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Topic: Are Capricorn women prone to cheating and lying in a relationship?
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Craig747 Newflake Posts: 19 From: South Africa Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 20, 2015 01:58 AM
My Capricorn girlfriend and I have been together for a few months, and I would like to know if Cap ladies are prone to cheating and lying in relationships.IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 6131 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted March 20, 2015 02:27 AM
Capricorns are noted for loyalty and practicality so I would think not (though loyalty isn't easily won with a Cappie and practicality usually keeps them from committing so fast). Furthermore, they're supposed to care about their reputation and it's harder for a woman to spin cheating in a positive way.Of course there is so much more to consider than just the sun sign as well as how the entire chart goes together...and factors outside of astrology that mold and tweak the potential she was born with (her upbringing, circumstances, etc), and also the synastry between your two charts (though my impression is a Cappie would end a relationship before cheating, speaking strictly of Capricorn energy). IP: Logged |
Craig747 Newflake Posts: 19 From: South Africa Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 20, 2015 02:30 AM
Thanks for the reply.. I posted her chart in the Personal Readings section, if maybe you could please have a look at it.IP: Logged |
Odette Moderator Posts: 5150 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 20, 2015 02:38 AM
Do you have reasons to doubt her honesty or are you being paranoid?Just how much Scorpio do you have in your chart?  jk jk IP: Logged |
Craig747 Newflake Posts: 19 From: South Africa Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 20, 2015 02:44 AM
Well, I've got a Scorpio Moon, and a Scorpio Uranus, hehe.IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues Knowflake Posts: 538 From: The future... or the past. I get them confused... Registered: May 2014
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posted March 20, 2015 04:44 AM
I don't know about prone. Capable... many people are in the correct circumstances...:.(
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Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 334 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted March 20, 2015 04:54 AM
Not capricorns but the other signs in her chart (aquarius and sagittarius) are known to be prone to do that. I think she is a girl that likes to keep things "casual" and not so serious, and to keep her interest i think you need to be unconventional, detached and different in some way. Take her on trips, travel with her, be funny and make her laugh venus in sags love that. Be more of a "buddy" rather than a "lover" the aquarius in her will be attracted to that and i think her eyes will be glued on you if you do this haha. Aqua influenced people are very independent and likes space so often times bc of this alot of romantic partners can doubt them and think they dont care or have someone else when they actually do care they just like space and aren`t really of the clingy kind, they also tend to treat their lovers as friends and this can also confuse their romantic partners.IP: Logged |
Craig747 Newflake Posts: 19 From: South Africa Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 20, 2015 05:13 AM
Well, so far she likes to keep things serious - like she's already talking about marriage.. I try to make her laugh, but she's liking the fact that I'm her lover, and she's very affectionate.. She doesn't seem to need her space too much, as we see each other every Tuesday night, and she spends the weekends at my place. And she seems to treat me as much more than a friend.IP: Logged |
Craig747 Newflake Posts: 19 From: South Africa Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 20, 2015 05:14 AM
It just worries me that you say the Aqua and Sag in her chart may cause her to cheat and lie.IP: Logged |
LexusVirgo Knowflake Posts: 133 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 20, 2015 05:21 AM
I have alot of leo in my chart it suppose to make me faithfull back when I was young I was the opposite so Do not count on signs. Its more of the aspects to the planets. See I have venus in leo it would have made me faithfull if it was not for the pesky venus sqaure pluto and opposite jupiter in my chart which made me have a lot of secret love affairs. But even then there is always free will.IP: Logged |
Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 334 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted March 20, 2015 05:21 AM
quote: Originally posted by Craig747: It just worries me that you say the Aqua and Sag in her chart may cause her to cheat and lie.
Yeah that is why i said keep it casual and not so serious bc those two signs like it like that. As soon as you get all clingy possesive they might run out the door. How do you behave around her? are you more "buddy" like or more "emotional lovey dovey" like? IP: Logged |
Craig747 Newflake Posts: 19 From: South Africa Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 20, 2015 05:24 AM
More emotional lovey dovey like, but we both seem to be like that.. She's very affectionate.IP: Logged |
Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 334 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted March 20, 2015 05:32 AM
It has to be something detached "hard to reach" about you since she is attracted to you, haha. You might give out a detached vibe without being aware of it haha. But nah i dont know then, what aspects does she have to her venus, mars and moon, are any of the water planets (neptune, moon or pluto ) making any aspects to these? and what houses are her planets in?IP: Logged |
Craig747 Newflake Posts: 19 From: South Africa Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 20, 2015 05:43 AM
Actually I'm not sure how to read a chart myself, lol. But here's her chart in the link. http://i1244.photobucket.com/albums/gg574/craignic1/Untitled_zpsvd8kyjkt.jpg IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 4615 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 20, 2015 07:21 AM
To be honest there are many factors. Even beyond the natal chart. But to generalize and give my opinion, no. Caps that I've known are all loyal and devoted to their families. My sister is no question extremely faithful. Cap sun Libra moon (called courtesan moon) Sag Venus Scorpio mars I think you shouldn't worry. I'm all for taking in what a chart points to but don't let it be absolute truth. Just enjoy your relationship! Looking for theses clues only puts your focus somewhere that it doesn't need to be. Putting your focus there CAN itself turn into a self-fulfilled prophecy. Relax, enjoy it! IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 4259 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 20, 2015 08:02 AM
Hello Craig747! Welcome to LL  ------------------ "There ain't no revolution, only evolution, but every time I'm in Georgia I 'eat a peach' for peace." Duane Allman IP: Logged |
7ate9 Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Registered: Nov 2014
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posted March 20, 2015 08:07 AM
Mate, everything you said in this thread makes it come out as you have no reason at all to suspect her faithfulness. People need to be trusting on instinct rather than suspicious, especially if there hasn't been any indicators of shady behavior.  IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9754 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 20, 2015 08:58 AM
Her chart doesn't active my cheater alarm, actually I'd be surprised if she was one. ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 2945 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted March 20, 2015 09:07 AM
Aqua Mars..............is she kinky???? I kid I will offer a different view. I, as a Capricorn Moon, have cheated quite a few times BUT, not with malicious intent-not an excuse, I know-but things were difficult for me in the past for various reasons and I needed an "out" from some of them. Problem with me is that I am very "Uranian" and if I feel stagnant or bored my heart will wander elsewhere. I need a partner that can keep me on my toes and make me guess what's next. I also have venus sq uranus which have been talked about much on here. Neither Aquarius nor Capricorn are "cheating" signs in my book and I am the only Cap-something I know that have cheated. Capricorns need security and stability and Aquarius just need their own imaginary "freedom" to pursue Utopia. If left alone with whatever it is they love doing they won't stray and will love you more for it! Oh one more thing: I have noticed with certain Aquas that what works for them is NOT FOR YOU TO DO!! So if hubby/wife spends all night out with 124 friends drinking away at 34 bars, it won't be appreciated were you to do the same..but that is just personal experience. IP: Logged |
Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 334 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted March 20, 2015 10:08 AM
quote: Originally posted by charlie: Aqua Mars..............is she kinky???? I kid I will offer a different view. I, as a Capricorn Moon, have cheated quite a few times BUT, not with malicious intent-not an excuse, I know-but things were difficult for me in the past for various reasons and I needed an "out" from some of them. Problem with me is that I am very "Uranian" and if I feel stagnant or bored my heart will wander elsewhere. I need a partner that can keep me on my toes and make me guess what's next. I also have venus sq uranus which have been talked about much on here. Neither Aquarius nor Capricorn are "cheating" signs in my book and I am the only Cap-something I know that have cheated. Capricorns need security and stability and Aquarius just need their own imaginary "freedom" to pursue Utopia. If left alone with whatever it is they love doing they won't stray and will love you more for it! Oh one more thing: I have noticed with certain Aquas that what works for them is NOT FOR YOU TO DO!! So if hubby/wife spends all night out with 124 friends drinking away at 34 bars, it won't be appreciated were you to do the same..but that is just personal experience.
This is so true. My brother is a aquarius sun with venus and mars in capricorn and he seems to not be able to stay faithful and i think this comes from uranus and neptune making aspects to his venus and mars. My brother even told my friend that he loves his gf but that he dont know why he cant stay away from other females. Another boy i know is also an aqua with moon in capricorn conjunct uranus and neptune and venus in pisces and he to have a tendency to get bored with relationships that gets too stable and predictiable and start wandering off to "places" he shouldn`t go. I have noticed alot of capricorn influenced people around my generation haven`t lived up to the "devoted uber faithful" qualities this sign is known to be and i think this comes from neptune and uranus often tend to conjunct their planets.
And its soooo true about the part that they want you to allow them to do something is not always something they will allow you. But i have to disagree though about aquas not being a cheating sign, all the aqua influenced people i have come in contact with have cheated unfortunately, esp aqua venus males i have seen tend to have a hard time being faithful.
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venus2tinkerbell Knowflake Posts: 655 From: New York, New York, USA Registered: Nov 2014
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posted March 20, 2015 10:27 AM
Have you considered your Scorpio Moon in this equation?I love Scorpio everything, especially Moon, but they are prone to suspicion, paranoia, and are some of the best relationship saboteurs. A Scorp Moon that isn't self aware can really cause SO much pain. I say this because everything you've said about her is good. So I wonder why you are asking. It just doesn't seem like a general astrology inquiry. It's so specific it has to be inspired by something... Your Moon maybe? sorry edited several times... IP: Logged |
12muddy Knowflake Posts: 2133 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 20, 2015 04:37 PM
One thing I notice in her chart is venus-neptune conjunction. I have it too in capricorn. I read that it may make the natives idealize love and hence they can become easily disappointed. That description describes me pretty well. I realize that to some people it's common to have such worries, especially at the beginning of a relationship. But if I knew that my partner/lover "worries" about me cheating, I'd start to feel disappointed and my affection would fade. Idk whether or not it applies to the lady you're dating, but yeah it's something you may want to think about. IP: Logged |
GypseeWind Knowflake Posts: 6203 From: Love Street, she lingers long on Love Street.. Registered: May 2009
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posted March 20, 2015 11:31 PM
My husband admitted that he cheated on me throughout our entire marriage. He's cap sun/venus, cancer moon/asc and libra mars.IP: Logged |
Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 169 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 21, 2015 12:08 AM
Let me ask you something Craig, does your girlfriend have her Venus aspecting Juno? IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 2275 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted March 21, 2015 04:59 AM
The younger Cappies I know, mostly guys, all cheat. However, they are very committed to their relationships/wives/families.IMO, Capricorn seeks quality is all things. If their relationship is good they will hold on to it. If the sex in that relationship is mediocre...they will go looking for good sex. IP: Logged |