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Topic: The sexuality of mars in.....Gemini?
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CosmiqPhuz
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posted February 24, 2016 08:53 PM
  
Anyone ever dealt with a Gemini Mars person with their Venus in Virgo as well? Talk about confusing sometimes...IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo
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posted February 25, 2016 02:26 AM
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Originally posted by CosmiqPhuz:
Anyone ever dealt with a Gemini Mars person with their Venus in Virgo as well? Talk about confusing sometimes...
Venus in Virgo, Mars in Gemini here. My response in page 1 kind of touched on this. I'm more Venus in Virgo than I am Mars in Gemini. I can't relate to any of the descriptions here. I have the square aspect too, exact.
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CosmiqPhuz
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posted February 25, 2016 12:04 PM
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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
Venus in Virgo, Mars in Gemini here.My response in page 1 kind of touched on this. I'm more Venus in Virgo than I am Mars in Gemini. I can't relate to any of the descriptions here. I have the square aspect too, exact.
Are you attracted to Gemini or Virgo qualities in a man? Or both? IP: Logged |
Elysia
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posted February 25, 2016 12:38 PM
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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
Venus in Virgo, Mars in Gemini here.
Wow, that's cerebral squared. No pun intended.  IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo
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posted February 25, 2016 02:42 PM
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Originally posted by CosmiqPhuz:
Are you attracted to Gemini or Virgo qualities in a man? Or both?
I love Virgos.  I would say I'm typically more attracted to them. With Gemini, it really depends. I have dated guys with Mars in Gemini and that is usually fine, but I don't think I could ever date a Gemini Sun or even another Gemini Moon (which I also have). Unless they had plenty of earth or water to balance them out. One of my best guy friends had Gemini Sun and Venus in Cancer, so it worked out just fine.
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StubbornVirgo
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posted February 25, 2016 02:46 PM
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Originally posted by Elysia:
Wow, that's cerebral squared. No pun intended.
Try... Gemini Moon square Virgo Venus
Gemini Moon square Virgo Mercury
Gemini Mars square Virgo Mercury IP: Logged |
next to neptune
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posted February 26, 2016 09:59 AM
They dont like foreplay muchThey are not intense, passionate or sensual They like to "play sex" like its a game, where you have fun They have an almost practical view on sex... that its a human thing, and just something you enjoy once in a while, it's not something that means that much to them. But I think their sex-drive can be kinda high, and I think they are a bit perverted too, deep down... they are just not really the passionate lover-type lol IP: Logged |
neptunicity
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posted February 26, 2016 11:42 AM
They move too fast. They seem quick to make sexual invitations/advances when they barely know you. Doesn't want to start as friends first and wants to do the deed/be more than friends asap once they get interested in you. Likes dirty/sexual talk or references. Touch feely and with "wandering hands", like what has been said. Likes to seduce.IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted February 26, 2016 11:47 AM
^ Most of that is the exact opposite of me, no lie.But I have a Mars-moon-Neptune t-square. ETA: Mars semisquare Saturn. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted February 26, 2016 11:49 AM
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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
I can't relate to any of the descriptions here.
Not even the attraction to intellectual men? IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo
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posted February 26, 2016 12:11 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
Not even the attraction to intellectual men?
I like smart, but not necessarily book smart, men. As long as they have plenty of common sense, we're good. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted February 26, 2016 12:31 PM
Sorry to pick your brains But are you ever attracted to a guy just on the basis of his manner of speaking? IP: Logged |
Elysia
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posted February 26, 2016 12:43 PM
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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
Try...Gemini Moon square Virgo Venus
Gemini Moon square Virgo Mercury
Gemini Mars square Virgo Mercury
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LittleBlackCat
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posted February 26, 2016 07:39 PM
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Originally posted by neptunicity:
They move too fast. They seem quick to make sexual invitations/advances when they barely know you. Doesn't want to start as friends first and wants to do the deed/be more than friends asap once they get interested in you. Likes dirty/sexual talk or references. Touch feely and with "wandering hands", like what has been said. Likes to seduce.
What
Oh noooooo. Dirty talk and seduction yes but that's it for me. Also, the "dirty talk" can't be too much or corny in any way. What was this person's sun/asc sign?
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madelineleo23
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posted February 26, 2016 08:21 PM
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neptunicity
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posted February 27, 2016 01:58 AM
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Originally posted by LittleBlackCat:
What
Oh noooooo. Dirty talk and seduction yes but that's it for me. Also, the "dirty talk" can't be too much or corny in any way.What was this person's sun/asc sign?
I don't know her birth time, but she is a Gemini sun, Aries Venus and her moon is either in Virgo or Libra.
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StubbornVirgo
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posted February 27, 2016 04:07 AM
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Originally posted by Faith:
Sorry to pick your brains But are you ever attracted to a guy just on the basis of his manner of speaking?
I don't mind. Sometimes...there's a few celebrities who have a way of talking that kind of mesmerizes me. There's nothing special about the way they talk, but I can listen/watch them talk all day long. And when I meet someone that has that quality, it puts me at ease and makes me feel really calm and connected, if that makes sense. ETA: I was thinking about such an example...John Cusack has one of those voices to me. Even the nervous tendencies (like in Say Anything) seem so natural to me. I checked his chart and he has Gemini Venus and Mars. His Venus is conjunct my Moon/Mars conjunction in Gemini. I also like/am attracted to certain accents. Two of my past SOs had interesting accents. I would often direct the conversation towards something I knew they were interested in/passionate about just so I could listen to their voice. Lol.
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LittleBlackCat
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posted February 27, 2016 05:31 AM
@neptunicity:For the sake of astrology I have to clear this up. So the in your face aggressive stuff is Venus in Aries (unless they have Pisces Sun, which MIGHT make it more subtle). Aries types usually aren't shy about going after what they want regardless of what it is. I'm not sure why but I feel her moon is in Libra. Now what she did with the chair and her bomb comment is 100% Gemini Mars style. Her Sun also being in Gemini will only add to all of this. Words (whether she is writing them , or pointing out lyrics, etc.) will often be used to aide her intentions. Playing mind games and innuendos are common with this Mars. As you are a double Pisces, she probably feels tons of satisfactions from shocking you or making you unsettled by her antics. Not just based on her Mars alone but the unique combination of other placements you mentioned. You will may SEEM to her rather easy to influence with her sexuality. Hands are definitely of interest to Gemini Mars types. A guy's hands can literally make or break my attraction to him. I love long slender fingers for some reason. The kind reminiscent of "piano hands". I noticed that with both of the guys I got close to I would play with their hands. I found every possible way to hold, trace, kiss, and even gently bite their hands. I really enjoy the same being done to me. IP: Logged |
LittleBlackCat
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posted February 27, 2016 06:43 AM
@next to neptune:
They dont like foreplay much
In my opinion foreplay can be more intense than the more straight forward acts and is absolutely necessary/needs to be prolonged.They are not intense, passionate or sensual
Any person I've so much as grazed a finger on would beg to differ  . However, I do have a Scorpio Asc. conj. Pluto in Scorpio (opp my Mars in Gemini). Gemini also rules my 8th house. I have Gemini moon in the 8th. They like to "play sex" like its a game, where you have fun
This is actually true to a degree lol, but I wouldn't say we are merely "playing sex". We are more so playing up the delicate intricacies of sex to reveal the intensity woven throughout seemingly ordinary acts (such as a simple touch). For example, my first love and I were in a graveyard (I love graveyards). It began to rain and we took shelter on the back porch of the old church that faced the tombstones. He was sharing his poetry with me and the beauty of his words made a strong longing arise deep inside of me. I told him to turn his back to me and face the rain...to close his eyes and feel the sensations around him. I began to slowly use my finger to trace letters along his back...carefully spelling out entire sentences. I told him to feel...really feel the lines being made so that he could accurately figure out what I was saying to him. He had to simultaneous use his mind while also resisting the pleasurable feeling of my touch. It was simple and game-like but deeply sensual. I do many such things including things that incorporate sexual build-up (like doing something pleasurable but telling him to try and not react to it). I noticed that often the tension between the mind trying to achieve one thing and the body desiring to do something else creates phenomenal intensity. These things are not done all the time by any means but at times my Gemini Mars really just likes to observe the psychological aspects of sexuality. It's silly to some but I enjoy it and incorporating the mind with the body can increase the intensity of the other so much (and Gemini Mars understands this best). They have an almost practical view on sex... that its a human thing, and just something you enjoy once in a while, it's not something that means that much to them.
No, not really it's just how we come across. Most of us seem to put sex on the back-burner b/c the physical alone does not satisfy us. Many MinG ppl are looking for an experience that stimulates the mind and body to create a sensation that stimulation of simply one or the other could never match. We know this is hard to come by, so we either go long periods without sex/intimacy or detach ourselves emotionally from it to avoid disappointment. Other ppl don't seem to be looking for any such experience from intimacy. So some of us begin to treat sex the way they think others see it (i.e. purely physical and not cerebral at all, as a means to an end, for reproduction, etc.). But I think their sex-drive can be kinda high, and I think they are a bit perverted too, deep down... they are just not really the passionate lover-type lol Oh yes I agree we have high sex-drives . We actually have one of the highest sex drives of all the placements. Some signs are only turned on when actually being touched. Some signs are only turned on visually. Gemini Mars may get turned on by anything that can communicate to them (words, videos, shapes, touch, etc). We think a lot (Gemini) about sex (Mars). When the only thing you need to get turned on is your own brain (which may then take anything and make it sexual) you get someone with a high sex-drive and yes kind of a pervert lol IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted February 27, 2016 10:58 AM
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posted February 27, 2016 11:11 AM
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Faith
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posted February 27, 2016 11:32 AM
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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
Sometimes...there's a few celebrities who have a way of talking that kind of mesmerizes me. There's nothing special about the way they talk, but I can listen/watch them talk all day long. And when I meet someone that has that quality, it puts me at ease and makes me feel really calm and connected, if that makes sense.
I know what you mean! Hmm, 'trying to think of celebrities whose voices I love...I rarely watch movies and nothing is coming to mind yet.... quote:
Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
I was thinking about such an example...John Cusack has one of those voices to me. Even the nervous tendencies (like in Say Anything) seem so natural to me. I checked his chart and he has Gemini Venus and Mars. His Venus is conjunct my Moon/Mars conjunction in Gemini.
Oh yeah! I love him.   quote:
Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
I also like/am attracted to certain accents. Two of my past SOs had interesting accents. I would often direct the conversation towards something I knew they were interested in/passionate about just so I could listen to their voice. Lol.
 I have Sag Venus, too, so you can imagine. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted February 27, 2016 11:42 AM
Wait what is wrong with my brain today??I love Elvis' speaking voice.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ov9fjaRZT4E IP: Logged |
LittleBlackCat
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posted February 27, 2016 03:02 PM
[b] @Faith: [\b]
Thanks and oh noooo lol, I think I have to be careful with how I use the term pervert  I was thinking of how MinG sometimes can have a dirty mind. For example, we might get turned on by simple things that other ppl don't even see as sexual (have been told I was a pervert for that lol). Some MinG ppl like "phone activities" or "online connections". I can totally see how that's a little kinky or something. Then there's the way a lot of MinG ppl abuse their skill with words to make some pretty interesting innuendos lol. I was thinking more along those lines b/c I somehow forgot about the actual perverts out there....like Scorpio lol, j/k.Some Mars signs will definitely be more prone to some things than others, but cultural predisposition (as well as where you are spiritually) plays a much bigger role than placement. For example, my cultural background is West Indian and we'll look at you like a psycho if you ask us to "whip" you. I'm a fusion of both Scorpio and Gemini yet I only gravitate towards the passionate/spiritually transformative sexuality of Scorpio (not the "other" side). The leather outfits, whips, etc. are just....nope. Im creative and a tad eccentric (ok very eccentric), but anything 50Shades of gray gets rebuked."Toys" and all of that are also not welcome (noooo). To me all of those thing are unnecessary and gets in the way, distracts from what he and I could create with just our bodies and the desire to express our love for each other in a physical form. A more raw unaltered state of human sexuality. Too much of anything else will just seem like some weird compensation for something that's lacking. Once emotional closeness, a mental bond, and passion is there not much else is needed for me
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neptunicity
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posted February 27, 2016 05:29 PM
@LittleBlackCat, Come to think of it, after she tried to kiss me in the classroom (obviously I didn't give in) she asked me, "It seems like you are uncomfortable." I smiled and just shooked my head. I'm too unsettled to talk about it, lol. Then she attempted again by pretending to lower her voice so that I can't hear her so that I will be forced to lean towards her. Then after that incident I started being quiet and answering 1 word replies when she talks to me. But that didn't stop her. Her hands would just "wander" purposely and "accidentally" and it came to a point where she suddenly just pressed her boobs on my arm twice as I was standing talking to another classmate. So your comment got me wondering.. Do Mars in Gemini people do that to purposely shock or surprise you to their own amusement? Do you guys flirt with people you are not even interested in? I'm assuming she does that randomly to whoever she likes to tease, lol.Gemini rules the arms, hands and lungs, right? So it makes sense you would be particular with the hands, right? I wonder now if Aries is particular with the head or face, Taurus with the voice, Aquarius with the ankles, etc. I'm not particular with the feet though being a Pisces, lol. Don't quote. IP: Logged |
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