posted November 08, 2014 06:23 AM            

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Originally posted by GoingDutch:

Your Libra is different, next to neptune.How was his upbringing? Normal right? Your the lucky girl, not sure about me.
My Libra have a bio-father who was in and out of jail, and dead. His mom was busy with getting her life back together, she didn't concentrate on teach him, he grow up roaming around the street.

I read your posts in the forum, you said your Libra is like a prince, and romantic, and didn't have much sexual exprience before you. ---That is a keeper right there, husband type.

My Libra said all his one night stand are PURELY PHYSICAL, and he doesn't even stay after sex, he leave right away after he finished the 'sex'. === and yes, this is his own words. I asked if he next day at least text to say 'thank you' to those girls, he say No. No text, no keep in touch. smh. I'm sure your Libra is not this irresponsible. Right?
I know my Libra isn't into poly stuff, but he sure can sleep around. I'm right in his own hood, so he gonna have to skip 2-3 hoods over to find girls, lol.

Does anyone here think 'sleeping around',or 'one night stands' things to be considered as Poly?

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Thanks, yeah I really hope so too! My boyfriend seems very emotional stable for a pisces moon boy... I thought he would be more insecure, but when it goes worse he just talks about traveling and his dreams, and then I let him, though it's hard sometimes (feels like I'm not involved in his future plans lol) but I guess it's just some form of escapism (a trait for pisces moon)

But yeah, I must admit that if a guy once had this tendency, and he knows it's easy to get something, then it just sounds realistic that he could do it again, once the "escapism" kicks in. There is different forms of escapism (running from reality) and if your guy found sex to be one, then he really needs to change it into something else. Does he like travellin, or does he have some kind of hobby?

posted November 08, 2014 07:15 AM              

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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
I think it would be more accurate to say, within the modernist/post-modernist framework, that, through colonization, the West was attempting to indoctrinate into Arab societies Western ideologies, culture, language, and ideals; all the while, the main agenda was the exploitation of their resources for economic prosperity. They couldn't give a rats a$$ what those "indigenous, base, barbaric animals" believed.

I just wanted to clarify this as both a Muslim and an Arab... I think there is enough misinformation in this world about Muslim identity and Arab identity, as concepts both mutually exclusive and conjoined.

Polygamy in Islam is a rather complicated issue that I'd rather not get into seeing as this is not a topic important to the thread...

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posted November 08, 2014 07:28 AM              

Just pointing out a double standard.
I don't even care about the mocking...it's holding me to one standard and yourself to another. Which I didn't even mock or anything. Had nothing to do with religion whatsoever and look what I got.

posted November 08, 2014 07:40 AM              

Sorry, "that very thing" being sabotage.

posted November 08, 2014 08:02 AM              

I attacked character because her character SUCKS. She's attacked myself and many many others countless times (without provocation!!). She also has double standards. Attacking others and not expecting to get attacked. If I attacked her character, then why was I attacked for religion?

You all attack religion, and attack those who disagree with your view.

This is the truth, right here.
I attacked because she deserved so.
I attack you because you also deserve so. (Because of making wrong accusations of me, then, and even now, and attacking me for it - at least then you did)

Something you will learn about me as you go on, if you haven't already.

I NEVER forget (in threads far gone, even from a year ago involving other members)
I rarely forgive
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posted November 08, 2014 09:56 AM            

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Originally posted by GoingDutch:
Yeah, and my Libra have a Uranus in 7th House, as well as a Saturn in his 7 House too. And His Moon/Mars opposition is at negative -2.5 degrees.
And a packed 5 House.

I can't find any clue to him being a cheater in person, so I am using astrology to criticize him.

I guess my Gemini Moon always at work, I'm obsessed with find faults in his natal chart.

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Be lucky you cannot find a clue of him being a cheater in person! I think astrology only shows potential.

Unfortunately my ex repeatedly liked to pay for certain services (ahem) and never really broke up with some of his exes... He happened to have a packed 5th and 2 planets in 7th house.

posted November 08, 2014 09:57 AM              

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Originally posted by whaaat:
What about an art thread?

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posted November 08, 2014 10:00 AM              

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Please understand I agree with this 100%

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posted November 08, 2014 10:03 AM              

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
PD

Another time.
Sorry.

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posted November 08, 2014 10:06 AM              

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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
Hmm, what exactly do you have in mind? We need to manipulate LL well so they join in. I can't help that I have a Gemini Moon and neeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeed to know what everyone looks like. Sigh.

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I already know what MANY people here look like, and names to faces. Including you! LOL

posted November 08, 2014 10:17 AM              

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
I already know what MANY people here look like, and names to faces. Including you! LOL

I have a very sharp memory.

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posted November 08, 2014 10:20 AM              

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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
LOOOL! My pictures are still out there floating. I don't care enough to remove them. There are a couple of faces I know but many I still am very curious to see. Including yours!

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posted November 08, 2014 10:25 AM              

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
There's actually VIDEO out there of me - on LL
"Post a video - show your astrological energy."
Page.... 11 if I remember.
It's an older video. About... 5 years old. I've changed my look a little bit.

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posted November 08, 2014 10:40 AM            

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Originally posted by GoingDutch:
And I was wondering, in a polyamory family, would it effect the children?

My Libra was in 11 grade, his teens years when his step dad come into the picture. Even till now, he can't seem to accept the step dad.
I heard that the older the child is, the harder it is to accept a step parent? This guy wants nothing to do with emotional issues that are difficult for him, so he just avoid facing it.

I know step parents are just part of polyamory, but if children growing up in a polyamory family, how should they be raise, how do they reacts when go to school with other children? Anyone have experience in this? care to share on how you teach your child?

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That depends on those involved. Generally speaking if kids feel safe then they'll react positively to it (though you'll have to be careful of say one going to another for permission if s/he doesn't get the answer desired from the first person asked, or even try to use one against the other on what is allowed, what one does, etc...obviously, don't allow that to work). Kids don't recognize it as strange so aren't likely to treat it like a big deal unless others do.

I expect it's much like me with my extended family. I grew up with cousins like siblings, and knew my aunts and uncles and others before I even knew my mom and dad...mom taking me back (just to spite Granny) was one of the worst things to happen to me.

posted November 08, 2014 10:42 AM              

(I need to calm down. LOL.)

posted November 08, 2014 11:00 AM              

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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
OMFG DF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I swear I'm being totally honest here... I was actually cracking up at so many of the things you said. YOU'RE HILARIOUS! Remember in that one post how I said Leo humor is the type I can't help but laugh at although I kinda hate to. Yupp. I was cracking up and shaking my head Absolute and total LEO! And that Gem Moon is flaring. Not a sense of the Virgo. Like not an ounce, even. Amazing how all your Virgo planets are 12th, and they truly are hidden! SUCH A LEO! Sorry, I'm rambling because I'm excited LOL. Ugh Gem Moon... But yeah, your energy is totally different in writing than it is in person. I get what you mean now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

(I need to calm down. LOL.)

Also, how did you change your look?

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I tell people! They don't listen! There's so much personality that simply CAN'T be expressed here.

posted November 08, 2014 11:05 AM            

1. heavy Venus activity :
- square /opposed by Jupiter , which over- indulge the venus in love life.
- square /opposed by Uranus , needless to say .

2. Heavy load 5th house : especially personal planets in here and /or Jupiter , Uranus, neptune

3. Uranian character : strong uranian type ( Uranus aspect to any 4 angles, sun , in 1st House, vertex , Node ) and also uranus aspect to love planets ( moon, venus, mars) in natal .

In my personal idea , Heavy load in 7th H might not show as polygamy but multiple marriage could be consider .

I think for the awareness of the polygamy , should have 2 out of 3 from list above .

For me , I can accept polygamy as long as it's not cheating .

If one day my bf come to tell me he want to have another woman , I would be extremely deprived but I would give him the credit for his faithful manner . But after that , honestly , I just really don't know which road should I take ? Should I find someone else also or should I pack my bag and leave.

I have natal venus square mars , mars conjunct uranus , my NN -conjunct venus, square uranus (exact), square mars , mars/uranus sextile jupiter . SN in5th , empty 7th House . And I do think this polygamy might work but not for me when I am in relationship.

posted November 08, 2014 11:14 AM            

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Originally posted by GoingDutch:
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I can't find any clue to him being a cheater in person, so I am using astrology to criticize him.

I guess my Gemini Moon always at work, I'm obsessed with find faults in his natal chart.

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Nope , your scorpio mars does !

posted November 08, 2014 11:28 AM            

Can we please begin by defining WHAT we're looking at astrologically?

Polygamy: man with many female partners
Polyandry: woman with many male partners
Polyamory: unisex nonmonogamy with commitment
Polysexual: unisex noncommittal nonmonogamy
Blended family: stepparents / children dynamics

posted November 08, 2014 11:46 AM            

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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
You're right. There probably isn't much data on it. I have his chart and birth time to the minute. I can post it, if you're interested. I'll also be taking a look at Dossie Easton's chart and see if there's any similarity between the two.

Also, I'm surprised there's a book on polyamory that involves astrology as well. Super cool!

And, please, do post the guy's chart or fill me in on its details, if you don't mind! Thanks

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It isn't rare. We have statistical data. In fact, a growing relational style is the 'monogomish' model, coined by Dan Savage. Think of it as open-marriage with strict rules; a husband may be allowed certain 'passes' from his wife, a wife may be allowed the same (or to engage in secondary relationships -- women are still, generally, more inclined to an emotional component, though there are plenty who are strictly polysexual).

Certain monogamish couples never have multiple partners; the option is simply allowed. Plenty are open both ways, (both partners can have secondary relationships / or encounters, given their negotiations) and many more open one-way. It's easiest to categorise the whole thing as 'nonmonogamy', since it can be defined SO many ways.

Being a therapist in the alternative lifestyles population, this is a large per centage of my clientele. Statistically speaking, it isn't rare any more. Are we open about it? Ironically, not very. As you've said, it's still considered societally taboo.