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Topic: Having a Mars/Pluto aspect?
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Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 645 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted April 05, 2016 04:34 PM
Is there anyone that you know that ISN'T sexual with a Mars/Pluto aspect? Every person that i know that has a Mars/Pluto aspect is very sexual and they are horndogs! Is this aspect the most sexual aspect to have? What are your thoughts? IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 8507 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 05, 2016 04:41 PM
Does Sag Mars (with Eros) sextile Libra Pluto (Scorpio cusp) count?If so, then no for me, rumors to the contrary. Though other factors involved is that I generally turned away from standard media fare as a child for a variety of reasons and what I focused on instead trained me to think of sex as something secondary at most. As a child, the media does teach people how to think and shapes who they'll be (though it's not the only factor, and may even be a lesser factor depending). Of course it could be that maybe I was born demisexual so that I focused on such media in the first place (so how I was affected the media I pursued rather than the media I pursued affected how I was/am), given that many report having had strong crushes even as little children but I've seemed to have missed that. I was given powerful meds when I was 13 that affected my brain and quite possibly my growth (the latter may have been indirect). I also had delayed puberty that was odd in addition to delayed. This could've also affected my sex drive. IP: Logged |
mar1982delta Knowflake Posts: 1738 From: Registered: Nov 2015
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posted April 05, 2016 05:00 PM
Guilty!!!  LOL, sorry for being blunt, but since the subject is that ...hahaha Sexual, do you also mean feeling sexy and such ? Because I dont feel so sexy myself, but I love sex, hahahha, I feel embarassed even by writing it lol  Mars 24 04 conj. Pluto 24 13 in Libra here/9th house, the most exact aspect in my chart lol...beware hahahaa  (I am scr@@ed btw lol) IP: Logged |
bacio Newflake Posts: 22 From: Los Angeles, CA Registered: Dec 2015
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posted April 05, 2016 06:48 PM
I've got Mars at 9°43' in Pisces trine Pluto at 16°29' in Scorpio (loose orb of 6°46'). I think mars/pluto aspects don't necessarily involve physical expression, but rather engagement in various styles regarding intimate, controversial, or private matters (including sexuality, of course) depending on the signs/houses involved. imo modern sexuality overlooks a spectrum of what i would consider to be sexual activity. I wish it was more inclusive of the subliminally sexual (such as fetishes), and the deliberately overtly non-sexual (such as self-denial, abstinence, chastity).Expressions can still be sexual even if no sex or intimate contact is sought or involved. (ex. sexting may have little appeal to many people, but a certain kind of Mars/pluto aspected person may enjoy acting upon sexual impulses by text or speech if air signs are involved. Meanwhile someone with fire in the mix may find themselves bored by the lack of actionability, earth may find it too ephemeral when compared to physical intimacy. In other situations, someone with air involved may obtain sexual satisfaction or generate sexual energy from non sexual activities such as public speaking or arguing; water could indicate a need for emotion/comfort in order to experience any pleasure past a certain level of intimacy, etc. For example, my trine from a Scorpio pluto in the first house to a Pisces mars in the fifth is almost completely subliminal. Pluto is hiding behind a libra ascendant face, mars is submerged in deep Pisces engaged in creative works. So for me to be an erotic artist is not exactly a big surprise if you look at my chart, but no one would guess it if they saw me at my day job streamlining healthcare workflows LOL it's not particularly sexual to be focused on the act of creating the art, but sex is still relevant. (Non harmonic aspects could be characterized by transformation/perversion of the initializing sexual nature (pluto) in execution. (Ex. Scorpio pluto square Aquarius mars, a struggle with inappropriate sexual verbal outbursts or chronic TMI)) IP: Logged |
Ann7 Knowflake Posts: 781 From: united states Registered: May 2009
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posted April 05, 2016 07:59 PM
Scorp sun with mars almost exactly conjunct pluto in virgo... Honestly, it depends on my mood. My boyfriend would tell you that I'm undersexed. IP: Logged |
RoseLily Knowflake Posts: 336 From: Registered: Jul 2015
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posted April 05, 2016 11:04 PM
Taurus mars opposite pluto/nnode, sorry but I'm guilty as charged... Very sexual in most aspect of my life... And with Taurus it becomes downright sensual,evem if I'm slightly on the selfish side of things. IP: Logged |
Electro DGX Knowflake Posts: 1420 From: Plutanus Registered: Jul 2015
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posted April 05, 2016 11:07 PM
I have Mars Parallel Pluto if that counts (also Mars Novile Pluto, minor aspect), not to mention my Mars is in Scorpio. I personally am also guilty, but I'm not very open about it. If anything, only a partner of mine would know of it, but most definitely not when it comes to anyone else. IP: Logged |
Pisces Plutonian Knowflake Posts: 182 From: United States Registered: Jan 2016
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posted April 05, 2016 11:27 PM
I think most people on Earth are naturally very sexual. Maybe it would be easier to see what placements make you dislike it.IP: Logged |
Piscean Tigress Knowflake Posts: 221 From: Everywhere and Nowhere Registered: Sep 2014
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posted April 06, 2016 01:00 AM
Yes! I don't have this aspect, but I Know 2 guys (conjunction 3° and square 7°) and both are hotter than hell!! I prefer the conjunction btw IP: Logged |
Valentine Knowflake Posts: 797 From: Canada Registered: Dec 2014
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posted April 06, 2016 01:05 AM
I have mars conj. Pluto in Leo, I'm not oversexedIP: Logged |
Sccs Knowflake Posts: 108 From: paris Registered: Nov 2014
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posted April 06, 2016 08:21 AM
Mars conjuct pluto in scorpio in H5I think my energy is very sexual, but I dont want to share it with anyone and I can spend long periods oef time without having sex. But my energy is very raw and sexual and I feel like its a strong power that I have. its just that the way I use it depends on other factors in my chart I think! IP: Logged |
Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 645 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted April 06, 2016 04:28 PM
I'm just saying if you have a mars/pluto aspect, chances of you being asexual are slim to none. IP: Logged |
XzaultaX Knowflake Posts: 169 From: Your mind Registered: Feb 2016
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posted April 07, 2016 12:07 AM
I have Mars sextile Pluto. I usually turn something so innocent into a dirty joke without realizing it :PIP: Logged |
Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 645 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted April 07, 2016 01:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by XzaultaX: I have Mars sextile Pluto. I usually turn something so innocent into a dirty joke without realizing it :P
Lol so do i! Gemini Mars trine Scorpio Pluto XD IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 3522 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 07, 2016 03:48 AM
Mars is often a planet that looks for instant gratification. And when in aspect to Pluto, the "need" for gratification can get obsessive.It is not necessarily just sex, but the immediate feelings that sex evokes. Mars/pluto could also do; dangerous/extreme sports sky-diving mountain climbing (Mount Everest) strenuous/challenging work conditions military work in danger zones. chasing ghosts/demons(literally) What is important is that the heart beats fast. The answers/resolve comes quickly and the action results in "instant" transitions/realizations about the self-relative to the experience. The list is not exhausted.I know one Mars/ Pluto in Libra guy(ex) who was really into sex. But not romance. He could also argue you under the table. Not that he was right. But he seemed to enjoy the tension it evoked  I would say this could definitely be one of those bad boy/bad girl aspects.
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Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 9908 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 07, 2016 08:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by Gemini30: I'm just saying if you have a mars/pluto aspect, chances of you being asexual are slim to none.
Annnnd wrong. Hah. I believe it's possible. I used to think I was asexual (I'm not) but at any rate, my sex drive is very low, some would say it's close to non-existent. I am seldom sexually attracted to people and don't feel sexual frustration. Unless... I'm involved with someone. But that doesn't happen often, so. My Mars squares Saturn and the Moon, perhaps that has something to do with it. (Mars conj. Pluto in Scorp) IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 9908 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 07, 2016 08:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by bacio: I think mars/pluto aspects don't necessarily involve physical expression, but rather engagement in various styles regarding intimate, controversial, or private matters
I agree with this. I think it manifests in a psychological / emotional way for me, mostly. Then again I do have Moon sq. Pluto as well. Hard to tell. IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 8507 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 07, 2016 09:14 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Mars/pluto could also do;dangerous/extreme sports sky-diving mountain climbing (Mount Everest) strenuous/challenging work conditions military work in danger zones. chasing ghosts/demons(literally) What is important is that the heart beats fast. The answers/resolve comes quickly and the action results in "instant" transitions/realizations about the self-relative to the experience
Finally, something that explained my jumping in a violent mosh pit as a kid. Long story short, a boy pushed me in as a prank, and I just ran around trying not to fall until I could escape. I then went to kill the boy who pushed me in (it probably was a very good thing that it took awhile for me to find him), but after which the adrenaline high was so intense that I jumped back in, and did so quite a few times. I never really moshed, I just ran out trying not to get hit. I was after the adrenaline rush. I'd never do something that reckless today (especially as I no longer have the healing abilities of a kid), but I think it's similar to skateboarding and surfing in that it represented "navigating the chaos" that was important for me. Though even today I get uncomfortable if I go to long without adrenaline (which I can get from aerobics).
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Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 645 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted April 07, 2016 10:23 AM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Annnnd wrong. Hah. I believe it's possible. I used to think I was asexual (I'm not) but at any rate, my sex drive is very low, some would say it's close to non-existent. I am seldom sexually attracted to people and don't feel sexual frustration. Unless... I'm involved with someone. But that doesn't happen often, so. My Mars squares Saturn and the Moon, perhaps that has something to do with it. (Mars conj. Pluto in Scorp)
Does your moon oppose or conjunct Saturn? IP: Logged |
Plut0nian2 Knowflake Posts: 157 From: Registered: Apr 2014
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posted April 08, 2016 10:14 PM
Wrong.. I have natal Mars conjuct Venus and both are squared by Pluto (Pluto in my 5th H )I am almost 25 and never had sex. (Saturn in 8th H maybe) For some weird reason others feel like I send out sexual/passionate vibes.. I do not even try to be sexy in fact I try to be less noticeable and I wish that no one in this world wanted sex.. When I am in love the thought of sex with the one I am in love with ruins my emotions.. it hurts me that the one I am in love with wants sex with me, I feel like he does not love me.. he just wants sex.. IP: Logged |