posted July 15, 2014 11:11 PM            

Extremely jealous, possessive, ready to rip your head off /inserted a decent body part here instead of what I thought xd/ if you flirt with that person over there for five seconds? That's me. I don't just get upset, I fly into a rage. But there is also a strange kind of pleasure in it. It's like getting jealous = confirmation of attraction. I like it when my partner gets jealous, too. I feel flattered.

I don't accuse people of cheating, though, it's more like "You are so hot, everyone wants you, don't you dare pay too much attention to them, or you are a dead man, because I want you all to myself." I get super angry if I'm actually accused of actual cheating. Same way around. It's like a guy can yell at me, "Wtf you were doing talking to that guy?!", and I'd smile and flirt him up because it's cute, but if he says "You cheated on me with your ex yesterday?", I'll be super offended and it will become a really nasty fight. I will never throw such an accusation at my partner lightly, either.

My Pluto has no harsh aspects at all. However, there is a Sun-Pluto-BML conjunction.

Scorpio placements.

Someone mentioned Gemini - Gemini Moon. (Though I never thought Gemini had a jealous slant, general sign wise).

Sag placements (once again, I'm going from the stuff mentioned here, because Sagittarius, as a sign, never struck me as a jealous type).

Saturn in exaltation (Libra)
Mars sextile Saturn
Venus conj Saturn
Venus in Earth (Virgo)

posted July 16, 2014 02:55 AM            

I have noticed that many who are insanely jealous are also cheaters. If they make a big deal about monogamy (especially if they bring it up for no apparent reason) and how terrible cheaters are and they won't stand for it...so many times they're serial cheaters.

I suppose they could actually feel bad about it and so get up on their high horse (to make up for all the times they fall off) but such a lack of impulse control is nearly impossible for me to understand so I'm going with they act that way because what they mean is anyone other than them better not cheat (like the many people who believe rules and even laws are for everyone else), want to look as if since they condemn cheating and all that so much that they'd therefore never do it (the "protest too much" to look innocent), and/or it's a player's tactics to make sure s/he can play the field while the other does not (so scared of being served up what they're dishing out). So I'd think the placements for such extreme jealousy would be the same placements for serial cheaters.

posted July 16, 2014 10:45 PM              

Pluto square Asc
Taurus placements
Venus inconjunct pluto

I have read these can cause that. Pluto square asc is pretty bad.

My synastry experience:

Taurus placements
Scorpio placements

Venus conjunct pluto
Venus square pluto
Venus conjunct mars
Venus square mars
Pluto square Asc

Aries sun, aries moon, and aries venus also can be possessive as well.

posted July 17, 2014 11:43 PM              

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Originally posted by Randall:
Can a person like that change?

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I have tried but its hard. My blood boils and i flip out. It gets annoying because every boyfriend i've ever had seems to get a kick out of my jealousy. They try to say things to add fuel to the fire. I know they are messing with me but i still flip out and react. They respond with a smile. But then get surprised when i am fuming. Not realizing they started it first by being immature.

Im a bit more calmer now that im older but i still get psycho sometimes.

posted July 06, 2015 01:26 PM            

He is:
Aquarius ASC
Taurus Sun
Aquarius Moon
Taurus Mercury
Gemini Venus
Taurus Mars
Libra Pluto

Funnily enough, he's coming up as being Sagittarius dominant. In his natal chart, his Venus trines his Pluto and his Pluto is in the 8th House.

Synastry-wise, they have some intense connections. But, I don't know if it's "possessive."

His Sun Opposite Pluto
Sun Sesquiquadrate Pluto
Moon Trine Pluto
His Moon Square Pluto
Moon Trine Moon
His Moon Trine Lilith
Venus Conjunct Venus
Venus Semi-square Sun
Venus Sesquiquadrate Moon
His Venus Opposite Uranus
His Venus Semi-Sextile Ascendant
His Mars Conjunct Ascendant
Mars Square Pluto
His Mars Opposite Pluto
His Pluto Conjunct Vertex
Pluto Semi-Sextile Vertex
Lilith Trine Lilith

They have IC Conjunct DSC with a wide orb - seven degrees - in Leo (her IC, His DSC). They also have Venus conjunct Mars in their composite, Vertex conjunct DSC, Venus Trine Pluto, Mars Sesquiquadrate Pluto, and Pluto in the 7th House. Pluto is in Scorpio, which is their composite's 8th House.

She is:
Taurus ASC
Gemini Sun
Gemini Moon
Taurus Mercury
Venus in Gemini
Mars in Cancer
Pluto in Scorpio

Her Venus Sesquiquadrates her Pluto, her Mars Trines her Pluto, and her DSC is Scorpio. But her 8th and 7th Houses are entangled together, being that Scorpio is the natural ruler of the 8th...and she has admitted to me, on occasion, that a touch of possessiveness (not like the insanity-inducing kind, but more of the "Me-caveman, you-woman" kind) is attractive to her. But she can be possessive herself. I've seen her get jealous in front of others over an ex-boyfriend once and she has a hard time dealing with things of hers being moved around. She'd throw a fit and try and move them back just because they were hers.

But like I said, I haven't really had the opportunity to hang around her current beau. Any thoughts?

posted July 06, 2015 06:45 PM            

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posted July 06, 2015 09:53 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
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I think LIBRA also gets jealous and possessive, but the way they go about it is so passive that you have to be intuitive to pick up on it.

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Oops...guilty as charged!!
Libra AC/Pluto/Venus....I will trust you until you give me a reason not to and then I will still appear chill...until you cross some unseen line and I freak out on you. Ill bring up every insecurity or doubt that has been building up over months, all at once. It's not pretty either!

posted July 06, 2015 11:03 PM            

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Originally posted by lalalinda:
Hello Ibringyouasong! Welcome to LL

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posted January 19, 2022 05:03 PM            

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Originally posted by fishbull11:
I would have to strongly disagree here, Pisces is suppose to be one of the best matches for Scorpios, why is that...because they like to be possessed not possessive and generally not jealous either. Had to be other influences other than pisces in this person's (or others) chart, and given he was a male pisces that (female) energy can easily be eclipse by other planets in his chart.
Haven't seen much about Leo's on here, they can be that way as well, what king wouldn't be possessive over his kingdom.

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What? No, Pisces does not like to be possessed at all. We are extremely fluid and we need space to roam and BE. I hate it when people even remotely think they can possess me.