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Topic: The sexuality of mars in.....Gemini?
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Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 738 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 22, 2016 07:46 PM
Just curious. Anyone else with or know anyone with this placement? How is your/there sex drive? I never hear much about Mars in Gemini. It's always about Scorpio this, Aries that, Cap this, Taurus that. Actually i never really hear much about any of the Air Mars signs but today i want to hear about: GEMINI! IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 2951 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted February 22, 2016 07:58 PM
I have mars in gemini. I can be very seductive, but can also be kinda asexual.I think the seductiveness comes from knowing what to say/ do right as I'm making eye contact. I know how to make guys squirm (in a good way). But I can easily be abstinent for long periods of time and don't miss sex at all. Definitely get bored easily. Definitely kinda on or off. There have been times where I've had to stop men right in the middle because I was into it.. and then NOPE, switch flipped... IP: Logged |
XzaultaX Knowflake Posts: 232 From: Your mind Registered: Feb 2016
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posted February 22, 2016 08:15 PM
I have mars in Libra and men with mars in libra are basicly a stereotypical gay person.  IP: Logged |
CosmiqPhuz Knowflake Posts: 749 From: INFP Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 22, 2016 08:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by missblyss: I have mars in gemini. I can be very seductive, but can also be kinda asexual.I think the seductiveness comes from knowing what to say/ do right as I'm making eye contact. I know how to make guys squirm (in a good way). But I can easily be abstinent for long periods of time and don't miss sex at all. Definitely get bored easily. Definitely kinda on or off. There have been times where I've had to stop men right in the middle because I was into it.. and then NOPE, switch flipped...
What do you like in a man?
quote: Originally posted by XzaultaX: I have mars in Libra and men with mars in libra are basicly a stereotypical gay person. 
That's funny - I have Mars in Libra. I had a friend in college who would really emphasize he was straight during our conversations cause he thought I was hitting on him. Like in the middle of an unrelated topic, he'd say things like "I love women!". After I told him I liked women too, he asked me out to beers.
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angel4845 Knowflake Posts: 3284 From: Registered: Oct 2014
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posted February 22, 2016 08:28 PM
they love dirty talk. i have mars in the 3rd house at least i do....and my ex girlfriend did she had mars in gemini and this other guy i know loves dirty talk and he has mars in gemini Retrograde.all i can say just know how to seduce with words..... ------------------ Addicted to Self Relfection - Jupiter R in the 12th House IP: Logged |
12muddy Knowflake Posts: 3075 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 22, 2016 09:28 PM
Some of my friends have gem mars. From what I've seen and from our conversations, my general impression is that they're a bunch of teases. Even the most mellow one (libra sun, aqua moon) has that mischievous up-to-no-good trait. She's more subtle though, compared to the one who has libra sun, sag moon/asc - one of her favourite moves is dropping s.t into a guy's lap. Flirting includes lots of riddles, double entendres (most of these friends I talk about have virgo mercury along with gem mars), giggles and sing-song voices.. Some of them like quickies, in risky places lol kinky little shts. Oh and they have happy wandering hands haha. They're light-hearted, like sparkling wine or the sweet fruity cocktails that seem so harmless yet pack a punch. Not the kind of brooding dark intensity of heavy liquor. I find their antics cute. I'm not sure I'd say the same if I were on the receiving end haha. IP: Logged |
venus2tinkerbell unregistered
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posted February 22, 2016 09:42 PM
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CosmiqPhuz Knowflake Posts: 749 From: INFP Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 22, 2016 09:45 PM
Gemini Mars women - my ex, my sister, and this woman I'm currently pursuing.Some things I find in common - they like to argue, short attention span, mentally quick, verbally expressive. My ascendant is in Gemini so I can relate somewhat. My ex - always loved double entendres and wit. Sex drive was kinda up and down. Girl I like - blushes when I make her laugh or say smartass things. For example, I was sitting behind her on the bus. I was carrying my banjo in the rain. The bus driver says to me "You need a case for that!". I said "That's ok...I can get it wet.". The girl turns around and looks at me and turns back nervously. My sister - intense competition between us and always trying to one-up each other. A bit of a volatile relationship. She'll argue anything just because she can play on words and technicalities. For example, she was ordering me around one day - so I told her to "...stop ordering me around, I don't order you around!". And then she says "You just gave me an order right there." What the f*ck? IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 21731 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 22, 2016 09:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell: 😢
Is that a sad face? My Mars in Pisces is here to comfort you  IP: Logged |
12muddy Knowflake Posts: 3075 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 22, 2016 09:55 PM
^ oh faith that's too damn cute. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 21731 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 22, 2016 09:58 PM
Thanks muddy.I used to be Mars in Gemini until I learned how scandalous that is, so I converted.  IP: Logged |
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posted February 22, 2016 09:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: Is that a sad face?My Mars in Pisces is here to comfort you 
I knew you'd understand *sniffle* IP: Logged |
HCtheQueenOfWands unregistered
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posted February 22, 2016 10:18 PM
Men over 40 with this placement are freaks! 😏😉I lived with 2 of them 😳😳😳... Hey it trined my Venus so i was pretty happy and one of them made me... Ahem... IP: Logged |
12muddy Knowflake Posts: 3075 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 22, 2016 10:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: Thanks muddy.I used to be Mars in Gemini until I learned how scandalous that is, so I converted. 
lololol I love you faith *wipe a tear of mirth* IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 21731 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 22, 2016 10:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell: I knew you'd understand *sniffle*
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 21731 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 22, 2016 10:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by 12muddy: lololol I love you faith *wipe a tear of mirth*
Aw, love you muddy!! I gotta get off this thread before the Gemini Mars people start giving phone sex lessons again like last time... Hear no evil....  IP: Logged |
Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 738 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 22, 2016 10:46 PM
This is what i've read a while back. That sex drive can be on and off. I guess it is difficult to receive mental stimulation on a daily basis, especially from someone you like. IP: Logged |
LittleBlackCat unregistered
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posted February 22, 2016 11:21 PM
You can spot them from the expressive yet feather-light movement of their hands when speaking or moving. Look for a mischievous facial expression or naughty glint in the eyes. Even the most reserved of them will show this at some point. Will come across as highly intelligent yet elf-like or fairy-like in behavior (Tinker-bell was mentally acute, agile, and restless but most of all...naughty). Plays tricks, games, psychological puzzles, etc. Loves riddles and pretty much using words in every manner possible. Is attracted to intelligence, wisdom, and anyone good with words (such as a powerful orator, poet, story-teller, etc.). Will try to attract the object of desire by being witty, playing hard to get, saying/ texting strange things that must be decoded, and showing off how smart they are (and they are very smart). Is often a tease in one way or another. Likes long conversations, letters (esp. handwritten). Likes things that remind them of Gemini's light airy beauty (ballerinas, aerial dancers, lace material, etc.) May have online or long-distance relationships. Some may have a fetish for what seems unattainable and loses interest once obtained. Gets bored with ppl VERY fast. Cares today, may not tomorrow (or in an hour). This is very genuine, but depends on other factors.They have the deepest bond with words of any placement in the zodiac and is almost always more turned on by words than physical touching. Does not need sex and can go for very long periods of time without any issues. Would rather read erotica than have sex they aren't into. Can even seem altogether asexual at times. When they are intimate they may not be mentally with you (unless you've managed to stimulate their body and mind at the same time). The brain IS the sexual organ (no getting around that). Otherwise, they get distracted. Likes dirty-talk, which is very natural to them and so is delivered in a very natural sounding way (not corny or w/e). Sexual positions being changed often is a turn on for them. Kiss and touch their hands. Many enjoy shorter multiple-session sex, but depends on other factors. When they are upset with a lover they argue with a VERY sharp tongue and tons of venomous words (whether via in person, text, phone, letter or email). Same thing if they want to express undying love but in reverse (will woo you with tons of beautiful words via letters, phone, email, in-person, etc.) Mars in Gemini's "asexuality" explained: Despite Mars in Gemini's seeming lack of interest in sex at times, they are actually one of the most sexual Mars signs. They will often think about sex to a much deeper and frequent degree, knowing an abundance of sexual techniques and information. This is b/c you have a planet that rules sex, in a signs that think A LOT. This equals thinking a lot about sex. They simply don't act on it often. This is due to knowing most situations they'll encounter won't adequately combine intellect and sexuality to a satisfying degree. So they re-direct their energy instead. Thus making them perfectly able to go without sex. Credibility: Gemini Mars/Moon person IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo Knowflake Posts: 2928 From: Welcome to Mercury Registered: Jul 2015
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posted February 22, 2016 11:59 PM
I would say it's more mental than anything else. I can go weeks, months, even years without becoming involved with anyone, in any way.I'm not as mischievous as I wish I was. I think I have too much Virgo and Capricorn in my chart. For example, when dirty talk lessons start up in a Gemini Mars thread, I'm usually the first to disappear. I also can't really relate to the majority of the Gemini Mars sexuality descriptions in this thread, so far. I have my moments, though. I'm just a little more introverted. I do manage to catch a lot of people off guard with side remarks or self-talk because I'm usually quiet. I'm a natural multitasker at work or school. I think quickly, make snap decisions, work quickly...except, I also burn out quickly. Telling a Gemini Mars to pace themselves is like telling the Sun to not shine. Gemini Moon/Mars tightly conjunct IP: Logged |
hannaramaa unregistered
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posted February 23, 2016 12:22 AM
I'm mischievous I like to give 'em the ol' razzle dazzle (I don't mean sex, I mean get them interested) and then flounce off on a whim and do my own thing. I have Mars in Gemini in the 12th house and conj. my Gemini ASC. IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 2951 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted February 23, 2016 12:52 AM
quote: Originally posted by LittleBlackCat:
Mars in Gemini's "asexuality" explained: Despite Mars in Gemini's seeming lack of interest in sex at times, they are actually one of the most sexual Mars signs. They will often think about sex to a much deeper and frequent degree, knowing an abundance of sexual techniques and information. This is b/c you have a planet that rules sex, in a signs that think A LOT. This equals thinking a lot about sex. They simply don't act on it often. This is due to knowing most situations they'll encounter won't adequately combine intellect and sexuality to a satisfying degree. So they re-direct their energy instead. Thus making them perfectly able to go without sex.Credibility: Gemini Mars/Moon person
omg this is so true! I remember, when I was losing my virginity, the guy was like DAMN GIRL YOU DONE THIS BEFORE? And no, not at all, but I sure did study it and then when the time came I acted like I did, lol
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missblyss Knowflake Posts: 2951 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted February 23, 2016 01:24 AM
what I like in a man-Intelligence is crucial. I like a witty, sociable guy.... who is passionate about something and definitely able to hold a conversation. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 15305 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 23, 2016 03:13 AM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: Thanks muddy.I used to be Mars in Gemini until I learned how scandalous that is, so I converted. 
You might want to convert to another one. A lot of people aren't fans of us, either. I know one absent member of this board had no complaints about her Mars in Gemini husband. I don't like one Mars in Gemini. Because he's caused trouble in my family, and hit on me multiple times - when he was involved with my sister, before they married. He considers himself an intellectual, and a writer (of satirical pieces), but I don't find him amusing. He's a troublemaker. He's the only bad one that I know, though, and I don't blame one placement for a person's personality, or their defects. IP: Logged |
AscTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1201 From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa Registered: May 2009
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posted February 23, 2016 09:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by XzaultaX: I have mars in Libra and men with mars in libra are basicly a stereotypical gay person. 
I love this (Mars in Libra here) I always thought Mars in Gemini the type to love the buildup to sex. But be rarely interested in its execution. I had an interesting sexual experience with a Mars in Gemini. And I remember that they loved to tease. And really liked it when I did too. The actual sex would be short. But the foreplay and buildup would last and last.. It was fun  IP: Logged |
Elysia unregistered
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posted February 23, 2016 09:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by Faith:
I gotta get off this thread before the Gemini Mars people start giving phone sex lessons again like last time...
Umm...say what?  #AllEars P.S. You can't say that and not link the other thread. *sniff* IP: Logged |