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Topic: Pluto In The 7th
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Ann7 Knowflake Posts: 853 From: united states Registered: May 2009
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posted December 11, 2016 04:51 PM
Does anyone have this placement in the natal and if so, how has it played out in your relationships? IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 6043 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted December 11, 2016 05:14 PM
I have this placementWe do not have relationships, we take hostages!
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CapriciousCapricorn Knowflake Posts: 877 From: Registered: Sep 2015
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posted December 11, 2016 05:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by Orange: I have this placementWe do not have relationships, we take hostages!
Lol you don't need more information than this. Says it all! ))) IP: Logged |
Ann7 Knowflake Posts: 853 From: united states Registered: May 2009
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posted December 11, 2016 05:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by Orange: I have this placementWe do not have relationships, we take hostages!
Lol Would you say that you are happy in your relationships? Or do your relationships have a volatile feel to them due to the Pluto placement. Also, do you feel that you being the Pluto person is more dominant or do find that you attract dominant people? 20 questions, I know - sorry.  IP: Logged |
peony Knowflake Posts: 1076 From: U.S. Registered: Dec 2014
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posted December 15, 2016 01:47 AM
A friend of mine has Pluto in the 7H. He's a psychotherapist, which satisfies a need with this placement to interact with and understand the shadow side, the dark or unconscious aspects of human beings. Pluto is incompatible with superficiality and calls for in-depth, intense encounters. Common themes that have come up are drama and turmoil in relationships, i.e., jealousy and sexual triangles. He's not the jealous type, but his wife is very much so. With Pluto in the 7H, any naivete will be challenged. Close relationships will probably lead to experiencing the bowels of one's feelings and emotions. So, some people may avoid them for this reason. At its best, in a person who has worked on themselves and is self-aware, relationships can bring healing and/or deep-seated changes in the psyche. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 5616 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 15, 2016 01:55 AM
My partner has pluto ruling his DC and I have Scorpio rising, we both have strong personalities and have a hx of intense fights, we have come a long way though.IP: Logged |
Ann7 Knowflake Posts: 853 From: united states Registered: May 2009
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posted December 15, 2016 08:14 AM
@Peony - that's really interesting because the person I'm asking in reference to wants to pursue their degree in Psychotherapy. @hypatia238 not really related to this thread but what degree is your Scorp rising at? IP: Logged |
nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 1362 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 15, 2016 09:33 AM
quote: Originally posted by Orange: I have this placementWe do not have relationships, we take hostages!
Lol I have it in 5 and yes, drama is part of the picture. i dated someone with pluto in 7th and his relationships cannot be more plutonic, in spite of libra placement venus virgo, piscis AC and piscis moon... he tended to project his pluto. he attract the jelous type and intensive.. it is funny because he used to do all the things you can immagine to provoque jelousy and then pretended to be a victim... on the other hand when he attracted women less plutonic he lost interest easily. only I and his ex-wife manage to keep him coming for more for years at different timelines of course, but yes our relationship was very plutonic and his relationship with his ex was even more plutonic... I have not dated more pluto in 7th, but from what i have read and my experience, I advice not to be mislead by airy placements. Pluto in 7th no matter the rest of the chart has an intensity than when is not owned is projected. they bring crisis and trouble unless they stop projecting and start owning that and enjoying the intensity.. depending of the other parts of the chart it may be easier or not for them to integrate the plutonian energy IP: Logged |
nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 1362 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 15, 2016 09:35 AM
quote: Originally posted by peony: He's not the jealous type, but his wife is very much so.
even this guy being a therapist and still is projecting pluto in his wife.. amazing! IP: Logged |
Ann7 Knowflake Posts: 853 From: united states Registered: May 2009
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posted December 15, 2016 09:46 AM
Thanks Nordic from what I've read (everyone here is kind of seconding this) it will either be them bringing the drama or their partner bringing the drama. Maybe the positive side would be a lot of passion.  IP: Logged |
margym0o Knowflake Posts: 805 From: Canada Registered: Jul 2014
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posted December 15, 2016 09:56 AM
I feel like having Pluto in the 7th (my partner does) craves the regenerative feeling of breaking something down to rebuild it. To experience pushing the relationship or your own feelings to the brink and have that moment of healing come when the relationship becomes stronger or falls apart. In either outcome, strong emotions (of love or hate) are felt and I think is what this placement needs to grow and evolve. IP: Logged |
margym0o Knowflake Posts: 805 From: Canada Registered: Jul 2014
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posted December 15, 2016 10:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by nordicsoul: even this guy being a therapist and still is projecting pluto in his wife.. amazing!
It is absolutely the projection and this is what the 7th house does - it either brings out these traits in the other person or by nature you attract these traits to you via another person. It would make perfect sense that someone with Pluto in the 7th would either bring out feelings of jealousy in another who was "normal" before or attract a jealous type from the onset. This goes for the nature of any planet in the 7th.
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nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 1362 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 15, 2016 10:14 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ann7: Thanks Nordic from what I've read (everyone here is kind of seconding this) it will either be them bringing the drama or their partner bringing the drama. Maybe the positive side would be a lot of passion. 
yes, no complain in that regard. tons LOL
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nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 1362 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 15, 2016 10:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by margym0o: It is absolutely the projection and this is what the 7th house does - it either brings out these traits in the other person or by nature you attract these traits to you via another person. It would make perfect sense that someone with Pluto in the 7th would either bring out feelings of jealousy in another who was "normal" before or attract a jealous type from the onset.This goes for the nature of any planet in the 7th.
normally projection works in with people who really has the traits, otherwise, how the person becomes aware or play out the energy. So I am plutonian myself with pluto in 5 square moon and co-ruler of my 7 in scorpio. so the guy i referred in my experience with pluto in 7th atracted me. why, because he cannot own his own pluto. however, he made me more plutonian than I am really are. i was married for several years and my husband was not plutonian and i was never behaving as with this guy. after the first fight with that guy i literally wanted to kill him. no kidding! our fights were tough. he triggered on me the darkest side.. so, you are right, the made the person become more of what they are and not owning. this happens a lot with projection, why? because the person who is object of the projection receive all the unlived energy of the person and perform for them. does it make sense. I do not want to enter into issues such as violence but normally people who cannot own their mars tend to attract bullies and violence and even make people who are not normally violent to want to break their heads... just an example.. people who cannot own their pluto (typical of pluto in 7) bring the pluto from others and made these other more plutonian as the other is living pluto for themselves and for the one doing the projection.. IP: Logged |
nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 1362 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 15, 2016 10:25 AM
yes, indeed about any planet in 7th. i have neptune in 7 and this is what i attract. neptunians with all their elusiveness and mistery and nice manners... gosh!IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 5616 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 15, 2016 11:18 AM
Hi pluto rules his 7H but falls in the 6H and he married a therapist who is a virgo with scorpio rising. He also has Juno in Virgo conjunct my Sun.17-18 deg Scorpio A Path Through Woods Brilliant With Multicolored Splendor IP: Logged |
margym0o Knowflake Posts: 805 From: Canada Registered: Jul 2014
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posted December 15, 2016 12:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by nordicsoul: normally projection works in with people who really has the traits, otherwise, how the person becomes aware or play out the energy. So I am plutonian myself with pluto in 5 square moon and co-ruler of my 7 in scorpio. so the guy i referred in my experience with pluto in 7th atracted me. why, because he cannot own his own pluto. however, he made me more plutonian than I am really are. i was married for several years and my husband was not plutonian and i was never behaving as with this guy. after the first fight with that guy i literally wanted to kill him. no kidding! our fights were tough. he triggered on me the darkest side.. so, you are right, the made the person become more of what they are and not owning. this happens a lot with projection, why? because the person who is object of the projection receive all the unlived energy of the person and perform for them. does it make sense. I do not want to enter into issues such as violence but normally people who cannot own their mars tend to attract bullies and violence and even make people who are not normally violent to want to break their heads... just an example.. people who cannot own their pluto (typical of pluto in 7) bring the pluto from others and made these other more plutonian as the other is living pluto for themselves and for the one doing the projection..
I agree. I myself have Venus sq. Pluto almost exact (in addition to Scorpio Moon...bleh) and am in relationship currently with someone who has Pluto in the 7th (with a few other Pluto hard aspects) and it definitely takes one to know one. I know this now. All that intensity has to go somewhere and it can only be with someone who "gets it" in my opinion. IP: Logged |
nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 1362 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 15, 2016 01:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by margym0o: I agree. I myself have Venus sq. Pluto almost exact (in addition to Scorpio Moon...bleh) and am in relationship currently with someone who has Pluto in the 7th (with a few other Pluto hard aspects) and it definitely takes one to know one. I know this now. All that intensity has to go somewhere and it can only be with someone who "gets it" in my opinion.
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peony Knowflake Posts: 1076 From: U.S. Registered: Dec 2014
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posted December 15, 2016 05:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by nordicsoul: even this guy being a therapist and still is projecting pluto in his wife.. amazing!
I'm familiar with the concept. But, that's an assumption based on a generalization about someone you don't know. There are always variations in how human beings manifest an aspect, which are accounted for by the evolution of the soul and life experiences. There are many levels of consciousness manifesting on the planet in any given cycle. IP: Logged |