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Topic: What can you tell me about Mars in Cancer women sexually?
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Beautiful_Light Moderator Posts: 671 From: Atlantis Registered: Nov 2016
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posted June 09, 2017 05:44 PM
Mars in Cancer is underestimated for their sexuality. I find men and women with this placement (myself included) to be very attractive/sexual.IP: Logged |
Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 702 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted June 09, 2017 06:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by meyray: I've had some observations about Mars in Cancer females.The first thing that was contrary to my expectations is that they actually have moderate to high libidos but they indeed don't like sex just for the sake of sex. People sometimes have this strange dissonance that "romance" is sweet, gentle and frigid but Mars in Cancer proves that it is in fact "romance" and "feelings" that can be very sexual. There needs to be some kind of emotional scenario or "drama" even to make them click. This doesn't necessarily make it good or virtuous - one woman with this placement wanted a man just because he was taken and she wanted to seduce him and see if he'd choose her over his own partner but that's an extreme example. Sex being treated as something impersonal like a psychical need is usually an antagonistic idea for them. They can be cautious (sometimes cowardly) about who they give themselves to physically. They may be lusty but usually hold out if they had to choose from men who are cold and uncaring with nothing to offer. They may also have a thing for being "conquered". You can interpret that however you want lol This may be too specific but I've seen them flirt using maternity-based lines like "I want his babies" or "Have my children" or something like that.
I know a few Mars in Cancer females who have LOVE to be submissive. They LOVE to be dominated.
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PixieJane Moderator Posts: 8977 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 09, 2017 09:11 PM
Typical Cancer Mars female: IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 71670 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 09, 2017 09:34 PM
I am one. I think we can be kind of shy about our bodies/passions I think we need a strong Mars to bring us out of our shell.------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 6979 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted June 09, 2017 09:35 PM
LOL Pixie ^^ AwesomeIP: Logged |
sunpixie007 Knowflake Posts: 25 From: California Registered: Jun 2017
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posted June 09, 2017 10:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by PixieJane: Typical Cancer Mars female:
Did you draw this?! Its awesome!! so accurate too ! IP: Logged |
DualGemV2 Knowflake Posts: 290 From: Toronto, Ontario Registered: Aug 2016
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posted June 09, 2017 10:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by hearttreasure: So, why with this cancer mars man that everytime he sees me, he can't hold his pants?If I say no, he gets even. Once is not enough for him. We can lay in bed for a whole day in a holiday. He looooves cuddling especially after sex and falls asleep while holding me tight like a pillow. If he senses I make a move, he will say, "where do you want to go?" while strengthening his arms. They may look like a puppy, a shy, a conservative, a low-key horny, but, those images are gone when in bed they are really a freak. I even questioned him if he was a sex addict but he answered, "only with you". I remember that I was scared and thought that I was sleeping with an addict psycho and was thinking how to run away.  I think every mars in Cancer people will blossoms in an emotional fulfilling relationship. Since they are a very insecure people, they need someone who can make them feel confident about themself in a bed room.
I whould tend to agree with you. I hope thats not your Gem ex that has an almost exact chart as me? My Planets ========================================= ☉ ♊, ☽ ♈, ASC ♑, ☿ ♊, ♀ ♉, ♂ ♋ , ♃ ♒, ♄ ♏, ♅ ♐, ♆ ♑, ♇ IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues Knowflake Posts: 1332 From: The future... or the past. I get them confused... Registered: May 2014
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posted June 09, 2017 10:54 PM
I briefly dated a gal with cancer Mars. Conjunct my Cancer Venus, no less. Should have been all that and a bag of chips, right? Physically, I think she got more from it than I did. Maybe, in time, it could have gottenbetter with the development of deeper emotions... but the controlling manipulating behavior that immediately followed chilled me completely.One instance is not enough to judge a whole placement on, but I've got to say, I've had better luck with Mars in leo or gemini interacting with my sun or moon. IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1118 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted June 09, 2017 11:51 PM
My ex has a cancer mars. He's basically a sex addict. He wanted to have sex 8 times per day, which we did initially when I was still smitten and somewhat trying to please him (my gemini mars sex drive was bored as FUG).He watched porn all the time if I wouldn't have sex with him, went to strip clubs. Once we broke up, he had casual sex with whoever would. He also has a temper. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 6979 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted June 09, 2017 11:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by missblyss: My ex has a cancer mars. He's basically a sex addict. He wanted to have sex 8 times per day, which we did initially when I was still smitten and somewhat trying to please him (my gemini mars sex drive was bored as FUG).He watched porn all the time if I wouldn't have sex with him, went to strip clubs. Once we broke up, he had casual sex with whoever would. He also has a temper.
I bet he has mars square pluto right!? these aspects tend to do that... IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 8977 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 10, 2017 01:53 AM
I didn't do the drawing, I just saw it on a vid a few days ago (and made me laugh hard) and reading this thread today made me think of it. It's by an amateur artist calling herself...hmph, I swore I'd hit copy so I could paste it but apparently I didn't. I'll look up the artist again if anyone is curious. IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 5089 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 10, 2017 03:06 AM
Hello, sunpixie007! Welcome to LL  ------------------ A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step...Lao Tzu IP: Logged |
DualGemV2 Knowflake Posts: 290 From: Toronto, Ontario Registered: Aug 2016
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posted June 10, 2017 03:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: I bet he has mars square pluto right!? these aspect tends to do that...
I think your right... I'm almost the opposite, I have Mars Trine Pluto and am nothing as described. The only harsh aspect my Mars makes is with neptune. Other then my neptune and pluto, my mars doesn't form any other aspects. So thats probably why I don't match most of these descriptions. My Planets ========================================= ☉ ♊, ☽ ♈, ASC ♑, ☿ ♊, ♀ ♉, ♂ ♋ , ♃ ♒, ♄ ♏, ♅ ♐, ♆ ♑, ♇
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Aqualilith09 Knowflake Posts: 164 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 10, 2017 04:23 AM
I'm a mic woman. I'm definitely not boring in bed, for sure. Im down for anything and like being dominant, but my mars does oppose Uranus & neptune, squares sun and trines my venus and loosely trines my pluto. I can be shy approaching a man I find atttravtive, but they usually come to me. I dont need to have any emotional connection to have sex with someone, I've had many casual encounters. Although the partners that I did have feelings for it was most passionate. And I do not get turned on by the thought of having babies with someone... that's kinda odd to me..IP: Logged |
mirage29 Knowflake Posts: 7704 From: us Registered: May 2012
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posted June 10, 2017 01:39 PM
Mars Cancer H7gem here... And, Venus Taurus 5th.I have asteroid 875 Nymphe Taurus 0.52 just into my 5th House Taurus Cusp-- sextiling my Mars Cancer?!  I could do humor right now-- a hilarious delineation storm, but I won't!  Leaving this song for MARS CANCER women (or, any gender combinations who feel this partnering-song). lyric When you can "see your unborn-children in her eyes"... then you really love a woman. (music) Have You Ever Really Loved a Woman? (Matt Girault, lyrics) [4:30] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U2ReqwUFhrI IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 6979 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted June 10, 2017 05:48 PM
I read your entire initial reply Mirage, great stuff, thanks for sharing, it was very helpful. I love all replies from others as well, thanks. That was suppose to be a  IP: Logged |
hearttreasure Knowflake Posts: 665 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted June 11, 2017 02:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Does he have mars conjunct venus aspecting his pluto..
He has mars/venus minor aspect. Mars trine pluto, opposite neptune, conjunct mercury. He always cuddles me after the sex but he doesn't really into a pillow talk (which I like sometimes), he likes falling asleep together with me resting in his chest/arm. quote: Originally posted by DualGemV2: I whould tend to agree with you.I hope thats not your Gem ex that has an almost exact chart as me?
Yes, it's him. Since I have been surrounded by Cancer mars people all of my life, like my brother and my Mom, I am quite understand their emotional nature. Of course there's the bad but for the most part, I appreciate their sensitivity in the bed room. You treat them well, they pay you twice. You treat them bad, they also pay you twice. lol. IP: Logged |
DualGemV2 Knowflake Posts: 290 From: Toronto, Ontario Registered: Aug 2016
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posted June 11, 2017 03:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by hearttreasure: Yes, it's him.
This gets interesting... I wish girlwiththerainysoul could chime in. Her Gemini sun, mars in Cancer ex was born the same day as me the only difference is his birth place and time. She described him in another thread and compared "the type of activity the two would have" and I was sorta on par with him, lol. But I edited it out on her request. God forbid I'm born the same day as your ex hearttreasure as well. But..I guess I'm different more tone down and more mercurial. If I'm not busy with other things I make myself busy so I don't have to get involved. My Planets ========================================= ☉ ♊, ☽ ♈, ASC ♑, ☿ ♊, ♀ ♉, ♂ ♋ , ♃ ♒, ♄ ♏, ♅ ♐, ♆ ♑, ♇ IP: Logged |
hearttreasure Knowflake Posts: 665 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted June 12, 2017 01:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by DualGemV2: But..I guess I'm different more tone down and more mercurial. If I'm not busy with other things I make myself busy so I don't have to get involved.
I can see that. I have a Taurus sun friend who has mercury in Gemini and there's a good flow of conversation between us and we're honest with our opinion to each other than I talk with the Gemini sun with mercury in Cancer, he always include emotions in his thoughts and very manipulative/secretive. IP: Logged |
mirage29 Knowflake Posts: 7704 From: us Registered: May 2012
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posted June 12, 2017 10:17 AM
Thanks for your comment, Hypatia! I cropped my initial post because I know I tend to write too much material.Thanks though... I like being helpful! I'm glad it could give you more insight. I have a lot of Crab-energy (Stellium H8 {scorp house} cancer), and Water (Scorp 11 & 12). My Sun is a 'setting sun', just a few degrees below the Descendant, and ptolemiacally unaspected. ('Twilight'-- purkinje effect.) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Purkinje_images Metaphysically~poetically? LOL-- Seeing reflections that exist in two worlds. Seeing into both worlds at once? While the sky's light is diminishing, some of the more brilliant stars (planets) can appear like dazzling burning Bright Jewels on the Horizon-- greeting and setting the mood for the night ahead.  (music) Twilight Time (The Platters, lyrics) [2:44] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vb7WXFkeaBo Love this energy today... Transiting close personal planets are IN their own zodiac sign positions in my chart. My soul expresses and relates messages to music and lyrics! haha {{Thanking God for my life and for that Gift operating so smoothly inside me today}} Have had a rough time recently, and am glad to tap the pleasure in this moment. IP: Logged |