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Topic: Breaking up during Mercury's pre-shadow phase
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SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 2765
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posted March 03, 2019 03:48 PM
  
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Originally posted by vansio:
As a person who went through a break-up with a Virgo during mercury rx (this summer‘s retrograde and eclipse fuckery) - take it seriously and give him and yourself plenty of much-needed space. If it’s meant to happen, it could, BUT better to take it as permanent for everyone‘s sake, mostly your own, and for moving onward. There’s a reason this is happening - find it in yourself and start working on it in peace and quiet. Sending you a hug.
Did you two reconcile? Yeah he has Mercury rx in Virgo in his natal chart so I thought maybe retrogrades usually hit him particularly hard and that all the do's and donts of retrogrades apply to him ten-fold. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 2765
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posted March 03, 2019 03:50 PM
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Originally posted by vansio:
As a person who went through a break-up with a Virgo during mercury rx (this summer‘s retrograde and eclipse fuckery) - take it seriously and give him and yourself plenty of much-needed space. If it’s meant to happen, it could, BUT better to take it as permanent for everyone‘s sake, mostly your own, and for moving onward. There’s a reason this is happening - find it in yourself and start working on it in peace and quiet. Sending you a hug.
Yeah last night he told me that he is not getting back with me and I should stop contacting him  IP: Logged |
vansio
Knowflake Posts: 774
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posted March 03, 2019 06:01 PM
No, when Virgos are “done” - they’re done. My father is also one. These men are self-righteous and stubborn. (You’re better off without him - trust me, it’s been months for me to come to understand how much I bent over, catered to what end.) IP: Logged |
vansio
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posted March 03, 2019 06:03 PM
Keep your dignity (you also won’t lose it by any means but with these guys, any attempt to make sense fuels their unhinged ego when it comes to this). Understand that what you want, Reconciliation, is reserved for those who are worth it, have character. Really, I would never tell you to move on - because true love is real and won’t be shook - but, get comfortable with letting them go and giving yourself the life you wanted. Their issues are taking the wheel today. Take care of yourself first!IP: Logged |
vansio
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posted March 03, 2019 06:08 PM
BTW, you’ve done nothing wrong. I can promise you this. I’m sorry you’re having to break up with a Virgo male - they’re a mess, especially the most important part, deep or respectful seperation, weasels really. Smh  sending you lots of love. I understand. Like I said, there’s a reason - and it’s ultimately for your benefit (since you’re keen with forgiveness) - find it. There will be a spiritual realm that seems forsaken in this breakup with Virgo. IP: Logged |
vansio
Knowflake Posts: 774
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posted March 03, 2019 06:20 PM
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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
Yeah last night he told me that he is not getting back with me and I should stop contacting him
Don’t take it personal. It’s just how these men are. Kind of limited. IP: Logged |
vansio
Knowflake Posts: 774
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posted March 03, 2019 06:23 PM
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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
Did you two reconcile? Yeah he has Mercury rx in Virgo in his natal chart so I thought maybe retrogrades usually hit him particularly hard and that all the do's and donts of retrogrades apply to him ten-fold.
Doesn’t negate the fact theyre selfish. Look, I have natal mercury retrograde in Pisces - my default is forgiveness and reconciliation. Virgos on the other hand, are on the other side of the spectrum. They’re figuring it out, and it’s not for you. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 2765
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted March 03, 2019 07:32 PM
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Originally posted by vansio:
Doesn’t negate the fact theyre selfish. Look, I have natal mercury retrograde in Pisces - my default is forgiveness and reconciliation. Virgos on the other hand, are on the other side of the spectrum. They’re figuring it out, and it’s not for you.
My dad is a Virgo also (my ex and him have bdays one day apart). Based on my dad being Virgo dominant and super critical and ocd as f*ck I always said no to dating Virgos. This dude... I just thought he was different, but nope, he was always making comments about my "messy" room and how I didn't do things "just right" while I never ever said anything about him. He always said that he knew making comments about my "messy" room (which was always vacuumed and cleaned before her came and NEVER messy) was rude and wrong of him, but yet he still persisted. I can see how his September 15th bday and my dad's September 16th bday made their personalities similar in a bad way IP: Logged |
Dumuzi
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posted March 03, 2019 08:18 PM
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Originally posted by vansio:
No, when Virgos are “done” - they’re done. My father is also one. These men are self-righteous and stubborn. (You’re better off without him - trust me, it’s been months for me to come to understand how much I bent over, catered to what end.)
when i'm done sometimes that might just mean i need a walk or a couple of hours and i'm just being a dick not all virgo suns are like what you're describing at all i agree she should just let go because he's been clear, but sometimes feeling "done" and vocalizing it isn't really true and it's possible to come back from **** even with a virgo i prefer forgiveness and trying to smooth things over when it's possible, but i've known pisces who do cut people off aspects and **** change a lot IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 2765
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posted March 03, 2019 10:35 PM
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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
when i'm done sometimes that might just mean i need a walk or a couple of hours and i'm just being a dicknot all virgo suns are like what you're describing at all i agree she should just let go because he's been clear, but sometimes feeling "done" and vocalizing it isn't really true and it's possible to come back from **** even with a virgo i prefer forgiveness and trying to smooth things over when it's possible, but i've known pisces who do cut people off aspects and **** change a lot
I'm a Taurus sun with a Capricorn moon who is earth dominant so naturally I assumed I'd get along well with anyone earth dominant or Virgo, Cap or Taurus dominant, but I have found out in recent years that Virgo dominant people just seem to be heavily critical of me. Obviously not all, and perhaps it is because I've had bad experiences with my Virgo dominant dad.
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Randall
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