posted October 18, 2014 02:25 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
I forgot to mention he did originally fit the description of "symmetrical smiles (you can tell a Libra man immediately by how he smiles!) and their nice hair all the time and the attention they pay to their clothes. And all the nice blah blah things they have to say." But his dad and other male (and sometimes female) relatives didn't see it as just "yuck" but as gay and effeminate and proceeded to "beat the gay" out of him (he was never gay). At least one of his facial scars was from the ring with a jagged edge that his father punched him with.

Ah, his father was a man to impress the ladies of LL, rough, a real "alpha" (that is, violent temper tantrums when he didn't get his way), and abusive to women as well as children and animals (yeah, I know the LL women into abusers here don't like it plainly said, but I'm not going to stop calling a trashcan a trashcan just because you like to eat from one).

Had he not been so abused as a child he probably would still be that way today. My Scorpio Jupiter finds the transformation process he went through fascinating (as well as how many shades of gray there are in the world). Even today (or last I saw him anyway) he was an amazing poet and I'd gone to poetry readings with him where when he stood to recite new poems of his many who were new would blink in shock and he'd often get spirited applause that was more than usual. I suppose we all have our childhood damage to overcome (if we can) as adults but all things he considered he hasn't done too bad, even if he's a lot more cautious before he's sweet and has completely abandoned all fashion that he used to enjoy as a Libra boy (but as a Libra man he finds most of the world as fake, you have to be fake to get by, and it's one reason he turned his back on the world save those like himself also seeking to get off the crazy train, though that probably has more to do with his Pisces moon than Libra sun and/or his being one of the most acute empaths and closest to true psychic I've ever encountered).

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That's an inspiring story you shared, PJ. We do often misjudge people based on first impressions or prejudgments and deprive ourselves of the wonder of getting to know them.

posted October 18, 2014 04:39 PM            

What is it about the Libra that you like?
Beauty.

Whats your Sun sign?
Libra