posted June 15, 2015 02:32 AM            

They're loyal in their way. If they really like and and decided on you, they will stick with you. But they're dry logical so you won't really get any seething love from them, just cookie cutter hallmark card kinda stuff. They move on fast and they are serial monogamists.

The reason I hate them is because they are just too logical when it comes to love and they always have an obsession with beauty in themselves, other men, and women. They preen too much for my liking and are too caug up in how they look. They care too much about their clothes and hair and how they smell... They will compare themselves with other men constantly and act nasty if they feel insecure, like mean towards me because he saw a man that was more attractive than him...They're constantly checking out other women. And judging them relentlessly even thought owe women are way outta thier league. The one I was with demanded I love him but he just didn't have the depth of emotion for me to feel anything for him, and that make him mad and spiteful.

posted June 15, 2015 03:00 AM            

The Libra men I've known (at least knew well) weren't cheaters. However, I'll agree that they're more sweet than passionate when it comes to romance, and they can also be moody and second guess themselves which can make them seem distant, especially if you want the type of guy common in romance novels who becomes obsessed with you and out of control with passion (yet men who seem to live up to the fantasy often turn into more of a nightmare than a fantasy fulfilled, and they also can't be domesticated as such men are in romantic fiction).

That said, we're not all like cookies that have been cut with a cutter into a specific shape to fit our sun sign (and other aspects). There's a lot of nuances both to the many aspects and transits and also to the individual and as a result they can vary a lot. Even conjoined twins born the same exact time and space and raised together will show variations from each other. Bottom line is if you're happy with your Libra man for nearly 3 years now then chances are (especially with those placements) he's a good catch for you and you shouldn't worry about the generalizations you read about.

posted June 15, 2015 11:39 AM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
I might be a little bias here, but I recently just found out a Libra guy who I was seeing for two months was married. He is Libra Sun, Aquarius Moon, and Venus Scorpio. His wife said to me that he has cheated on her many times, even a month after they first got married. And she said to me he even teaches his guy friends how to talk to women. He is very charming, good with his words, and even though he isn't drop dead handsome, he know how to get what or who he wants with his charisma.

I know another Libra sun and Venus Scorpio who thinks he's a playboy. Literally, he calls himself Romeo. I think Tiger Woods has these placements as well and he is a cheater as well.

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Sorry to hear what happened to you polkadotstars. What was his mars placement? I wonder if his Aquarius moon had any influence in his behavior.

I believe Tiger Woods is a Capricorn sun.

posted June 15, 2015 01:03 PM            

I never seriously thought I would end up with a libra-guy though, because I am a virgo myself:P

But I like that he is so easy to be around, he really loves being in a partnership and he is very kind in everything he does The same to be said about the other male-libras I've met.

posted June 15, 2015 01:04 PM            

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Originally posted by CosmiqPhuz:
Sorry to hear what happened to you polkadotstars. What was his mars placement? I wonder if his Aquarius moon had any influence in his behavior.

I believe Tiger Woods is a Capricorn sun.

Libra and Scorpio are both pretty sexual signs. If someone primarily has planets in those signs, there's a lot of pent up sexual energy if there's no outlet.

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posted June 15, 2015 01:12 PM            

Sure they have less favourable traits too. But most of the time I can tolerate those pretty well especially in friendship. In romance it's a little harder, but the one I'm with doesn't have a lot of those traits so it's all good. I've learned to deal with them, and many of them have helped to smooth out my rough edges.

posted June 15, 2015 02:52 PM            

The best part of our relationship, is how completely besotted with each other we are.

Everywhere and anywhere can be a good place/time to make out. He never says" No". And I can't either.

We have Venus/Mars exact conjunct in Libra- supported by his Sun/Saturn conjunct too.

The not so great part is when he brushes off the uncomfortable anger stuff-which I find odd for a Scorpio Moon.

Sometimes I'll want to express myself a certain way and he'll critique me on how I could have handled this better and how that behaviour was inappropriate etc.

But I think the nature of our relationship is a culmination of the natal aspects between us.

posted June 15, 2015 05:08 PM            

I'm constantly bemused by Libras generally. I think they're very "top show" and although can be quite fun, can be shallow.

posted June 15, 2015 06:20 PM            

Only one was distant, but that was because of planets in aspect to his Sun. Generally, Libras are highly social and can be flirtatious. The ones I've known that weren't monogamous were open and honest about it, so I don't consider this "cheating."