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Topic: "Old Maid" syndrom? Astrological signs of never marrying
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LeeLoo2014 unregistered
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posted July 03, 2014 04:06 PM
I'm not sure one can issue such a verdict based on ONE aspect IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted July 03, 2014 04:17 PM
I have Capricorn on my descendant, but the ruler is sagittarius of the 7th house. Should I look at Jupiter or Saturn then?My Saturn is in 6th house, square mercury, sextile venus, conjunction neptune and uranus, opposite jupiter and sextile pluto Jupiter is in 12th house, opposite saturn, neptune and uranus, trine pluto and venus, square mercury Is this good or bad? IP: Logged |
Enneline unregistered
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posted July 03, 2014 04:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: I'm not sure one can issue such a verdict based on ONE aspect
Hahaha I was just indulging myself in self-pity IP: Logged |
amisha121877 Knowflake Posts: 60 From: NJ, USA Registered: May 2013
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posted July 03, 2014 04:43 PM
*shock* I am NOT an old maid. I am 36, female and single though. No problem. My DSC is Aquarius. I do have the following aspects (per Enneline's aspects): Sun sesquiquadrate Mars Sun semisquare UranusIP: Logged |
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posted July 03, 2014 04:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by amisha121877: *shock* I am NOT an old maid. I am 36, female and single though. No problem. My DSC is Aquarius. I do have the following aspects (per Enneline's aspects): Sun sesquiquadrate Mars Sun semisquare Uranus
everything is fine. You only have 2 of them. You are not even destined to get divorced (if you don't want to). IP: Logged |
bonadea33 Knowflake Posts: 1154 From: Ex - Yu Registered: Jan 2010
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posted July 04, 2014 09:36 AM
"OLD MAID" is somebody who never had relationship. That was more in old timesNot to be married and live in relationship is not the same. We say: Old Virgin.
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LostSoulRebecca Knowflake Posts: 1640 From: Europe Registered: Feb 2014
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posted July 04, 2014 09:55 AM
Oh c**p... I have some of those aspects... Venus conj. Uranus Mars square SunI had/have some problems when it comes to relationship... but I started to blame it on venus conj. saturn... Now I see, there are obviously more aspects that are messing with my romance life. OFF TOPIC: Can anyone suggest me some good astrologer, who would look into my chart (only from 'love&marriage' perspective) and to whom I could pay per post not per paypal or sth like that, becuase I am not from States... IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 5223 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 04, 2014 10:02 AM
quote: Originally posted by Enneline: I once heard that there are 4 aspects in a woman's Chart that indicate that marriage will probably never happen- Sun hard aspect to Mars - Mars hard aspect to Saturn, - Venus harsh to Uranus and Sun-Uranus
I have 2 out of the 4 aspects, and so far this is true. I'm still young but I really don't see marriage happening for me. Unless the absolute perfect guy comes along then I'll reconsider, but no ones perfect so.. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 9926 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 04, 2014 10:08 AM
Sun/Uranus in a woman's chart indiciates divorce. Just like Moon/Uranus or Venus/Uranus in a man's chart indicates divorce.I disagree with Saturn/Mars in a woman's chart. Haven't seen it play out that way. Dunno about Sun/Mars though. I think Saturn in the 5H or 7H could very well point to someone who doesn't want to get married or someone who has trouble getting married. IP: Logged |
MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 446 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 04, 2014 10:42 AM
I think i have this. Although i am still young, i am only 30.I have saturn conjucting venus, and both squre my moon. I think this triad makes me unable to get into relationships in the first place. IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 3330 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 04, 2014 10:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by Enneline: I once heard that there are 4 aspects in a woman's Chart that indicate that marriage will probably never happen- Sun hard aspect to Mars - Mars hard aspect to Saturn, - Venus harsh to Uranus and Sun-Uranus
That's kinda scary. I have Mars opposite Saturn and Sun opposite Uranus IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 9926 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 04, 2014 11:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by MagnumJoe: I think i have this. Although i am still young, i am only 30.I have saturn conjucting venus, and both squre my moon. I think this triad makes me unable to get into relationships in the first place.
I have Saturn making aspects to most of my planets & I'm in the same boat. Though I'm not 30 yet. IP: Logged |
MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 446 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 04, 2014 11:05 AM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: I have Saturn making aspects to most of my planets & I'm in the same boat. Though I'm not 30 yet.
You are "française" and never been in a relationship? How come ? IP: Logged |
bonadea33 Knowflake Posts: 1154 From: Ex - Yu Registered: Jan 2010
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posted July 04, 2014 11:28 AM
Aspects alone don't mean much; they have to be in relation with 7th house: Ruler of 7th, planets in 7th and what aspects they have.More people have Saturn in 5th (children) or in 7th and they are married. ------------------ Sun in Taurus Moon in Pisces Ascendant Libra
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MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 446 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 04, 2014 11:36 AM
quote: Originally posted by bonadea33: Aspects alone don't mean much; they have to be in relation with 7th house: Ruler of 7th, planets in 7th and what aspects they have.More people have Saturn in 5th (children) or in 7th and they are married.
My 5th and 7th house are completely empty. My 7th house ruler is mercury and squares mars and sextile saturn. Along with mentioned above aspects. I am forever lonely lol. IP: Logged |
LostSoulRebecca Knowflake Posts: 1640 From: Europe Registered: Feb 2014
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posted July 04, 2014 11:52 AM
quote: Originally posted by bonadea33: Aspects alone don't mean much; they have to be in relation with 7th house: Ruler of 7th, planets in 7th and what aspects they have.More people have Saturn in 5th (children) or in 7th and they are married.
Am... I think I am little confused now. :| I have Venus conj. Saturn... but in capricorn. Does this mean only 'delay' in marraige or it denies marriage? Would it be too much to ask for a quick look into my chart (http://s9.postimg.org/9j9no9gin/u1owh.jpg) and tell if there are any aspects, that could give me some good in relationships? I would really appriciate it! IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 9926 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 04, 2014 11:56 AM
quote: Originally posted by MagnumJoe: You are "française" and never been in a relationship? How come ?
I've been in a relationship. It's just that I don't date around. IP: Logged |
MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 446 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 04, 2014 12:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: I've been in a relationship. It's just that I don't date around.
Aha yeh i understand now. I don't date around too. But i can't describe a relationship that i had as "full". All are snippets that never survive. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 9926 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 04, 2014 12:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by LostSoulRebecca: Am... I think I am little confused now. :| I have Venus conj. Saturn... but in capricorn. Does this mean only 'delay' in marraige or it denies marriage?Would it be too much to ask for a quick look into my chart (http://s9.postimg.org/9j9no9gin/u1owh.jpg) and tell if there are any aspects, that could give me some good in relationships? I would really appriciate it!
Your chart does look a bit problematic when it comes to romance. I wouldn't talk in absolutes though. Pretty sure there are married people out there with "horrid" charts, haha. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 9926 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 04, 2014 12:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by MagnumJoe: Aha yeh i understand now. I don't date around too. But i can't describe a relationship that i had as "full". All are snippets that never survive.
Mine was lame, lmao. Kinda traumatized me cause it was so unfulfilling. Ya know I think it's your Moon/Venus square. Well Saturn only adds trouble. It's tough. IP: Logged |
Chaos Knowflake Posts: 444 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted July 04, 2014 12:28 PM
I have intercepted 1st/7th house, Moon (1st) and Pluto (7th) opposition, my 7th house ruler is Venus, it has only one major aspect, and that is a trine to my chart ruler, Mars (no bad Sun-Mars, Venus-Uranus, etc. aspects whatsoever)...I'm 27, not married, I don't plan marriage, I don't chase people around, if it happens - it happens, never had a serious relationship either...I don't even care if I'll be called an old maid, which is, in our conservative environment, very offensive, I must admit, but at least I don't wanna make a mistake of living with someone I don't care for...I wouldn't marry for money (though I'm a Capricorn ), I never had money anyways, so I'm used to being poor...My problem is that I couldn't relate to anyone I've met on some deeper emotional and intellectual level, no one is on the same wavelenght with me...Not that I'm desperate, it's just the way it is, it's quite weird...also, I have an 8th house Saturn & my chart ruler is in the 12th, and I feel that's the problem...IP: Logged |
MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 446 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 04, 2014 12:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Mine was lame, lmao. Kinda traumatized me cause it was so unfulfilling.Ya know I think it's your Moon/Venus square. Well Saturn only adds trouble. It's tough.
My moon and venus makes it impossible to find someone that i like. This is rare. Or actually it almost never happened. Add saturn, it makes me don't want to use moon or venus. They are always restricted and "held back".I am already a capricorn, too. The saturn effect makes girls perceive me as married or unavailable, even if i want to have a relationship, so i never really had someone pursuing me. Except very few times. As i'd like to call it, i am "off the grid": i am not on the radar to be noticed. Edit: there is another problem, is that i have planets from all elements. So it's guaranteed i will have hard aspects with anyone. I have never met anyone without bad squares. And if not, we have very few aspects in the first place, so no spark. It's either no spark, or too much friction. Never harmony. IP: Logged |
LostSoulRebecca Knowflake Posts: 1640 From: Europe Registered: Feb 2014
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posted July 04, 2014 12:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by MagnumJoe: My moon and venus makes it impossible to find someone that i like. This is rare. Or actually it almost never happened.Add saturn, it makes me don't want to use moon or venus. They are always restricted and "held back".I am already a capricorn, too.
Almost the same here... strong Capricorn (sun, venus, saturn, uranus, neptun) with moon in aries square to venus, saturn, uranus and neptun. I was kinda hoping, Jupiter in Taurus in 7th could help me with relationships, but I guess I have to wait at least to my saturn return... I have the same problem... finding someone, that I would like, is so hard for me. But I must admit, I do want to commit. Someday in the future... IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze unregistered
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posted July 04, 2014 12:49 PM
I have not read a single reply, just so that's known. lol One is, I wouldn't count yourself out. Be you, be happy. You just never know and no matter what you have natally there's a synastry out there that can make it work. With Saturn in fifth... Well I've heard of Saturn being rewarding wherever it is, but with delays. So possibly marriage/family coming later in life. But... That's only one part of your chart. IP: Logged |
MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 446 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 04, 2014 01:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by LostSoulRebecca: Almost the same here... strong Capricorn (sun, venus, saturn, uranus, neptun) with moon in aries square to venus, saturn, uranus and neptun.I was kinda hoping, Jupiter in Taurus in 7th could help me with relationships, but I guess I have to wait at least to my saturn return... I have the same problem... finding someone, that I would like, is so hard for me. But I must admit, I do want to commit. Someday in the future...
Yeh i want to commit to. I even want to fulfill my moon or venus, but it never happened. Cap influences suck : IP: Logged |