posted July 08, 2014 03:39 PM            

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Originally posted by unforgiven_soul:
My ex has a Leo Venus and some other men I met, ok they 're warm-hearted but they 're all cheaters, and I noticed that they want all eyes on them, they like shallow things and are interested only for their appearance. Same goes for the woman they want. She has to be totally fit, very beautiful and charming. I find them very shallow... sorry!

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My husband has venus in leo and one thing he is not is a cheater, super faithful even though I have told him he has a free pass; nothing!

He is indeed a creature of habit I guess; lots of fixed in his chart and cardinal; Sun libra, Moon in Cancer, Venus in Leo and Mars scorpio with Taurus rising and DC in scorpio.

As for me I am faithful if I am truly in love; if somebody captures my soul that is it; you got me and ALL of me. I love my husband but never felt in love with him and yet I was faithful for 4 years and then I cheated on him for a brief time but it took a lot for me to reach that point as he was an assh*le and we didn't have much of a sex life and pretty much till this day still dont have much of a sex life and I am a physical and emotional girl. If we had a good active sex life and I was in love It would not cross my mind to cheat ever...

I do value his companionship and love and loyalty; our relationship is very intimate and valuable in some ways but its definitely missing something important..I am not cheating bc my nature is to be loyal and have been faithful for the very most part but I am extremely romantic and our relationship is missing this "I want to merge with you" energy.

For some people cheating is a sport, I dont think venus in leo cheats and when they do is usually not as a sport, I feel they prefer to be faithful; if they cheat something is missing in the relationship they are in like their partner not giving them enough attention in bed or a strong romantic connection is missing.

posted July 08, 2014 04:26 PM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:
My husband has venus in leo and one thing he is not is a cheater, super faithful even though I have told him he has a free pass; nothing!

He is indeed a creature of habit I guess; lots of fixed in his chart and cardinal; Sun libra, Moon in Cancer, Venus in Leo and Mars scorpio with Taurus rising and DC in scorpio.

As for me I am faithful if I am truly in love; if somebody captures my soul that is it; you got me and ALL of me. I love my husband but never felt in love with him and yet I was faithful for 4 years and then I cheated on him for a brief time but it took a lot for me to reach that point as he was an assh*le and we didn't have much of a sex life and pretty much till this day still dont have much of a sex life and I am a physical and emotional girl. If we had a good active sex life and I was in love It would not cross my mind to cheat ever...

I do value his companionship and love and loyalty; our relationship is very intimate and valuable in some ways but its definitely missing something important..I am not cheating bc my nature is to be loyal and have been faithful for the very most part but I am extremely romantic and our relationship is missing this "I want to merge with you" energy.

For some people cheating is a sport, I dont think venus in leo cheats and when they do is usually not as a sport, I feel they prefer to be faithful; if they cheat something is missing in the relationship they are in like their partner not giving them enough attention in bed or a strong romantic connection is missing.

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posted July 08, 2014 07:22 PM            

She was moody for like 2 weeks because of this and once I told her because the topic came up, 180 drgree change completely different, nice person :O

posted July 08, 2014 07:26 PM            

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Originally posted by mcmlxix:
What about Leo Venus in synastry?

Lately I've been attracting Aqua Venus and Mars. Actually I've been attracting lots of opposites. Who knew I'd find my opposite of Pisces Sun, Cap Moon, Aqua Venus, and Gem Mars...not one but two this year. I'm generally skeptical of Aquarius...too transpersonal among other things.

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I think attraction has more to do with
ASC conjunction venus or mars synastry
Or like I have recently experienced
Mars opposite or conjunct Pluto synastry

posted July 08, 2014 07:38 PM            

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Originally posted by unforgiven_soul:
Your husband might the exception not the rule, because I noticed that he has all the family signs on him. Cancer, Libra... aspects play a role too, but most of the guys I met with Leo Venus tend to be very flirty just to confirm theimselves and in the end they usually cheat, because if you play all the time, there will be one day you won't control your self.

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There is a coworker at my job that has been married twice and he cheated on both of his wifes. He is a sun in libra, moon in capricorn, venus in scorpio, and mars in cancer...

He has Moon in capricorn in the 5th
He has moon conjunct valentine in the 5th square venus....
5th cusp in capricorn so 5th house ruled by Saturn

and Most importantly in the context of above:

1. Mars opposite jupiter
2. Mars opposite Saturn

He says he likes the thrill of the chase.

I think his moon conjunct valentine in the 5th in combination with mars opposite jupiter and mars opposite saturn ruler of his 5th are the main culprits of why he cheated.

I feel the aspects and placements are more important than the sign.

posted July 08, 2014 09:47 PM            

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Originally posted by unforgiven_soul:
My ex has a Leo Venus and some other men I met, ok they 're warm-hearted but they 're all cheaters, and I noticed that they want all eyes on them, they like shallow things and are interested only for their appearance. Same goes for the woman they want. She has to be totally fit, very beautiful and charming. I find them very shallow... sorry!

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Not all of them are cheaters.. you sound a little bitter, tbh. I take it your Venus in Leo ex cheated on you?

I wouldn't lump them all into the same category. We used to joke (my Leo Venus ex and I) that I was a peculiar choice for him to be with because all of his girlfriends before me were fairly plain, had no ego to speak of, and weren't the best looking girls because it clashed with his super huge personality/attention wh*rush ways... Yes he wanted all eyes on him, not his g/f though. It drove him crazy to have other people checking me out, but I quelled that quickly by reaffirming my affections and devotion to him on a regular basis. It was actually a misunderstanding on that level that drove us apart. I made him think/feel that somebody else was more important and when a Leo is already worried about it, any inclination that it's true is confirmation without question. Until that awful day he was at my beck and call and gave me almost whatever I needed or wanted just to make me happy. I miss him horribly and it was my fault the misunderstanding happened at all.. but what are ya gonna do..live and learn.

He never once gave me any reason to believe or think or feel that he was cheating or wanted to. And before you say it was bc of his other placements... he was a Leo asc/Sun/Merc/Venus/Jupiter with a sag moon and a gem mars...if all Leo Venuses were cheaters he DEFINITELY should have been...

Don't discriminate because you got burned by one.. they aren't all the same.

posted July 08, 2014 11:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
I think attraction has more to do with
ASC conjunction venus or mars synastry
Or like I have recently experienced
Mars opposite or conjunct Pluto synastry

Do you have aquarius ASC? I assume thats why you attract Aqua venuses

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No, Virgo rising...and Aqua falls mostly in my 6th, which isn't the most glamourous of houses.

posted July 09, 2014 12:02 AM            

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Originally posted by mcmlxix:

There's a difference between selfish and self-centered. Selfishness is often stingy, and even if self-centered, Leo is apt to be generous. I've been known to bound up stairs two at a time at midnight with a song on my lips and trinkets and flowers in my hands. The trinkets and flowers only matter to see your face light up. It's ok if we toss them aside and get on with things.

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I've come up with a saying. "I'm the bright shiny center of my universe". It's not ego. It's a reminder to not forget making myself happy too. Your own happiness is a gift you can share with everyone around you. This probably doesn't make sense unless you've got some Leo somewhere.

Don't believe me? Think I'm being selfish? Try walking into a room depressed or angry and see what happens.

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Originally posted by mcmlxix:
One thing I'm not Venus Leo like is supposedly we're into ostentatiously glamorous mates. Head-turning is one thing, but overly accessorized, preened, fussy, loud (looking) is a big turn-off.

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posted July 09, 2014 02:08 AM            

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Originally posted by LionFish:
I'm a Leo Asc/Aries Venus/Sag Mars with a 9h pisces sun/merc, btw

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posted July 09, 2014 02:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Leorpio:
You and I would get along just fine :P

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posted July 09, 2014 04:54 PM            

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Originally posted by 7thGuardian:
For a Venus in Leo - to be a happy man...

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Some big cats are simpler. Rub my belly, keep it full of food, and I'll purr. I'm apt to be found taking a nap under a tree on a hot day.

posted July 10, 2014 05:49 AM            

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Originally posted by mcmlxix:
Some big cats are simpler. Rub my belly, keep it full of food, and I'll purr. I'm apt to be found taking a nap under a tree on a hot day.

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posted July 10, 2014 06:58 AM            

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Originally posted by 7thGuardian:
I don't know what to say about that - cause I'm not a Leo. Though, there's that ideal of a perfect women for a Venus in Leon man, like - an adventurous woman that's a really fun companion for going out - both in the city and in nature, one that likes to travel - all over the world (if possible), a women that's fond of cooking - and quite capable at preparing all kind of exquisite dishes (a true master chef), a woman with a big passion for dancing (as if the world would stop - if she doesn't do her dance - be it bally dance or any dance she finds fitting for a given mood), a woman that's capable of deep and meaningful conversations, a women that's like a lioness in the bedroom (at making love - not just sex, cause that's the easy part), a women that's really skilled at making all kind of massages - which can induce one in a state of deep relation while rejuvenating the body, a confident women that's both grounded and a dreamer - the kind that can take you places. And, if there's something else that's worth to be added: for that relationship - to be successful, that Leo in Venus guy - should always play his cards right and make sure those 7 women never meet. ^^

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LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! love it....

posted July 10, 2014 11:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Gemmy:
I was recently seeing a Leo Venus guy.All of his personal planets are in Leo and his mars is in Gemini.I naturally tend to do exactly what all of you have said Leo Venus likes when I become attached to someone.I thought he enjoyed all the attention I gave him.I hardly ever said no.

It was my fault we stopped speaking.I run hot and cold.It's out of insecurity.It's a bad habit I know.Anyway,he's kind of being passive aggressive now.He tries to make me feel small and dumb for all the things I did for him.Do you guys think he's still angry with me over me being temperamental with him or is it possible he really feels like I put too much effort into him? I've apologized, but I guess that's not enough for him.

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The hot and cold is a problem..I put up with it for a bit but if it continues I lose interest bc I feel the person doesn't know what they want or if they want me bad enough and we like passion and action, not idleness.

We do like consistency but we do like a challenge so if you can manage to be a challenge without playing games that is ideal.

posted July 10, 2014 12:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemmy:
I was recently seeing a Leo Venus guy.All of his personal planets are in Leo and his mars is in Gemini.I naturally tend to do exactly what all of you have said Leo Venus likes when I become attached to someone.I thought he enjoyed all the attention I gave him.I hardly ever said no.

It was my fault we stopped speaking.I run hot and cold.It's out of insecurity.It's a bad habit I know.Anyway,he's kind of being passive aggressive now.He tries to make me feel small and dumb for all the things I did for him.Do you guys think he's still angry with me over me being temperamental with him or is it possible he really feels like I put too much effort into him? I've apologized, but I guess that's not enough for him.

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