posted January 23, 2019 03:50 PM            

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Originally posted by lilypad18:
literally being on top and being adored

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posted January 23, 2019 06:06 PM            

COMPLIMENTS, COMPLIMENTS, COMPLIMENTS!!! Flattery will get you everywhere. Praise and adore him.... If you can win his ego then you will win him. Be playful and have fun with him. Smile and make sure he knows that he is the reason you are having a great time.

posted January 23, 2019 06:48 PM            

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Originally posted by CertifiedAwesome:
... make sure he knows that he is the reason you are having a great time.

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posted January 23, 2019 11:35 PM            

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Originally posted by CertifiedAwesome:
Leo mars man checking in. the answer to your question is

COMPLIMENTS, COMPLIMENTS, COMPLIMENTS!!! Flattery will get you everywhere. Praise and adore him.... If you can win his ego then you will win him. Be playful and have fun with him. Smile and make sure he knows that he is the reason you are having a great time.

Happy Hunting

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My Draconic Leo Mars agrees Don't mention other people & talk about THEM as being the greatest. That's likely to put them off.

With the dudes in bed, don't forget to express the pleasure and joy you are feeling i.e "oh wow, you really hitting the spot", " you are amazing", " don't ever let me go. I love you so much." etc.

Its not vanity per se. But because Leo thinks highly of themselves. They love it when its reflected back. But if you are disingenuous, they will pick it up. So be sincere.

posted January 24, 2019 12:25 AM            

I like a little bit of agression, some Dom/Sub stuff... I like to be in control but also want my partner to be in control so its a delicate balance bc I want to be tied up but I need to feel safe and in control up to a point too..so there is a battle between what I need and what turns me on...

And like I said some aggression although nothing extreme and if he doesnt I will model it and he will then get into it..like two tigers or kitties maybe lol..

posted January 24, 2019 11:02 AM            

Really?

I don't like been on top btw.

posted January 24, 2019 01:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
I have a Leo Mars and anonym ^^^^ nailed it.
We like to be worshiped, begged and admired, and never criticized. That's pretty much all
Oh, and be loyal to death, that's a huge turn on.

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THIS!!! ALL OF THIS!!!!! If we even SMELL a hint of disloyalty you are done. My personal interpretation of that is, if you find this other person worthy enough to take your attention/affections away from us then you don’t see us as king/queen of the hill and have silently told us that you don’t value us the most.

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
My Draconic Leo Mars agrees Don't mention other people & talk about THEM as being the greatest. That's likely to put them off.

With the dudes in bed, don't forget to express the pleasure and joy you are feeling i.e "oh wow, you really hitting the spot", " you are amazing", " don't ever let me go. I love you so much." etc.

Its not vanity per se. But because Leo thinks highly of themselves. They love it when its reflected back. But if you are disingenuous, they will pick it up. So be sincere.

Mars/Sun/Venus in Leo responds to the above mentioned. With Mars in Leo being THE most responsive.

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100% agreed.
If you want to get rid of a leo mars, bruise their ego.
If we're over here giving you all of this fantastic leo mars loving, the compliments need to be flowing like water.

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
If anything been romantic, grand gestures, chivalrous act, like my ex he brought roses on the first date, took me out to the beach to eat dinner anywhere I wanted and then we went to the beach and kissed on the sand under the stars. Someone who brings out my inner child and makes me feel in love and ALIVE.

Venus conjunct Mars in Leo by 1d at the last decan in the 8th, apparently you also need to look at the house and aspects and decan is on, it could explain why my responses are vastly different from everyone else.

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Hi friend

posted January 24, 2019 01:57 PM            

So giving me compliments will not reach my core, its kind of shallow, it makes you feel good for two seconds, everyone likes compliments anyways, I don't feel that is the core of Leo.

posted January 24, 2019 02:07 PM            

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Originally posted by CertifiedAwesome:
Hi friend

You beat me to it. I was going to say that the type of compliments or expressions that will entice each leo mars is probably going to be dependent on how the mars is aspected. Being that you have the conjunction of mars and venus, that could explain why you like the romantic side of things. I however do not respond very well to those types of things. But I also do not have a conjunction between mars and venus.

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and mine fall in the 8th and I feel the most understood by plutonic Venuses, the house placement influences drastically your needs in that department as well as the aspects.

The perfect match for me has been:

posted January 24, 2019 02:55 PM            

To add to the above, confidence, confidence, confidence. It's sexy as anything. But be humble. Arrogance is like ice cold water.

And make us feel like royalty- attention, theatrics, and like we matter.

But most of all be confident, and allow us to feel confident in you.

posted January 24, 2019 02:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Stellia:

To add to the above, confidence, confidence, confidence. It's sexy as anything. But be humble. Arrogance is like ice cold water.

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posted January 24, 2019 03:02 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I feel to get to the core of Leo you will need more than compliments. Leo is about romance, creativity, courage, passion, chivalry, drama, grand gestures, and just playfulness and fun, joking around...

So giving me compliments will not reach my core, its kind of shallow, it makes you feel good for two seconds, everyone likes compliments anyways, I don't feel that is the core of Leo.

As far as sexual turn ons, unexpected bites, spanks, slaps, roughhousing but also tenderness, being delicate, innocent and feeling like you are really seeing me, slowing it down and been really intimate so I guess I have a need to express my venus side and mars side bc they conjunct so I want it all, the whole package like my first screen name Savage innocence; the primal animalistic side and the sweet tender part.

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While I can understand what you mean about getting to the core of leo, I still believe other aspects influence what a leo mars wants to receive. YOU likely receive compliments more often than not, so its understandable if they lose some of their potency and leave you looking for more substance. I am speaking in more of a broad sense for all mars in leos, despite other chart influences. What I am getting at is that whether it is a big compliment or small compliment, a small gesture or a grand one, all of those things still equal out to compliments/flattery of the ego no matter their intensity. I agree with the list of traits you provided but each item in that list is going to have a higher or lower priority on the list dependent on the person and their aspects.

Like I said before, because your venus is tied to your mars, you are going to have more of that venus energy influence when it comes to all things martian, hence you wanting the tenderness while another leo mars may value more of purely playful partner who is persistent in giving out compliments. Neither is right or wrong, just different influences.

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Talking about sex and you telling me what you want to do to me also turns me on but I think that is my draco venus conjunct mars in gemini perhaps...

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posted January 24, 2019 03:05 PM            

I agree that Leo mars is great at balancing roughness/dirtiness with elegance and flare!

Sex with them is both hot and fun, and yes I agree that they love hearing honest compliments, because in my case he already knew that he was gonna be the best I'd ever had, just took me some time to trust him completely and surrender to his BIG heart to figure that out and say out loud that he's the best!

I am a bit uncertain though about how far into the darker side he likes to go... I've already asked him for some violence, nothing too crazy just some hair pulling, and he did bruise me the first time we kissed and a few after that until I started changing my kissing rhythm and style when I could feel the bruises were coming, because they can be embarrassing once you're supposed to appear in public every day) but he seemed surprised at first when I asked him to pull my hair (did it willingly anyway lol which was a major help )...

posted January 24, 2019 03:08 PM            

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Originally posted by CertifiedAwesome:

Im in the same boat, pillow talk is always welcome. though the fact that I want to hear those things could be related to my sag rising and/ mercury leo

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Yes it could be our DC in Gemini and my mercury opposes my 8th house ruler.

posted January 24, 2019 03:13 PM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
Thank you beautiful people for giving me your advice and experiences

I agree that Leo mars is great at balancing roughness/dirtiness with elegance and flare!

Sex with them is both hot and fun, and yes I agree that they love hearing honest compliments, because in my case he already knew that he was gonna be the best I'd ever had, just took me some time to trust him completely and surrender to his BIG heart to figure that out and say out loud that he's the best!

I am a bit uncertain though about how far into the darker side he likes to go... I've already asked him for some violence, nothing too crazy just some hair pulling but he seemed surprised at first (did it willingly anyway lol which was a major help )...

I understand that each person has certain standards, but would Leo mars in general think less of their partner (for instance thinking they're loose or unclassy) if asked for rough stuff?

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Nah, they are tigers, I think if he is not aware he likes that stuff, you can make him aware of it. Pulling hair is not a big request, kind of standard, so many guys are into that...but he should enjoy some passion and aggression I would think with mars in leo to an extent that is.

posted January 24, 2019 03:19 PM            

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yTCDVfMz15M

posted January 24, 2019 03:19 PM            

And I agree, he's already done some freaky stuff himself which I hadn't tried before! Thinking I knew it all! I guess he really is the best!