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Topic: Mars in Virgo - how they pursue and seduce
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nordicsoul
Knowflake Posts: 1870
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posted July 13, 2016 01:19 PM
  
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Originally posted by frankie2912:
Once he found out I was attracted to him, he began wandering around my work area but would never say anything. He'd look at me but not smile..just walk around me doing nothing in particular and say nothing and then walk away. I'd smile sometimes and this went on for a MONTH before I got the balls to approach him.I just started casual small talk and he didn't answer much but he actually said that seeing me in the mornings made his day. Aww..sweet. Weeks go by, he musters up more conversation but not a lot. He doesn't seem to know how to talk to me. He seems very shy. He has started smiling at me and yesterday he invited me to have a drink with him at the bar tonight. He has asked me this before and both times I said yes! After saying yes, he walks away! and has never given me his number. I haven't asked for it because I'm having trouble gauging his level of interest. Well today he didn't come by to see me at all!! Needless to say, we didn't meet up for that drink..again.
rule of thumb: if someone Knows you are interested and they dont make a move, I would not do ANYTHING to make it happen. the ball is on his court now. if he is interested, he MUSS do something.. you already did a lot... otherwise, you may end up having a fling, a guy having just casual sex, just to tell he is not that into you (if he happen to be honest) and that is how normally ends when we want things to happen that are not meant to... sometimes when I see this type of questions i want to shy away from astrology interpretations. no matter the mars sign, when a guy it is interested you know it. sometimes he blushes, he got nervous around you when he is shy. or say something non-sense... he may be interested, but he also may be for a one night stand now that he knows you are into him... IP: Logged |
frankie2912
Knowflake Posts: 1662
From: Here and There
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 13, 2016 08:16 PM
Nordicsoul...You make a very good point and it's something I'm watching out for. I don't want an exclusive relationship with anyone but I am open to the friends with benefits thing if we mesh well. Today he came by to talk to me at work. Said he had to work Saturday, which was true, which is why he didn't go thru with plans on Friday. He said we could go another time and he'd "let me know". I think he's playing around too much so I'll let it go. Like you said, ball is in his court now and I'm not going to appear desperate. IP: Logged |
Hemilla
Knowflake Posts: 677
From: State of mind
Registered: May 2015
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posted July 16, 2016 10:38 AM
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Originally posted by frankie2912:
This is in reference to the Scorp sun/Pisces moon man I mentioned in a recent post. I have a big crush on him (yeah yeah, I know, I post about crushes often..what can I say? Lol)... and I let him know this about two months ago.I work with this guy. Once he found out I was attracted to him, he began wandering around my work area but would never say anything. He'd look at me but not smile..just walk around me doing nothing in particular and say nothing and then walk away. I'd smile sometimes and this went on for a MONTH before I got the balls to approach him. I just started casual small talk and he didn't answer much but he actually said that seeing me in the mornings made his day. Aww..sweet. Weeks go by, he musters up more conversation but not a lot. He doesn't seem to know how to talk to me. He seems very shy. He has started smiling at me and yesterday he invited me to have a drink with him at the bar tonight. He has asked me this before and both times I said yes! After saying yes, he walks away! and has never given me his number. I haven't asked for it because I'm having trouble gauging his level of interest. Well today he didn't come by to see me at all!! Needless to say, we didn't meet up for that drink..again. SO....Mars in Virgo. Is this how yall pursue an interest??? Are you super slow in the chase? Cautious? Shy? What the hell? I have never ever knowingly been involved with anyone with Mars in Virgo and it is just one of those placements that doesn't make sense to me. I have Mars in Pisces and even though we're opposite, he sounds like he's pursuing with Piscean energy..hard to grasp!
We are insecure,insecure if we are worthy of that persons we like time,...so yeah,looking but not doing anything about it seems quite familiar, we are waiting for other person to make a move IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
Knowflake Posts: 1870
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Registered: Oct 2010
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posted July 18, 2016 02:40 AM
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Originally posted by frankie2912:
Nordicsoul...You make a very good point and it's something I'm watching out for. I don't want an exclusive relationship with anyone but I am open to the friends with benefits thing if we mesh well. Today he came by to talk to me at work. Said he had to work Saturday, which was true, which is why he didn't go thru with plans on Friday. He said we could go another time and he'd "let me know". I think he's playing around too much so I'll let it go. Like you said, ball is in his court now and I'm not going to appear desperate.
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Hemilla
Knowflake Posts: 677
From: State of mind
Registered: May 2015
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posted January 03, 2020 10:41 AM
Also mars in Virgo researches you out - once i am interested in someone i find out everything about them, one of my fun activities is finding out birthdays, its not easy nowadays when everyone removed them from facebook so i have to put i more effort, but i find it out - most acgion from my part is i will send you a friend request and like your newest pics 🤔IP: Logged | |
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