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Topic: 8th house and soulmate connections
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ReeseC
Knowflake Posts: 1134
From: Elysium
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 10, 2014 07:14 PM
  
Without using any asteroids, centaurs, or fixed stars my ex husband and I have all 4 axis conjunct(ASC/ASCand DC/DC exact; MC and IC by 1 degree) and my Venus(0°22'25" in Taurus) is conjunct his Jupiter(29°24'45" in Aries). I don't know if this makes a "soulmate" but we share bizarre coincidences between each other like last name, numbers, and crazy life experiences where it happens to him first then me. It was weird.
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Marandana
Knowflake Posts: 303
From: Earth.
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted September 10, 2014 10:37 PM
What about jupiter in 8th house? Even if its double whammy?IP: Logged |
8ofHearts
Knowflake Posts: 101
From: CA
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted December 24, 2016 03:09 AM
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Originally posted by lalalinda:
Soul mates and the 8th house?
Yes, especially when the other persons Saturn falls there.Another soul mate connection would be something conjunct the South Node in either chart. I have also found that planets like Saturn falling in your 12th house are usually family connections.
lalalinda - on what basis do you feel Saturn in 8th is a soulmate aspect? I have this with an on/off lover - his Saturn conj My Mars in my 8th opposite my Moon in 2nd- it's has been painful - it has taken him forever to trust me! And there is strong attraction but also weird tension/repression. Ugh.
I'm curious to hear other opinions. I've heard it can lead to nasty behavior (that was true in the beginning - the fighting has mellowed) but...we don't see each other much anymore.He has a huge stellium of Virgo falling into my 12th house (I'm Pisces desc) and its like he's a ghost haunting me. I don't think I hit him the same but he does weirdly feel attached (maybe the Saturn?)
My Sun/Pluto/ASC fall on a big bunch of his midpoints including Sun/Moon MP and his North Node is conjunct My Vertex/DESC (orb 4-5.) opp his Moon. I don't think it's enough.
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Beautiful_Light
Knowflake Posts: 41
From:
Registered: Nov 2016
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posted December 24, 2016 03:49 AM
I'm interested in 8th house relationships too, as I'm crushing on a guy who's Sun is exactly conjunct my Mercury in my 8th house (Mercury is my 12th house ruler). We are both Taurus Suns. I am so incredibly shy/smitten around him, I must be so obvious lol. I could tell he was interested too but I was in some unfortunate romantic delusions with other karmic ties this year. I blame it on my natal Venus opposition Neptune, lol!IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
Knowflake Posts: 654
From: Durham north carolina usa
Registered: May 2015
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posted December 24, 2016 04:10 AM
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Originally posted by 8ofHearts:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by lalalinda:
[b]Soul mates and the 8th house?
Yes, especially when the other persons Saturn falls there.Another soul mate connection would be something conjunct the South Node in either chart. I have also found that planets like Saturn falling in your 12th house are usually family connections.
lalalinda - on what basis do you feel Saturn in 8th is a soulmate aspect? I have this with an on/off lover - his Saturn conj My Mars in my 8th opposite my Moon in 2nd- it's has been painful - it has taken him forever to trust me! And there is strong attraction but also weird tension/repression. Ugh.
I'm curious to hear other opinions. I've heard it can lead to nasty behavior (that was true in the beginning - the fighting has mellowed) but...we don't see each other much anymore.He has a huge stellium of Virgo falling into my 12th house (I'm Pisces desc) and its like he's a ghost haunting me. I don't think I hit him the same but he does weirdly feel attached (maybe the Saturn?)
My Sun/Pluto/ASC fall on a big bunch of his midpoints including Sun/Moon MP and his North Node is conjunct My Vertex/DESC (orb 4-5.) opp his Moon. I don't think it's enough. [/B][/QUOTE] I have something similar with a guy, when I'm there it's great but apart it's awful. I left the other day because I just didn't feel secure and instead of understanding, he just said bye. I just think he has someone else and thats fine, I understand. If he's happy then I'm happy for him. IP: Logged |
PixieJane
Moderator Posts: 8657
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 24, 2016 10:07 PM
It's interesting how often Pisces (both sun and moon) have affected me in transforming ways, and I've often returned the favor. My current BFF is a Pisces mooner, and I'd say we're (platonic) soul mates who have had a profound effect on each other.I have a Pisces 8H. There was only one man I might've formed a permanent romantic bond with that might've (don't know for sure) survived my changes over the years. He had a Pisces and Sag stellium (both our stelliums included Mars-Uranus and Eros which I think had a lot to do with our crazy affair). His 1H Pisces sun and stellium was in my 8H, while my sun and stellium was in his 8H. One of the regrets of my life is that I let others separate me from him. He was into polyamory, and I wanted to practice it with him. But those who pursued me later wouldn't hear of it, and having expressed an interest they essentially forbid me from seeing him again (showing their monogamous ideals were rooted largely in insecurity rather than some higher ideals, and one of them turned out to be a serial cheater  ). I lost contact and don't know whatever happened to him (and my current partner wouldn't tolerate him and I interacting either, even if I could find him). It's not that I rend my garments thinking I made a mistake, but I do wonder how my life would be different had I refused to give in to convention. It would be different, that's for sure, but that doesn't mean it would be better or worse (though surely a bit of both). If I could go back and make a different decision then I would, though only if I could keep the memories of this life path since I'm sure I'd be wondering the same thing in reverse if I'd gone down that path without knowledge of this one. And perhaps that means he and I were soul mates. Though of course that begs the question of what is a soul mate, to which there are so many different definitions (my favorite was the one who had like a score of soul mates in her life at the time, including her dog  ) that there isn't much point in asking. Even boiling it down to the bare basics makes it so that it doesn't mean much to me as it could be describing other things (including unhealthy relationship dynamics). But IF he was, then maybe that we both filled each other's 8H had something to do with it (in addition to plenty of our planets lining up). IP: Logged |
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