posted June 10, 2014 12:32 PM            

He does not call me. When I see him out he acts like we are dating. He wants to hold hands and talk. Tells me he is there to do whatever I need. All the stuff I like.

In bed he holds my hand, tells me he really likes me, and etc.

Afterwards distant! Keeps stressing to me that he will disappear, he is not available, he does not want a relationship he is very busy. Blah blah blah. So I said ok, but if we are "friends" we should conduct ourself like friends and stay in touch.

posted June 10, 2014 12:46 PM            

"In bed he holds my hand" <----- Sick. Truly!

posted June 10, 2014 01:02 PM            

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Originally posted by aquagirlneedslove:
Yikes!
I am an Aquarius woman, Moon Leo. I have met a Cancer man that knows what to say and do! He told me when we met that he was not looking for a relationship. I said I was ok with that, now looking back I should have never said that. :-(

He does not call me. When I see him out he acts like we are dating. He wants to hold hands and talk. Tells me he is there to do whatever I need. All the stuff I like.

In bed he holds my hand, tells me he really likes me, and etc.

Afterwards distant! Keeps stressing to me that he will disappear, he is not available, he does not want a relationship he is very busy. Blah blah blah. So I said ok, but if we are "friends" we should conduct ourself like friends and stay in touch.

Should I get out now or is he just feeling me out? I can't seem to get him out of my head and that is bad. :-( I didn't think I would get like this about him! He even told me he was trouble.

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I can't help thinking that Aquarius people like to get themselves into these kind of predicaments all the time.

I once crushed on an Aquarius Sun/Mars in Sagittarius/Virgo Moon.

When I declared how I felt, he kept his distance. Once I also started to be less vocal, he resurfaced. It was awful

Would your Aquarius be as attractive to you if, from the start, he stated that he was looking for a relationship? Because I think this is a case of liking someone whom you can't have.

What is the Moon and Mars sign of this Cancer guy anyway? It's very unusual for Cancer to behave like this.

posted June 10, 2014 02:56 PM            

anyways,he's told you he's not available and trouble, so that's that! if your down to have fun/sex/cuddles when you see him in person great! but you're not gonna get anything more!

posted June 10, 2014 04:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I can't help thinking that Aquarius people like to get themselves into these kind of predicaments all the time.

I once crushed on an Aquarius Sun/Mars in Sagittarius/Virgo Moon.

When I declared how I felt, he kept his distance. Once I also started to be less vocal, he resurfaced. It was awful

Would your Aquarius be as attractive to you if, from the start, he stated that he was looking for a relationship? Because I think this is a case of liking someone whom you can't have.

What is the Moon and Mars sign of this Cancer guy anyway? It's very unusual for Cancer to behave like this.

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I like what you said about Aquarius's like to get themselves in these predicaments. Same thing happened to me with an Aquarius. We would talk but then they would pull back so when I started to pull back they got upset that I was pulling back. They told me that I was wishy washy even though they started doing it first. I dunno!

posted June 11, 2014 06:43 AM            

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Originally posted by aquagirlneedslove:
Yes, I usually want those that give me a chase and make it difficult. Its awful.

July 20th 1973 - is that helpful?

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Well, at least you've acknowledged your role in this tricky cat/mouse game.

He is birthday number 2 as well as a life path number 2. One word: very tenacious and very careful. These people are very sensitive and will retreat to any signs of uncertainty.

In the natal, the square of the Moon to Saturn in Gemini caught my attention.

Also the trine aspect to Moon and Mercury in Cancer:Words touch his feelings.

Draconic Moon is also in Gemini; emphasizing he is very intellectual and tends to find it easy to express himself.

Is he really the detached type? Yes

Saturn squaring his Moon does suggest emotional inhibition.But Pluto squaring his Moon suggest that, though he may try to keep his feeling stable, they can explode.

His Venus in Leo with Mars in Aries suggests a very passionate nature when in love.

In the Draconian chart, this position is Venus in Scorpio and Mars in Cancer respectively.

Either way you look at it, he is very much a romantic individual but again, Saturn squaring his Moon has him being comfortable in a far more formal, rigid, inexpressive relation with others.

Use words to get to him. Express yourself with words so that they touch his Mercury in Cancer. There is no way that he can resist words that capture his heart.

Also, look out for that Mars/Uranus opposition in Aries and Libra respectively.

In a Man's chart,Mars suggests how he asserts himself and so, you could be dealing with a macho man who loves the chase on one hand(Mars in Aries) and a romantic Don Juan who just wants to sweep you off your feet on the other(Uranus in Libra).

posted June 11, 2014 07:15 AM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Cancer Men are the greatest manipulators in the zodiac, did you know that, dear Aquarius Woman?

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I've heard that before. What's the best way to deal with it?

posted June 11, 2014 09:09 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
You don't deal with it. You just drop them right then and there.

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Ah no. I actually like him. And I can recognize a lot of his less then nice traits in myself. I just try my best to curb them

posted June 11, 2014 09:11 AM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
And then you annihilate them.

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Any suggestions? :P

posted June 11, 2014 09:30 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
You don't deal with it. You just drop them right then and there.

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Agreed. And in those quiet moments where all the sweet li'l thoughts come creeping back in, think about how he would (were you to become more seriously involved) probably drive you NUTS with all of his pedantic little personal habits (I could SET A WATCH by my first serious boyfriend's 'morning' and 'evening rituals' and God help the force which impeded or compromised either of them in _any little way_).

Or his sheer brilliance at making you feel like any feeling of yours which conflicted with his was (of course!) highly respected...but ultimately laughably stupid.

Or how he could sit on his a** until the cows damn well came home, but when he was _finally_ ready to pick up some long-ignored project, you better damn well be ready to pitch in or risk offending his delicate sensibilities on some deep, spiritual level.

posted June 11, 2014 10:04 AM            

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Originally posted by aquagirlneedslove:
Yikes!
I am an Aquarius woman, Moon Leo. I have met a Cancer man that knows what to say and do! He told me when we met that he was not looking for a relationship. I said I was ok with that, now looking back I should have never said that. :-(

He does not call me. When I see him out he acts like we are dating. He wants to hold hands and talk. Tells me he is there to do whatever I need. All the stuff I like.

In bed he holds my hand, tells me he really likes me, and etc.

Afterwards distant! Keeps stressing to me that he will disappear, he is not available, he does not want a relationship he is very busy. Blah blah blah. So I said ok, but if we are "friends" we should conduct ourself like friends and stay in touch.

Should I get out now or is he just feeling me out? I can't seem to get him out of my head and that is bad. :-( I didn't think I would get like this about him! He even told me he was trouble.

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posted June 11, 2014 11:15 AM            

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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
I won't even entertain dating another Cancer man.

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Same.

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They're allll about personal and individual control of their emotional and physical environments. Exhausting.

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Funny post!
The part I quoted is SO true.