posted October 06, 2014 11:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
With the guy I am seeing it's too soon to tell. I don't think I have seen his Taurus Moon yet, except that he loves to eat and now he's dieting lmao, so he's pretty cranky lol. But there was an incident.. He asked me if I finished something I had to do, a chore and I hated it and he knew that. I was like, what you're controlling me now?! I said yes because I wanted him off my back, he can be such a nag sometimes. Then immediately after, I felt bad for lying and said well, almost. "So which way is it, are you done or not?" Omg, it doesn't matter, why are you getting fixated about this, it's a stupid thing, I will finish it eventually. He wouldn't let it go. . So yeah, not everything we say needs to be taken literlly, or with such seriousness, but DO take us seriously as people. Lol! The idea is, we look at the big picture, we take it very seriously. The tiny details.. Meh. We can ignore them altogether. They don't matter much to us and it saddens us to see you fixated on them.

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O-O That sounds like a conversation with me and my mom to the T. She's a Taurus rising though, but she's exactly like that. She has a Libra Moon too...*screams*

I was just thinking about this and Taurus in relation to Libra...if they both are ruled by Venus, and Libra rules the scales / justice, wouldn't Taurus also be influenced by that a little? They sure are judge-y as calm and placid as they may seem.

posted October 06, 2014 12:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Lol, it's just that you need to take your time! My cat is Tau Moon and I try to give him as much diverse food as I can. He sniffs the air around it, retreats, circles around it for 10 minutes, then sniffs again. Wtf, dude, I am Tau Venus, I know good food! Mno, he has to do his routine or he's not eating it. Well, I'm not sticking around for that, I have people to see, places to go!

And re food, do you ever try anything new? Or would that be too much of an adventure for you?

The guy I am seeing has Moon in the 9th, maybe there is some hope for him yet.

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posted October 06, 2014 12:34 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
If there's any sign that knows how to manifest a vision it's Sag :P

Sometimes plans don't work out and if that happens we're adaptable enough to move onto the next thing and actually thrive at it instead of dwelling endlessly on how things didn't go our way. We're not afraid of taking risks which is something that might make a Taurus moon want to hyperventilate..

Personally I think Taurus moons might just hate that Sag can cut corners and still get what we want while you're stuck doing things the "comfortable"/boring way, so then you try to dig at us while we're down to show how reckless and unstable we are. Meh... we'll get back up and forget you even said anything while you'll still be steaming about it 3 months later.

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posted October 06, 2014 01:27 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
O-O That sounds like a conversation with me and my mom to the T. She's a Taurus rising though, but she's exactly like that. She has a Libra Moon too...*screams*

I was just thinking about this and Taurus in relation to Libra...if they both are ruled by Venus, and Libra rules the scales / justice, wouldn't Taurus also be influenced by that a little? They sure are judge-y as calm and placid as they may seem.

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posted October 06, 2014 02:56 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by FireMoon:
[b] If there's any sign that knows how to manifest a vision it's Sag :P

Sometimes plans don't work out and if that happens we're adaptable enough to move onto the next thing and actually thrive at it instead of dwelling endlessly on how things didn't go our way. We're not afraid of taking risks which is something that might make a Taurus moon want to hyperventilate..

Personally I think Taurus moons might just hate that Sag can cut corners and still get what we want while you're stuck doing things the "comfortable"/boring way, so then you try to dig at us while we're down to show how reckless and unstable we are. Meh... we'll get back up and forget you even said anything while you'll still be steaming about it 3 months later.

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What do cardinal signs even have to do with this?

posted October 06, 2014 04:22 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
^ luck is not something you can make. Lol

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Sure it is! lol But since you don't buy into the whole positivity thing, you'll never know. I am not talking about random acts of fortune or misfortune, but rather by proactively chasing and accepting opportunities, being optimistic and upbeat, having faith and confidence in your own abilities and - sometimes - having to improvise. Those are winning qualities and people do support us to fulfill our goals, because we make them feel good about themselves. We put out good energy, we receive good energy. This is the science behind the luck of Jupiter/Sag.

posted October 06, 2014 07:19 PM            

That.

It's not like we just wait for opportunities to land in our laps or for someone to "discover" us or otherwise think "the universe will send me something if I just think happy thoughts" (which makes me think of panhandlers on the road working the "will work for food" sign).

posted October 06, 2014 11:01 PM            

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Aquaguy:
Oh really? Lol Because all the mutable and cardinal people I know just seem to float along in life without any kind of plan and get by on luck. Fixed people always have a plan and they will stick to it until they succeed or it doesn't work out and they will try something else and stick with it. I don't mean to rag on mutable/cardinal signs but they just get under my skin. IMO fixed signs are more loyal than mutable and cardinal signs. And loyalty is something that is important to me.

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I'm heavily cardinal, and I do anything but float along... Haha. My Saturn would slap me in the face. My mars, too. And my Venus... And my Jupiter. Oh, yeah, and Neppy and Uranus.

We may take a bit of time to calculate/weigh all the options, but once we do, we have staying power til the bitter end, no matter how rough the road...

And that whole loyalty thing... Haha, ridiculous!

That being said, I do love fixed energy. It's cute how stubborn y'all are. :-) My man is heavily fixed, and he makes me swoon.

posted October 07, 2014 01:10 AM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Sure it is! lol But since you don't buy into the whole positivity thing, you'll never know. I am not talking about random acts of fortune or misfortune, but rather by proactively chasing and accepting opportunities, being optimistic and upbeat, having faith and confidence in your own abilities and - sometimes - having to improvise. Those are winning qualities and people do support us to fulfill our goals, because we make them feel good about themselves. We put out good energy, we receive good energy. This is the science behind the luck of Jupiter/Sag.

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posted October 07, 2014 04:40 AM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Aw my post got deleted (somehow?) but yes basically this... It's really not complicated, you can choose to stay emotionally stagnant or unhappy forever if you want, but sometimes better opportunities come along and you either have to embrace the changes or watch them pass you by... Call it "unstable" if you want but really change is the only constant in life

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posted October 07, 2014 04:57 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:Well of course you sometimes have to change plans if things don't work out. That kind of goes without saying... Having said that you have to commit to a plan to get it to succeed. You can't just abandon a plan the moment you encounter a little adversity.You have to hang in there until you know for sure it isn't going to work out and then you can abandon ship. What annoys me about mutable people is they rarely do that from what I have seen. They are the types to trash a plan/idea the moment things get a little hard and flip flop until they find something easy. Well life ain't easy lol.. You have to play through the pain to get sh*t done. If a person can't do that they will never accomplish anything. [/B]

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posted October 07, 2014 06:05 AM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Tbh I've never known anyone irl or online with so much hatred towards sag moons as you taurus moons here... I remember kero kind of hated sags but even he warmed up to the idea after a while lol

My ex is a sag moon and I've talked plenty about how that relationship turned out, but he also had basically all compatible masculine planets and then Cancer venus with moon in Sag (1st house- his mom was a religious fanatic). Such a confused little boy lol. But even still I don't hate sag moons and don't get the beef taurus moons apparently seem to have with us

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posted October 07, 2014 12:41 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
My experience is they are the types of people who can pretty much ignore you for months and then be buddy buddy with you like nothing ever happened. It's really weird to me.

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^ so weird because this is my experience with taurus moons, not sag moons.
i love love love taurus moons but i get played by them constantly.

about sag moons, i don't really click with them easily. maybe cuz i'm a sag sun. i feel like sag moons don't want to open up to me. the same thing is true for aries suns - i'm an aries moon and i don't click with the suns too well.

posted October 07, 2014 12:49 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Found this on a site: "Throughout life, it is possible for this man to make many enemies. People with Scorpio, Capricorn, Taurus or Cancer moon will be first in the list. His refusal to play by the rules and say whatever is in his mind can be blamed for it.

Source: ]http://www.forestforwomen.com/2011/12/guide-to-moon-in-sagittarius-people.html #ixzz3FRQedpAB

EXACTLY! They don't play by the rules! maybe one day my Aries stuff will completely trump my intense Moon aspects and I won't care.

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Lol! My best friends are cancer, taurus and scorpio moons and they get (secretly) upset with me for breaking the rules! but 'rules' don't matter, there are no rules, so i love breaking all the fake rules and laughing with other people who break them. I'm not a sag moon but i am mostly sag so this really hits home and makes me happy

I feel like, to understand sagittarius, thought process is mostly like this:
1) what's the point of what we're talking about?
2) does it matter? if so, how much?
3) if it doesn't matter that much, is it making you happy?
4) if no, find a way to get over it / ignore and move on to something better
all better

posted October 07, 2014 01:00 PM            

I think it's just jealousy because we seem so happy and carefree all the time. But what you don't understand it's that we choose to face our challenges differently than you, with a smile or a laughter instead of bickering and complaining. It doesn't make our challenges any less difficult, but it affects how we react to them and how we manage them.

@Hanna,
I don't know if that is really true, about not playing by the rules. Do remember Sagittarius is an ethical sign and we love fair play above all else. Maybe if there are serious afflictions. But a Sag Moon in itself, idk. I usually follow the rules, sometimes quite strictly and rigidly.

posted October 07, 2014 01:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:

I think it's just jealousy because we seem so happy and carefree all the time. But what you don't understand it's that we choose to face our challenges differently than you, with a smile or a laughter instead of bickering and complaining.

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MY EXACT THOUGHTS.

I have never read so much negativity towards Sag Moons, and they are usually in top3 of most favorite Moon signs.

posted October 07, 2014 01:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Have you guys seen the Pursuit of Happyness? It is one of my dearest movies and I think it's very telling about a Sag Moon's psychology. Never give up on your dreams, hope even in the direst of situations, smile even if it hurts to do so.
And guess what, it paid out in the end..

I think it's just jealousy because we seem so happy and carefree all the time. But what you don't understand it's that we choose to face our challenges differently than you, with a smile or a laughter instead of bickering and complaining. It doesn't make our challenges any less difficult, but it affects how we react to them and how we manage them.

@Hanna,
I don't know if that is really true, about not playing by the rules. Do remember Sagittarius is an ethical sign and we love fair play above all else. Maybe if there are serious afflictions. But a Sag Moon in itself, idk. I usually follow the rules, sometimes quite strictly and rigidly.

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I totally know what you mean I can tell that some people think I'm like some air head floating around on a cloud but it's just that I'll usually only talk about cool stuff going on. Kind of like Facebook.
Lol

About the rules, I interpreted it to mean 'dumb rules,' not ethical rules. An easy example to me is that weird relationship rule where the other person expects you to always be available / responding to text messages. That's not a 'real' rule. Or like, conversation 'templates' you're supposed to follow when meeting people. Not real. Or the rule about not wearing things that aren't in style. Or like, "staying on topic," - what does that even really mean? Lol
Stuff like that..

posted October 07, 2014 03:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Selenite:
Lol! My best friends are cancer, taurus and scorpio moons and they get (secretly) upset with me for breaking the rules! but 'rules' don't matter, there are no rules, so i love breaking all the fake rules and laughing with other people who break them. I'm not a sag moon but i am mostly sag so this really hits home and makes me happy

I feel like, to understand sagittarius, thought process is mostly like this:
1) what's the point of what we're talking about?
2) does it matter? if so, how much?
3) if it doesn't matter that much, is it making you happy?
4) if no, find a way to get over it / ignore and move on to something better
all better

Haha

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posted October 07, 2014 06:36 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
And you're telling this to a Cap sun conj Saturn? I might not show all my misery cards but please don't think life has been a walk in the park for me and that I've never had to endure through anything difficult long term. But that's the difference really... You want to b*tch and complain and I want to find a silver lining. Call that naive but I'm not envious of you or your viewpoints

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posted October 07, 2014 09:01 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Tbh I've never known anyone irl or online with so much hatred towards sag moons as you taurus moons here...

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posted October 07, 2014 09:12 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I don't know where you're getting hatred from...?

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