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Topic: Kinkiness-Mar is in Aquarius
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outofideas Knowflake Posts: 259 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted July 21, 2016 09:39 AM
Haha, sorry for the disturbing thoughts that my post may have provoked.  IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 3762 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted July 21, 2016 11:30 PM
Hello Aqua Mars in 10th house.The top definition for kinky on Urban Dictionary is. "Foot-sucking, rubber wearing, pee on me, fruit-****** ', candlewax drippin', long fingernail scrapin', tossed salad eatin',multiple partner havin', she-male, oil-drenched, chocolate sauce, whipped cream covered,vibrator usin',dress-up,banned in 30 states type of sex." I guess it depends who I am compared to. Sometimes I wonder if just about everyone has their own fetish weather it's vanilla or bizarre. I'm open to trying new things. For example anal. I am open to it but the timing has to be right, and I want notice, so I can prepare my body for it. Haven't done it in 7 years. I would try out being a dominatrix for an ex:handcuffs, ankle cuffs, blind folding. I learned with my actual boyfriend that I like his dirty talk. And being called a wh0re and b1tch from time to time. I love being choked. Recently my bf playfully put a knife to my throat, and I was really aroused by it. I like being flogged when I'm high. I will swallow. So to some that may be "yikes" and to others it could be vanilla. There are things I do that people wouldn't do, but on the other hand they could do things, I wouldn't like record themselves doing it with their phones. I would actually consider if married now that I think of it. IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 8137 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted July 22, 2016 01:55 AM
^^I'm worried that might be a little too graphic and get this thread locked. I have nothing against it personally and love frank (in the informative sense as opposed to just trying to titillate each other) discussion about these things, but we can't have any discussion if these threads keep getting locked (and then no one can edit their posts out). (I've been on a board that was very frank about talks like this, and found it educational and interesting...and I've shared quite a bit of intimate information there myself that would've been TMI elsewhere.) But yeah, YMMV on what's kinky and what's vanilla. That's why I looked it up in trying to get a more "standard" idea on what constituted kinky. Can't say I found a "standard" definition. Heck, I even stumbled across an article on the kinkiness and "naughty fun" of skinny dipping (and it was just about regular skinny dipping, not adding anything erotic to it), and I didn't consider any of the multiple times I went skinny dipping as erotic in any sense. 'Course other articles on kinkiness were much more extreme. IP: Logged |
aquagembaby Knowflake Posts: 575 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 22, 2016 03:46 AM
it also depends how we're defining 'kinky' tho. cus what one person finds kinky won't be that kinky to the next person.IP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn Knowflake Posts: 475 From: Registered: Sep 2015
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posted July 22, 2016 07:59 AM
Stawr,Thanks for such a frank reply, it's very interesting. Do you have more Aquarius in your chart? And aspects to Uranus and Pluto? Thanks IP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn Knowflake Posts: 475 From: Registered: Sep 2015
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posted July 22, 2016 08:04 AM
Look guys, Vanilla is also part of BDSM so..is that what we are talking about when we say 'kinky'? It might well beIP: Logged |
colorful butterfly Knowflake Posts: 383 From: Durham north carolina usa Registered: May 2015
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posted July 23, 2016 11:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by outofideas: Haha, good to know, thank you!Well the person i was speaking of, who also has this square, had told me that he is actually aroused by hairy armpits and pubic hair is also preferred...lol. Recently he told me he is very interested beyond things like the missionary position but we didn't go into any details. 
Dated a guy like that, he liked hair but he was a mars in cancer. IP: Logged |
Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 578 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 24, 2016 12:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by Stawr: Hello Aqua Mars in 10th house.The top definition for kinky on Urban Dictionary is. "Foot-sucking, rubber wearing, pee on me, fruit-****** ', candlewax drippin', long fingernail scrapin', tossed salad eatin',multiple partner havin', she-male, oil-drenched, chocolate sauce, whipped cream covered,vibrator usin',dress-up,banned in 30 states type of sex." I guess it depends who I am compared to. Sometimes I wonder if just about everyone has their own fetish weather it's vanilla or bizarre. I'm open to trying new things. For example anal. I am open to it but the timing has to be right, and I want notice, so I can prepare my body for it. Haven't done it in 7 years. I would try out being a dominatrix for an ex:handcuffs, ankle cuffs, blind folding. I learned with my actual boyfriend that I like his dirty talk. And being called a wh0re and b1tch from time to time. I love being choked. Recently my bf playfully put a knife to my throat, and I was really aroused by it. I like being flogged when I'm high. I will swallow. So to some that may be "yikes" and to others it could be vanilla. There are things I do that people wouldn't do, but on the other hand they could do things, I wouldn't like record themselves doing it with their phones. I would actually consider if married now that I think of it.
What about a Threesome or Gangbanged? If your boyfriend allowed it, would you do it? 🙄 IP: Logged |
Sylven Knowflake Posts: 523 From: Netherlands Registered: Nov 2014
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posted July 24, 2016 02:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by outofideas: Haha, sorry for the disturbing thoughts that my post may have provoked. 
Nothing I can't handle! 
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athenaia Knowflake Posts: 722 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted July 24, 2016 03:49 PM
I can completely related to Stawr's post as a Mars in Pisces.. I'm currently in a D/s relationship and was thinking about getting into domme-ing. My Mars is sextile to Uranus by sign, not by orb. IP: Logged |
Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 578 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 24, 2016 06:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by athenaia: I can completely related to Stawr's post as a Mars in Pisces.. I'm currently in a D/s relationship and was thinking about getting into domme-ing. My Mars is sextile to Uranus by sign, not by orb.
That's more from your Mars in Pisces. MARS in pisces i have seen alot in BDSM and other mainstream stuff like Porn or Adult Entertainment. Your Mars doesn't sextile Uranus if there is no orb. Just signs doesn't count. Also having your Mars in the 11th and 12th house could lead to such "kinkyness." IP: Logged |
athenaia Knowflake Posts: 722 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted July 24, 2016 06:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gemini30: That's more from your Mars in Pisces. MARS in pisces i have seen alot in BDSM and other mainstream stuff like Porn or Adult Entertainment. Your Mars doesn't sextile Uranus if there is no orb. Just signs doesn't count. Also having your Mars in the 11th and 12th house could lead to such "kinkyness."
You're right. Given this post is about Aqua/Uranian Mars, I intended my comment to be relevant to the topic and show a correlation of like-energies meshing together in my chart I do have an Aqua Moon though and my partner has an Aqua Venus - not as relevant to the post, but still in tune with the Uranian theme everyone else is mentioning My Mars is just in the boring ole 6th house, my 11th/12th houses are empty IP: Logged |
Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 578 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 25, 2016 07:49 PM
I have Mars Opposite Uranus. Astro.com has it as my strongest aspect. I'm pretty kinky as well. I like alot of what Stawr said and more  It's not only Mars in Aquarius but Mars/Uranus aspects. IP: Logged |