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Topic: I accidentally hurt a Scorpio man.
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pocaloca
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posted May 08, 2014 02:36 PM
  
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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
It does hit me hard than i start to think if that person is even really worth it and if they are than i will reach back out for them but if not i will cut you out my life, just wait for them to want you we really want what we cant have you should stop txting him very emotional things and just tell him bye and that your moving on tell him he ruined his chances with you as over time he "might" come back thats your best bet i actually did that to my ex and now shes the one hitting me up i just stopped caring and told her your dead to me, when you tell a scorp that and they care for you those words will get a reaction
Thank you Suprimo Last thing I wrote mine was that I dont give a fock anymore and that I actually dont even understand what I loved about him in the first place..auch! That was my hurt pride after the stupid deep freeze he gave me.
So I guess ( i know) I acted in the right way :/ IP: Logged |
Supreme cT
Knowflake Posts: 266
From: NJ
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 08, 2014 02:37 PM
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Originally posted by MissPiscesForever:
So basically no one is going to help me with this, and they're all going to make jokes about it? It's serious I hurt him, and it hurts me to hurt others and it hurts me that now he's mad at me because I like him 
Only way to get him back is to have him want you back just tell him your moving on do it nicely and if he really wants you he will come back in the future IP: Logged |
pocaloca
Knowflake Posts: 374
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posted May 08, 2014 02:40 PM
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Originally posted by MissPiscesForever:
So basically no one is going to help me with this, and they're all going to make jokes about it? It's serious I hurt him, and it hurts me to hurt others and it hurts me that now he's mad at me because I like him
Damn woman ! He is playing with you , testing how far you would go..how much he has you in his hands! Scorps do that. Again, more you run after him, more he runs away..trust me on that one. Stop and he would chase you or be gone for good. IP: Logged |
MsPrism
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posted May 08, 2014 02:45 PM
We're making jokes because of how you wrote the first post. It just seems like it's all been dealt with in a very childish way.I apologize. Alright, we need like Odette to the rescue or something. All I can say personally is that if I put my feelings out there and someone didn't respond in a way that reassured my feelings then I would completely cut the other person off. Then I would agonize over what I did wrong and replay different scenarios over and over in my head to see why I failed miserably and how I won't make the same mistake again. I wouldn't talk to that person but I would relish them flipping out and telling me how much they want me in their life. Although, this still wouldn't assure me of safety so I would still need time to deal with all the feelings and allow them to be put into coherent thought. It's like a chaotic whirlwind of emotion and you've gotta let the dust settle. Just give it time and contact him if you want but if you want to play power games and not contact him then it's basically gonna be like a cold war. IP: Logged |
Newrise
Knowflake Posts: 592
From: Los angeles
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted May 08, 2014 02:46 PM
My Venus in pisces tells me that's no love. I am also having that happened, and it only ****** me off more. But I don't really like them that way anyways. And have let them know that too, so anyways. I bless that person anyways, and I know it's hard, but I rather be not have that kind of love.I have Scorpio Ascendent, and I have also done this in my teenage years, so I know why this could happen, but trust me that's no way to be. It's not healthy. And I realize now, it wasn't really love on my part. I have learned if you love someone, always let them know, regardless of the consequences. But only say it someone when you are ready for the rejection. So now if someone say to me, and I like them back, I make sure that they know that I like them, maybe even if I don't love them, I like them genuinely and I appreciate them very much. I say the truth, hub I emphasize the positive so they don't get hurt. If I don't like them, I make sure I tell them that too, because personally I rather know sooner than later. IP: Logged |
pocaloca
Knowflake Posts: 374
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Registered: Dec 2013
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posted May 08, 2014 03:02 PM
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Originally posted by MsPrism:
We're making jokes because of how you wrote the first post. It just seems like it's all been dealt with in a very childish way.I apologize. Alright, we need like Odette to the rescue or something. All I can say personally is that if I put my feelings out there and someone didn't respond in a way that reassured my feelings then I would completely cut the other person off. Then I would agonize over what I did wrong and replay different scenarios over and over in my head to see why I failed miserably and how I won't make the same mistake again. I wouldn't talk to that person but I would relish them flipping out and telling me how much they want me in their life. Although, this still wouldn't assure me of safety so I would still need time to deal with all the feelings and allow them to be put into coherent thought. It's like a chaotic whirlwind of emotion and you've gotta let the dust settle. Just give it time and contact him if you want but if you want to play power games and not contact him then it's basically gonna be like a cold war.
Ms Prism....I totally admire your honesty.
Its exactly how i actually assumed Scorps react and feel..and also those with Mars, Vanus ASC in Scorp.
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MissPiscesForever
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posted May 08, 2014 03:33 PM
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Originally posted by MsPrism:
We're making jokes because of how you wrote the first post. It just seems like it's all been dealt with in a very childish way.I apologize. Alright, we need like Odette to the rescue or something. All I can say personally is that if I put my feelings out there and someone didn't respond in a way that reassured my feelings then I would completely cut the other person off. Then I would agonize over what I did wrong and replay different scenarios over and over in my head to see why I failed miserably and how I won't make the same mistake again. I wouldn't talk to that person but I would relish them flipping out and telling me how much they want me in their life. Although, this still wouldn't assure me of safety so I would still need time to deal with all the feelings and allow them to be put into coherent thought. It's like a chaotic whirlwind of emotion and you've gotta let the dust settle. Just give it time and contact him if you want but if you want to play power games and not contact him then it's basically gonna be like a cold war.
Childish. Of course. Aries venus and I'm only fifteen.
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MissPiscesForever
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posted May 08, 2014 04:53 PM
If a guy is going to get that emotional...I don't want part in it :/ that's my new decision.IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 752
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 08, 2014 07:31 PM
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Originally posted by pocaloca:
ahahahahahah...sorry !Scorpio influenced dudes are really pain in the neck. Do something wrong and they would punish you harsh, do all perfect and they would lose interest..
Yep, this is a tactic to find your insecurities, and then they can use your insecurities against you to manipulate and mind tree trunk. Abit of mental torture and psychological experiments, you are not a person but a lab rat being experimented on for pleasure. Enjoy the attachment to a Scorpio man. Lol. IP: Logged |
sag_stellium
Knowflake Posts: 282
From: Washington, DC
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 08, 2014 07:37 PM
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Originally posted by MissPiscesForever:
If a guy is going to get that emotional...I don't want part in it :/ that's my new decision.
Good decision. Will you stick to it? IP: Logged |
MsPrism
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted May 08, 2014 07:39 PM
Well if you're just 15 then it explains why he's telling you he loves you through text, though I've heard of adults doing something similar.Honestly, I am speaking from the perspective of being with them for a LONG time and finally saying it and having them give me that "Hm. . . not really sure what to say here" face. I don't think it's childish of me to nurse my wounds. @Poca: Awe, you're too sweet to me!  IP: Logged |
Leorpio
Knowflake Posts: 221
From: Cypress
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 09, 2014 04:36 AM
Yeah I'm going to take the "you're only 15, wtf are you doing talking about love" route. Seriously. You're an immature teen who has lots of hormones, he's an even more immature teen who also has lots of hormones and likes to play mind games. Whether you like it or not the very fact that you wrote this thread and take the replies that you don't agree with seriously indicates you are indeed quite immature. Concentrate on yourself and not on a Scorpio boy that is playing with you. That whole Pisces self sacrifice while also having self pity thing won't work for you, not in your situation, and not you complaining about it here. Learn to realize what is good for YOU first, that way you are able to give your all to someone who actually deserves it later on in life.IP: Logged |
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