posted September 14, 2014 10:57 PM            

However, I have been trying to look at his chart to analyze his unhappiness, and why he would feel the need to have women in his bed all the time. His IC makes sense,so maybe that's the issue. Is he trying to escape it? (The reason for this thread honestly)

I'm just worried about him because hes a good person, and he is suddenly spiraling because he can't keep his d word in his pants. Don't even get me started with the health aspect of his behavior.

posted September 14, 2014 11:15 PM            

But this is more of a case of addiction, which is a form of obsessive-compulsive disorder (and interesting enough, many with OCD also have a problem with substance addiction, though correlation doesn't equal causation). That is, I'd say your brother is mentally ill in the same way an out of control alcoholic is (and yes, that's a mental illness, at least it gets listed as one by the DSM put out by the American Psychiatric Association).

posted September 16, 2014 08:52 PM            

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Looks like poor impulse control, something needed to be a successful business man. He should probably stray away from those fields.

Nymphomania is difficult to deduce in our society because most people between the ages of 18-25 will sleep with whoever, whenever, all the time.

Nymphomania becomes more of an issue if you're sleeping around like a roving animal between the ages o 30-40.

A nymphomaniac will have an outbreak of an std and still have sex. They're lust is uncontrollable. It is really, really rare.

The average girl my age has slept with over 30 guys and the average guy my age the same. This is a new era and a person should be assessed based on today's standards, not the standards from 20 years ago.

I am not even that promiscuous and I've slept with 30 people, and I'm kind of a prude and a lame duck, so imagine your girlfriend or boyfriend who looks like a model - they are probably in the 100's.

I remember when I had a steady girl for two years we were shagging almost 4-6 times a day every day....

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Agreed with Aubyanne. Those numbers are ridiculous. I know a 24 yr old (man) that has only slept with one person (were together for 8 years), a 28 yr old who has only been with 2 people, and most people I know from 25-30 are somewhere in the range of 5-10. Am I living in a different reality on a different planet than the rest of you?
I guess, and actually hope so. The planet you all seem to be living on makes me sick.

And agreed with Bluejay about the "scars" and energy exchange/auric imprints. It is unhealthy to have sex without love involved. Not to say you have to be with the person forever, but both should have some form of love and respect for the other.
The body is the Temple of the Soul (did any of you even read Star Signs or agree with anything Linda wrote in there, including NO PORNOGRAPHY, and NO UNNATURAL SEXUAL UNION? will quote directly).
From Star Signs, by LINDA GOODMAN, who wrote the books that this site is a dedication to!
#6 of 11 on how to become physically immortal.
6. "No sexual promiscuity. It short-circuits your soul. No unnatural sexual union- and don't pretend you don't know why. Any behavior in opposition to Nature's laws is the enemy of the natural process of physical immortality. NO pornography. It sets up images that block the discovery or your own Twin Self, through the law of magnetic attraction. And you cannot become a full immortal until you have achieved union with the missing half of your Spirit, of the you-of-you. Just the decision to become immortal in itself guarantees that you'll find each other, at some point along the path. Isn't that what you've been searching for all your life anyway? Face that truth. However many sexual partners you've had-or are having now- you're still empty, still lonely, and you always will be until that miracle manifests. If you've practiced negative sexual behavior in the past, forgive yourself completely, then forget it. The true "confessional" is within."

If the body is the Temple of the Soul, do you really want to just let anyone in and start squirting their bodily fluids around? I certainly wouldn't let people do that in my own home, let alone my temple.

temple: something regarded as having within it a divine presence.
2. a building reserved for highly valued function.

I personally do not want my Temple to be a brothel, shack, motel, or for public use of any kind.

Not everyone enjoys being sexualized, I personally find it offensive, I am much more than my body/what I look like.

Not this thread itself, but some of the comments within are exactly why I rarely visit this forum, why I even looked in this thread I do not know. Enjoy your brothel temples, I personally find it disturbing. Guess we're all entitled to our two cents.

Will not be looking back in this thread so any comments made back will not be seen.

posted September 16, 2014 09:20 PM            

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posted September 19, 2014 02:01 AM            

The Johns wanting a prostitute with a certain "spark" is a perfect example of them feeding off of sexual energy, regardless of age or gender. Those being sold into prostitution having to numb themselves with drugs is proof that their vital life energy is being depleted through these sexual acts. They cope with this by doing drugs. Your story is perfectly describing the exchange of energy through sexual contact.

I don't "see" auras, but I "feel" them, and people that sleep around, regardless of circumstances, have a certain energetic imprint. It's not about me or others judging them for their choices, it's how they feel about themselves. They are lacking something, or else they wouldn't seek validation or gratification through sex.

Man or woman, this is true. Although the negative effects of promiscuity are more harmful to women physically, emotionally, energetically, and also socially. Not to let men off the hook, because these men will never really know true love. They won't miss it either.

Women are far more magical and complex, so we all deserve better. If used wisely rather than handed out haphazardly, women's sexual energy could rule the world. It's a heterosexual man's greatest weakness. It is a very powerful energy, but some choose to give it away to just anyone, thus depleting their own energetic field.

posted September 19, 2014 02:21 AM            

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Agreed with Aubyanne. Those numbers are ridiculous. I know a 24 yr old (man) that has only slept with one person (were together for 8 years), a 28 yr old who has only been with 2 people, and most people I know from 25-30 are somewhere in the range of 5-10. Am I living in a different reality on a different planet than the rest of you?
I guess, and actually hope so. The planet you all seem to be living on makes me sick.

And agreed with Bluejay about the "scars" and energy exchange/auric imprints. It is unhealthy to have sex without love involved. Not to say you have to be with the person forever, but both should have some form of love and respect for the other.
The body is the Temple of the Soul (did any of you even read Star Signs or agree with anything Linda wrote in there, including NO PORNOGRAPHY, and NO UNNATURAL SEXUAL UNION? will quote directly).
From Star Signs, by LINDA GOODMAN, who wrote the books that this site is a dedication to!
#6 of 11 on how to become physically immortal.
6. [b]"No sexual promiscuity. It short-circuits your soul. No unnatural sexual union- and don't pretend you don't know why. Any behavior in opposition to Nature's laws is the enemy of the natural process of physical immortality. NO pornography. It sets up images that block the discovery or your own Twin Self, through the law of magnetic attraction. And you cannot become a full immortal until you have achieved union with the missing half of your Spirit, of the you-of-you. Just the decision to become immortal in itself guarantees that you'll find each other, at some point along the path. Isn't that what you've been searching for all your life anyway? Face that truth. However many sexual partners you've had-or are having now- you're still empty, still lonely, and you always will be until that miracle manifests. If you've practiced negative sexual behavior in the past, forgive yourself completely, then forget it. The true "confessional" is within."

If the body is the Temple of the Soul, do you really want to just let anyone in and start squirting their bodily fluids around? I certainly wouldn't let people do that in my own home, let alone my temple.

temple: something regarded as having within it a divine presence.
2. a building reserved for highly valued function.

I personally do not want my Temple to be a brothel, shack, motel, or for public use of any kind.

Not everyone enjoys being sexualized, I personally find it offensive, I am much more than my body/what I look like.

Not this thread itself, but some of the comments within are exactly why I rarely visit this forum, why I even looked in this thread I do not know. Enjoy your brothel temples, I personally find it disturbing. Guess we're all entitled to our two cents.

Will not be looking back in this thread so any comments made back will not be seen.

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He said 30 guys/girls.. and every 18-24 would sleep with everyone? Lord.. what world does he live in?

posted September 19, 2014 12:03 PM            

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posted September 19, 2014 08:09 PM            

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I don't "see" auras, but I "feel" them, and people that sleep around, regardless of circumstances, have a certain energetic imprint. It's not about me or others judging them for their choices, it's how they feel about themselves. They are lacking something, or else they wouldn't seek validation or gratification through sex

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It was very few who were "sexual vampires" as I described. I was hoping to hear something about them specifically rather than trying to describe these rare critters as ordinary. 'Course prostitution is a rough gig, though drugs are often forced on them by pimps rather than self-medicating, but these vampires were different.

I've noticed that your views come loaded with assumptions. For example, "seeking validation through sex." That reason doesn't apply to everyone who is promiscuous, but you seem to assume it is. But as for those who are, how can you tell that the "scar" or "depletion" isn't from the whatever damaged them to feel that way in the first place? And that being weakened they were more prone to being preyed upon by the selfish and worse who would leave such "signs" on people like that? Or that the depletion was simply another blow to the self-esteem as they're conflicted upon the rightness of what they're doing and/or they unreasonably expected more about the experience and were bitterly disappointed?

Hmph, that does make sense of one experience. As soon as I turned 18 a man talked me into trying a threesome with his wife, whom he assured me was just as interested. It didn't work because I could tell right away she wasn't into it at all, she was just trying to keep her husband from leaving her (and her husband acting like a director on a porno set didn't help). I found the vibe of it all repugnant because of that and left, avoiding them thereafter as the husband wanted to do it some more and just couldn't take no for an answer. But I bet she got the same scars from sex with her husband (or that her already present scars that made her that way were in place that you'd probably mistake for being put there by sex rather than the abuse that made her that way with the wounds reopened at most) as she was only with him for validation and obligation rather than love.

posted September 22, 2014 11:44 AM            

I have found hard aspects from Jupiter (expansion) to Venus (pleasure) and to the 8th house (sex) as indicators of 'horn dogs'. My friend has Venus conjunct Jupiter in the 8th, and he's just like that.

I have Venus conjunct Juptier and Jupiter square the ruler of my 8th hosue, Moon, and I have had many sexual partners. I'm a woman, by the way.

posted September 22, 2014 01:41 PM            

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The boy is a horn dog. Girls love him, and he literally takes the bait every single time....even with sorry to say.. Ugly girls. Like girls that would never get noticed normally by him, but sexually, he takes full advantage of it.

I told him to slow his role, but he can't and feels like until he gets married, everybody is fair game. I think he got it from my dad(who raised me). My dad is one of 7 sons, and all of them have been married more than twice, and are HUGE philanderers. Even his father was a cheater, and even a bigamist at one point. Lol

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I figured he had a venus/jupiter and mare/uranud aspects. His venus conj jupiter leads to over indulgence in sex. And his mars square uranus and neptune just add alot more fuel to the fire. Im willing to bet he has a very strong libido and has very ilicit sexual desires. He probably may even be bi-curious.

Plus he also has a moon/pluto aspect that can show very intense feelings like self destructive behavior.