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Topic: The sexuality of mars in.....Gemini?
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LittleBlackCat unregistered
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posted March 01, 2016 02:52 AM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: @LBCYet another brilliant comment. I LOVE your comments! 
Thank You!  quote: Originally posted by astrosaz: Just want to say thanks to everyone for posting their Gemini Mars experiences on here it's been really helpful. I recently met a Mars in Gemini guy and you're right he's a story teller/poet, he has a ton of energy and witty. I'm just trying to think of how I can win him over as I am a Scorpio Mars, sun, merc, Pluto (not too much of a pervert actually thank you very much! Haha) trying to think of ways I can impress this guy his aura is very sexy.
LOL no worries I'm Scorpio Asc, everyone thinks I am a pervert just based on how I look alone lol always accused of "making eyes" at ppl when I was probably thinking about food  The best way to win him over is to just speak to him. Talk about thing that genuinely interest you. You will probably have a lot of knowledge regarding such things and will also not sound bored. Sad to say it but Gemini Mars loves the chase. You should in no way act disinterested, but don't move too quickly. Everything leading up to a relationship is our favorite part. Discuss his poems with him, ask him what they mean or better yet vividly describe what images/emotions are painted in your mind when you read his stuff. I'm a Gemini Mars and I am insanely attracted to Scorpio Mars. I used to have great conversation with this one MinS guy but besides him most of the other Mars in Scorpio ppl didn't click with me intellectually (despite the high attraction). Usually feel like I'm talking to myself and I get impatient So yea, just talk and share whatever stuff you enjoy. Doesn't have to be literary stuff either, it can be different foods or hobbies you like as well. IP: Logged |
LittleBlackCat unregistered
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posted March 01, 2016 03:16 AM
@Next to Neptune:That would probably be enough to make you more passionate!!! Moon in 8th house is defenitely very intense LOL! Haha yup thats true! But I would say it also depends on the person... my ex have a gemini mars in 12th house, and I really tried so hard to turn him on sometimes, and nothing worked, but then at other times when I didn't try anything at all THEN he got turned on... but maybe it was also just our chemistry that wasn't right cause oh well, were not together anymore!!!
you know that's the weird thing about Mars in Gemini. When we are alone with our own minds we may get turned on from our thoughts. Yet sometimes we are physically with someone and can't seem get into it. We often don't feel like anything is as good as our fantasies (you know, the ones where we are being mentally/physically stimulated all at once). So our minds start wandering away to what time it is, or the laundry, well...pretty much anywhere but where we physically are. Yet, just as you mentioned, there are times when doing basically nothing will turn us on. Most likely b/c we took that seemingly simple thing you did and embellished it in our minds somehow. That, or the unexpected nature of it was a turn on lol. Nevertheless, I agree with you that chemistry is overall the main factor 
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FruityLlama Knowflake Posts: 1218 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 01, 2016 08:33 AM
Elizabeth 1 of England- the virgin queen had Gemini mars. IP: Logged |
neptunicity Knowflake Posts: 1275 From: Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 01, 2016 11:50 AM
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astrosaz Knowflake Posts: 363 From: Registered: Mar 2015
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posted March 02, 2016 04:18 AM
Little Black Cat, what you are saying is so true and accurate to me. I've just done an exes chart and now I think I'll be staying away from Mars in Geminis, not that I don't adore them!My previous experience with Mars in Gemini? Not enough nice things to say about them in my personal experience. I find them witty, clever, fun, friendly, we'd talk and laugh for hours. Like I said not enough glorious words to describe a Mars in Gemini but for all their positives only one thing drove me and my ex apart. When he'd be away working I could tell he really missed me, but I felt we were closer physically apart than physically together. When we were together he was never present with me in the moment, his mind always thinking and analysing and I couldn't deal with it anymore. His lack of presence was draining me, it was as though we could never truly be intimate. I have never told him the real reason why I ended things, because I never want him to change, why should he? That's part of who he is and I don't want him to feel self conscious ever just because I can't cope with that trait. Sexuality of a Mars in Gemini? In my experience that was a lot of work too. I like all types of things in the boudoir but for the most part I'm pretty sensual, tender loving person who likes to switch up tempo but that would be too slow paced for him. It wasn't bad by any means I still had fun but I definitely had to do a lot of flirting, seducing, talking, complimenting (leo sun, merc, venus) I had to make sure his mind was ticking every second, that's exhausting and our underwear isn't even on the floor yet, I just want to go with flow where the moment takes us and that was pretty rare. Anyway, much love to all Mars in Geminis but this quadruple Scorpio needs someone to be in the moment with her for it to be true intimacy. Never ever change! IP: Logged |
RogueReader Knowflake Posts: 81 From: USA Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 03, 2016 11:47 PM
As a Mars in Gemini (8th), I agree with lots of what's been said. One thing I'd like to add: variety. I don't mean literally many different partners (my Cap moon and 8H mars don't dig that). I mean variety in types of sex that's shared with a partner. I'd be soooo bored with a routine. To appease my Gemini Mars, I need a caveman on Monday, tender loving on Tuesday, extreme kink on Wednes, etc. I also like to get off in many different ways. The key with Gemini mars is matching our need for multiplicity/variety. ------------------ Aquarius sun, Libra rising, Capricorn moon. Hot mess. IP: Logged |
Leo-Cancer98 Knowflake Posts: 1435 From: Toronto,Ontario,Canada Registered: Nov 2014
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posted June 09, 2016 10:54 PM
Anyone have Venus/Mercury in Pisces & Mars in Gemini?IP: Logged |
hannaramaa unregistered
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posted June 10, 2016 12:14 AM
quote: Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98: Anyone have Venus/Mercury in Pisces & Mars in Gemini?
I knew someone with it (Moon in Sag... how you like them apples). What's up? IP: Logged |
DualGem Knowflake Posts: 259 From: Toronto and Area, Leaving Ottawa Registered: Oct 2015
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posted June 10, 2016 01:44 AM
I actually like Mars in Gemini women, I find they have a logical way of thinking, very good to talk to and I generally have a good rapport.Very common to find them in Science or Math related fields. My Computer Science Algorithms Analysis prof is Sag Sun /Gemini mars. Shes very good at computing runtimes... She's an adorable klutz, thats the appeal she gives off. Very logical and smart...but klutzy. Sorta similar to Jennifer Lawrence also mars in Gemini. For example she was late for a meeting and running..then suddenly she dropped all of her papers and she giggles a lot, even for a 60yrs old I think its a nervous trait. There was a Pisces sun, Gemini mars female I used to talk to I wish I became friends with her, but my cappy rising made me shy and run way. She just graduated from Cambridge with an MSc in Math with top marks, Cambridge is number 2 or 3 depending on the year of ranking for math and Science. There's A Leo sun, Gemini mars. I talk to she's a stats major. Her Style is different: She mixes a geeky/nerdy feel with a "like the lime light" leo mix. Very different going from drinking all night to doing probability the next day, lol. The work hard and play hard mentality. She's no genius, but shes no dummy either. =================================== Gemini Sun, Capricorn Rising Aries Moon Gemini Mercury Venus Taurus Mars Cancer IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly Knowflake Posts: 2172 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted June 10, 2016 03:36 PM
I have mars in gemini, if I have an emotional connection to someone then it's how I express my love. I love to please!!! Cancer sun Libra moon Gemini mars and venus IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly Knowflake Posts: 2172 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted June 10, 2016 03:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by LittleBlackCat: You can spot them from the expressive yet feather-light movement of their hands when speaking or moving. Look for a mischievous facial expression or naughty glint in the eyes. Even the most reserved of them will show this at some point. Will come across as highly intelligent yet elf-like or fairy-like in behavior (Tinker-bell was mentally acute, agile, and restless but most of all...naughty). Plays tricks, games, psychological puzzles, etc. Loves riddles and pretty much using words in every manner possible. Is attracted to intelligence, wisdom, and anyone good with words (such as a powerful orator, poet, story-teller, etc.). Will try to attract the object of desire by being witty, playing hard to get, saying/ texting strange things that must be decoded, and showing off how smart they are (and they are very smart). Is often a tease in one way or another. Likes long conversations, letters (esp. handwritten). Likes things that remind them of Gemini's light airy beauty (ballerinas, aerial dancers, lace material, etc.) May have online or long-distance relationships. Some may have a fetish for what seems unattainable and loses interest once obtained. Gets bored with ppl VERY fast. Cares today, may not tomorrow (or in an hour). This is very genuine, but depends on other factors.They have the deepest bond with words of any placement in the zodiac and is almost always more turned on by words than physical touching. Does not need sex and can go for very long periods of time without any issues. Would rather read erotica than have sex they aren't into. Can even seem altogether asexual at times. When they are intimate they may not be mentally with you (unless you've managed to stimulate their body and mind at the same time). The brain IS the sexual organ (no getting around that). Otherwise, they get distracted. Likes dirty-talk, which is very natural to them and so is delivered in a very natural sounding way (not corny or w/e). Sexual positions being changed often is a turn on for them. Kiss and touch their hands. Many enjoy shorter multiple-session sex, but depends on other factors. When they are upset with a lover they argue with a VERY sharp tongue and tons of venomous words (whether via in person, text, phone, letter or email). Same thing if they want to express undying love but in reverse (will woo you with tons of beautiful words via letters, phone, email, in-person, etc.) Mars in Gemini's "asexuality" explained: Despite Mars in Gemini's seeming lack of interest in sex at times, they are actually one of the most sexual Mars signs. They will often think about sex to a much deeper and frequent degree, knowing an abundance of sexual techniques and information. This is b/c you have a planet that rules sex, in a signs that think A LOT. This equals thinking a lot about sex. They simply don't act on it often. This is due to knowing most situations they'll encounter won't adequately combine intellect and sexuality to a satisfying degree. So they re-direct their energy instead. Thus making them perfectly able to go without sex. Credibility: Gemini Mars/Moon person
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Kannon McAfee Moderator Posts: 4499 From: Portland, OR - USA Registered: Oct 2011
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posted June 10, 2016 04:24 PM
Mars stays an average time of 2 months in each sign. So there is nothing specific about Mars in Gemini as it relates to sexuality. Do you think that all those people born in that same 2 month period have the same sexuality? Of course not. Some will be straight, some gay, some bisexual. Some will be impulsive, but others not particularly impulsive. Some will be 'mind sexual', but others will need to act on it far more.You have to know the individual chart and its aspects. There is a feature of duality, a need for variety; some potential for impulsiveness, but this may go no further than thoughts and fantasy life for many of us. Yes, I was born when Mars was in Gemini and parallel the MC. So I know a bit about it. Mars in Gemini is less sensual a placement for it than in Taurus or Libra; less sexual placement than in Leo, Scorpio, or even Capricorn ... but that's about all you can be sure of. Again - look at the whole chart, not one planet in one sign. ------------------ The Declinations Guy Rising Sign Descriptions | Expert rectification ♈ ♉ ♊ ♋ ♌ ♍ ♎ ♏ ♐ ♑ ♒ ♓ IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5135 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted June 10, 2016 07:48 PM
I have Mars in Gemini and I didn't know this placement had anything to do with sexuality... IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5135 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted June 10, 2016 09:18 PM
What about Taurus sun, Venus in Pisces and Mars in Gemini? IP: Logged |
Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 738 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted June 10, 2016 09:29 PM
I believe if Mars in Gemini makes an aspect to Venus and/or Moon, it heightens their sexuality. IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 8906 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted June 10, 2016 11:27 PM
My Mars in Gemini loves it when someone comes along n plops their Jupiter right on my Mars...its hot Someone could put an aspect to their Uranus there to...that would niceIP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn Knowflake Posts: 1563 From: Registered: Sep 2015
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posted June 11, 2016 08:14 PM
Wow, what a nice long thread, so many replies. I wish there was one about sexuality of Mars in Aqua! IP: Logged |
Leo-Cancer98 Knowflake Posts: 1435 From: Toronto,Ontario,Canada Registered: Nov 2014
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posted June 11, 2016 09:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: I knew someone with it (Moon in Sag... how you like them apples). What's up?
I wonder if having these particular Pisces placements would alter the effects of having Gemini Mars in the 3rd house.
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colorful butterfly Knowflake Posts: 2172 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted June 13, 2016 08:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn: Wow, what a nice long thread, so many replies. I wish there was one about sexuality of Mars in Aqua!
I dated a guy with mars in Aquarius. His saturn conjunct my mars, mind blowing for my Gemini mars!!! It ended too soon but if things had worked out, I think we could have kept things steamy for a looooooonnnnggg time! I'm usually the one that bring something new to someone so thingso he did , I had never experienced before. IP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn Knowflake Posts: 1563 From: Registered: Sep 2015
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posted June 15, 2016 08:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by colorful butterfly: I dated a guy with mars in Aquarius. I'm usually the one that bring something new to someone so thingso he did , I had never experienced before.
Yeah..I associate Aquarius Mars with sex shops lol But I know only a few people with this placement, and not sexually so don't really know if they're kinky and inventive as one can imagine. IP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn Knowflake Posts: 1563 From: Registered: Sep 2015
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posted June 15, 2016 09:04 PM
Anyways, if we look at Mars to evaluate the sex drive then knowing simply a sign it's in is not enough. I would check all these too: house (air houses are the worst), aspects (Saturn is a killer) and which house Mars rules. Also, let's not forget that taking a look at Sun/Mars combo for women and Moon/Venus for men will probably give a better idea of their sex drive. Only after that you take Mars into account too.IP: Logged |
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posted June 16, 2016 02:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98: I wonder if having these particular Pisces placements would alter the effects of having Gemini Mars in the 3rd house.
I mean... they may not have a lot of confidence in relationships, maybe not a lot of faith in them because of Venus square Mars by sign. Probably really hard to get any kind of consistency, but very smart, and nice. Smarter than you'd think mutable energy would be (when I think of mutables I think "dippy" but I know they're not) IP: Logged |
Choc Knowflake Posts: 647 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 16, 2016 06:29 PM
Talks the talk - doesn't necessarily walk the walk, mediocre action. Loves visual stimulation, too much p#rn. Loves cunnilingus. Could be really endowed if there a strong aspect with Jupiter, an opposition would work like a charm. IP: Logged |
madelineleo23 Knowflake Posts: 292 From: Registered: Jun 2015
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posted November 15, 2016 06:56 PM
@Aquagembaby are you still on this forum? Because everything you said about being a mars in gemini is SPOT ON for me! Especially the part about loving the chase. I thought I was the only mars in gem who loved the chase and when the person is mysterious. I thought loving the chase was more of a moon/venus/mars in aries thing haha. Sexy voices are definitely something I love too! Also I see a lot of talk about feeling asexual as a mars in gemini. Yup. I can attest. IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly Knowflake Posts: 2172 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted November 15, 2016 10:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by missblyss: I have mars in gemini. I can be very seductive, but can also be kinda asexual.I think the seductiveness comes from knowing what to say/ do right as I'm making eye contact. I know how to make guys squirm (in a good way). But I can easily be abstinent for long periods of time and don't miss sex at all. Definitely get bored easily. Definitely kinda on or off. There have been times where I've had to stop men right in the middle because I was into it.. and then NOPE, switch flipped...
lol, me too!!! IP: Logged |