posted January 17, 2015 08:17 AM            

So, I'm a Gemini who is just starting to experience Saturn in the 7th House. Gosh, this feels painful already' The cycle hasn't completely kicked off yet, but I've dished out a few "ultimatums" (more statements which state that I won't accept disrespect any longer) and I feel lonely already. Everyone seems to have chosen the alternative e.g. Letting go - hmmmm.

'Saturn will spend the next three years in your opposite sign, Sagittarius, putting the emphasis on committed relationships. Gemini, your free-spirited sign can be a little slippery, not wanted to be “tied down.” Now, you’ll discover both the benefits and the challenges of choosing one person or path for the long haul. Everything is a learning experience, so even if a serious relationship doesn’t survive Saturn’s reign, you will emerge wiser, evolved and mature from stepping up to the challenge.'

posted January 17, 2015 01:01 PM            

All I know if the last sentence is very true. My relationship did not last through the opposition and I have indeed emerged wiser, evolved and mature from stepping up to the challenge!

posted January 17, 2015 01:11 PM            

But for Saturn in 7th house in general regardless of the sign, I was told that these people are given soul mates or very loving partners, only to have them taken away suddenly for whatever reaosn..

As for my personal experience, I am noticing that in some way or another, relationships becomes burdensome for them??
For example, my partner has Cancer moon in 11th house, and her needs for group activities and friendship is very very strong.
There has been many days where she broke her promises she made with me to be with her friends (promises to show up on time, and respecting my schedule and so on)
Obviously, someone like me who doesn't have moon in 11th house, didn't understand how important friendship can be..
When I addressed my needs for her to keep her promises, well that didn't go too well.
Ugh.. and she has Rahu conjunct mercury in 2nd house scorpio, so I always fall for her sweet white lies and so on

posted January 17, 2015 01:14 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
Do you mean natally or by transit? I have it natally

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posted January 17, 2015 01:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
We are talking about natally. She said saturn in sagittarius is opposing her saturn in 7th house in Gemini

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posted January 17, 2015 01:29 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
Yeah I saw that but the way it read sounded like it could be the description of a transit. Sorry!
I've heard that saturn in seventh people shouldn't marry until after their saturn return. I wish I'd known that before I got into a serious relationship. It's been rough, and I think it's going to end. Saturn can be a cruel teacher.
I met this guy when I was very young and I was looking for someone to take care of me. I'd had a really rough childhood and was still experiencing problems at home when this guy offered me a way out, which I gladly accepted.
He turned out to be really controlling, manipulative, and even abusive. Now we have a baby together and I have to leave him. It's been a long, painful learning process, but I think when it's all said and done I will be much stronger because of it. I'm already getting there.
I would strongly recommend not getting married young with this placement though.

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posted January 17, 2015 01:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
Did he have Rahu in 7th house?
How long did you guys stay together?
Do you also have 2nd house stellium?
I apologize in advance if I sounded annoying :s My gf has it so I am genuinely interested in this placement, as well as your story

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posted January 17, 2015 01:55 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
I'm sorry I don't know what rahu is. If you tell me how to find it I can look that up though.
We are still technically "together" as we have a baby together, but I am moving out to get some space from him soon which could mean the end of us. It has been about 5 and a half years we've been together.
And no neither of us have a second house stellium. In fact those houses are empty except for some asteroids.
It's not annoying😊 the purpose of this forum is to interrogate each other lol!

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posted January 17, 2015 02:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
Rahu is NN
Ketu is SN

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posted January 17, 2015 02:16 PM            

I have been watching too many KRSastrology videos :s

posted January 17, 2015 02:50 PM            

So I guess it depends what's you have in 7th and how it aspects your natal planets and where your nSaturn is.

posted January 17, 2015 04:35 PM            

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Originally posted by ikja:
Lucie x

I have no planets in my 7th house.
However, for some reason my love life is bollocks lol venus opposite pluto to thank for that!

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I just re read you post. So is Saturn also opposing your sun? That's a ***** too! I've been slammed by Saturn for the last two years and it's just too much! NO MORE!!

posted January 18, 2015 09:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
We are talking about natally. She said saturn in sagittarius is opposing her saturn in 7th house in Gemini

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"So, I'm a Gemini who is just starting to experience Saturn in the 7th House."

posted January 18, 2015 09:34 PM            

Saturn in the 7H could bring a serious, long term committed relationship or a period of solitude.

posted January 19, 2015 01:46 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I DO! There's so much truth in that. I thought maybe it was because I have some Cancer in my 1st house.

I also have Uranus in the 7th and Neptune in the 7th. Can I take it to mean I will feel like a Leo ASC and Virgo ASC too?

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With Uranus in 7th,you won't have time for people who cancel out on you,are late for appointments or just plain unreliable. You will be very judgemental of them.

Ironically,during this time your partner may notice that YOU exhibit these very traits that you resent in others.

If not you partner,people close to you will notice that you don't like being tied to appointments,will often be late,cancel or having something "come up" and disturb you from honouring them time and time again.

7th house Neptune has the same efefct as decribed above.Only difference is that we substitute the Uranus traits with the Neptune ones.

So people who are overly "spiritual", evasive,have a "woes me" sad story to tell,not easy to define or even "dodgy" etc. You will really judge harshly.

posted January 19, 2015 11:34 PM            

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Originally posted by AscTaurus:
With Uranus in 7th,you won't have time for people who cancel out on you,are late for appointments or just plain unreliable. You will be very judgemental of them.

Ironically,during this time your partner may notice that YOU exhibit these very traits that you resent in others.

If not you partner,people close to you will notice that you don't like being tied to appointments,will often be late,cancel or having something "come up" and disturb you from honouring them time and time again.

7th house Neptune has the same efefct as decribed above.Only difference is that we substitute the Uranus traits with the Neptune ones.

So people who are overly "spiritual", evasive,have a "woes me" sad story to tell,not easy to define or even "dodgy" etc. You will really judge harshly.

Your partner or those close to you will notice these same traits in YOU or they may exhibit these traits that may irk you.

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So we judge the people in the 7th house?