posted February 18, 2017 09:29 AM            

"will you come back to your old love after a long time separation/break up?"

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"will you be friends with your ex lover? Keeping a good communication with them after a a break up/separation?"

posted February 18, 2017 03:27 PM            

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will you come back to your old love after a long time separation/break up?

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I doubt it. Unless I am sure that this will be the person I will settle down with I would not like to repeat an "episode" that already ended just so it can end again.

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will you be friends with your ex lover? Keeping a good communication with them after a break up/separation?

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I would gladly see them once every few months to catch up and see how life is going for them but I would not be inclined to have them in my daily social circle as a constant friend. This is not something personal but practical. I would be bothered if my partner kept a former lover in their friend group so I wouldn't do it to them either. And aside from this mindfulness to current partners it would be awkward for me and a former lover to be close and talk about our current love lives. No matter how settled things are, I would never be completely comfortable with that.

posted February 18, 2017 05:26 PM            

I was asking because I've known someone with their moon in scorpio and venus in scorpio who has been divorced 8 years ago, is trying to build the relationship with his ex husband again.

Her relationships after the divorce was always not ended up well, lots of drama. One of her relationship she almost married. She didn't take a long time to move from one relationship to another. Pretty much quick to move on.

She admits in 8 years she still keeps a communication with his ex husband and still let him sleeping at her home at anytime (no one knows about it). They have one children together. Her ex husband loves taking them both to foreign country in the holiday.

Now she is telling other people that she and his ex are coming back together. And it has been a year and a half they live together again. She also says she wants to test the relationship first but she really open to re-marry him.

I know she doesn't like being questioned too much, that's why I go to this forum.

posted February 19, 2017 07:16 AM            

Your friend has already permanently merged her life with her ex-husband's by having a child together. That's not a bridge you can burn easily (or at all). Scorpio instinctively wants to remove all traces of the past to move on but you obviously can't do that in situations like these. That's where growing up and overcoming yourself is need - to either accept life as it is and move on knowing you will have this person/situation in your life permanently or overcome the obstacles and issues of your relationship and reconcile. After many disappointments she probably wants to try again with her ex-husband and have a peaceful and secure life with him again. I just hope she's not "settling" for this arrangement just because she's exhausted from disappointments.

posted February 20, 2017 02:52 PM            

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Originally posted by LibraGirl92:
I am scorpio venus Libra sun and there was a time that i was about to take back an ex but it never happened. Now i look back on previous exes they are an ex for a reason and i keep out of contact with them because it is better that way why take two steps back when you can just take two steps forward and move on with life and leave the past in the past.

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what is your moon? And mercury?

Funny. The girl I mention above has sun in Libra. She also said, it is good to keep contact with your ex.

Her another ex 5 years ago married and she got the invitation and she came. She has mercury conjunct pluto though.

I personally thought it is bizarre when I saw her natal, but, hey, reality sometimes tells you another story.

posted February 20, 2017 03:26 PM            

Here sun, venus, pluton and mercury en Scorpio and I'm in a situation similar to what you ask .. i've never been back with my exs but my last girlfriend (Scorpio) never managed to forget her completely and I would go back with her .. Also the last person that was in my life (not serius, is virgo) 1 year of comings and goings .. we leave, but she always returns .. although I always accept .. but I do not look for pride, never look for it. In 1 year I never gave initiative for come back .. can be your case.

I would not know to explain when I should return .. the person has to generate me and wake up many good feelings .. if I spend a lot of time I lose total interest, but if the relationship is still hot after the break and the reason arent serious, I can try again

posted February 20, 2017 05:02 PM            

I would probably never go back to my ex if I actually got the chance... he (but also the rest of my ex'es) broke my heart completely, so why should I go back?

I have fantasised about it a lot though.... I've been dreaming a million times that my ex-boyfriend got back to me, and I missed him so much, and we figured it out... but in reality this will never happen.

They left me eventually, and the fact that I sometimes still wish I could go back, means that I have a hard time letting go.....

posted February 20, 2017 05:56 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
what is your moon? And mercury?

Funny. The girl I mention above has sun in Libra. She also said, it is good to keep contact with your ex.

Her another ex 5 years ago married and she got the invitation and she came. She has mercury conjunct pluto though.

I personally thought it is bizarre when I saw her natal, but, hey, reality sometimes tells you another story.

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posted February 21, 2017 03:24 PM            

I can understand scorpio venus as I also has water venus trine pluto close orb. But Don't you want some revenge or at least a small desire to go back to your ex who hurt you or hurt you the most? Then you can decide if they worth it or not for your another chance if they have passed your small or big revenge?

I don't yet understand moon in scorpio, I may know some of their theory but how their moon work inside, hmm, I still can not picture it on my mind. If I use my pisces imagination ability, it would be something dark and sorrow and turbulent emotions. I believe this is a moon who will have a very hard time to let go of the past since they feel the hurt to their bones, may won't forget at all.

I still get surprised if she reconciles with his 8 years ex husband and secretly keeping a good communication with him. One of her ex, who has been married 5 years ago after they broke up, admits they also still keep a good contact.

@LibraGirl92:
I have aires moon and scorpio mercury here is my natal if you wanna check it out :-)
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posted February 21, 2017 11:47 PM            

It's a Pisces thing to go back later in life to their first love.

Think Lee Marvin

posted March 01, 2017 08:45 AM              

Sun, mars, and DSC all conjunct pluto with a close semi-sextile to my Libra moon and my Sun/ Moon are in semi-sextile by actual aspect. Jupiter also conjuncts the stellium.

posted March 04, 2017 11:56 PM            

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Originally posted by UrsusBlack:
I can't speak for those with Scorpio Venuses, but with as much Scorpio energy as I have, I can honestly say I have never wanted to get revenge. In fact, the stereotype bothers me greatly for that reason. I may want the individual to see how they've hurt me, but I trust God will show them that in time. My involvement is unnecessary.

I know some Scorpio/Plutonic people who may feel the need to strike back (as it is honestly understandable, although not right, when you've been truly wronged), but I think non-Scorpios often fail to realize just how done a Scorpio is when a relationship ends poorly. At least that's the way it is for me. If I've invested all my time, all my effort, all my emotions into a relationship I am physically and mentally exhausted. A person who has not dealt with a breakup in a mature manner, is not worth all the additional work it would take from me to execute this diabolical scheme I'm supposed to have concocted. While the hurt is fresh, I do not want to see them, let alone think of them. I will think of them, however. My mind will go over and over how I was hurt, but I will be struggling to combat those thoughts as well. Scorpios like to be in control of themselves. When extremely negative emotions wash over them, they aren't feeling secure. They want to sever all ties to get back to the strong, independent person they were before the relationship.

As for what you imagine Scorpio Moons to be like, I can comment with more authority here. We can have very turbulent emotions, it's true, but it's certainly not all doom and gloom. We feel everything to the extreme. That includes joy and love. Letting go is very difficult, but not impossible. And forgiveness, despite others adamantly stating otherwise, is absolutely something we are capable of.

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May I ask what is your mercury sign/placement?

I think mercury has a major role too to make us think what will we do in certain ways after we receive the signal from other placement, like venus or moon.

posted March 06, 2017 04:54 AM            

I have never gone back, never any chance to the person who hurt me. If I am interested in seeing someone who hurt me, is just because I am getting my revenge paid.

posted March 09, 2017 01:30 AM            

I mean if I fell in love with someone after my relationship ended with said person and it was better then said persons relationship with me, I may be iffy on the idea.. but it's all circumstances and timing.

Like A few years ago I liked a guy
I thought he was the one
He wasn't
We ended it
I found someone better
I was happy

More recently
Someone ended it with me
I did not find someone better
I am unhappy

But I'm sure he's happy.

It's like....when you feel the way I do, theres no way of going back to what happened in a way that's it awkward or soul crushing.

What I realized as I got older is im a marriage person.
I usually abhorred the idea, and I know there will always be someone better, but I need that continuum.
I need to be able to leave for work for a week to see a funeral across country and know my husband is going to be there when I get back.
I want the affirmation that he understands in the back of his mind we are together for life.
Even if he abhors the idea of it , it WILL make him think twice. And when he does he will realize he wants me. And he won't act stupid. Or foolish. Or like a jerk.

posted March 09, 2017 01:43 AM            

It takes me a long time to get over people. Typically because I put my all into relationships and if it ends it's because I did something wrong, when I never do. I know what makes my partner happy and I always try to do just what needs to be done to satisfy that need. So for acchange to happen out of no where, where suddenly their mindset is different. It confuses me. What changed? Lol

I mean if they were my actual partner, and we were together for a long time, it's pretty clear we can face obstacles together. It's well established.
So basically when someone ends it or just cuts me out of the picture I spend decades obsessing and not understanding how or why it happened.
I replay the scenario a million times in my head, a million different ways. If someone said something differently, what they thought, were wearing, where they stood, how they stood, what else was there.... what time of the day it was..... etc.

I'm a tad crazy in the head.

posted March 09, 2017 01:49 AM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Scorpio venus + pluto here....Seriously, these days I'm just trying to learn how to let go, I think this is a theme with everyone who got major scorpio influence or scorpio venus/moon!

I would probably never go back to my ex if I actually got the chance... he (but also the rest of my ex'es) broke my heart completely, so why should I go back?

I have fantasised about it a lot though.... I've been dreaming a million times that my ex-boyfriend got back to me, and I missed him so much, and we figured it out... but in reality this will never happen.

They left me eventually, and the fact that I sometimes still wish I could go back, means that I have a hard time letting go.....

So my final answer is. No. I wouldn't go back, it hurts too much..... but I still dream about it a lot

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This is my post on a brace day. When I remember to bring my lions mane costume piece to the play.

posted March 09, 2017 01:55 AM            

Sun/Mercury/Venus:Virgo
Mars:Libra
Moon-Desc:Scorpio !!!!