posted September 22, 2015 03:26 PM              

I've posted on this topic before, but there was abit of confusion. Now that I've read up on the topic abit more... I know what I am referring to.

For those who have experienced it, can you remember what happened (in terms of your relationships) when Saturn transited your 7th house?

P.s You may or may not be aware, but I'm a massive fan of AstroLada (YouTube) and she explained that when Saturn transits your 7th house, there's a chance that you may experience some bad karma if the relationships that you have formed up to that point have been naughty/bad.

As of 22 September 2015, I think I am officially karma free. I dealt with quite a few situations when Saturn first went into Sagittarius at the start of the year. Now, I'm excited/nervous to see what Saturn is going to bring me.

So... Talk to me. What happened to you? I would love to hear about your experiences of this transit. Did you break up with a significant other? Get married? Have children? Did you meet someone quite early on in the transit? Did you meet someone after the transit? What kinds of people came into your life and left?

Lots and lots of questions, but relationships are now the focus of my life again and I'm just nervous and feeling like this is either going to be a really really good or really really poo!

Talk to me ☺️

posted September 22, 2015 09:09 PM            

For myself and the other person we're having a similar reaction. Saturn made all my friendships seem superficial and I ceased to maintain them and I'm now living very hermit like compared to how social my life has been up to this point. I don't have any energy for friendship commitments or for dating. Like any guy I'll still get lucky here and there but I've got nothing to give past that.
My commitments are very minimal, which I am enjoying, and I'm learning to be with my own energy. It matches the theme of my life right now if you include the transits of all the outer planets - I'm gearing up for a big move and leaving my old life behind.

The other guy is going through a severe sexual drought and relationship drought despite desperately wanting both. It is on his mind all the time but he can't seem to lock anything down. Saturn must be asking him to review his relating patterns which he has not.

posted September 23, 2015 03:33 AM              

@Koho

In a way, I am kind of where you are. I'm don't feel the need or want to maintain frivolous relationships either; but at the same time, I've changed in the sense that I have expanded my circle (during the last Venus retro), but I'm not compelled to constantly keep up with friends anymore. If we don't talk to eachother for a while, I'm happy with that. I guess my friendships are being redefined in that way, I'm being forced to have more of them but not dependent on them at the same time.

When Saturn first went into my 7th, I was forced to confront a situation and be point blank honest about what I wanted. Even though I felt exposed, I was relieved because I finally felt like the up/down journey would finally be over. I don't have time for GREY area. Either get in line or go away and I hope I've made that clear!

I also started talking to someone who held completely different/extreme views compared to me on a number of issues, at first I tolerated him because my friend suggested that I was being too judgemental and not giving him a chance. However, he quickly crossed the line and I had to remove myself politely. Perhaps I'm realising again that I need to have courage to make decisions about my relationships and stick by them regardless of what people have to say to me or about me.

posted September 23, 2015 04:53 AM            

Then, years later when I first met my husband, he had t saturn on his DSC and I had it coming up on my Asc. We got married whilst saturn was transiting through my 1st house and, as he's got a reasonably small 7th house, t saturn was right on the 7th/8th house cusp.

posted September 23, 2015 10:42 PM            

I noticed that IME, Saturn conjuncts a planet when I have just experienced changes; new work environment, a move etc.

Saturn comes with loneliness. That is one thing that I have come to experience with it- regardless of where its placed, it'll "compress" things of that area.

Often Saturn can have people respond in one of two ways;

1. This is way too hard, I will just do it later when I have the energy.

2. This is really tough and it'll take all my focus and energy. So I must focus on it.

I am the former rather than the latter. I have postponed most things that Saturn touches in my chart-because I thought that they were just too much effort.

So when the transit is in the 7th, you could find yourself having the above responses with regards to this area i.e

1. This relationship/friendship or social contact is just too much effort. I will no longer bother with it now.

2. This relationship/friendship or social contact requires much more attention and effort. I will invest time/energy to it.

Either way however, you are not likely to feel warm and fuzzy.And there will be this feeling of melancholy and internal separation that you feel from even those closest to you.

Those who get married/have children during this time are not doing it because of warm,fuzzy feelings. Oh no.That's Jupiter

They often do it because of fearing growing older alone. Or perhaps as an effort to "grow up" or show some tangible course/ direction their life is taking etc.

Be mindful of the decisions that you make now. As Saturn on the angle(it opposes you Asc and will square your IC/MC axis as it moves) tends to add that "push" towards more structure and permanence.

Personally I'd rather have these decisions made feeling more upbeat and optimistic, than feeling like I have hit by a bus.

posted September 24, 2015 03:32 PM            

My experiences are similar to Koho. I also have Scorpio Pluto Square Sun natally so there was a lot of tests from the authorities. I was reminded of my Sun-Square-Pluto childhood/adolescence phase (I was bullied during these years). Not fun. Though I realize that even though the experiences repeated, I've become stronger and people could not do anything to me.

Transit Pluto was also on my venus and about to come back to my venus once Pluto goes direct tomorrow, so I felt like the whole world was telling me to enter relationships when in the past I have always been preoccupied with work.

I have downsized my friend circle and at the same time am very thankful of my past contacts. I realized how wonderful some people are.

I'm significantly less outgoing. I think Saturn in Scorpio really teaches you to hold your cards close to your chest.

posted September 24, 2015 06:55 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
I've talked about transit Saturn in 7th.

My experiences are similar to Koho. I also have Scorpio Pluto Square Sun natally so there was a lot of tests from the authorities. I was reminded of my Sun-Square-Pluto childhood/adolescence phase (I was bullied during these years). Not fun. Though I realize that even though the experiences repeated, I've become stronger and people could not do anything to me.

Transit Pluto was also on my venus and about to come back to my venus once Pluto goes direct tomorrow, so I felt like the whole world was telling me to enter relationships when in the past I have always been preoccupied with work.

I have downsized my friend circle and at the same time am very thankful of my past contacts. I realized how wonderful some people are.

I'm significantly less outgoing. I think Saturn in Scorpio really teaches you to hold your cards close to your chest.

Someone I know with Taurus Rising just got married while Saturn moved to Sag ... All my friends already foresee that the marriage wont last long. But we will see...

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Yes, my other Taurus rising buddy just can't seem to get the picture - quit trying to date. I sat him down and explained Saturn in the 7th to him and later that week he complained to me about Tinder. My response was a heavy sigh.

posted September 24, 2015 06:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Saturn moving through the cardinal social 7th house is interesting.

I noticed that IME, Saturn conjuncts a planet when I have just experienced changes; new work environment, a move etc.

Saturn comes with loneliness. That is one thing that I have come to experience with it- regardless of where its placed, it'll "compress" things of that area.

Often Saturn can have people respond in one of two ways;

1. This is way too hard, I will just do it later when I have the energy.

2. This is really tough and it'll take all my focus and energy. So I must focus on it.

I am the former rather than the latter. I have postponed most things that Saturn touches in my chart-because I thought that they were just too much effort.

So when the transit is in the 7th, you could find yourself having the above responses with regards to this area i.e

1. This relationship/friendship or social contact is just too much effort. I will no longer bother with it now.

2. This relationship/friendship or social contact requires much more attention and effort. I will invest time/energy to it.

Either way however, you are not likely to feel warm and fuzzy.And there will be this feeling of melancholy and internal separation that you feel from even those closest to you.

Those who get married/have children during this time are not doing it because of warm,fuzzy feelings. Oh no.That's Jupiter

They often do it because of fearing growing older alone. Or perhaps as an effort to "grow up" or show some tangible course/ direction their life is taking etc.

Be mindful of the decisions that you make now. As Saturn on the angle(it opposes you Asc and will square your IC/MC axis as it moves) tends to add that "push" towards more structure and permanence.

Personally I'd rather have these decisions made feeling more upbeat and optimistic, than feeling like I have hit by a bus.

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posted December 20, 2015 09:42 AM              

Yes. It is fair to say that RELATIONSHIPS have been on my mind. However, it's also fair to say that I'm not prepared to settle for relationship imbalances or relationships that cannot provide me with the stability and reassurance that I need!

I don't think I'm a needy person at all. I'm pretty straight forward and self sufficient, but I do like hearing that I'm desirable and good to be around now and again. I'm sure everybody needs verbal affirmation.

So, if I'm ever put in a position where someone doesn't do something for me freely or instinctively... That makes me a little sceptical of their suitability for me. Relationships shouldn't be a struggle. I've had tooooooo many struggle relationships. When you're young, it's cute. When you get older, it's not. There's no long term joy in turmoil.

They shouldn't be obsessive either - with my Pluto-Venus tendencies, I know that I have the ability to go left; but I don't want to be with someone who plays on that. I don't want to be with someone who ignites those tendencies within me.

I definitely recognise my shortcomings... I just don't want to be with someone LONG TERM who keep reminding me of them. Perhaps they are the best relationships (in the short term) for growth; but LONG TERM... No. I need peace. Peace doesn't occur where there is fear!

So, saturn's brief time in Sagittarius has taught me that - so far! And funnily enough, I have been encountering men with CAPRICORN placements (squaring my Moon and Mars - fun) or men who are CAPRICORN suns (which conjunct my Saturn).

posted December 20, 2015 10:46 PM            

So I haven't exactly experienced it yet.

But I have been going through Saturn Squaring my Venus.

It has to be opposing my Asc now.

posted December 21, 2015 05:39 AM              

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Originally posted by LaGioconda:
I met my dream man and fell in love hard!! Met him end of august 2013

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posted December 21, 2015 11:57 AM            

Tbh this position is the best thing that's ever happened to me! I am so so lucky. I have the best job,friends, family, home and I just love everything rn. Except maybe my car, that could go.. But anyways

I just got a BF. ("Another one???") and I didn't want to commit, being psychologically impaired/scarred from my ex. Who was never really an ex... Long story short this guy is just what I needed. Like he is going to be there for me and he wants to make our relationship a real thing .. Where we spend lots of time together and get to know eachother well....

posted December 21, 2015 03:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
Saturn just left my 6th house and is transiting the 7th

Tbh this position is the best thing that's ever happened to me! I am so so lucky. I have the best job,friends, family, home and I just love everything rn. Except maybe my car, that could go.. But anyways

I just got a BF. ("Another one???") and I didn't want to commit, being psychologically impaired/scarred from my ex. Who was never really an ex... Long story short this guy is just what I needed. Like he is going to be there for me and he wants to make our relationship a real thing .. Where we spend lots of time together and get to know eachother well....

What else? Yeah Saturns pretty great. This could also be because my progressed sun conjunct the north mode... Idk 😍

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That sounds like me! Beginning of this year ended a going on 3 yr thing with a guy that didn't want to call me his girlfriend, but would tell people like his dad that I was.