posted August 16, 2015 10:10 AM            

I finally experienced it the other night! My Mars at 1 degree Cancer and his ASC at 5 degrees Cancer. We went on a date and walked around an old historic town together after having dinner. Now, here's what I felt.

I immediately found him attractive. Like, very attractive. Physically perfect in fact. Perfect height, perfect figure, perfect face. Just 100% my physical type. I told my friends afterward he was just "beautiful." That's the only way I can describe it.

But more than that, halfway through our date I found myself wanting to kiss him. That may not seem like a big deal, but for me it is. I never feel that way on a first date. I may find someone attractive, but regardless, I never feel the urge to kiss them on the first date. If it happens, it's because they initiate it. The thought of kissing him just consumed me for the rest of the night!

At the end of the night when we hugged goodbye, I even lingered hoping he would make a move which is SO unlike me! I usually just give a pat on the back and then drive away lol. He didn't make a move, I think because he had a cold and didnt want to get me sick. But it was just such a strange feeling to want to kiss someone that badly!

We've been talking more, and I'm not quite sure I like other things about him as much as I like him physically, but we'll see. I just wanted to share my Mars/Ascendant synastry story!

posted August 16, 2015 10:24 AM            

Mars can give minimalistic urgency.

I have met two people with Libra rising.And I wanted to get both into bed(Mars in Libra)

An ex had his Venus in Aries and he was drawn to me.And I to him.

I felt an intense sexual attraction for a Capricorn who had his Mars in Aries. And he felt it too.

I think it goes both ways actually.

posted August 16, 2015 10:30 AM            

Ive had other Mars on my ASC and didn't feel much tbh. But Mars in Sag or Mars in Cancer gets me going lol

posted August 16, 2015 10:31 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Well,I am a guy. And I'll give you both my experiences

Mars can give minimalistic urgency.

I have met two people with Libra rising.And I wanted to get both into bed(Mars in Libra)

An ex had his Venus in Aries and he was drawn to me.And I to him.

I felt an intense sexual attraction for a Capricorn who had his Mars in Aries. And he felt it too.

I think it goes both ways actually.

I haven't experienced the Venus/Asc attraction though i.e My Venus being attracted to someone's Asc .

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posted August 16, 2015 10:33 AM            

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Originally posted by NYCdodger:
I know a female with her Mars touching my ASC. The feelings are there but we have other things going on so i can't be quick to say its just because of that.

Ive had other Mars on my ASC and didn't feel much tbh. But Mars in Sag or Mars in Cancer gets me going lol

My MC is in Sag, and whenever a woman has her Mars in Cancer it squares my Moon in Libra and conjuncts my Venus is Cancer

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posted August 16, 2015 10:41 AM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
What degree are your Venus and Mars in?

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Well my Venus is 9 degrees Cancer

My Mars is 10 degrees Taurus.

posted August 16, 2015 10:46 AM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
Is your ASC in Aries also?
I'm assuming you are homosexual? If you aren't attracted to women or feminine energy maybe Venus plays a lesser role in what you find attractive. Would you agree? I've heard that Mars is what you find attractive in men and Venus is what you find attractive in women, regardless of your sexual preference.
My Venus is in Taurus and I do find some Taurus women incredibly beautiful but Taurus men are kind of meh to me.

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Yes, I am a homo...homo...homosexual !!! I think the word is "gay" now And I do have the Ascendant in Aries

I think the energy is more about the sign that that planet is placed. Not necessarily the planet i.e Venus in Aries gets more masculine whilst Mars in Libra gets more "feminine" IME.

With the guys that had Libra rising, they were definitely more "feminine" in appearance i.e moisturized skin,soft spoken ,attention to presentation and smelling good etc. And I found that to be so sexy.

With the one that had Venus in Aries and the other Mars in Aries,I felt a "masculine" aura.

The Venus in Aries attraction started when he talked about his beliefs and morals. I was moved and fascinated.He expressed himself so well.

With the Mars in Aries,I was attracted to how much he had managed to achieve(He also had a Cap Sun). And that he was "self-made".

It was really tricky with both however, as my Mars in Libra found Aries energy very uncomfortable.

posted August 16, 2015 10:46 AM            

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Originally posted by NYCdodger:
Well my Venus is 9 degrees Cancer

My Mars is 10 degrees Taurus.

The girl I was referring to has her Mars in Aqua and my ASC is in Aqua. Then again i haven't had ALOT of Mars in Aqua interactions. I also attract Mars in Leo which sits in my 7th house/DSC

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Oh my Venus is in Taurus and Mars is in cancer! Not conjunct yours either way though. Mars is in 1 degree and Venus is in 21 degrees.

posted August 16, 2015 11:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Yes, I am a homo...homo...homosexual !!! I think the word is "gay" now And I do have the Ascendant in Aries

I think the energy is more about the sign that that planet is placed. Not necessarily the planet i.e Venus in Aries gets more masculine whilst Mars in Libra gets more "feminine" IME.

With the guys that had Libra rising, they were definitely more "feminine" in appearance i.e moisturized skin,soft spoken ,attention to presentation and smelling good etc. And I found that to be so sexy.

With the one that had Venus in Aries and the other Mars in Aries,I felt a "masculine" aura.

The Venus in Aries attraction started when he talked about his beliefs and morals. I was moved and fascinated.He expressed himself so well.

With the Mars in Aries,I was attracted to how much he had managed to achieve(He also had a Cap Sun). And that he was "self-made".

It was really tricky with both however, as my Mars in Libra found Aries energy very uncomfortable.

There were times where I wished there was more refinement in both.

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posted August 16, 2015 11:20 AM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
Oh my Venus is in Taurus and Mars is in cancer! Not conjunct yours either way though. Mars is in 1 degree and Venus is in 21 degrees.

I met a guy where my Mars say right on his DSC and I was NOT attracted to him! It was probably just him though. I don't care what astrology says about whether or not you should be attracted to someone, if they don't take care of themselves it's not happening.

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posted August 16, 2015 11:27 AM            

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Originally posted by NYCdodger:
Trust me, it doesn't have to be conjunct in order to be felt...Im not concerned with orbs as much as everyone else is. If we met, i probably would have asked you for your number, and you probably would have given it to me LOL. Ok I'm done

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posted August 16, 2015 11:30 AM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
Ha! Hmm. Especially since my ASC is in cancer...
*cue sexy music*

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posted August 16, 2015 11:35 AM            

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Originally posted by NYCdodger:
Lol. Well I'm not sure how many ASC in Cancers i have interacted with...wait I'm lying, I know one. We had a huge thing for each other years ago. She approached me first though. Her Mars is in Capricorn which also squares my moon and opposite my venus. I moved so it was never really solidified..

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posted August 16, 2015 11:47 AM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
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Was Mars square Moon rough for you?
It is rough for me when I am the moon. They are really aggressive about the physical but when it comes to an emotional connection I feel very neglected.

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NOPE!! I love it when a Woman's Mars squares my Moon (or is in the same sign as that square).

From my experience, its better when the Man is the Moon and the Woman is the Mars. A lot of guys say the same surprisingly. I think when the Man is the Mars it becomes rough, but when the Woman is the Mars her femininity comes out more and it turns the male Moon "on".

posted August 16, 2015 11:54 AM            

I've had it several times and right now, I can't do without it Luckily for me, I have it with my current guy too! After you experience its energy, you don't want to go back. I think it plays on both sides, ASC has martian energy anyway. It gives for intense attraction and chemistry for both people; and everything happening between the two of you can only be hot, intensified. It is great for physical attraction and compatibility.

For me, Mars is at Libra 0 8th house, conj Pluto; people of my generation have their Pluto there too; but when they bring their ASC, and it happened 3-4 times already, it's more than perfect. His ASC is at 28 Virgo and Pluto nearby too, in Libra The skin burns with this one

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

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posted August 16, 2015 12:47 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
Ha! I'm sorry, not sure what is politically correct these days, but I do try😋

See I know a guy with his sun in Taurus and Venus in Aries, and he does not come off as super masculine to me. He goes for Aries girls and girls who are very aggressive. I always felt he was attracted to me when I would get road rage lol. But he was more passive. He also had his ASC in Libra.

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Its OK . No worries. Everyone is just so afraid of saying the wrong thing Interesting times we living in

Sun in Taurus with Asc in Libra will not come off super "masculine".

But if you talk to him about the things that he values and are dear to him(Venus),he may get more fiery and assertive! This is what I meant by the energy.

Also, it is possible that since both the Asc and Sun are in signs ruled by Venus,the Aries energy is uncomfortable for him.

So he projects it to another i.e has a really assertive person as a close friend, girlfriend or co-worker.

My sister has Sun in Taurus,Venus in Aries and she is her own woman.

posted August 16, 2015 03:55 PM            

His Ascendant/ my Mars

I have this with a childhood friend. I'm not sexually attracted to him at all lol. When we were kids I think he had a crush on me but now as adults there is no such thing. I think of him more as a brother. I've also always found him effeminate and I feel like a butch in his presence (although I'm extremely feminine as a person).

My Ascendant/ his Mars

posted August 16, 2015 04:09 PM            

One night when I was going through a very rough time he cuddled me on his couch and it was one of the sweetest moments I have ever experienced in my life. My partner at the time was severely deep in his heroin relapse and I needed human comfort (I don't have family to help/comfort me). He stroked my ears and face (which I don't think another human has ever done before) and I didn't know it was possible for a man to be so nurturing and sweet (he has some Cancer planets). I have never felt so nurtured as that night and didn't know that it was possible to experience human contact as such (pretty sad I know). I didn't want it to end and i have not experienced human comfort the like since and doubt that I ever will. I haven't seen him since that night but I'll never forget him and how sweet he was to me. It's hard to explain fully. He said many nice things to me besides physical appearance things and did not try to take advantage of me in anyway and considering how vulnerable I was, was extremely surprising. Before we parted that night he told me he would always be a champion for my cause and that his opinion of me was better than my opinion of myself and that wasn't ok and I needed to fix it. What a sweet mature man. Only 27 at the time.