posted April 22, 2015 07:33 PM            

And they can be slippery. Fish need to swim, and (metaphorically speaking) if you try to hold one in your hand they have an instinct to jump back into the water. In more practical terms, don't smother them or they'll almost certainly swim away as fast as they can.

Again, that's speaking strictly of Pisces energy.

posted April 22, 2015 07:53 PM            

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From my experience Pisces influenced men carry at least one of these traits - erratic, wonderfully kind, imaginative, aloof

But as you know he's more than his Sun sign

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posted April 22, 2015 09:20 PM            

but anyways. string of gfs lasting 4-6 months. had one serious one that broke his heart (they have a kid together) and after that just gf after gf. his first love (pre baby mama) the break up had him attempt suicide ffs. now no one knows really what he's aiming for when he goes out. whether he's looking for a proper girl to wife up (he's mid thirties now) or if he's just going fishing and see how it goes.

loves to know everyone's business and kinda slag them off for it but doesn't tell anyone much of his private feelings or anything like that. i catch glimpses of it though but in the end he covers it up real quick. definitely the 'all up in his feelings' type under all that bad boy lover boy thing he's going .

at the end of the day though - great father, great friend, great family member. all around good guy.

posted April 23, 2015 12:19 AM            

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Originally posted by swampys:
I'm dating one. And I used to hate Pisces with a passion but he's the love of my life. I'd like to know more about Pisces men.

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Good for you, everyone should give all signs a chance, never understood the I hate certain signs. Every sign works differently for every chart holder, but there is some traits that seem to occur much more frequently for each sign.

First it depends, because Pisces can be a strong Pisces or have Aries, Aquarius strong too, plus Mars can be in any sign, this can change a man quite a bit. One thing is all Pisces are sensitive (this doesn't always mean emotions, it means how they react to stimuli and situations, it will always be heighten in some way) even the ones who pretend they're not. So if you're not use to the sensitivity, it can be a problem. Another thing, all Pisces have a different interior life than they project, lots of stuff going on behind the scenes, for Pisces men this is doubly so -- this is the World they go to when working things out, they like to go here a lot. Since society tends not to accept the yin in them, most Pisces men keep this area close to the heart. Those are a few things I have seen in all Pisces regardless of chart.

posted April 23, 2015 01:38 AM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
[B]Kurt Kobain!/B]

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Yes.. He "is" the Piscean poster boy!

Although there is a guy named "Neptune" out there who might challenge him for the title one day!

posted April 23, 2015 03:09 AM            

Aloof?yes (but not in a Cap/Aqua way)
Puzzling? Yes(but not in a Aqua way)
Spiritual? Yes(But not in a Sag way).
Recluse? Yes(But not in a Cap/Aqua way).

posted April 23, 2015 06:27 AM            

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Pisces will befriend you first before dropping hints that he's interested, whether it's a guy or a girl. They can be fake too just to avoid conflict and hurting others.

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posted April 23, 2015 07:22 AM            

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Originally posted by neptunicity:
Pisces will befriend you first before dropping hints that he's interested, whether it's a guy or a girl. They can be fake too just to avoid conflict and hurting others.

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I met him about a week before he asked me out.

posted April 23, 2015 11:52 PM            

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I met him about a week before he asked me out.

I thought he was an officemate, classmate, etc. anyone that you knew beforehand. If you guys met in a public place like in a mall, then asking the girl out is expected to be able to get to know each other. If you did not start out as friends first, then he isn't the typical Pisces.

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posted April 24, 2015 01:50 AM            

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Originally posted by swampys:
I'm dating one. And I used to hate Pisces with a passion but he's the love of my life. I'd like to know more about Pisces men.

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My first looove was a Pisces Sun, Moon, Merc and Venus.

And he was drop dead gorgeous.. I think he knew it.

It only lasted about a year and a half- we were so

young and he was soo irresponsible (which I took personally)

that I left him.

But for the most part, we got along really well.

Very easy energy to be around (huge for me), and just fun.

I highly recommend.

What's your Sun/Moon? And what's his Moon?

Venus? Etc?

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Nothing is permanent in this wicked world; not even our troubles.

posted April 24, 2015 03:42 AM            

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Why do Pisces, in particular, like to be friends before they are lovers?

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I think it's because we want to be sure that we really know the person before we commit to them. Rather than getting to know them as a couple, then getting annoyed once the annoying trait unravels, and then drop them like a hot potato because I didn't know them well enough before entering in a relationship. Not cool, right? I notice that the guys think that way too when a fellow Pisces happened to be interested in me. He befriended me first. He wasn't my type though, and he sensed it when he attempted to ask me out, hehe.

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Originally posted by swampys:
I met him online and we were acquaintances probably more than friends for that week. Then he asked me to be his girlfriend a couple days after I told him I had a crush on him. I move very fast! We live in different countries so hanging out to get to know each other wasn't an option.

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posted April 24, 2015 05:02 AM            

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Originally posted by neptunicity:
That's a tricky one. If he's a teen, that's common. Look at his chart too, he might have planets in Aries or Gemini or Saggitarius.

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He's 37, 16 years older than me...
He has Neptune in Sagittarius, Jupiter in Gemini. What does that mean?

posted April 26, 2015 11:48 PM            

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Originally posted by neptunicity:
The age gap is huge! Lol. I think since you're from different countries, unless he intends to visit you, then you just take this one lightly. Most guys also "give in" easily if a girl that they find attractive is interested in them.

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posted April 27, 2015 01:30 AM            

They are the sweetest, most considerate, romantic men EVER. I mean this is the guy who will rub your back when you have cramps, drive in the night when you have cravings, watch movies with you for 45 hours straight when you're disgusted with the world at large... he will be your very best friend and emerge/entwine himself into your life so easily and thoroughly that you'll wonder how you ever got along without him.
And the sex is so dreamy, not as steamy as Scorpio, but definitely sweeter and more romantic. This guy is ruled by Neptune after all...

So then there's the secrets. Again like Scorpio except in my experience Scorpios secrets seem to revolve around sex and obsession, whereas Pisces revolves more around; drugs, excess, duplicity and lies.
Pisces and lying are often words found in the same sentence. I asked my Pisces daughter about this and she said it's never meant to hurt, but more so to PREVENT hurt. But me being a Sag wonders why you have to protect me from anything had you been honest in the first place.

My first love was a pisces and I've wrote about him here at length before in other pisces men threads... but our dreamlike romance ended abruptly when he tried to commit suicide in front of me and was consequently taken to the hospital. While there I was informed by the police that he was on the run from a crime he committed in Texas and the vehicle he was driving me around in was stolen in the commission of a crime. Also I was informed of his I.V. drug addiction. That's the way my romance crashed and burned, but I would not change a moment of it as that's how beautiful time spent in love with a pisces can be.

In my experience pisces seem to end up with Earth women for longish times, though they seem to be attracted to fire personalities. They kind of recharge their batteries after burning the candle at both ends (which they excel at) by being taken care of by Earth women.