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Topic: How "un-dateable" are you? :) (for fun)
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Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 6866
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 15, 2018 01:22 PM
  
Are you fussy? A drama emperor? Act like a spoiled brat? Have stalker tendencies? Commitment-phobic? Damn clingy?We always focus on others and what is "wrong" with them. But do we also do a self assessment that puts the spotlight on our own shortcomings? This is not meant to be a thread where one will detail self hatred and conclude that "woes me. No one will ever love me". But it is a thread that is about self honesty (and perhaps a little self deprecation ?  ) I will start.... I have Moon in Cancer squaring Mars in Libra and can be the most oversensitive, grouchy son of a **n. Add to that my Venus-Saturn conjunction aspect in Scorpio. And I am like a nun with a stern face but "self medicating " with all sorts of vibrators behind my Jesus Christ portrait. Its a sad combo. Makes it tough to find someone. But not impossible  IP: Logged |
hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 11463
From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 15, 2018 01:56 PM
hahahahah Cute Aries23My period is going to arrive today so is not a good day to go there for me........another day, will come back. IP: Logged |
Nine
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From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 15, 2018 02:34 PM
Picky, and somewhere on the hot-cold-spectrum.IP: Logged |
Einfühlung
Knowflake Posts: 572
From: Lily of The Valley
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 15, 2018 02:49 PM
Same, I’m picky. And too scared to get my heart broken again.IP: Logged |
SimplyLuna
Knowflake Posts: 271
From: California
Registered: Jul 2017
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posted August 15, 2018 03:24 PM
My problem is I don't voice how I feel directly when I am hurt or disappointed and can take a while to get over it. I get upset easily -- esp when I am tired or sleeping. I get hangry too. also when it's cold I retreat. I don't handle physical pain well and I get them under those circumstances.
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StoneMoon
Knowflake Posts: 425
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Registered: Apr 2018
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posted August 15, 2018 05:17 PM
I'll play.I'm a cancer sun cap moon- so I am whiny and moody but emotionally cold. Virgo venus and mars and nothing is ever good enough for me. It's never me, I am never the problem. always them them them. Why can't they ever measure up?  IP: Logged |
hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 11463
From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 15, 2018 05:59 PM
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Originally posted by StoneMoon:
I'll play.I'm a cancer sun cap moon- so I am whiny and moody but emotionally cold. Virgo venus and mars and nothing is ever good enough for me. It's never me, I am never the problem. always them them them. Why can't they ever measure up?
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charlie
Knowflake Posts: 4695
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Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 15, 2018 06:26 PM
Cancer Sun, Mercury, Venus
Cap Moon
Virgo Mars
Leo Asc I am caring but can cut you off in a heartbeat if I no longer see a purpose for our relationship. I’ll be a cold a$$ ****! My Leo Asc + Moon in 5H (also progressed Sun in Leo) makes me a huge sucker for FLAIR. If you don’t notice me when I enter the scenario I’ll be grumpy. To rectify yourself, please stroke my ego-heavily. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 11463
From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 15, 2018 07:04 PM
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Originally posted by charlie:
I am caring but can cut you off in a heartbeat if I no longer see a purpose for our relationship.
Can my Moon in Pisces trade flaws with your Moon in Capricorn!!!!!!!!!!!?
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Lerena
Knowflake Posts: 1274
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Registered: May 2015
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posted August 15, 2018 07:48 PM
Sun in Taurus - I'm stubborn. Good luck getting me to change my mind about not wanting to X or really any of my opinions. You'll be better off not asking me out to begin with. Your sanity would thank you for selecting a more cooperative partner than me as you ascend into the afterlife.Moon in Gemini - If my resistance to change and legendary stubbornness doesn't turn you away, how about my chronic procrastination? I can't focus on anything and I get bored so easily I can't stick to a single task long enough to see it through to its proper completion. Maybe if you're intelligent enough to give me enough mental stimulation, I'll be so interested that you see the better half of my personality more often than most people. Ascendant in Scorpio - If you love challenges and can handle my Taurus Sun and Moon in Gemini, you probably want to save yourself several decades of stress and be with someone that will actually trust you and tell you things. No, acting like I'm about to summon demons when I'm just making dinner will never make sense. 50 years into our marriage, if you're somehow still alive, you would still not know much about me. My secretive nature would probably drive you nuts from the grave. Obviously, there are benefits to dating me, but the main point of this post is: I have issues to work on. IP: Logged |
pocketrocket
Knowflake Posts: 217
From: Italy
Registered: May 2017
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posted August 15, 2018 08:13 PM
While I crave for you, I won't show you if you told something which I find suspicious .( What you've actualy ment and why did you said something..) If you stress me or just not in the mood to talk with you I won't answer on your calls or call you back for days. Meanwhile, you're on the top list my thoughts playing on repeat.
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Desiring Shadows
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From: USA !
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 15, 2018 09:38 PM
I think the only problematic part of myself in terms of dating would be that im somewhat anxious and I don't want to get all cuddly with someone until Ive known them for a while.
It really depends who I date and how into them I am.
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Sun Virgo/Moon Scorpio/Ascendant Taurus
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Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 6866
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 15, 2018 11:02 PM
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Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 6866
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 15, 2018 11:03 PM
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Originally posted by Nine:
Picky, and somewhere on the hot-cold-spectrum.
Amen. Yes me too at times IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 6866
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 15, 2018 11:05 PM
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Originally posted by Einfühlung:
Same, I’m picky. And too scared to get my heart broken again.
A friend of mine retreats even at a whiff of something peculiar going on. Very sensitive to getting their heart broken. I blame his Moon in Virgo/Mars in Pisces opposition for the extreme sensitivity IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 6866
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posted August 15, 2018 11:11 PM
SimplyLuna That awkward moment where you have to figure out whether you are angry or just hungry? It's not always easy to talk about feelings. There is always fear of being ridiculed.But I have the Moon/Mercury midpoint on my Asc and the same midpoint on Mars. I just DO. All day everyday I am also sensitive to coldness or pain. Never can stand discomfort of a physical nature. Never mind emotional IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 6866
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 15, 2018 11:15 PM
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Originally posted by StoneMoon:
....Virgo venus and mars and nothing is ever good enough for me. It's never me, I am never the problem. always them them them. Why can't they ever measure up?
Yasssss! Dated a conjunct Venus/Mars in Virgo. Very fussy Landscape architect. Used to shower 3 times a day. I understand.
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Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 6866
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 15, 2018 11:25 PM
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Originally posted by Lerena:
No, acting like I'm about to summon demons when I'm just making dinner will never make sense:
Love this I know of a Scorpio Moon who is exactly like this: looks like they are about to perform an exorcism in the kitchen,meanwhile they are just making eggs. The dude is super intense! My Scorpio Venus/Saturn combo has nothing on him
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Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 6866
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 15, 2018 11:29 PM
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Originally posted by pocketrocket:
While I crave for you, I won't show you if you told something which I find suspicious .( What you've actualy ment and why did you said something..)
This sounds too familiar with me. A very common trait I have as a Sag Sun  The other is that I painfully tease/ make fun of someone I actually like to downplay me liking them. Makes no sense really. Sigh IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 6866
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 15, 2018 11:31 PM
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Originally posted by charlie:
If you don’t notice me when I enter the scenario I’ll be grumpy. To rectify yourself, please stroke my ego-heavily.
Holla! From one 5th house Leo to a similar vibing Leo Asc: RESPECT. Totally concur. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 6866
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 15, 2018 11:35 PM
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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
I ....I don't want to get all cuddly with someone until I've known them for a while...
this sounds so Uranus/Saturn on Moon/Venus' ish.What are aspects to Moon/Venus? IP: Logged |
Lerena
Knowflake Posts: 1274
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posted August 16, 2018 01:32 AM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Love this I know of a Scorpio Moon who is exactly like this: looks like they are about to perform an exorcism in the kitchen,meanwhile they are just making eggs.The dude is super intense! My Scorpio Venus/Saturn combo has nothing on him
I said what I did and re-read it and I'm honestly positive it says something that I'm not trying to say, but it was hilarious phrased that way and the way I hide things makes it seem like I'm hiding some dark intentions and I somehow only recently realized that I approach basically everything with an intense vibe as if there's always some heavy stuff going on and sometimes the heavy stuff is just hunger.IP: Logged |
YellowGerbera
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posted August 16, 2018 01:42 AM
If I was a guy, I know I can't date myself lol!I'm erratic, quick tempered, and unstable!
Super emotional. I do the hot-cold thing too, and also do the silent treatment. I nag a lot when I'm feeling bleh! Uranus on Sag Asc, trine Mars/Venus in Aries.
Pluto in Scorpio trine Sun/Moon in Pisces.
Neptune in Cap in 1st house. IP: Logged |
Melinn
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Registered: Jul 2017
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posted August 16, 2018 04:54 AM
I have my faults I’m very painfully aware of all my faults. They can keep me awake at night, the anxiety about the wrong things” I did or said to a love interest. The anxiety will come and go for a looong time after the ”break up”. Often for years... But, I have so much to give! (Venus-Neptune) If the other person cannot see the potential in me, its his dumbness and blindness.  . (Venus-Saturn) IP: Logged |
Melinn
Knowflake Posts: 1194
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posted August 16, 2018 06:30 AM
I will be easy breezy and super charming, happy go lucky in the beginning of the getting to know you phase.
Venus-Jup. node in ARIES 8th. Mars-Moon stellium in GEMINI.I will be a huntress but I will let you lead, When I see you like me as much as I like you, I will be warm and in aries mood. Also I will act out my 8th house stellium by mixing forwardness and ”creating” opportunities where I place myself in your orbit and with an inviting smile make you come to me. See subtle huntress haha. But then after some time I will start to have vertain expectations.(venus-saturn). If you don’t meet my expectations, or if you act cold and I sense you are playing with me, I will be a hot-cold-hot-cold mess.
Moon-saturn-uranus-mars. I will be super sensetive and take everything personally. I will sometimes for a few days give silent treatments. Then I will start to try to subtly talk about my emotions and expectations (gemini moon). And then dispair and be a total mess of emotions- sad, cold, depressed etc when you seem to not get me... I will get obsessed and also have severe depression. Saturn-pluto. I will know you are not good for me, but I will hold on to what we were before all that mess (venus-neptune illusions). And also resent you bc I will feel you are on purpose holding back your good selfe from me. And I will be mad at you for that bc what did I do to deserve that?! I am worth more then this! Have I not been the most generous and giving person ever to you?! Ig you won’t put in nearly the same effort in this relationship, bye! (Venus-saturn). But also, one sincere apology or a warm smile, and I will forgive you on the spot, no grudges! (gemini-aries?)
Well you tell me if I’m dateable or not, lol I even turned this light hearted thread to an angry sobbing mess ahahah (
Gee why can I not always be in venus Aries mood?! IP: Logged |
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