posted January 22, 2022 09:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
At least he did not want you to change his diaper.

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posted January 22, 2022 12:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
LOL!! Right how does that come up in this topic?...

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Makes sense to me with our strong mutual 8th House synastry. The 8th rules all those taboo, uncomfortable/discomforting, little talked about, often shoved down into the shadow, etc type subjects and topics which psychopathy, serial killers, etc, etc all fit rather well in, along with sex.

When people have strong 8th House connections, especially with Mercury and/or Venus, such topics and communication is bound to come up between them. So both kind of out of place, and yet in place (astrologically speaking at least) simultaneously.

posted January 22, 2022 05:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
God those Scorpio Mars men are hard to shake! They don't even have to touch me, and I am tuned on from just their tone and their stare, and their body.

I feel like the universe put me in quarantine on purpose before I lost any more control of myself with my co-worker.

I was having a fling with one from 2012-15 before I met my Virgo Mars husband.

They can keep up with my freak-a-zoid Uranus and Neptune in the 8th house.

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LOL! love this. Soon to be ex-hubby is a Scorp Mars with an 8th house stellium, which contains his sun and venus. I know some people do not vibe with Scorpio Mars, but my Pisces Venus loves it!
His willpower and ability to transform himself is pretty impressive, He is super protective of our little ones and me, but not in a smothering or controlling way.
He is definitely not someone to cross though.

posted January 22, 2022 06:20 PM            

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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
@HeavenlyLove, someone stole your worn socks? That’s such an odd thing to do. Must have been someone with prominent Pisces!

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Unfortunately I don't remember his Sun sign and AC (didn't know much more about astrology back then).
But he indeed looked and behaved kind of like maybe Pisces placements with challenging (Saturn ?) aspects (?)

He knew I was open and tolerant about all kinds of unusual ideas, so why do something like that without asking me ?

posted January 22, 2022 09:41 PM            

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LOL! love this. Soon to be ex-hubby is a Scorp Mars with an 8th house stellium, which contains his sun and venus. I know some people do not vibe with Scorpio Mars, but my Pisces Venus loves it!
His willpower and ability to transform himself is pretty impressive, He is super protective of our little ones and me, but not in a smothering or controlling way.
He is definitely not someone to cross though.

Women have always been drawn to him, as he just gives off THAT kind of energy, but he's an 1st deg Aqua sun like me, so he is oblivious to those things lol.
I have Uranus in the 7th on my DSC (as I mentioned we are both 1st deg Aqua suns) but my Neptune is in the 8th like you, so we probably have some thoughts in common lol. No wonder I liked your response lol.

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Ime, at least far as your Pisces Venus goes, oppositions/opposite signs are far, far, far more intense than trines/same element but different signs. There is probably something else besides just Pisces Venus in your chart that goes along with the Scorpio Mars.

One of the most intense attractions I've ever experienced was with a lass wherein we had double Venus-Mars oppositions. She has Pisces Venus and Leo Mars, and I have Aqua Venus and Virgo Mars. Though, it certainly didn't help that both of our Mars were conjunct each others Asc, her Venus is in my 8th, Mars rules her Sun, 8th, and co-rules her NN and Moon, among a number of other very intense indications.

I'm normally kind of passive, slow and shy with women in romantic situations (no seriously, I have been broken up with in the past because I didn't make moves etc), but I was quite brazen (for me) with her. For example, during our first meet up, while standing next to each other and bumping into each other, I started to run my fingers up and down her back and back of neck and arms (to which she looked completely blissed out), and then later on during our goodbyes kissed her. All very unusual for me. I almost couldn't help it, I felt like a giant magnet around her.

posted January 24, 2022 08:22 PM            

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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
@Stawr, I wouldn’t wear leggings to my work as well. I don’t think it looks very professional unless you work at a gym or something similar. But I do think they’re comfortable for the weekends and working out. Usually, I wear them with a hoodie and chunky socks at home on a workout day. Comfortable, but probably not a very sexy look. I don’t mind though. I like to be comfortable in the weekends. Must be all that earth in my chart. When I want to look more feminine I don’t like it to be too obvious. It’s more in the details, like a necklace that highlights the cleavage, a statement belt for a defined waist, soft touchable fabrics or a nice perfume.

I don’t think other people view me as very sexy though. Lilith, Eros or Ceres aren’t prominent in my chart. I do have an H8 stellium and a H1 Pluto but I’m not sure if that makes people notice me in that way. I’m probably more of a charmer with Jupiter conjunct Venus (in H8), Venus trine Moon and my Libra ASC.

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Leggings as pants when the shirt is short I feel leaves very little to the imagination and TMI. Haha. My skirt was falling down today, but I had leggings under them. So that saved me.

I don't think Eros is prominent in my chart...but Lilith certainly is conjunct my Lilith and Pluto and then squares all my Aquarius and Leo stuff. And Ceres is conjunct my Jupiter.

Update: Eros sextiles my Saturn

posted January 24, 2022 08:27 PM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
Makes sense to me with our strong mutual 8th House synastry. The 8th rules all those taboo, uncomfortable/discomforting, little talked about, often shoved down into the shadow, etc type subjects and topics which psychopathy, serial killers, etc, etc all fit rather well in, along with sex.

When people have strong 8th House connections, especially with Mercury and/or Venus, such topics and communication is bound to come up between them. So both kind of out of place, and yet in place (astrologically speaking at least) simultaneously.

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posted January 24, 2022 08:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Stargirl2122:
LOL! love this. Soon to be ex-hubby is a Scorp Mars with an 8th house stellium, which contains his sun and venus. I know some people do not vibe with Scorpio Mars, but my Pisces Venus loves it!
His willpower and ability to transform himself is pretty impressive, He is super protective of our little ones and me, but not in a smothering or controlling way.
He is definitely not someone to cross though.

Women have always been drawn to him, as he just gives off THAT kind of energy, but he's an 1st deg Aqua sun like me, so he is oblivious to those things lol.
I have Uranus in the 7th on my DSC (as I mentioned we are both 1st deg Aqua suns) but my Neptune is in the 8th like you, so we probably have some thoughts in common lol. No wonder I liked your response lol.

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posted January 24, 2022 09:12 PM            

Mars opposite or even just opposite Sign of the other's Asc, is one of those classic, very strong sexual-chemistry attraction signifiers.

posted January 24, 2022 11:28 PM            

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Husband has been requesting that I wear leggings as pants and stop being such a prude. I have been, but I don't feel right about it at work. Though my other co-worker does this. I've been getting out of my comfort zone a bit more. I usually will wear them as pants on the weekend, just hanging around the house, work outs, and errands. I've been trying more at work lately.

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Leggings are probably my favorite clothes. But I still try to cover up my bottom at least half way. Also, they should be good quality, thick fabric so it doesn’t reveal too much. At work, I wear them with jackets or a long dress shirt.

Actually, I had a guy at work who wore very tight pants. I thought how it was possible the guy had tighter pants than all the girls around. I couldn’t believe it was comfortable for him. Especially, he often needed to bend or carry something around. Sometimes, it was pretty indecent for work environment when he bent forward in his tight pants and his underwear was out also. I didn’t need to see his bottom part that often, but he was in a good shape,
I thought one day I was gonna make a joke about it and would end in HR for sexual harassment lol

posted January 25, 2022 12:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
Husband has been requesting that I wear leggings as pants and stop being such a prude. I have been, but I don't feel right about it at work. Though my other co-worker does this. I've been getting out of my comfort zone a bit more. I usually will wear them as pants on the weekend, just hanging around the house, work outs, and errands. I've been trying more at work lately.

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posted January 31, 2022 09:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Do we count trine, sextile?

Leggings are probably my favorite clothes. But I still try to cover up my bottom at least half way. Also, they should be good quality, thick fabric so it doesn’t reveal too much. At work, I wear them with jackets or a long dress shirt.

Actually, I had a guy at work who wore very tight pants. I thought how it was possible the guy had tighter pants than all the girls around. I couldn’t believe it was comfortable for him. Especially, he often needed to bend or carry something around. Sometimes, it was pretty indecent for work environment when he bent forward in his tight pants and his underwear was out also. I didn’t need to see his bottom part that often, but he was in a good shape,
I thought one day I was gonna make a joke about it and would end in HR for sexual harassment lol

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I giggled when I read about your co-worker!

Yeah I have been getting more comfortable with wearing them coving half the bottom.

I remember a girl wearing a short t shirt w/ leggings. I swear I saw her arse jiggle.
I am more open minded with good quality material.

When leggings were starting to be cool/normal I had flashback to stirrup pants! I hated those pants when I was little. Having a strap on my foot bugged me.

I have more leggings than jeans and sweat pants now...in every color but yellow!

posted February 01, 2022 06:47 AM            

I have scorpio mars and Saturn conjunct and scorpio MC, and a 5th house stellium. I started dating late I would say, but even before I was interested in guys there was always someone "in love" with me. I remember one guy, when I was 14 he was from another school but came almost every day at my school and would watch me trough the window while I was having class. It was a bit creepy to me, since I really haven't been interested in romantic relationships yet, haven't even kissed at that age I think.
Then there was another at my school who would stalk me to the library trying to stand or sit next to me. I was quite intimidated by him also, since he seemed a bit obsessed, even tho I told him I was not interested.

Sadly, or luckily none of the obsessed guys ever, (end there were few more over the years) , interested me.
There was another that confessed to me years later (in our mid 20's) , that I inhabited all his sexual fantasies since elementary school (we were schoolmates for 11years). I was shocked, since I had no idea he liked me that way, he never said or did anything about it before, we were even friends at one point.

I never felt very sexy or very attractive until my 30's, I mean I think I was/am normal in that sense, nothing extra but I can be very intense. I noticed how I usually make an impact on people, good or bad, but they will remember me.

And I also had my own obsessions or deep passions over my life. And I usually always got what I wanted in the end. I was in love and waiting for a guy for 5 years for us to be finally together. In that sense I'm a true scorpio, when I want and fixate on something, it will be mine eventually. However what I want is not always the best for me and I got trough a fair amount of pain in my romantic and sexual relationships.