posted October 04, 2014 05:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
Would would want the control of someone becoming addicted to them?

No one who is mentally sane.. I don't think this is astrological.

Who would DEMAND that the other become addicted?

Someone less sane than the last person ^

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posted October 04, 2014 07:49 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Pluto is obsessive and was my first thought, but then it occurred to me dominance in one's chart plays a part too. What if someone is very Venusian and meets a person that indulges them? They would become addicted, no? Or if a person is Martian, like me, and the other is very exciting and dramatic then one is likely to become addicted because it feeds that energy.

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posted October 04, 2014 07:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Selenite:
Addiction = moon opposite pluto
moon's addicted

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Yes definitely but pluto-sun, pluto-venus, pluto-mars tight aspects in synastry or composite do this too specially if there is a combo of several of these between synastry and composite.

posted October 04, 2014 08:55 PM            

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Interesting.. my moon is Aries and is opposite another persons whos Pluto is libra and I can't get him off my mind.

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posted October 04, 2014 08:58 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Yes definitely but pluto-sun, pluto-venus, pluto-mars tight aspects in synastry or composite do this too specially if there is a combo of several of these between synastry and composite.

Like sun-mars-pluto in composite with venus-pluto or moon-pluto in synastry.

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True, true. I've just never been hit so hard before. One time I had a venus opposite pluto thing going on, and i thought THAT was insane. But damn, I've felt like I'll actually never get over this other guy.

posted October 04, 2014 09:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Selenite:
True, true. I've just never been hit so hard before. One time I had a venus opposite pluto thing going on, and i thought THAT was insane. But damn, I've felt like I'll actually never get over this other guy.

Hey I'm from Miami too! :3

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OMG Cool Cool! What area? I am in doralzuela now and work in Miami Beach; I am not venezuelan though hehe.

Yeah I have read several posts in here involving the infamous moon-pluto in synastry and composite; its definitely intense and leads to obsession.

I have experienced a very tight stellium involving sun-mars-pluto-valentine with a wide orb conjunction in synastry between venus and pluto and that is one relationship I will never forget..

I just realized as well that pluto rules my 12th and my most unforgettable relationship involves the stellium above which conjuncts the composite AC and falls in the 12th house.

posted October 04, 2014 09:51 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
OMG Cool Cool! What area? I am in doralzuela now and work in Miami Beach; I am not venezuelan though hehe.

Yeah I have read several posts in here involving the infamous moon-pluto in synastry and composite; its definitely intense and leads to obsession.

I have experienced a very tight stellium involving sun-mars-pluto-valentine with a wide orb conjunction in synastry between venus and pluto and that is one relationship I will never forget..

I just realized as well that pluto rules my 12th and my most unforgettable relationship involves the stellium above which conjuncts the composite AC and falls in the 12th house.

So I am thinking maybe looking at what house rules your pluto and then checking the composite of those intense relationships that lead to obsession and are hard to forget to see if there is a stellium in the house that pluto naturally rules in your natal in the composite could be insightful; that person will have a harder time forgetting and letting go of the relationship perhaps..Just a theory.

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Lol, I grew up in Miami Beach, Overtown, South Miami, Pinecrest, Coconut Grove and Palmetto Bay. I moved 14 times around those areas. Weird, my uncle lives on the beach and works in Doral.

Ok I tried it, my Pluto's in the 4th, and we had it in the 5th with only 5th and 6th house stelliums, and only nessus in the 4th conjunct IC. And it's in criritcal degree scorpio. L-o-l. Also chiron in the first; explains a lot..... *eyeroll*

The 12th house itself could be the explanation in your case.. The guy in my situation has moon in the 12th, and our moons are conjunct so mine is in his 12th and opposite his pluto. He also has Karma in the 12th conjunct his moon, so it's conjunct my moon also. AND retrograde chaos in the 12th conjunct both our moons and his karma. Lame. As for my 12th, there's only his retro nessus there..

posted October 04, 2014 10:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Selenite:

I think all of that is also addictive, because it just HANGS OUT THERE in your (my) subconscious, painful and vague, like a ghost...

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Oh yes good point! hahaha yes it does hang in there in my subconscious like a ghost that is a good way to put it so we can add 12th house composite stelliums to the obsessive-addictive category and to top it off his venus falls in my 12th and my venus falls in his 12th...

posted October 05, 2014 05:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Nessus/Deja is classic for obsession with another person. When a client calls me totally obsessed, I, always, see this lol

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Can you explain this? People have historically blamed Pluto but Pluto has been involved in just about every single relationship I've been in (and some were casual).

For example, I had a relationship once I just couldn't let go of and I obsessed over it for 2 years. And I do mean a VERY unhealthy level of obsession (daily texting and leaving voicemails, crying every day, listening to his music just to hear his voice, etc.)

So what do I look for? How would Nessus or Deja be in aspect to what?