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Topic: Solar return for death of father?
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Mergoatsun Knowflake Posts: 444 From: Michigan, USA Registered: Aug 2015
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posted January 25, 2016 05:42 PM
My father has been really sick for a very long time and I'm his legal caregiver, however his condition just keeps getting worse and I'm not sure how much longer he has left, at best 2 years tops. I was wondering what in my own solar return would indicate a death of a parent (specifically the father)?------------------ "Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 15309 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 25, 2016 05:49 PM
Awful You're too young for this.... I'll check my SR for that year.... He died the day after my birthday so the SR chart looks very similar to his death chart. I can't understand why the solar return ASC is at 13 Cap, putting my sun and Mercury on the ASC. Also his pr sun was at 14 Cap. That's just too weird. Chart ruler Saturn is on the 8H cusp, conjunct the moon, opposing Neptune. SR north node conjunct my Pisces moon with only 0.18° orb. My mother died first and I have a lot of moon-Saturn in my chart, indicating how my father "mothered" me. In fact, that SR moon-Saturn is conjunct my mother's natal sun. My father's SR chart for the year he died has Neptune right on the ASC, SR Pluto on his natal ASC, with pr sun opposing natal & pr Pluto. I think these charts reflect individual circumstances, so it's hard to predict another person's indicators...the indicators will follow a whole pattern. Please don't quote. Hoping for a better turnout than you expect, with more support from others than you could have wished for.  IP: Logged |
Mergoatsun Knowflake Posts: 444 From: Michigan, USA Registered: Aug 2015
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posted January 25, 2016 08:22 PM
Thank you faith, I appreciate the support. I pulled up my fathers solar return and the houses kind of concern me:Mars in 8th Saturn in the 8th Uranus in 1st Neptune in 12th SR ASC in the 12th
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 15309 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 25, 2016 09:21 PM
It does look concerning to my amateur eye, and it's serious regardless of what the charts say. My heart just goes out to you and your family. I hope your father is not in pain, and that he has some good days, or good hours, still.Your SR must have Pluto conjunct sun for this year, square Uranus...it's probably going to be hard no matter what. I just hope you have a lot of support and help. It makes all the difference.
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Mergoatsun Knowflake Posts: 444 From: Michigan, USA Registered: Aug 2015
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posted January 25, 2016 09:45 PM
I do have those aspects in my SR. I'm just going to trust in the universe that everything has a purpose, including all suffering. Thank you again faith------------------ "Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 61592 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 27, 2016 02:05 PM
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DopGang Knowflake Posts: 1841 From: Registered: Jun 2015
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posted January 27, 2016 02:56 PM
SR I had a cardinal grand cross and a kite. (Pluto and Jupiter at the ends of the kite and part of the grand cross) Also sun conjunct mercury opposite Neptune and moon. Not sure if that means anything to your question. But that's what I had. IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 1070 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted January 27, 2016 04:40 PM
I feel for you. This post has brought up some tears for me remembering when mine passed. I had Chiron conjunct Neptune in the 4th. Lots of patterns going on including a t square between Uranus, sun, Pluto. Also two grand kites: Saturn, Mars/vertex, Pluto, Neptune. And sun, Saturn, Mars/vertex, Jupiter. An envelope: sun, Saturn, Pluto, Neptune, Mars/vertex. My heart goes out to you  IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 379 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted January 27, 2016 08:16 PM
I'm sorry about your father how do you find your Solar Return chart? IP: Logged |
Mergoatsun Knowflake Posts: 444 From: Michigan, USA Registered: Aug 2015
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posted January 27, 2016 09:19 PM
Thank you for your support everyone! I really appreciate it. Also, childofvenus I access mine on astrodienst.com but there are plenty of other sites that show them as well.
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