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Topic: Cappy Moon - the submissive female lover
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VestasLight Knowflake Posts: 149 From: Canada Registered: Mar 2015
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posted December 05, 2015 01:04 PM
I found this quote online and wanted to share. I completely resonate with this quote.What about you? "Men often relate to the sexual power of women with the Capricorn moon as a submissive responds to a dominatrix, that is, with the exquisite pleasure of surrender to something stronger and greater than themselves. My take is that this is the way that the Capricorn moon experienced or was subjected to love as a child -- as an extreme submissive. Once this has happened, it's difficult to experience love as anything but an extreme power relationship, or as some kind of struggle for power. Since the moon represents our needs, this is the level on which the phenomenon is experienced. It is safe to say that Cap moon people were not allowed to feel the need to be loved. This can translate into a need, in some people, for sexual power of a very specific kind that may, in the end, have very little to do with actual love. And it's fair to say that it very much needs to, and that the temptation to have it not be so is very much present." --- Eric Francis
Funny enough, my Cappy moon is in the 6th house of servitude and I engage in D/s relationships as a submissive 
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athenaia Knowflake Posts: 587 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted December 05, 2015 01:18 PM
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Spongebob Knowflake Posts: 407 From: Registered: Nov 2015
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posted December 05, 2015 01:26 PM
Capricorn, really?Thats the last sign id think of in connection to submission. Id think pisces or cancer first. Although i have mars in cancer and I'm not submissive AT ALL. IP: Logged |
VestasLight Knowflake Posts: 149 From: Canada Registered: Mar 2015
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posted December 05, 2015 01:27 PM
Lol, athenaia... coat tails...Well, the progress moon can certainly play into that, but Aquarius is known for having a taste for the kinky life. So maybe the combination is creating this? IP: Logged |
VestasLight Knowflake Posts: 149 From: Canada Registered: Mar 2015
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posted December 05, 2015 01:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by Spongebob: Capricorn, really?Thats the last sign id think of in connection to submission. Id think pisces or cancer first. Although i have mars in cancer and I'm not submissive AT ALL.
Yes, Spongebob, really. Not all Cappy moon woman will be full on submissives. The rest of the chart tells the story, but IN GENERAL, Cappy moon woman lean towards being a submissive lover but they aren't necessarily kinky. IP: Logged |
midnightcatqueen Knowflake Posts: 526 From: new york, new york, usa Registered: Feb 2014
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posted December 05, 2015 01:54 PM
woooah!Im a cappy moon and i am no where near submissive in my love life and general life. in fact im an actual professional dominatrix. so....  ------------------ here's a little agit for the never believer IP: Logged |
VestasLight Knowflake Posts: 149 From: Canada Registered: Mar 2015
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posted December 05, 2015 02:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by midnightcatqueen: woooah!Im a cappy moon and i am no where near submissive in my love life and general life. in fact im an actual professional dominatrix. so...
But you know Midnightcatqueen, if your moon has a more dominant house placement AND you have some nice tension aspects between Uranus and/or Pluto with Sun, Venus or Mars that are pulling that moon into them, then it would flip it on its head, turning you into the dominant player! So this makes perfect sense. There is still a power dynamic happening with the Cappy moon.  IP: Logged |
DopGang Knowflake Posts: 2055 From: INTJ Registered: Jun 2015
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posted December 05, 2015 03:00 PM
There's more than moon of course. That said, the two that I remember were not submissive. One was quite aggressive. Both fire mars. LOL IP: Logged |
athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 5788 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 05, 2015 03:15 PM
I'm submissive but only if the man is the type to make me become that way.I have Moon conjunct Neptune in Cap. IP: Logged |
Astra Knowflake Posts: 757 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 05, 2015 03:22 PM
I have a capricorn moon and I'm definitely not submissive. However, my dominance is not "in your face." It's far more subtle. I can get any man or even, women to do what I want by simply asking nicely. I never promise anything in return and yet, they do as I wish.IP: Logged |
VestasLight Knowflake Posts: 149 From: Canada Registered: Mar 2015
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posted December 05, 2015 03:31 PM
So, I think one thing that seems prominent from reading the replies is that IN GENERAL, most Cappies enjoy some sort of power exchange, preferring either dominance or submission (according to the rest of the chart).Of course these are generalizations, just as not EVERY Venus in Scorpio is crazy jealous/possessive. But that theme is there is with Ven in Scorp. So powerplays in the bedroom are a fun theme for Moon in Cappy... Very interesting! IP: Logged |
Spongebob Knowflake Posts: 407 From: Registered: Nov 2015
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posted December 05, 2015 03:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by VestasLight: Yes, Spongebob, really. Not all Cappy moon woman will be full on submissives. The rest of the chart tells the story, but IN GENERAL, Cappy moon woman lean towards being a submissive lover but they aren't necessarily kinky.
I still have to disagree. Capricorn is a cardinal sign, and more of the CEO, chairman of the board type, even the women with the moon is this sign will probably be more dominant natured.
Sure, Cancer is a cardinal sign too, but it's softer, more passive and maternal. I can see this being true about them, but not a Cappy moon. IP: Logged |
athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 5788 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 05, 2015 03:49 PM
Capricorn is a feminine sign so it's not as dominant as some people think.Would it be more dominant than an masculine sign? I don't think it would. IP: Logged |
VestasLight Knowflake Posts: 149 From: Canada Registered: Mar 2015
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posted December 05, 2015 03:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by Spongebob: I still have to disagree. Capricorn is a cardinal sign, and more of the CEO, chairman of the board type, even the women with the moon is this sign will probably be more dominant natured.Sure, Cancer is a cardinal sign too, but it's softer, more passive and maternal. I can see this being true about them, but not a Cappy moon.
Yes, and Cancer is ruled by... the Moon! This can greatly soften the hard cardinal attributes of Cap... Also, take a peek at my last post directly above yours :-) IP: Logged |
VestasLight Knowflake Posts: 149 From: Canada Registered: Mar 2015
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posted December 05, 2015 03:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by athenegoddess: Capricorn is a feminine sign so it's not as dominant as some people think.Would it be more dominant than an masculine sign? I don't think it would.
Nice insight athenegoddess, thank you! I also think because the moon is in it's fall in Cap, it turns the cardinal hardness on its head. Of course, as I've already said - the rest of the chart will dictate the outcome.
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midnightcatqueen Knowflake Posts: 526 From: new york, new york, usa Registered: Feb 2014
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posted December 05, 2015 06:22 PM
And what is a more dominant house placement?My moon is in the 9th Conjunct Neptune/Uranus Trines my Virgo Venus/Jupiter/Taurus Asc Squares my Libra Sun. So... again.. :Roll: ------------------ here's a little agit for the never believer IP: Logged |
VestasLight Knowflake Posts: 149 From: Canada Registered: Mar 2015
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posted December 05, 2015 06:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by midnightcatqueen: And what is a more dominant house placement?My moon is in the 9th Conjunct Neptune/Uranus Trines my Virgo Venus/Jupiter/Taurus Asc Squares my Libra Sun. So... again..
Your moon in the 9th house (which also has to do with exploration) conjunct Uranus, trining venus and Taurus asc. That's an excellent indication right there! I find Dominants have very interesting charts. They often have Aries, Taurus or Scorpio as sun signs or Asc and Pluto or Uranus making some big plays in their chart. It's really fascinating.  IP: Logged |
Queen Salome Knowflake Posts: 582 From: Sirius Registered: Jul 2013
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posted December 05, 2015 06:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by midnightcatqueen: And what is a more dominant house placement?My moon is in the 9th Conjunct Neptune/Uranus Trines my Virgo Venus/Jupiter/Taurus Asc Squares my Libra Sun. So... again.. :Roll:
WOW. You have similar chart like me AND I would like to have same job like you do. You are fascinating person. IP: Logged |
midnightcatqueen Knowflake Posts: 526 From: new york, new york, usa Registered: Feb 2014
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posted December 05, 2015 07:09 PM
Yeah i guess there is a lot in my chart which poses as dominant... My Sun/Mercury/Mars is in Libra but on a Scorpio cusp especially Mercury/Mars which is one degree away from Scorpio >sassy dominant communication.. and Scorpio rules my 7th house and Pluto is conjunct it too...>power plays with significant others. And it opposes my Taurus Ascendant which i believe may be similar to 1st house Scorpio But still.. i don't think cappy moon women are submissive.. maybe Virgo for it is mutable but not this earth cardinal. We may engage in power plays like Scorpio but it's not so sexual.. it's just down right security in control...And there is no real control in being submissive. ------------------ here's a little agit for the never believer
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midnightcatqueen Knowflake Posts: 526 From: new york, new york, usa Registered: Feb 2014
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posted December 05, 2015 07:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by Queen Salome: WOW. You have similar chart like me AND I would like to have same job like you do. You are fascinating person.
Yes remember your my astro twin! Been looking for you here!! ------------------ here's a little agit for the never believer IP: Logged |
Julz87 Knowflake Posts: 1869 From: Over the Rainbow Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 05, 2015 07:34 PM
VestasLight,Can we exchange emails? There's a man I'm interested in who is into BDSM he is the D type..thing is well its all complicated...would like to talk with you if that's ok as I have some not so personal questions. Btw, I have Capricorn Moon too, what are the odds. IP: Logged |
midnightcatqueen Knowflake Posts: 526 From: new york, new york, usa Registered: Feb 2014
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posted December 05, 2015 07:46 PM
To vestaslight... You may be submissive but I'm sure that has to do with other placements ... this sign alone is about being in control, not giving it away.My whole life feels like a D/s situation...  Even sexually I'm the dominant one, even when I'm being lazy. I attract dominant men too so... some feel threatened by a dominant woman.. i challenge them mentally-physically-emotionally even being a tall skinny woman with a total fuckyou face. But that right there is another can of worms that is more related to my 7th.. I think there is a small aspect from my Moon to Pluto but I'm not sure. ------------------ here's a little agit for the never believer IP: Logged |
VestasLight Knowflake Posts: 149 From: Canada Registered: Mar 2015
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posted December 05, 2015 08:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by midnightcatqueen: To vestaslight... You may be submissive but I'm sure that has to do with other placements ... this sign alone is about being in control, not giving it away.My whole life feels like a D/s situation...  Even sexually I'm the dominant one, even when I'm being lazy. I attract dominant men too so... some feel threatened by a dominant woman.. i challenge them mentally-physically-emotionally even being a tall skinny woman with a total fuckyou face. But that right there is another can of worms that is more related to my 7th.. I think there is a small aspect from my Moon to Pluto but I'm not sure.
I had made a comment above that after watching the replies on this thread, that Cappy moon may not be so much about D-type or s-type but seems to enjoy a bit of power play in the bedroom. 
Side note: I just have to point out that in bdsm, the submissive is ultimately considered to be the one with all the power. IP: Logged |
Queen Salome Knowflake Posts: 582 From: Sirius Registered: Jul 2013
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posted December 05, 2015 08:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by Astra: I have a capricorn moon and I'm definitely not submissive. However, my dominance is not "in your face." It's far more subtle. I can get any man or even, women to do what I want by simply asking nicely. I never promise anything in return and yet, they do as I wish.
How?
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VestasLight Knowflake Posts: 149 From: Canada Registered: Mar 2015
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posted December 05, 2015 08:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by Julz87: VestasLight,Can we exchange emails? There's a man I'm interested in who is into BDSM he is the D type..thing is well its all complicated...would like to talk with you if that's ok as I have some not so personal questions. Btw, I have Capricorn Moon too, what are the odds.
I'm not sure how to exchange emails. I am not willing to post it here on the forum, so... 
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