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Topic: I hate having Venus in Scorpio
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Dreaminess
Knowflake Posts: 665
From: norway
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 11, 2015 07:38 PM
  
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Originally posted by DopGang:
Sounds a bit dramatic.
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Neptune is also involved. I've not seen Scorpio behave this way. Though we all believe that they do. With exes and such, sure.
But the dreamy, "lost in you though I don't know you" sounds like Neptune being a bugger.
Haha so true about neptune 
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SDragon
Moderator Posts: 521
From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted August 11, 2015 10:31 PM
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Originally posted by StillTippin:
Our Venus, takes love serious. That causes us some wounds, deep wounds that change us into manipulators or lovers. Pain teaches us how to love as pain is the outdated fading away. Took me a while, but I came to terms with the real way this Venus works.
love this statement. Sounds very transcendent. IP: Logged |
ReadingTheStars95
Knowflake Posts: 721
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posted August 11, 2015 10:42 PM
I'm kind of surprised no one has mentioned the Chiron-Venus conjunction....?To me, I think that could be part of where the dislike of having a Scorpio Venus is coming from. Anyways.. I wish both you and her the best man.. Good luck. 
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Comatoes
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posted August 11, 2015 11:53 PM
Well, nothing in a chart is a accident, you should love your Venus Scorpio, in this life you need intense love and bonding. Your whole life is about intensity and how far you go in mastering it. Scorpio is about mastery and not letting things get so out of control it destroys your inner core and stagnates you. Scorpios need to reflect before they go after something, really find out why you need this person so much. I know love is blind, infinite etc. but everyone should look at the why.IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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From: nevada
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posted August 11, 2015 11:56 PM
Hello FridayThe13th! Welcome to LL  ------------------
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Geeky
Knowflake Posts: 1514
From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 12, 2015 06:31 AM
I have Venus in Scorpio and I don't feel like I have enough motivation to be this obsessed about anyone. *lol*------------------
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MineAgain
Knowflake Posts: 1916
From: A place where dreams come true
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted August 12, 2015 06:45 AM
I have Venus in Scorpio and I can be extremely obsessive at times but only from afar. On the surface, the person may feel as though I don't care about them at all but behind closed doors, I think of them 24/7. I can be rather possessive and daydream a lot but I don't act on my impulses. I think my Gemini placements allow me to have some detachment and behave like a volcano. Calm on the outside, burning hot on the inside. That's why I only obsess from a distance. Most of my crushes never knew I liked them. I still like one of my "exes" and he'll never know about it. IP: Logged |
Isa
Knowflake Posts: 94
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posted August 12, 2015 11:16 AM
It's "ok" to be obsessive while actually in a relationship with that person.But it seems our friend here doens't even know her yet. IP: Logged |
MineAgain
Knowflake Posts: 1916
From: A place where dreams come true
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted August 12, 2015 11:30 AM
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Originally posted by Isa:
It's "ok" to be obsessive while actually in a relationship with that person.But it seems our friend here doens't even know her yet.
That is a little more concerning. I have a 5th House Scorpio Stellium and it never crossed my mind to stalk someone I'm dating, let alone, a stranger. When I say "stalking", I'm not talking about Facebook. I'm talking about physical stalking. I think this is not solely due to Venus in Scorpio. We're intense folks, but within reasonable limits.
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DopGang
Knowflake Posts: 702
From: <--------- over there.
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted August 12, 2015 11:38 AM
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Originally posted by MineAgain:
I think this is not solely due to Venus in Scorpio. We're intense folks, but within reasonable limits.
Exactly.
I've stalked, physically, a few people. No intent other than the stalking itself. It was like any other thing you do to relieve stress. LOL weird, I know. I don't have Venus in Scorpio. Neptune though. I'm telling you, people underestimate it! I wonder what it's doing in his chart! IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted August 12, 2015 12:17 PM
OP is young (Pluto in sag) and I think you should take a step back. It's not healthy. You also has Saturn in Aries square Neptune and Saturn retrograde. So your sense of structures and disciplines is hard to attain and is fogged by Neptune. This life time you need to come to terms with reality in order to understand your sense of self (Aries).You don't even know her and she might turn out to be someone who is not as perfect as you think. This is what many young Scorpio Venus haven't learned. Mercury in 8th widely conjunction Pluto is obsessive thinking. And ruler of Pluto is Jupiter in 12th. You should look into these placements because your Jupiter is retrograde, so lessons/beliefs about boundaries have to go through a long process to reach something healthy.
I attract several Scorpio-heavy ppl and boy, they do get obsessive ONCE they know me but they have too much pride to actually stalk someone they just barely know. Like OP, they do their research included Facebook and Google and observing from a far but even when I get to know them, they still test me up and down. It's hardly described as "end road" situation.
So my point is OP needs to look beyond your Scorpio Venus. Chiron and that 8th stellium and Neptune must be doing something and if OP is not careful, Saturn is gonna come in and show Neptune the door. IP: Logged |
FridayThe13th
Newflake Posts: 16
From: Singapore
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted August 23, 2015 04:29 AM
I just noticed the girl I've been stalking has a Scorpio Venus too!IP: Logged |
ReadingTheStars95
Knowflake Posts: 721
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Registered: Jun 2014
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posted August 23, 2015 05:38 AM
quote:
Originally posted by FridayThe13th:
I just noticed the girl I've been stalking has a Scorpio Venus too!
xD xD xD IP: Logged |
Nine
Moderator Posts: 2417
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 23, 2015 09:42 AM
Are you sure this is Venus in Scorpio, and not your Mars conjunct Moon behavior?Venus is attraction, not pursuit. IP: Logged |
CosmiqPhuz
Knowflake Posts: 326
From: Lititz, PA, USA
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted August 23, 2015 06:37 PM
quote:
Originally posted by FridayThe13th:
I just noticed the girl I've been stalking has a Scorpio Venus too!
Man, talk about venus in scorpio overload! Is her address number 666 too?
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Swift Freeze
Moderator Posts: 707
From: One World
Registered: Nov 2009
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posted August 23, 2015 07:19 PM
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Originally posted by Isa:
It's "ok" to be obsessive while actually in a relationship with that person.But it seems our friend here doens't even know her yet.
Someone should warn the authorities. ------------------
Learn lots. Don't judge. Laugh for no reason. Be nice. Seek Happiness. Follow your dreams. IP: Logged |
ScorpAqua
Knowflake Posts: 54
From: Australia
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 24, 2015 01:09 AM
I'm glad to be a Scorpio with Venus in Sagittarius. None of this stalker business thank you very much! IP: Logged |
Selenite
Knowflake Posts: 713
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 24, 2015 05:34 AM
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Originally posted by Comatoes:
Your whole life is about intensity and how far you go in mastering it.
I like this
Scorpio Venus-IC, Mars-Pluto(Scorpio) square and I swear I will repeat this to myself every single day now, thank you.
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FridayThe13th
Newflake Posts: 16
From: Singapore
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted August 25, 2015 03:55 AM
Her Mars is in Virgo and Moon is in Taurus.. I have a chance on this one. She's mine.IP: Logged |
CosmiqPhuz
Knowflake Posts: 326
From: Lititz, PA, USA
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 11:53 AM
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Originally posted by FridayThe13th:
Her Mars is in Virgo and Moon is in Taurus.. I have a chance on this one. She's mine.
Go for it man! IP: Logged |
Belage
Knowflake Posts: 1604
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 25, 2015 07:33 PM
I used to want to have Venus in Scorpio, but after reading this thread, not so much anymore. I hope OP doesn't have natal Pluto squaring or opposing the prey's personal planets. IP: Logged |
Odette
Moderator Posts: 6016
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posted August 26, 2015 07:25 AM
This is the only Venus I truly love.. so you shouldn't hate it.
As Venuses go, it's pretty damn awesome!IP: Logged |
DopGang
Knowflake Posts: 702
From: <--------- over there.
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted August 26, 2015 07:30 AM
It's a great Venus!
Of three that I've been in love relationships with, none of them EVER displayed any traits anything like what's going on in this thread. (One a Scorpio sun also) Maybe I got lucky? IP: Logged |
theunknown
Knowflake Posts: 2224
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 26, 2015 10:07 AM
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Originally posted by DopGang:
It's a great Venus!
Of three that I've been in love relationships with, none of them EVER displayed any traits anything like what's going on in this thread. (One a Scorpio sun also) Maybe I got lucky?
I know several of them. Two are Scorpio moons. They don't do this kinds of things at all UNTIL they know you. And actually the Scorpio sun I know has less tendency than the other ones. So it's pounds like just OP and not astrology IP: Logged |
DopGang
Knowflake Posts: 702
From: <--------- over there.
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted August 26, 2015 10:13 AM
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Originally posted by theunknown:
I know several of them. Two are Scorpio moons. They don't do this kinds of things at all UNTIL they know you. And actually the Scorpio sun I know has less tendency than the other ones. So it's pounds like just OP and not astrology
Yeah, one tried to hack my fb for six months but it's a long story. That one I can't say is down to her Scorpio Venus. What I did was far worse. LOL
I think that was a mild reaction for anyone. IP: Logged |
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