posted July 20, 2023 12:14 PM            

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Originally posted by 93nov:
Reviving this thread.

I wonder how stelliums play out in terms of excitement and growth-oriented experiences..

I have a 6H Scorpio stellium plus vertex. (5 planets in Scorpio, 1 in Libra all in my 6H).

There is definitely a MAJOR imbalance.

I don't really go on adventures or explore like i see most people doing. It's hard to verbalize.. like I just feel like a bystander watching everyone else live life while i just sit back in my small little world wishing i was out there just doing.. doing something. People are expanding their horizons with new jobs, traveling, babies, etc. i'll be 30 in a few months and i feel like i haven't explored past college days. It's so hard to explain and i hope others chime in with their perspectives lol.

My point is, does anyone else feel this way? Like the area of life your stellium is in is THE area of life you're stuck in? Even if we meet someone with a more well-rounded, scattered chart, the synastry would still inevitably be concentrated due to the stellium. I've heard charts without major configurations like grand crosses, t-squares, grand trines, etc aren't too impactful or long-lasting.

What do you guys think?

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I went on a date with a guy who's Aquarius stellium was in the 12H (Sun, Mars, Venus) with Saturn at 0 degrees Pisces 1H (so, pretty close to the stellium) and Moon conjunct Pluto and North Node in 9H Scorpio.

As for the stellium in the 12H - His entire world seemed to revolve around working and drinking. That's it. He travelled, but that's because he was from another country and would visit a few times a year. He was very stubborn and showed no emotion. I don't think he smiled once. He would cut me off and corrected me on everything and at one point flat-out told me I "sounded unintelligent" and that he didn't like my dress.

As a Sun conj. Chiron in Scorpio woman, I can't do small talk, I need "answers". I could see that his reality was very surface-level and when I would ask him about his childhood or family, he would say it "wasn't important" and "what does that have to do with us talking right now?". When I asked what his goals and dreams in life were, he told me they were "the same as everyone else's" and I just didn't ask further. Lots of awkward silence. He texted me asking when he would see me again and I told him I didn't think he liked me very much. His response? "I guess I do, I don't know. But when are you free?" and I never replied!

posted July 20, 2023 12:23 PM            

I have Mars exactly conjunct Venus, and Pluto (not conj) all in 5H Sagittarius trine Saturn in the 9H.

First off, I'm not sure if it's a funny coincidence with Saturn but every single time I travel, no matter how well I plan, it's always a MESS! It's always chaos and unexpected obstacles, but that's what makes it so fun

posted August 01, 2023 10:10 AM            

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Originally posted by Dons2angelss:
2 opposing stelliums in 6th and 12th houses. I swear I'm just living this life to clear every bit of karma I've racked up over thousands of years. I can not (and at this point won't even try anymore) live for myself. I would absolutely love to find a cave on the side of a mountain and dwell there forever, never speaking another word but alas, I am locked in tightly to situations where I must make a conscious choice to "do the right thing". Gross.

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I felt every bit of this lol.

But you know what they say, if you have a lot of energy in one house, seek out activities related to the opposing house to find balance. This suggestion hasn't worked so far for me because my 12H is rules by my Mars in 7H so I either have to suffer in the 6H to maintain my relationships....or completely un-do them and soar off in my 12H. 🤯 [You just indirectly helped me add another layer to my own madness. Thank you]

But anyway, back to my point. In your case, maybe part of you shedding karma in this lifetime is trying to find that balance between your 6H & 12H. Do you get to travel often? Do you get to do things that take you AWAY from the mundane? [I don't know your story so I apologize if I'm assuming in the wrong direction.]

I feel like people with heavy 6H & 12H influences are heavily affected by the daily humdrum.. more so than most people which is hard to understand from the outside looking in. We really need fulfilling lives or at least fulfilling activities to fill our lives or else nothing else matters.

Or if you're an intellectual type trapped in a heavy 6H/12H maybe you feel like the matrix has you pinned down. You can't access that passion/ creativity so it makes every day tasks unbearable.

Not to mention factoring in the guilt of it all. All humans naturally want to be a part of a community and family, but the mind does what the mind does.. the soul wants what the soul wants.

I hope I didn't gear off too much into left field.

ET. 🖖🏽

posted August 01, 2023 10:17 AM            

It’s probably a karmic issue. If so much energy of a certain type is involved, it seems like a lesson that you struggle with. The curriculum is focused on that subject because you fail the exam every time.