like most people do.
Yes. I have 9H Jupiter ruling my 5H; Jupiter is disposited by and exactly sextile to Mars. Honestly we were hoping to only have three children but, omitting TMI, we have five. I LOVE them all of course! But it wasn't "the plan." I read someplace once that if both partners were born during the same moon phase, it enhances their fertility. This applies to my husband and me. Also, I've read that a woman is extra fertile when the moon phase matches what it was when she was born.
Unfortunately I can't provide feedback on that as I don't know for sure when any of my children were conceived (Neptune in the 5H.  ) ETA: To answer the original question, we most likely have composite NN in the 5H, sun-Venus in the 4H (birth times not absolute.) IP: Logged |
lifefullofwords
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Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 11, 2014 07:25 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
What ceres aspect? Jupiter-ceres? We don't got that aspect unfortunately.
I'd think that Moon-Ceres would be the most significant but Ceres contacting the Sun or Mars could indicate kids as well. You should probably also check the 5th house ruler. Also, I've read Ceres in the 5th can indicate kids in the natal chart (I have this placement) and I'd think that would be the case in synastry and composite charts too. IP: Logged |
babybull82
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posted April 11, 2014 07:55 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
It would be good to find out first if he wants children at all. By asking him.
If this were fb, I'd like your post lol IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 1202
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 11, 2014 08:07 PM
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Originally posted by babybull82:
If this were fb, I'd like your post lol
Yea I would with any other guy in this world… but my boyfriend got venus square uranus and uranus in 7th house… so I know I gotta be careful with being like that kind of girl who wants to settle down and get married haha
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Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 1730
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 12, 2014 02:42 AM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
I don't think it's too early. If you're very serious about it and he never wants to be a parent then it'll surface sooner or later and get ugly. It would be easier to move on at the stage you currently are. Children are not something you can compromise on. I hope you're compatible though. Then the only challenge will be keeping the relationship alive and happy
I think she was asking about aspects. There go the bossy naggy capricorn lectures again.
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