posted June 14, 2014 03:12 PM            

The internet is ruled by the 11th house, so more than any other sign, the internet might be a great way to attract your soulmate. Now if internet dating isn’t your thing, get online and join groups that mean something to you. Or do this in person if you prefer. It’s possible that your soulmate may be a friend first.

Something you should know. An eleventh house soul mission is often revealed through a painful blow to the ego around a love affair. If this happens, know that this was meant to open you up to a more rational view. By willingly seeking a relationship of equals, your love life will also bloom.

Finally, when it comes to a north node in the eleventh house and relationships, anything goes. Open-marriages, swing lifestyles, together but not living together: it’s all good. So don’t stick to tradition – unless you want to. You can have any relationship structure you choose. Just make sure that both of you want it equally.

Source: http://www.the-soulmate-site.com/north-node-eleventh-house.html
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posted June 14, 2014 03:31 PM            

love has always been a sore point. I never had a traditional, committed relationship. Always "open" - lasting between 3 to 5 years. It's not like I never fell in love, I did but getting into a relationship was too scary for me ( saturn in the 7th ) so I did things to avoid it but at the end I got hurt badly because of pushing the men I love away... Feeling my love was not recruited when it was always me who was sabatoging it...

Mostly first friends then romanticaly involved. Internet dating so not for me.

As a matter of fact, I don't like my node placements at all. Leaving the 5th house behind ? Romance, children, creative self expression for what ? Group involvements, collective togetherness.. ühüüü noooo

posted June 15, 2014 11:09 PM            

After the last relationship I had broke up a few months ago (which I believe was the one that was painful and blow to my ego) I have learned that I love men better as friends then as lovers (which explains why I've always wanted to remain friends with the exes) and that being in a romantic relationship is not healthy for me. It messes with my health and my spirit.

What's funny about this though is that I just cast a horary question of whether or not I'll ever get married and the preliminary answer is yes haha, but I've also learned in the last few months that the only way an arrangement like that would be successful for me is if it we're unconventional in some way. I was just telling a friend the other day that I like the idea of being married, but having our own spaces. Maybe not separate residences, because that could get expensive, but perhaps we each have our own rooms and he'd have the man cave and I'd have my witch's lair lol. Then of course it'd be open door policy as far as visiting..but I just think that it would make the time spent with a spouse much more valuable since it wouldn't be a forced or mandatory thing. My friend said he liked that idea!

posted June 15, 2014 11:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Krista_Kay_1993:
is this like a lucky placement friends wise

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posted June 16, 2014 05:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Freesia:
North Node in house 11
In this lifetime, you’re to stand for something that’s bigger than your personal desires and it is critical that you live and adopt true equality.

The internet is ruled by the 11th house, so more than any other sign, the internet might be a great way to attract your soulmate. Now if internet dating isn’t your thing, get online and join groups that mean something to you. Or do this in person if you prefer. It’s possible that your soulmate may be a friend first.

Something you should know. An eleventh house soul mission is often revealed through a painful blow to the ego around a love affair. If this happens, know that this was meant to open you up to a more rational view. By willingly seeking a relationship of equals, your love life will also bloom.

Finally, when it comes to a north node in the eleventh house and relationships, anything goes. Open-marriages, swing lifestyles, together but not living together: it’s all good. So don’t stick to tradition – unless you want to. You can have any relationship structure you choose. Just make sure that both of you want it equally.

Source: http://www.the-soulmate-site.com/north-node-eleventh-house.html
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What are your experience with NN in 11th?
Do you do well in friendships but not so well in love affairs?

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Yes this makes a lot of sense. Has always been this craving for everyday normal relationships but in a very cardboard 2d way. In reality, that scares me. I like meeting people via the internet but never through dating sites as that's when the reality of cardboard cut outs collides with false craving.

Had ego blows and it has made me think and even embrace the possibility of some loner type of path. And idea of equality features strongly but ... Doesnt reconcile with other parts of my nature. Either way I don't think I can be myself in a r/ship .. I can only be these two opposite things single.

Swinging is tacky to me and just another rehash of *issues. I'm too jealous for polygamy and not strong enough for separate togetherness but maybe that is it .. What I should pursue.