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Topic: Venus square Pluto - help
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bansheequeen
Knowflake Posts: 670
From: Beachville, USA
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 13, 2014 10:22 AM
  
My boyfriend has this. Yes he is crazy jealous and suspicious. He'd rather I live in a dungeon away from male eyes. I am a very jealous person myself I have been working on it.With plutonic people, they're really trying to work out thier inner battles and insecurities through relationships. Think about it. Life death renewal. The pain and drama they go through and put you through. It's all so that the universe can teach them a lesson and help them grow or maybe attempt the lesson. So my point is. You can't stop being this way be simply repressing that side of you. You have to face it and let it consume you so you can see into the heart of it. Understand why you feel that way and what is making you feel insecure. IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 1830
From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted November 13, 2014 11:42 AM
I hate this aspect, but at the same time, I love it. It gives a person high sex appeal and love very deeply. It also gives people control and power in their relationships. It does cause a lot of jealousy issues, but I have good enough aspects to my Venus to make it more manageable. You just gotta be aware of these dark tendencies. When you see yourself manifesting the controlling and jealous energy of Pluto, then stop yourself and try to think of your situation more reasonably.IP: Logged |
athenegoddess
Knowflake Posts: 3101
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Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 13, 2014 01:31 PM
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
My boyfriend has this. Yes he is crazy jealous and suspicious. He'd rather I live in a dungeon away from male eyes. I am a very jealous person myself I have been working on it.With plutonic people, they're really trying to work out thier inner battles and insecurities through relationships. Think about it. Life death renewal. The pain and drama they go through and put you through. It's all so that the universe can teach them a lesson and help them grow or maybe attempt the lesson. So my point is. You can't stop being this way be simply repressing that side of you. You have to face it and let it consume you so you can see into the heart of it. Understand why you feel that way and what is making you feel insecure.
does he get upset when you dress up too? like if you were to wear a cute dress he would want to rip it off and does't want you to dress sexy? like he doesn't want you to wear provocative clothing? IP: Logged |
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