posted December 09, 2015 06:00 PM            

My best advice is to show your interest, that's all he needs. And NEVER play the "flirt with someone else to make him jealous and get his attention" game. That is a BIG no-no with any Venus in Scorpio. They're intense people and can be super jealous. It isn't easy for them to trust. Once scorned, they find it hard to forgive and forget.

Oh, and remember, with Venus in Scorpio you're dealing with Pluto (he's dark and powerful and glorious) - be prepared to go deep and intense where sex and emotions are concerned!

And don't worry, with him you won't be left wondering if he wants you.

posted December 10, 2015 04:34 AM            

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Originally posted by VestasLight:
Venus in Scorpio here too.

My best advice is to show your interest, that's all he needs. And NEVER play the "flirt with someone else to make him jealous and get his attention" game. That is a BIG no-no with any Venus in Scorpio. They're intense people and can be super jealous. It isn't easy for them to trust. Once scorned, they find it hard to forgive and forget.

Oh, and remember, with Venus in Scorpio you're dealing with Pluto (he's dark and powerful and glorious) - be prepared to go deep and intense where sex and emotions are concerned!

And don't worry, with him you won't be left wondering if he wants you.

Have fun!

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posted December 10, 2015 04:41 AM            

My boyfriend (whom I'm basically planning a family with at this point after 2 years) is a Cap sun, Scorpio venus (Scorpio ASC) and virgo moon. He also has lots of Pisces in his chart. We've had the most emotional relationship I've ever had, but that's partly why he's the love of my life. BUT, there's no straightforwardness to the courting period, so be prepared for a few things:

He will be hot/cold at times until he's 100% committed.

If he's that much Cap, he most likely won't 100% commit, no matter how much he already loves you, until he is sure he wants a future with you and can trust you.

He's probably been burned before, so trusting you won't come easily.

If you push him to be MORE in than he's ready for, you will probably lose him.

Don't be a pushover, but don't be too aggressive too soon.

Let him lead.

posted December 10, 2015 11:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Cappi112:
I'm going to add, if he has that much Capricorn, he is SERIOUS. He'll be funny a lot of times, but his thoughts and emotions - all serious.

My boyfriend (whom I'm basically planning a family with at this point after 2 years) is a Cap sun, Scorpio venus (Scorpio ASC) and virgo moon. He also has lots of Pisces in his chart. We've had the most emotional relationship I've ever had, but that's partly why he's the love of my life. BUT, there's no straightforwardness to the courting period, so be prepared for a few things:

He will be hot/cold at times until he's 100% committed.

If he's that much Cap, he most likely won't 100% commit, no matter how much he already loves you, until he is sure he wants a future with you and can trust you.

He's probably been burned before, so trusting you won't come easily.

If you push him to be MORE in than he's ready for, you will probably lose him.

Don't be a pushover, but don't be too aggressive too soon.

Let him lead.

I also agree with what everyone has said already: with ViS, if they're into you, you don't need to question it. My SO and I have had a lot of ups and downs, but even when we were not in each others' lives during a breakup a year ago I knew he loved me. There is a ton of psychic energy with these people. You will know where you stand with him.

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posted December 10, 2015 12:01 PM            

Venus in Scorpio may make him interesting. But it will compound the introspective nature that much more. And with Mars in Virgo, he puts a lot of energy into being a minimalist and keeping his passions at bay.

So don't expect clear and definite ways of affection demonstrated. It may come about in very subtle ways. So subtle in fact, that you may altogether miss them.

Cap mixed with Scorpio sex appeal comes from the cool demeanor they exhibit(IME).

And with Moon/Venus in these signs, he may come across as someone extremely passionate. But also heavily retained or self- deprecating(Virgo Mars)

His confidence may increase and you may even see him relax a little,when he has a goal/plan that he is committed to.Because it will give him purpose.But even then, don't expect bear hugs.

And even with these goals/plans to get somewhere.With Sun/Moon/Mercury in Cap, he may beat himself up a lot for not being up to speed with them.

I am sorry to say. But with this much earth, he may take a long time to come around. This combination proves very tough for you to get to the creamy centre.

posted December 10, 2015 03:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
That Moon in Cap will make him seem very hard to reach emotionally. He will take a while to open up and show you anything.

Venus in Scorpio may make him interesting. But it will compound the introspective nature that much more. And with Mars in Virgo, he puts a lot of energy into being a minimalist and keeping his passions at bay.

So don't expect clear and definite ways of affection demonstrated. It may come about in very subtle ways. So subtle in fact, that you may altogether miss them.

Cap mixed with Scorpio sex appeal comes from the cool demeanor they exhibit(IME).

And with Moon/Venus in these signs, he may come across as someone extremely passionate. But also heavily retained or self- deprecating(Virgo Mars)

His confidence may increase and you may even see him relax a little,when he has a goal/plan that he is committed to.Because it will give him purpose.But even then, don't expect bear hugs.

And even with these goals/plans to get somewhere.With Sun/Moon/Mercury in Cap, he may beat himself up a lot for not being up to speed with them.

I am sorry to say. But with this much earth, he may take a long time to come around. This combination proves very tough for you to get to the creamy centre.

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posted December 10, 2015 10:45 PM            

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Originally posted by saadsarah8:
Hello! I'm currently coutring/talking to a venus in Scorpio guy.. anything I should pay attention to? What to do what not to do? Also how do I know he's actually interested? Here's his chart:

Sun, moon and mercury in Capricorn, venus in Scorpio and mars in virgo

Appreciate any advice/info!

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posted December 11, 2015 08:12 AM            

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Originally posted by VestasLight:
Just found this old thread about Venus in Scorpio men - it has 84 posts, so there's lots of good reading there for you!
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/017801.html

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