posted January 07, 2015 01:02 PM            

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Originally posted by florence:
I think barbiegirls advice is best in a way.

It depends because I think Scorpio games are all about attachment and intimacy so anything which causes you to think is creating that investment. Sometimes it's just the way they get to know people.

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posted January 07, 2015 01:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Or he could be playing you along to see if you'll actually tell him when he knows, that you know lol. Make sense?

They're so intuitive and pick up on everything. He may just be testing your worthiness, testing how much he can trust you.

I think its funny when you go online and read the bazillion different article out there on Scorpios, they write as if they're(Scorpios) alien and incapable of being understood. They aren't. They're quite simple, imo you just have to work with them, be real and straightforward. They value respect, confidence, being true to oneself.

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posted January 07, 2015 01:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
I do the same, being honest is my game and it seems to be a game few ppl play so it's much appreciated, ESP by scorpios, if they are good hearted scorpios, not all scorp's are created equal.

Just was not sure with this particular situation....he seems to be trying very hard to be honest so it kind of threw me to find out he wasn't being so completely honest, then makes it easy to see where he's not being totally upfront. Makes me wonder why exactly he's playing it like this.

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It's not just being honest - anything which is self-preserving I think they will want to dismantle. If honesty is your safety net they'll try get under that even. It's like a vulnerability is needed. So more than honesty is that using that good ego. It's a real headfk so don't think, just do it from a place of love. But not too self-sacrificing either as that's also a form of misplaced ego

Realise that's a bit confusing - it's just I always thought I was straightforward and honest but once my fears were triggered, the more they triggered I wanted to protect myself and was less transparent. But good ego can see you through any games.

See if I become scared I try become as good a person as can be - it's a survival reflex but I think that's even a socially constructed response women tend to rely in and Scorpio sometimes wants to get behind those constructs.

posted January 07, 2015 01:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
I like what your saying here ...as you already know I have a lot of Pluto/Scorp influence and real people are the only people worth loving! That's what he says he likes so much about me, that and that I'm so intuitive. Those are 2 things I deeply appreciate also.

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See, so tell him. If it's something small maybe he'll laugh about it lol.

posted January 07, 2015 01:57 PM            

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Originally posted by florence:
It's not just being honest - anything which is self-preserving I think they will want to dismantle. If honesty is your safety net they'll try get under that even. It's like a vulnerability is needed. So more than honesty is that using that good ego. It's a real headfk so don't think, just do it from a place of love. But not too self-sacrificing either as that's also a form of misplaced ego

Realise that's a bit confusing - it's just I always thought I was straightforward and honest but once my fears were triggered, the more they triggered I wanted to protect myself and was less transparent. But good ego can see you through any games.

See if I become scared I try become as good a person as can be - it's a survival reflex but I think that's even a socially constructed response women tend to rely in and Scorpio sometimes wants to get behind those constructs.

Ok, enough paranoia !

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posted January 07, 2015 02:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
One thing I'm happy for is that I don't have a lot of fixed signs in my chart....I can adjust and change on a dime or at least very easily.

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Yes, I'm very fixed. My sag moon helps but sometimes because I want easy going I let the tide carry me to those places I can't extricate myself from.

posted January 07, 2015 02:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
See, so tell him. If it's something small maybe he'll laugh about it lol.

I'm the exact same way. I despise when people play games with me. It makes me feel so insignificant, small and betrayed. I've always gotten along very well for the most part with Scorpio, water peeps in general, maybe because I am so watery myself. I get the energy and the needs.

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My water is not as obvious and I've always tried to follow the astrology rules and stick with fire and air signs....but we just don't work as well together.
As I've learned more depth in astrology I realize my water isn't as obvious but my entire chart is touched deeply by Pluto and Neptune, then having an an unaspected virgo moon in the 12th is a very strong moon and it's pretty much like a more logical pisces moon. Moon sextiles scorp NN by 3 degrees.
I feel more comfortable with water signs!

Pluto on AC conjunct Venus
Neptune exact sextile Pluto(Both aspecting AC by 3 degrees)
Pluto opposed Jupiter(3 degree)
Neptune in stellium with Sun/Merc
Stellium trines Saturn

Gem mars@29.33...pretty much cancer Mars trine scorp Uranus, Uranus is in 1st on cusp of 2nd house.

That's a lot of water influence!

posted January 08, 2015 04:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
^ Care to elaborate?

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Why would they do that when ...

posted January 08, 2015 05:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Reincarnation:
So much ridiculous nonsense in this thread.

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@Gabby,

posted January 08, 2015 12:43 PM            

Her question is far too hypothetical to deserve even one serious response.

It's clear that she is obsessed with this Scorpio man.

posted January 08, 2015 12:46 PM            

I guess I'm going to get censored or banned soon.

posted January 08, 2015 04:59 PM            

I'm really curious what the secret is. Being so vague is not really helping if you want clear answers on whether he's playing games or not. If I had to guess, it sounds like he has a girlfriend that he did not mention, and you are thinking this is a sign that he likes you? Explaining the situation might help.

posted January 08, 2015 08:37 PM            

Let him crack first, otherwise you'll never learn the ways of his mind.

I played a similar game with a Pisces. We were colleagues and they refused to tell their zodiac sign. Patience!! Eventually it was posted on the community board, but was removed before I came to work that day. Obviously I found out, then made a point to tell the "right" people not to let Pisces know I knew their sign. In short order I got deep probing looks, I responded with confusion as if I didn't know what the looks were for. Somehow I kept myself from gloating, or showing signs of victory. Pisces never broached the subject, and neither did I.

Same thing happened when they were leaving the company. Not a word to me. However, it was revealed while I was within earshot by someone I kept on ice. To the last day Pisces never said a word, and neither did I. I consider those two episodes some of my finest acting. You see, I'm a Gemini and I talk too much, incapable of keeping a secret.

posted January 08, 2015 09:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Reincarnation:
OP is an idiot.

Her question is far too hypothetical to deserve even one serious response.

It's clear that she is obsessed with this Scorpio man.
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Scorpio Sun, Mercury, Mars, Pluto, Lilith
11-12-1989

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Well,

- I hope all of you folks, notice the other side of the coin.
- This is exactly why I tend to confront... not exactly... hmmm... with this Sun-Sign, but with this kind of "energy" and attitude.
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Such narrow-minded people and also extremely defensive.
Always with fear in their insides.

Hidding behind a PC to release anger and non-sense against Good-Hearted people, pretty much describe their kind.

Worst thing is that they are very Dogmatic. And Fanatic.
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And before some of you folks get defensive about my words.

I want to make it clear, that I'm reffering just to a certain percentage of that... Sun-Sign
( Which unfortunately, is not really a very small one lol )

posted January 09, 2015 02:42 AM            

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Originally posted by GemBird82:
Well,

- I hope all of you folks, [b]notice the other side of the coin.
- This is exactly why I tend to confront... not exactly... hmmm... with this Sun-Sign, but with this kind of "energy" and attitude.[/B]

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