posted July 07, 2022 03:42 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:

I know what you're getting at, but respect is a huge part of any good relationship, and the "take charge" thing can be misconstrued.

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A man taking charge is not a sign of disrespect. It's often a relief & a blessing. 👍🏾 Depending on who a woman *chooses* to be partnered with.

This goes much deeper than Fifty Shades.

posted July 07, 2022 03:00 PM            

Especially when compared to signs like pisces, virgo, libra, cancer

posted July 08, 2022 03:31 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
You've just reminded me of a movie that I loved, and "the most sensitive man in the world." Brendan Fraser cracks me up:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TVmCwmC5-kQ

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OMG this is hilarious!! 😂😂

And although this scene is over-the-top... it's an accurate portrayal of how & why overly "soft" dudes get friend-zoned. Rightfully so, might I add. Honestly, a man taking initiative is different than outright aggression; A man leading you with care is MUCH different than him demanding things from you like a Dictator; And a woman's "submission" to a Worthy Man is something that comes naturally when you feel safe, seen & protected. 💯 Most women are NOT inherently masculine, but rather deeply traumatized & fearful of being abused. This is the dilemma we have today.

I'm going to share below my response from another thread and go deeper into this.

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While it is true that there are women w/ Yang Dominant Energy, they are NOT the majority. It does not benefit the masses to date & live by "the exception" in society.

Your average woman is FAR more attracted to Yang Dominant Men. 💯 Even many of the masculinzed "I can do it all by myself" types of women! It's in our DNA as females to desire this. No use in denying it.

Too many women today (of ALL Signs) will pursue men, take the lead and even provide for him. Just to turn around and COMPLAIN months or even years later that he "isn't man enough" for her and that he needs to step his game up. 🤷🏾‍♀️ She loses all respect for & sexual attraction to him (stats back this up). She's frustrated & exhausted from constantly having to "take charge" and overcompensate for his shortcomings and/or lack of drive & strength. As (most) women are NOT built to remain in the Masculine Role indefinitely.

And in many instances - the man often gets sick of feeling like an Emasculated Princess with this woman. And enduring the constant disrespect. Even though he allowed it!! Nonetheless, he will often start cheating on "Miss Independent" & attempt to re-grow his balls. He'll stop seeking her approval. He'll often take HER money & go spend it on a side chick that makes him feel "like a man" again.

And to top it off?? After your SEVEN YEAR relationship with him ends where you patiently waited for a ring and paid the bills... he'll marry the next woman within ONE YEAR and provide for her in all the ways that her heart desires. ❤ Because she knew HER femininie worth.

I've seen this scenario sooo many times with Modern Women. Do yourselves a favor and stop chasing & forcing things! Men who *really* want you are totally capable of pursuing YOU. Go sit down & relax. 👍🏾

Organically Yang Women + Organically Yin Men (again) are the exceptions. When the woman "leads" in this case, it makes sense & isn't forced. So works out fine.

posted July 08, 2022 03:50 AM            

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Originally posted by BlueRoamer:
I haven't experienced Aries woman to be particularly feminine.

Especially when compared to signs like pisces, virgo, libra, cancer

ITs probably the most masculine of the sun signs IMO

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I disagree.

I know tons of Virgo Women who are mostly emotionless, deeply critical & obsessed with taking the lead in their relationships. Therefore, taking on the masculine "fix it" role. 🤷🏾‍♀️

As I mentioned earlier, Cancer Women can be feminine. But many today actually invert their "nurturing" abilities into controlling, babying & providing for GROWN MEN. That is super masculine.

One of the most toxic women exhibiting masculininity here on LL is a Pisces Sun! Lol. Being an Aries does not = Tomboy. All of the women I listed (in OP) are very Femme. ♈

NONE of these Signs create primarily, inherently masculine women across-the-board.

posted July 08, 2022 06:48 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
I disagree.

I know tons of Virgo Women who are mostly emotionless, deeply critical & obsessed with taking the lead in their relationships. Therefore, taking on the masculine "fix it" role. 🤷🏾‍♀️
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NONE of these Signs create primarily, inherently masculine women across-the-board.

Sun Sign does not determine how "feminine" someone is or isn't. Astrology AND Biology go much deeper than that...

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posted July 08, 2022 07:19 AM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:

I agree with this. Virgos esp Virgo moons are not that feminine they hate dealing with emotional matters both from themselves and from others and can act like a lot of males in this regard, like trying to keep all of it in, it’s so ‘’lame’’ to be emotional, anything romantic is corny and cheesy and anyone that cries is lame etc. They can be insensitive too and can also have a harsh way of showing you that they care. They make Leo’s a FIRE sign seem like ‘’little over emotional girls’’ in comparison. Out of the Earth signs i find Taurus to be the most different and feminine out of the three.

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PREACH. 👍🏾

posted September 13, 2022 06:28 AM            

I was vibing with one for quite a bit. He lived in a different state than me. I recently cut contact though, as I felt the connection had run its course and that we weren't compatible enough for the long-run. It was nice while it lasted though. 👍🏾

posted September 13, 2022 11:49 AM            

Since drive & competitiveness are traditionally masculine traits though , yeah these women have a masculine core. They will never be receptive, feminine, wallflowers that wait to be plucked by someone, unless these women have major feminine planets like their moon being in Pieces or their Venus being in Cancer or Libra. Then they’ll present in a more feminine way, while still being competitive at their core. It just won’t be as obvious. As an example of a woman like that, if she wants a guy and figures out that he likes girly girls she’ll play the most demure creature in his presence, while getting rid of all her competition behind the scenes. She’ll be super cute in front of him, but she’ll definitely leave a mark on him. She’ll make him believe that he’s in charge in bed, but we all know, it’s actually her who is really in charge. Regina George from ‘Mean Girls’ comes to mind. Definitely an Aries! Most likely with a Scorpio Moon to amp up her obsessive tendencies. She most likely had Venus in Gemini and a Gemini Asc.
Blonde girly girl on the outside, controlling&competitive ***** on the inside.