posted January 07, 2018 12:09 AM            

My guess is that they would act in a platonic way towards someone they like. You wouldn't be able to tell whether you are friends or lovers.

Moon in Libra charms the socks out of everyone and is almost always attractive or attracting attention- as they are so agreeable.

Whilst Mars in Gemini may flirt up a storm and is an enthusiastic conversation starter. Usually quite animated/very interesting to talk to as they are quite bright.

Venus in Pisces is often a passive lover who can be indirect in their expression of affection. They live in "ideal" land and often have a strongly romantic side.

posted January 07, 2018 06:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:

Venus and Mars are square by signs Pisces and Gemini respectively in that the individual is often unclear about what they want(Pisces Venus) and will expand a lot of energy trying out many things to see what clicks(Mars in Gemini)

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Insightful as always! <3

Sorry for jumping in like this,

Can you elborate on Venus square Mars? Is this the dynamic with thise two? How the man strugles to find balance and sometimes the Venus side tips over and sometimes the Mars part tips over? Or em I interpreting it wrong? Because I know of a man with Venus in Libra, Mars in Capricorn. Sometimes very direct. Sometimes its like he is not sure what energy to put out and he wants the other person to persue, or he acts like he is saying "Ok, I'm not sure about anything, lets be friends, because we are friends, right?".

My Aries Venus doe get very frustrated by this! I hate standing on the same place, I want results, I want progression!

I have a hard time understanding the Square dynamic in general and between Venus-Mars specifically :/

posted January 07, 2018 03:00 PM            

This may suggest someone whom one minute attracts with their charm(Libra). But then goes on to be quite difficult to break into or go past the superficial "hi"(Cap)

There could be a wall built around them where they really want you close(Libra) but are shy of revealing whom they are(Cap).

So they seduce on one hand. But back off quickly on the other. Feeling like they can't reconcile their need for a partner (Lib)with their need for solitude(Cap)

He wants you close. But not with the heavy feelings that may result. Almost like wanting to take a shower without wetting the floor. Impossible feat. But thats what he wants

So he may treat this relationship as a business transaction. Diplomatic and agreeable on the surface. Even going as far as doing all things "relationship" centred i.e holding hands, dates etc.

But even with this backdrop, you may feel that your partner is still foreign to you or impenetrable. You are dating him. But you are not certain that u know him etc. Not deeply.

If you push him. You may push him away. As he may fears emotional demands(unless Moon is in water)

When you try and get into him, you may find a very charming man whom is very guarded and closed off to a more emotionally intense connection.

And that is what friendship is really. Its less demanding of feelings and gives more leeway for the individual to decide when to get close(Libra) and when to stand off (Cap).

posted January 16, 2018 05:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Venus in Libra wants romance and sharing. Mars in Capricorn is reserved and at worst even stoic.

This may suggest someone whom one minute attracts with their charm(Libra). But then goes on to be quite difficult to break into or go past the superficial "hi"(Cap)

There could be a wall built around them where they really want you close(Libra) but are shy of revealing whom they are(Cap).

So they seduce on one hand. But back off quickly on the other. Feeling like they can't reconcile their need for a partner (Lib)with their need for solitude(Cap)

He wants you close. But not with the heavy feelings that may result. Almost like wanting to take a shower without wetting the floor. Impossible feat. But thats what he wants

So he may treat this relationship as a business transaction. Diplomatic and agreeable on the surface. Even going as far as doing all things "relationship" centred i.e holding hands, dates etc.

But even with this backdrop, you may feel that your partner is still foreign to you or impenetrable. You are dating him. But you are not certain that u know him etc. Not deeply.

If you push him. You may push him away. As he may fears emotional demands(unless Moon is in water)

When you try and get into him, you may find a very charming man whom is very guarded and closed off to a more emotionally intense connection.

And that is what friendship is really. Its less demanding of feelings and gives more leeway for the individual to decide when to get close(Libra) and when to stand off (Cap).

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I'm sorry for replying so late! Have been a bit emotionally overwhelmed lately.

I really appreciate all your answers <3

Yes you are right about how Venus square mars can be seductive at one hand, and then back off.

Do you think having Venus-Mars connection gives that planets more of an Aries vibe, then having Venus in Aries? It's not the same but dunno.

I read someone describing Square dynamics as a table with 4 feet, but one of the feet is shorter so the table is unbalanced and tips and wobble sometimes, and is steady sometimes.

I can remember so many interaction, especially in the beginning. Once we were gonna have a class together, and he is always a happy go lucky person. So I said hi while he was passing by and he was super cold.

After the class when I stood outside searching for something in my bag, he came up and was super charming and smiling and stroked up a conversation and was reluctant to leave haha I was like, wtf?!

It was like he really regretted being cold earlier and wanted to make it up for me.

But since I have Moon oppo saturn I can really relatebeing cold and in control sometimes, and be able to relax other times.

This was in the beginning of me starting to know him.

Then he had a phase 2 months after me always going up to him and his friend and being charming and chatty when he out of the blue started to flirt more intensely and focused.

But that phase sizzled down and for quite a while he seemed to struggle to find balance. It was like, he wan't to flirt but also he wants to be friends and he seemed unable to find a thin line between those. It has been interesting following his struggles haha. I really crave emotional struggle and drama (plutonic)

I'm Aries 8th house female, when I focus I have the eye on the prize and I wan't results! I hate standing tramping water.

Yes he has water moon in Pisces so I think thats why and how he has not freaked out yet by my intensity

Sorry I was not gonna go into about him. I'm just so interested in the Square aspects dynamics! I have only a few squares and those are to my asc.

posted January 16, 2018 07:49 AM            

All of these guys are inlove with love and want passion, involvement and the whole roses and drama setup.

Venus in Aries wants to get to the crux of things. In relationships they want things to develop very quickly.

When things are slow in love or the partner too impassive, they become frustrated and restless.

They need to feel all the excitement of being with someone they love. Open demonstration of love is very important.

Venus/Mars in aspect becomes preoccupied with relationships and can spend time/energy and resources in engaging in them.

Soap opera love, love with drama and twists and turns is what they appreciate. Love(Venus) has to consume them in some way(Mars).

The square/opposition between them often suggests challenges, drama and upheavals. But these guys welcome that as it makes them filled with vigour and bounce. Love must be flames and storms.

Mars in Libra is supremely romantic and puts a lot of energy in being in a relationship.

Like Venus in Aries, Mars in Libra wants to infuse excitement, romance and sensuality in coupling.

They tend to want the relationship to be movie-like and can be idealistic. Like Venus in Aries, its only when the romance is stale that they cheat or meekly end it.

Mars in Libra loves to demonstrate affection. Loves to be with an ideal mate but can have very high standards infused with fairytale imaginings on how the relationship should progress.

My experience is that Venus/Mars is the most heady of them all. They simply become very consumed in being in love and will chase their conquests or revel in being chased.

posted January 16, 2018 12:04 PM            

As an aries venus and Moon conjunct mars I totally relate to all of above about wanting to chase and be chased, the excitement etc. I myself have never been in a releationship though (very harch saturn aspects) but thats an other topic.

And this guy has lots of selfcontrol, as it took him long to start to "chase" and he was over the chasing after some time. While I'm still on hunting mood, but I keep my cool, thanks to being plutonic/saturnian :/
he has venus-uranus aspect and I mars-uranus. Nice combo! (not)

He has Mars in Capricorn, Venus Libra. One is a flirty charmer. The other one is practical and also cold on the outside, I mean, that most be really hard to incorporate!

However our subject is Mars/venus, and yes it should be more dynamic then just having the planet in the aries sign. In my case, I have many intense aspects that takes over when my venus gets tired I guess haha