posted December 27, 2016 10:41 PM              

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Originally posted by the89freespirit:
Hahah. It can be hard to tell someone's sex on here. I read someone say once that everyone they thought was a lady on here was actually a man and vice versa.

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posted December 27, 2016 11:41 PM            

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Very nice of you to provide that insight.

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Anytime.

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I wasn't always exactly on point, no.

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posted December 27, 2016 11:50 PM            

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Thank you for your input! Do you know their Venus placements?

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The four that I've known had:

Venus in Virgo
Venus in Cancer
Venus in Scorpio
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in Pisces

posted December 28, 2016 01:06 AM            

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Originally posted by thingsgoneby:
@Aries23Degrees

That's totally fine, I just asked about men into women because I'm a woman myself. Haha, and maybe you're right about Virgo placements, either the prude or the porn star. Though I guess you could say that the guys I've known with this placement actually have been somewhere in between. Kinky and open for new things, but not overly so. Do you know the "don't care much for intimacy" guy's Sun/Moon? Thank you!

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Oh ok. Totally understand.

Well the Venus Virgo/Mars Virgo one had Sun/Moon in Libra with Mercury in Scorpio conjunct Pluto.

I think the Sun/Moon conjunct in Libra may have also helped in making him indifferent?

I think its my added Mars conjunct that would literally talk/charm him into it.Practically seduce him really to which he would eventually be receptive and enjoy.

He was/is physically a very good looking guy and turned heads everywhere we went. Quite possibly the best looking I have ever dated to be honest.

I just couldn't believe my luck when we initially met and his eyes lit up.So I could tell that he was as attracted to me as I was to him

I think that his issues with sex may stem from some beliefs he was taught about it-as his Mom was super religious,so I think he had a bit of an inner conflict with it.

Did what I could though with him to soothe him and help him with that turmoil.But a more open Taurus/Leo Moon got my attention at the time and I was outta there

I found it quite telling that his Juno in Scorpio Pluto-Mercury conjunct played out so aptly after we broke up.

posted December 28, 2016 03:35 AM              

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Originally posted by thingsgoneby:
I haven't studied astrology for very long, but my impression is that both Venus and Mars play a part in what men are attracted to. Two sides of the same coin, so to speak. And since Mars should be what I, as a woman, am attracted to, yet, I'm far more attracted to my Moon/Jupiter I figured it's an interplay of some sort, for both men and women.

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Bluntly and generally speaking, Venus is the type of feminity men are attracted to, and Mars is how they express their desire.

But of course that is a general statement, and can be modified by the individual horoscopes. But as a general statement it`s pretty much true.

Personally of course I`d check what is going on with his 5th house and 8th house, too.

Of course Moon also figures in, if there is an emotional element to the attraction.

posted December 28, 2016 12:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Bluntly and generally speaking, Venus is the type of feminity men are attracted to, and Mars is how they express their desire.

But of course that is a general statement, and can be modified by the individual horoscopes. But as a general statement it`s pretty much true.

Personally of course I`d check what is going on with his 5th house and 8th house, too.

Of course Moon also figures in, if there is an emotional element to the attraction.

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It's funny you say that because I find that Mars is how I express my desire, when it's supposed to be what I'm attracted to. From my own very modest research I've seen the pattern of Venus and attraction in men, but also that Mars appears to be a co-significator for what men look for in a woman (or another man), and not so much how they go about getting what they want. That aspect seems (with an emphasis on seems, because these are just my five cents) to largely be ruled by their Sun sign. But I know the research and common belief point to Mars being what females are attracted to and Venus what men look for in a partner. But I wonder if astrology really can be gender stereotyped like that? Well, I'm just hypothesising ...

posted December 28, 2016 12:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
The four that I've known had:

Venus in Virgo
Venus in Cancer
Venus in Scorpio
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in Pisces

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posted December 28, 2016 12:23 PM            

I’m not sure if Libra’s generally are indifferent. The ones I’ve met have been lighthearted, but they have shown a possessive streak underneath their jovial exterior. Could be the Libra Moon, though? And of course a remnant of his religious upbringing. Sorry to hear he encountered a couple of douchebags, I hope he’s fine today.

posted December 29, 2016 11:08 AM            

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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Wow. Same here ! Especially the cleanliness and he showering part. Bad breath repulses me and I'm a bit OCD about it. ( years ago I was sooo attracted to this man but I could not get past his bad breath and do nothing ever happened)

I can appear "prudish" I guess, but am actually quite passionate when with the right person. That's when it comes out. I have always been selective about my sexual encounters and partners , and was never one to be promiscuous. I'm in my thirties and have only had 4 lovers. And they have had to work hard to bed me. I need to make sure they are "clean as a whistle"

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I'm a woman- Sag Venus and Virgo Mars. A lot of this applies to me, as well. Especially the cleanliness. Spontaneous sex 99% of the time is out of the question. I need to know we are clean and fresh.

posted December 29, 2016 11:12 AM            

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Originally posted by the89freespirit:
Hmm, well, I'm a Virgo Mars male but I don't date ladies, though. I have Mercury in Virgo conjunct my Mars and also Venus in Virgo. But, Venus is too far away to be conjunct either.

I have Mars in the 7th, so I honestly couldn't be in a relationship where the sexual chemistry wasn't there or dried up over time. That's a very important part of the relationship to me. If the sex isn't good, then I am seeking the next exit! Haha. But, that's just because it brings passion and keeps it alive.

When I'm turned on, I'm highly turned on and when I'm not, I can just be thinking "Blah, this is so boring." I'm very specific sexually. So, one wrong move can throw the entire thing off. It's not quite as bad as it sounds. I'm very vocal about my likes and dislikes, so I give him a chance to learn and catch up. I often feel like I have to teach my sexual partner how to please me. If he doesn't get it, it's a surefire way for me to lose interest. I can be a lot of work in the bedroom. I'm not really easy to please sexually. But, I'm extremely pleased when you get there.

I'm not a prude. I'm quite casual about sex actually. But, I also like to keep it pretty classy. So, I'm not wildly casual about sex, either. I'm definitely not on hook-up apps all the time or anything. I actually really need to intellectually connect before anything sexual happens (which is also due to Mercury being conjunct Mars, as well). We need to engage in good conversation and I need to know that he can make me laugh or interest me, in person and right on the spot. That's part of the reason why I don't do online dating. I need to pick your brain in person and see if you pass the test.

Also, I'm really not kinky. Toys and fetishes and stuff like that just don't do it for me. You'd think my sex drive would be on the weirder side since Mars is trine my Uranus. But, I just see that aspect reflecting how on-and-off, hot-and-cold my sexuality can be. I do love dirty talk though because, when done right, I think it's really amazing and makes it so much better. Again, I think it's because Mercury is conjunct.

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Thanks, you basically summed me up, though I'm a woman.

posted April 17, 2017 11:56 AM            

I have a Power Alley in Virgo, meaning there is a gap of degrees between my Virgo Mars and Virgo Pluto. If a female Venus (and/or Moon) splits the spread, she will likely feel it. Of course the Sun sign of the female can be anything.

I can usually feel animal magnetism (like in a bar environment) when I am in public maybe because my Power Alley is opposite my Pisces Moon.

I am generally clean and neat but not excessively. I am very selective and patient. I can sense genetics, some being a turn-on more than others, such as a chin cleft. I prefer dark/hairy as I am light/less hair, but I am not prejudiced. I prefer a nicer body (especially bottom half) over face, but not too strict. I am almost always dominant. I am moderately conservative.

posted August 08, 2019 09:19 AM            

What turns them on?
Good question.
A vocal statement that she wants to have sex with me.
Lol, noo i'm not that hard to get going..

If she tells me exactly how she wants me to please her.. Well that's hot(!!!)

Are they faithful?
In a committed relationship i'm very faithful.
While single i can be quite the **** ..

Kinky/prude?
My experience says it depends on the overall synastry.

Having sex with women that have mars in Virgo is in general very 'comfortable'.

With a woman whos Mars is in aquarius anything could happen, lol

(i have not slept with all women in the world with the above placements so please take my few experiences for what they are)

What are they attracted to in a woman? Looks/behavior.

Integrity. Independence. Humor. Intellect.
Fearlessness. Compassion.

I do not have any particular physical preferences. But i do think that female athlete swimmers, in general, do have nice bodies.
Them broad shoulders....

posted August 08, 2019 12:03 PM            

I'm mainly asexual, but my passion is really strong when I find someone I can connect with emotionally. If I can't connect emotionally I can't feel any kind of attraction. But this is mainly due to my Scorpio Moon, I think.

Once I connect emotionally, my passion is loyal.
I'll never be unfaithful, as long as I have the emotional bond.

I like sex to be earthly, very raw, wild. Very natural.

I don't feel any satisfaction in the previous games.
I mean, I want sex and already, passionate and wild, without any previous play.

posted May 21, 2020 05:21 PM            

However, the rest of the chart is really telling too... he is a very sensitive and soft guy. Venus in cancer, moon in taurus, leo sun, saturn in 1st.