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Topic: Best way to confuse a triple scorpio male?
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Gabby Moderator Posts: 4804 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 07, 2015 11:33 AM
He's a friend, sun/merc/mars/uranus/NN are all in scorp.Since scorpios love to figure things out, is the best way to confuse them to do things that are completely opposite of normal? Or just say nothing about things they know you know about and most normal ppl would not be able to keep their mouths shut about....? IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 2759 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 07, 2015 11:39 AM
Hmmm I doubt Scorpio-anything would like to feel confused...I only have Pluto squares to personal planets and a bunch of Scorpio decans and confusion REALLY makes me p i s s e d off! IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 4804 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 07, 2015 11:46 AM
But it's something that this person should have mentioned but didn't...I'm sure they know there is no way I don't know, but in not acting like I know. Lol I'm just going to have fun with it until he tells me himself. I guess my Pluto on my AC makes me like to see how ppl react to things, it helps to figure them out.But I don't want to **** him off either...it's not that serious of a thing. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Moderator Posts: 5196 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted January 07, 2015 12:00 PM
Hi Gabby  I knew a triple Scorpio male back in HS. Strangest little fella, anyway he hated being confused or felt that he was being played. Can you just tell him that you don't want to tell him, and for him to drop it? No one likes to be confused, we all value honesty. Playing mind games, imo anyway, is somewhat being dishonest. You withhold information, and beat around it. You know what I mean. I would just tell him if it's not that serious and let it go. Scorpios like when you're straightforward with them. They respect people that are real and give it to them straight. Many Scorpio cousins, few close friends. IP: Logged |
florence Knowflake Posts: 756 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 07, 2015 12:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: But it's something that this person should have mentioned but didn't...I'm sure they know there is no way I don't know, but in not acting like I know. Lol I'm just going to have fun with it until he tells me himself. I guess my Pluto on my AC makes me like to see how ppl react to things, it helps to figure them out.But I don't want to **** him off either...it's not that serious of a thing.
Ok admittedly a bit paranoid but are you sure they are are not giving you a key to their mind but once you get in TRIPLE SCORPIO LOCK If you are just friends maybe not. But in general I think scorpions are so good at preserving their ego - probably having faced it themselves - the only way to confuse is by sending completely mixed signals. Not just doing the opposite of expected but doing two different things at the same time. I think they do this themselves and dont think there's many ways to circumvent their game if you are brought into it other than two games. I wouldn't enter into it if I wanted to get out and sometimes especially when it seems light hearted. As you can probably tell, I'm scarred IP: Logged |
Virgo28 Knowflake Posts: 412 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted January 07, 2015 12:09 PM
Just ignore him and seem to have fun...If they see that you don't need them then he will go after you. If you acknowledge their crap then you lose. ------------------ "If a man does not work passionately - even furiously - at being the best in the world at what he does, he fails his talent, his destiny, and his God." IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 4804 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 07, 2015 12:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by florence: Ok admittedly a bit paranoid but are you sure they are are not giving you a key to their mind but once you get in TRIPLE SCORPIO LOCK If you are just friends maybe not. But in general I think scorpions are so good at preserving their ego - probably having faced it themselves - the only way to confuse is by sending completely mixed signals. I think they do this themselves and dont think there's many ways to circumvent their game if you are brought into it other than two games. I wouldn't enter into it if I wanted to get out and sometimes especially when it seems light hearted. As you can probably tell, I'm scarred
You think he's playing with me? By intentionally not mentioning something that he knows I will see...and it will confuse me that he didn't mention it? Lol....scorpio games are crazy! I will be talking to him again soon...I'll feel it out.
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Gabby Moderator Posts: 4804 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 07, 2015 12:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Hi Gabby  I knew a triple Scorpio male back in HS. Strangest little fella, anyway he hated being confused or felt that he was being played. Can you just tell him that you don't want to tell him, and for him to drop it? No one likes to be confused, we all value honesty. Playing mind games, imo anyway, is somewhat being dishonest. You withhold information, and beat around it. You know what I mean. I would just tell him if it's not that serious and let it go. Scorpios like when you're straightforward with them. They respect people that are real and give it to them straight. Many Scorpio cousins, few close friends.
I could do that....I guess? It's not as fun though....but I don't want to make him dislike me and I guess I could do that if his scorpio energy can't figure me out. They kind of see that as a reason not trust someone, and they can't respect ppl they can't understand. IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 4804 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 07, 2015 12:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by Virgo28: Just ignore him and seem to have fun...If they see that you don't need them then he will go after you. If you acknowledge their crap then you lose.
Awe.....interesting information!! Thankyou! IP: Logged |
florence Knowflake Posts: 756 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 07, 2015 12:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: You think he's playing with me? By intentionally not mentioning something that he knows I will see...and it will confuse me that he didn't mention it? Lol....scorpio games are crazy! I will be talking to him again soon...I'll feel it out.
I don't know - it could be whatever it is, it doesn't matter. I'm Scorpio asc and .. Not the same .. But sometimes I suppose I do get a kick out of having this other form of hidden communication, something unsaid. Not even for any games, just because I like mystery. However, IF he did want to see how you tick and get you thinking it could be a way. I edited in my post before that I don't think doing the opposite of expected confuses as much as doing two different things at the same time but that will probably interest them so make sure you wanted that and in return. Also I'm thinking of some twisted exp I've had so likely isn't so bad. IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 4804 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 07, 2015 12:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by florence: I don't know - it could be whatever it is, it doesn't matter. I'm Scorpio asc and .. Not the same .. But sometimes I suppose I do get a kick out of having this other form of hidden communication, something unsaid. Not even for any games, just because I like mystery.However, IF he did want to see how you tick and get you thinking it could be a way. I edited in my post before that I don't think doing the opposite of expected confuses as much as doing two different things at the same time.
That's true, he's kind of doing two different things at the same time, I'm just choosing not to react to it. So if he's playing a game I'm not engaging in it with him. IP: Logged |
Virgo28 Knowflake Posts: 412 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted January 07, 2015 12:29 PM
He is a fix sign so waiting is what he is good at.Fix sign kryptonite is cardinality(Libra ASC). ------------------ "If a man does not work passionately - even furiously - at being the best in the world at what he does, he fails his talent, his destiny, and his God." IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Moderator Posts: 5196 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted January 07, 2015 12:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: I could do that....I guess? It's not as fun though....but I don't want to make him dislike me and I guess I could do that if his scorpio energy can't figure me out. They kind of see that as a reason not trust someone, and they can't respect ppl they can't understand.
Exactly and you want his trust, his respect. The only bad thing that could happen is that he finds out that you know, and is ****** that you knew and didn't say anything. Then the whole situation explodes into something so much bigger than it should have. You don't want him to be suspicious, then he won't stop until he does know. IP: Logged |
shyberry Knowflake Posts: 93 From: a milk bottle Registered: Oct 2014
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posted January 07, 2015 12:32 PM
I am so fed up of Scorpios. So secretive, intense. Life is not a damn battle field unless you make it that way. I have pluto rising, though so I am the same way. I even get annoyed with my own passions lol. I'll help as much as I can though I'm sure I'll just be repeating things! If a Scorpio likes you, there's a good chance they won't tell you. They'll somehow feel like you can read their mind or be attracted to their "mysterious sexuality". (Side note: Staring at someone for 20 seconds is not sexy. Johnny Deep lookalike or not, please stop.) If they know you like them, they'll pretend they don't know. They'll do things that would make you feel even stronger while they simply float through the situation. It'll feel like you're in a frenzy for them and they don't even care at all. Oh, they care. They care a lot, but showing it would mean "weakness" in their eyes, anyway. I doubt the rest of the world gives two sh*ts. Even though my DSC is in Taurus, I've attracted a lottttt of Scorpios. Themes of control whether blatant or subtle always showed up. It was hot at first, but the "mind games" get very old very fast. IP: Logged |
Virgo28 Knowflake Posts: 412 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted January 07, 2015 12:34 PM
^^^ Care means losing control of their puppet.------------------ "If a man does not work passionately - even furiously - at being the best in the world at what he does, he fails his talent, his destiny, and his God." IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 4804 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 07, 2015 12:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Exactly and you want his trust, his respect. The only bad thing that could happen is that he finds out that you know, and is ****** that you knew and didn't say anything. Then the whole situation explodes into something so much bigger than it should have. You don't want him to be suspicious, then he won't stop until he does know.
I'll give it away that I know but do it very briefly and still not react to it.
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Barbiegirl19 Moderator Posts: 5196 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted January 07, 2015 12:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: I'll give it away that I know but do it very briefly and still not react to it.
There ya go. Be real with him and he'll trust you forever. IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 4804 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 07, 2015 12:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by shyberry: I am so fed up of Scorpios. So secretive, intense. Life is not a damn battle field unless you make it that way. I have pluto rising, though so I am the same way. I even get annoyed with my own passions lol. I'll help as much as I can though I'm sure I'll just be repeating things! If a Scorpio likes you, there's a good chance they won't tell you. They'll somehow feel like you can read their mind or be attracted to their "mysterious sexuality". (Side note: Staring at someone for 20 seconds is not sexy. Johnny Deep lookalike or not, please stop.) If they know you like them, they'll pretend they don't know. They'll do things that would make you feel even stronger while they simply float through the situation. It'll feel like you're in a frenzy for them and they don't even care at all. Oh, they care. They care a lot, but showing it would mean "weakness" in their eyes, anyway. I doubt the rest of the world gives two sh*ts. Even though my DSC is in Taurus, I've attracted a lottttt of Scorpios. Themes of control whether blatant or subtle always showed up. It was hot at first, but the "mind games" get very old very fast.
Do the mind games ever end? I guess I do play them to though, with my Pluto conjunct Venus/AC. Pluto sextile Neptune/Sun Pluto opposed Jupiter
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shyberry Knowflake Posts: 93 From: a milk bottle Registered: Oct 2014
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posted January 07, 2015 12:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: Do the mind games ever end? I guess I do play them to though, with my Pluto conjunct Venus/AC. Pluto sextile Neptune/Sun Pluto opposed Jupiter
They should eventually. With my high school crush, I tried everything I could think of to keep him intrigued. The secretive stuff worked in the beginning, but what kept it going in the long run was learning to open up. Seeing him holding on for so long gained my trust. Also pluto conjunct venus/ac sounds really sexy
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CatMote Knowflake Posts: 808 From: Fighting Neptune for his trident Registered: Apr 2013
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posted January 07, 2015 12:50 PM
the only real game to play with a scorpio, is to not play their game. as a pluto heavy person myself, ill be able to tell when the person is being dishonest and more than likely so will he. your plan of playing games will backfire, until you learn how to play the game where youre not playing the game. ------------------ "Perhaps there are new plateaus to reach, even greater heights to which I must ascend." IP: Logged |
florence Knowflake Posts: 756 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 07, 2015 12:54 PM
I think barbiegirls advice is best in a way.It depends because I think Scorpio games are all about attachment and intimacy so anything which causes you to think is creating that investment. Sometimes it's just the way they get to know people. IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 4804 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 07, 2015 12:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by shyberry: They should eventually. With my high school crush, I tried everything I could think of to keep him intrigued. The secretive stuff worked in the beginning, but what kept it going in the long run was learning to open up. Seeing him holding on for so long gained my trust. Also pluto conjunct venus/ac sounds really sexy
Thank you!
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florence Knowflake Posts: 756 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 07, 2015 12:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by CatMote: the only real game to play with a scorpio, is to not play their game. as a pluto heavy person myself, ill be able to tell when the person is being dishonest and more than likely so will he. your plan of playing games will backfire, until you learn how to play the game where youre not playing the game.
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Gabby Moderator Posts: 4804 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 07, 2015 01:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by CatMote: the only real game to play with a scorpio, is to not play their game. as a pluto heavy person myself, ill be able to tell when the person is being dishonest and more than likely so will he. your plan of playing games will backfire, until you learn how to play the game where youre not playing the game.
I do the same, being honest is my game and it seems to be a game few ppl play so it's much appreciated, ESP by scorpios, if they are good hearted scorpios, not all scorp's are created equal. Just was not sure with this particular situation....he seems to be trying very hard to be honest so it kind of threw me to find out he wasn't being so completely honest, then makes it easy to see where he's not being totally upfront. Makes me wonder why exactly he's playing it like this. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Moderator Posts: 5196 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted January 07, 2015 01:01 PM
Or he could be playing you along to see if you'll actually tell him when he knows, that you know lol. Make sense?They're so intuitive and pick up on everything. He may just be testing your worthiness, testing how much he can trust you. I think its funny when you go online and read the bazillion different articles out there on Scorpios, they write as if they're(Scorpios) alien and incapable of being understood. They aren't. They're quite simple, imo you just have to work with them, be real and straightforward. They value respect, confidence, being true to oneself. IP: Logged |