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posted January 04, 2017 09:08 PM            

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There's this guy.

He has a Scorpio stellium of Venus/mars/moon/Uranus sitting very tightly on my ASC/Uranus. I met him around 10 years ago when I was with my then partner. There's always been an 'energy' between us. A certain magnetism. So I got divorced in April and since then he has popped back into my life. He has alluded to certain things, having sexy dreams about me etc. flirting. I play along too. Then a few weeks ago he's like "we should catch up". Just threw it out there. And I said sure thing I'll message you after Xmas. NYD he sends me a beautiful happy ny message with a kiss. So I suggest we catch up. Took him a day to get back to me. I suggested "how's Friday?" He said "pretty good". I suggested a time and that maybe he can pick the place. That was 2 days ago and he's seen the msg. He's 38.

Is he playing Scorpio games?? 🙄 He's a libra sun/Mercury.

Makes me think he doesn't want to see me now.

I'm wondering if he's just being overly cautious and trying to scope me out or test me or something.

With Uranus there is he in a land of Pluto vs Uranus conflict?

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posted January 04, 2017 09:32 PM            

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That's quite a configuration he has.

Are all of those planets (Moon/Venus/Mars/Uranus) conjunct?

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posted January 04, 2017 09:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Elysia:
That's quite a configuration he has.

Are all of those planets (Moon/Venus/Mars/Uranus) conjunct?

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Yep all conjunct! 😳
I'm thinking there must be a tug of war in him yes? Wanting deep soulful connection and yet to be free at all costs? How utterly frustrating.

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posted January 04, 2017 10:10 PM            

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In a way, yes..
But you know, that Uranian flavour can simply be a need for excitement and zaniness.. Appreciating the weird & wonderful.
Uranus thrives on shock value, or what to regular people seems like shock value. There can also be a lot of fluctuations with this type of energy (sudden plans to take off to Paris, or sudden cancellations of plans you've had for months -- but those are trivial examples).

^ Imagine all the amped-up craziness with a Scorpio flavour.. Think Ryan Reynolds in Deapool.. In fact, I believe he too has Uranus conjunct Mars/Moon, perhaps Sun too.

With Uranus in the mix, the best way is (usually) to just roll with the punches - also maybe deliver some of your own. He won't mind.

As for this plan of yours - the date - you can probably just ask him what happened about it. Sometimes life just happens too fast, and people get caught up.. It might simply be that! However, if his response seems cagey, it might be something else..

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... Or, make other plans. Wait for him to bring it up, and tell him you can't make it. (This part is not good advice, just something I might do. )

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posted January 04, 2017 10:18 PM            

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Ooh, yes..

Looks like you're talking to a Libran Ryan Reynolds.

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posted January 04, 2017 10:24 PM            

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he sounds like a jerk, like he doesnt really care, if he got your message and he cared, he woulda replied, at least i would have. trying to act like he's awesome to make you like him, but i dont think it's awesome.

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posted January 04, 2017 10:27 PM            

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the asc is basically one of the most powerful places to have a stellium with someone. imagine a circle, cut that circle in half, and then the bottom is the earth. the whole earth is in line there, so it's a powerful place, it's so large. so it makes an easy attraction to AnYONE with a stellium at your asc i would think.

So that explains the easy attraction. is it like a very compatible soul mate attraction, which is complex, unique, special, intricate with your own synastry? i doubt it. it's just an easy simple attraction cause his stellium is at your horizon. the most easy powerful place.

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posted January 04, 2017 10:39 PM            

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OK his ears must've been burning lol he just wrote back.
And I feel I need to practise patience. This situation keeps occurring with guys. They take their time and I'm like NO NOW! write back NOW. ugh...

Yes Elysia haha! But what's RR like as a person I wonder?! I haven't seen much of him. Funny though because THIS Libran is an actor too ha!

Soren, maybe this will actually say something about my true ascendant hey If there's a huge attraction when I meet him tmrw I think I'll know.

And by the way, isn't the planet person mostly infatuated?

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posted January 04, 2017 10:41 PM            

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@ elysia i think he wrote that because of my anger projected into the universe, honestly. if he wrote back in the last few minutes.

when i was doing synastry testing, i am incredibly attracted to people with a planet exactly (1> d) conjunct my asc/dsc.

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posted January 04, 2017 10:45 PM            

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^^ that's the protective aries energy I LOVE! My Aries friends do the same for me, only they're like "want me to punch him????" haha

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posted January 04, 2017 10:46 PM            

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yeah i think you are right hehe, can get mad. hehe. : )

anyway true about whether you will find out if it's your true asc. i have no idae how it would be like for someone to have their asc conjuct your planet, i should find out :o (using astrotheme, i can see 10 of them in 2 minutes lol)

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posted January 04, 2017 11:00 PM            

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Haha I can tell

Well when you find out let me know

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posted January 04, 2017 11:08 PM            

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alright just checked some and the attraction was kind of strange and not as warm and nice as the planet-conj my ascs thing. i dont know. i didnt expect that, there is also a chance their birth time is off by a few minutes making it less exact, it really heightens at 1 degree. so i'm not sure but the venus ones seemed pretty good all of them.

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posted January 04, 2017 11:16 PM            

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Yeah weird result. Hmmm maybe it depends on the natal aspects too though.

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posted January 04, 2017 11:23 PM            

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you might want to find out yourself it takes 2 minutes it works for any planet already verified on the planets. then search ascs on any of your planets. after you search both planets on your asc/dsc and then search people with their asc/dsc on a planet of yours, we will know. from your perspective. it cant be coincedence for both.

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posted January 05, 2017 12:11 AM            

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I've never used astrotheme, where do I go there exactly??

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posted January 05, 2017 12:14 AM            

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after you click on any celeb there should be a section under or above on that page where it says -positions-aspects-heights- along those lines. click positions, and then you can specify the position to be at any degree. i suggest signing up for free so you can click on their pics to enlarge and see them good.

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posted January 05, 2017 12:25 AM            

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emma maybe the horizon-so grande is like your home. you like to invite others into your home and they see all your kitchen ware and things. but you dont like going into someone elses home. it is alright, but it isnt your own comfortable zone. maybe this is why. let me know if you feel the same.

i just verified again myself and know it was accurate this time all their ascs. i know that solarian synastry look. i wasnt attracted to any of them. switched to suns conjunct my asc. strong attractions to each one. wow. one sided attraction.

guess we gotta put in twice as much work to find someone who not only we like- but they like us too dang!

oh @ OP i didnt realize he was a libra. haha that's not as bad as i thought, thought it was a scorp, dont know why but it creates a different impression. i dont see it as that bad then, i guess i got angry for no reason.

all the scorps i know take a person pretty seriously so they would all reply unless they really were unavailable (emotionallty, physically, whatever else). so for a scorp to do that imo would mean he was just plain uninterested. libra is different though since they are so extroverted and an air sign they often consider what other people are thinking and thus he probably has a reason for not replying, probably trying to make you think, like a game. but for a scorp, that would be rude of most of them.

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posted January 05, 2017 01:00 AM            

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^^ ah ok. but since soooo many of his planets are in scorpio, wouldnt that make him ultra scorpio?

I just checked astrotheme. Ricki Martin's asc is bang on my sun and i remember having very erotic dreams about him once. I find him so sexy. I don't know the others in the list but gonna check my other planets.

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posted January 05, 2017 01:05 AM            

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well occasionaly i find very strong connections then as i am searching i found the strong ones had several conjunctions to my planets (2 or more). so it would be good to not just check 1 or 2 but several.

and well i figured you might say that could consider him an "official scorp" but to me not really. i think he'd still be more libran. the sun is 99.9% of our solar system. just as an asteroid doesnt have much way of influence to a planet, uranus does not have much to jupiter (much much closer and much much larger) and just as an asteroid does not really compare to jupiter, jupiter has a similar comparison to the sun.

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posted January 05, 2017 01:18 AM            

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ah yes I just saw that RIcky has other configurations that match well with my chart. No wonder.

Dude in question has got a beautiful Libran heart. And it bodes well with my Libran NN too. Perhaps he will teach me things.

Soren which ascendant tends to have a widow's peak? He has a very prominent one along with piercing blue eyes.

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posted January 05, 2017 01:22 AM            

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ah ok makes sense. good to double check or get several samples. hm well i just googled widows peak astrology heh and one said taurus one sag, 3-4 others aries. i was really thinking subconciously (without realizing it) aries cause my bro has aries moon and yeah balding.

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posted January 05, 2017 01:26 AM            

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haha yeah! AND his hair grows UP like Aries.

If its taurus asc it might very well explain his slowness in responding.

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posted January 05, 2017 01:27 AM            

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true air signs are attentitive to other's words, to a taurus a word is more of just a sound vibration, lol. and they are fixed

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posted January 05, 2017 01:29 AM            

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oh thought you meant in real life. sorry lol

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