posted April 20, 2014 05:00 PM            

Very anal and practical. Highly efficient. Like to have schedules for things. Financially stable. Like classic beauty kinda person. Like independent women who are strong and smart.

There are plenty of threads on cap moon men.

I like this energy in men more than in women.

posted April 20, 2014 09:26 PM            

The guy I'm with has Cappy moon, and we are very open and honest. He said that in his youth, he was very unemotional, but has become more emotional with age, only because he's learned emotions aren't bad--and that showing them isn't a sign of weakness (though only with those he trusts!). He was also extremely promiscuous and could have casual sex without batting an eye in his twenties, but now sex is tethered much more to his emotional side and connection with a partner. He's very sweet and shows his affection through thoughtfully calculated and crafted words, as well as gifts. SO. MANY. GIFTS. O_o

He has sun/venus Scorpio and mercury/mars Sag. His ascendant is Pisces. I adore him to death.

posted April 21, 2014 07:02 AM            

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Originally posted by lvASTRO:

He has sun/venus Scorpio and mercury/mars Sag. His ascendant is Pisces. I adore him to death.

Would it be too much to ask the context from which the question stems? Just curious. :0[/B]

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My guy is also a scorp sun and venus retrograde (both his sun and venus are conjunct Pluto in the 10th), and has moon/asc in cappy. He is a major workaholic and is only 27. I'm 29. He became a fully licensed doctor at 26. We are in an ldr- we live about 2.5 hrs apart. I have feelings for him, and he says he has feelings for me as well. He is very sensitive and respectful, but is obsessed with his work. We have been seeing each other for 6 months but it has been slow. We don't see each other much due to schedules and distance. We have had many disagreements because of this.

Did it take a while for your relationship with your scorp to get off the ground? Do you consider him an honest/loyal person? How long have you been with him?

posted April 21, 2014 05:10 PM            

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Originally posted by ariestaurus:
My guy is also a scorp sun and venus retrograde (both his sun and venus are conjunct Pluto in the 10th), and has moon/asc in cappy. He is a major workaholic and is only 27. I'm 29. He became a fully licensed doctor at 26. We are in an ldr- we live about 2.5 hrs apart. I have feelings for him, and he says he has feelings for me as well. He is very sensitive and respectful, but is obsessed with his work. We have been seeing each other for 6 months but it has been slow. We don't see each other much due to schedules and distance. We have had many disagreements because of this.

Did it take a while for your relationship with your scorp to get off the ground? Do you consider him an honest/loyal person? How long have you been with him?

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I should mention my guy has venus scorp retro, too. The workaholic thing is usually a means to not have to deal with some major emotions/issues. It's how emotions can be shut out and not dealt with. All the Caps are ambitious,s but to this extent, it could signal some inner turmoil, or a more basic need for control.

We've been dating for a little over four months, and we are long distance, too. Funny. Although it's only three hours apart (we met through a mutual friend and live in different states), it still gets hard even though we make time to visit each other back and forth.

Things started off easily enough: he proclaimed his feelings for me and then it was basically him urging me on to get the ball rolling. I feel like I have to be the primemover in the relationship. I'm fine with that, but if feel like they'd move a lot more slowly otherwise, just because he was guarded at first.

Once he trusted me, it was on.

posted April 21, 2014 06:21 PM            

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Originally posted by lvASTRO:
I should mention my guy has venus scorp retro, too. The workaholic thing is usually a means to not have to deal with some major emotions/issues. It's how emotions can be shut out and not dealt with. All the Caps are ambitious,s but to this extent, it could signal some inner turmoil, or a more basic need for control.

We've been dating for a little over four months, and we are long distance, too. Funny. Although it's only three hours apart (we met through a mutual friend and live in different states), it still gets hard even though we make time to visit each other back and forth.

Things started off easily enough: he proclaimed his feelings for me and then it was basically him urging me on to get the ball rolling. I feel like I have to be the primemover in the relationship. I'm fine with that, but if feel like they'd move a lot more slowly otherwise, just because he was guarded at first.

Once he trusted me, it was on.

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Yes, I've heard that about the workaholism thing- that they bury their emotions in work. Makes complete sense. And yes, I've heard trust is key- both for Cappy and Scorpy-influenced people.

My guy and I also met through mutual friends

posted April 21, 2014 07:25 PM            

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Originally posted by ariestaurus:
Has anyone here dated a Cappy Moon man? What were your experiences? Feel free to add any tips/advice.

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posted April 22, 2014 03:52 AM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
My ex-boyfriend had his cancer sun opposite his capricorn moon..I think it suited him well, it kind of gave him an edge. He was very nurturing like a cancer but with the depth of a capricorn…. but he was also very stifled with expressing his emotions I remember…. but I was not as much into him as he was with me, so I didn't really cared for his emotions…when he started to express his love I left him

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Ouch!!!! I think you just realized his worst fear without knowing it.

Capricorns fear nothing more then to have their love rebuffed.

My Dad is Cancer Sun/Cap Moon. He is also not that good at showing emotions and can be very awkward when trying to.

His Moon conjuncts my Sun/Neptune in Sagittarius less than 1 Degree. I don't really warm up to him at all(despite this).

posted April 22, 2014 06:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemmy:
I guess I was involved with an unevolved cap moon man.:-/
We argued a lot and he's emotionally manipulative. He told me the worst lies ever(at one point he had cancer).

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posted April 22, 2014 11:50 PM            

The strange thing is a few years after I ended contact with him I met a second guy born on the exact same day (only he is gay) and we're still close friends. This second guy has never lied to me or tried to manipulate me.

posted April 23, 2014 12:58 AM            

Here is our chart. Aspects below. He's on the left, myself the right. Some orbs are bigger; can't figure out how to change it...
A lot of the smaller orb aspects of the semis, biquints, and sequis can actually be felt, I think.

To note, also our s/m midpoints, and our vertexes.

Me:
S/M Mid: Scorpio 20.5'
Vertex: Taurus 21.24'

Him:
S/M Mid: Capricorn 6.16'
Vertex: Virgo 22.13'

Our north nodes are opposite at Pisces/Virgo, orb 0.15'

posted April 23, 2014 08:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Baaaafish:
Not the best place for a moon to be, not very supportive as lovers or fathers because some (not all) lack the ability to offer genuine comfort. I'm a Sun in Cap, Moon in Scorp, I was dating a man with a Sun in Scorp, moon in Cap and he still had a very hard time expressing himself, his emotions would bottle and he would turn self righteous. Even if he knew he was wrong he would be defensive. But it also depends on the aspects to his natal moon and your placements as well.

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Looks like quite a few of us have dealt with Scorp Sun/Cap moon people! You have similar energy in your placements, so you probably understand them better than most.