posted July 07, 2018 09:00 AM            

Two longest relationships I have had have been with venus in gemini men. Im no skinny woman. I'm 5'11 and "thick" lol

posted July 07, 2018 09:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Gracha:
I believe if his venus sign gels with your mars sign you're good to go.

Two longest relationships I have had have been with venus in gemini men. Im no skinny woman. I'm 5'11 and "thick" lol

Go for it.

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posted July 07, 2018 11:30 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yeah but with one guy his Venus isn't compatible with my Mars sign so I should be worried?

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I wouldn't be too worried about it tbh. I think house overlays are honestly more powerful than aspects alone. I have my Venus exactly conjunct my boyfriend's best friend's Mars in Virgo. I feel no attraction to him whatsoever. I think he's good-looking, but he doesn't appeal to me very much. I also had my Mars conjunct my one friend's Venus. Yes, I was physically attracted to him--literally would have banged him if I was single. But other than that, I realize there was really nothing more to it. We were too different.

My boyfriend, however, his Venus in Gemini exactly conjunct my ascendant and completes my air grand trine in my natal. High romantic attraction. His Mars in Cancer is in my 1st house. My Mars in his 5th. Sexual attraction, even in the beginning. Not rip your pants off kind of type but more so a "you excite me" kind of thing. My Moon is in his 1st conjunct his Mars. Sexual attraction to procreate. His Moon is in my 7th, opposite my Moon. We see a future with each other.

posted July 07, 2018 12:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
I wouldn't be too worried about it tbh. I think house overlays are honestly more powerful than aspects alone. I have my Venus exactly conjunct my boyfriend's best friend's Mars in Virgo. I feel no attraction to him whatsoever. I think he's good-looking, but he doesn't appeal to me very much. I also had my Mars conjunct my one friend's Venus. Yes, I was physically attracted to him--literally would have banged him if I was single. But other than that, I realize there was really nothing more to it. We were too different.

My boyfriend, however, his Venus in Gemini exactly conjunct my ascendant and completes my air grand trine in my natal. High romantic attraction. His Mars in Cancer is in my 1st house. My Mars in his 5th. Sexual attraction, even in the beginning. Not rip your pants off kind of type but more so a "you excite me" kind of thing. My Moon is in his 1st conjunct his Mars. Sexual attraction to procreate. His Moon is in my 7th, opposite my Moon. We see a future with each other.

It's all about the synastry and house placements. Of course, you don't want a chart full of just oppositions and squares, but good house overlays are a start.

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posted July 08, 2018 03:55 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Do 7th house overlays in synastry always indicate marriage between two people?

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Not necessarily. It depends on the planets. Planets in someone's 7th house just triggers them to think of the person as an ideal mate. I think personal planets in someone's 7th house are more indicative of marriage, especially if there's a lot of good interaspects and Moon and Saturn contacts.

I remember having a crush on this guy in 3rd grade. His Sun in Sag was in my 7th house conjunct my DSC. I had fantasies of getting married to him. But the rest of our charts didn't match. Our Moons were unaspected and there were barely any Saturn contacts. It died down eventually.

posted July 09, 2018 08:11 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
The guy who I have the 4th house overlay with is friends with a woman who's Mars sign is the same as his Venus sign. So I'm guessing he probably likes her more than he likes me? Even though I'm the one who helps him out financially because currently he is going through a rough time. Sometimes I feel like just ending our friendship if he likes her more.

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I hope he is not using you..

posted July 09, 2018 08:16 PM            

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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
I hope he is not using you..

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posted July 15, 2018 03:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
You are right about that.

But..

Mars also represents one's sexuality. It makes sense for it to play a role in attraction. It also represents the physical body. The planets represent more than just one thing. And I know this based on experience.

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i hear you and i agree in the sense that whatever touch our mars triggers the meaning on mars in u; sexuality, anger, physical activity... what i do not find it is the "i like you".. the original question of venus was venus in gemini like slim woman... mars in gemini do not say how slim the man like a woman. he may feel desired for her, but does not mean she is his type.... have you ever been sexually atracte but not finding the man your physical type?