posted April 22, 2019 07:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
If it is such a joke, why do you spend your valuable *cough" time here?

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posted April 22, 2019 07:34 PM            

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Originally posted by TuxLuigi:

Why are you 20+ years in the astrology game but still take sun sign astrology for face value is my real question?

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You are hilariously desperate for attention aren't you?! So whiny, unfeminine & unlikable.

I'd be p*ssed if I were you, too. My condolences lol

posted April 22, 2019 07:47 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
You are hilariously desperate for attention aren't you?! So whiny, unfeminine & unlikable.

I'd be p*ssed if I were you, too. My condolences lol

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A whole lotta words for a 30+ year old woman who has a lot of relationship dysfunction and emotional instability. You are really triggered.

posted April 22, 2019 08:01 PM            

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Originally posted by TuxLuigi:
A whole lotta words for a 30+ year old woman who has a lot of relationship dysfunction and emotional instability. You are really [b]triggered.

Keep making posts trying to prove your femininity to an imaginary audience while you chase for a man who doesn't want you, sis. I know it hurts![/B]

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Are you even an Aries?? LOL

You're all over this post because *you* are triggered. As a masculine woman, this kind of discussion makes you feel insecure. But that's your isssue to work on, not ours. Is going back-and-forth with random strangers going to make you any more desirable or happy in life?? No dear, it's not.

posted April 22, 2019 08:05 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Are you even an Aries?? LOL

You're all over this post because *you* are triggered. As a masculine woman, this kind of discussion makes you feel insecure. But that's your isssue to work on, not ours. Is going back-and-forth with random strangers going to make you any more desirable or happy in life?? No dear, it's not.

I don't chase men. I don't lack quality male suitors. I have a strong sense of self. And I'm very stable. Sorry to disappoint you! I don't know who you thought you were describing but it ain't me - most likely yourself! Find another way to make yourself feel better, hun. Cuz you have #FAILED

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All that writing and typing just to sound like a little 15 year old. How are you so emotionally undeveloped at the wizened age of 32? And also, I doubt you have a long term relationship or any man who stayed with you and actually wanted you just based on your posts here. As I said, triggered.

By the way, your hatred towards other women is cute, but unsurprising considering the level of insecurity and transparency you have. Did you have a good father figure in life, or any worthwhile relationships lasting 3 years or longer?

posted April 22, 2019 08:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Gracha:

I am an Aries sun/mars woman

Your post is on point although I'm intuned with my masculine side as well. I cannot take a weak wall flower type of man serious at all. Love a take charge alpha male.

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Alphas are da bomb! Not pretend Alphas, but the real ones.

posted April 22, 2019 08:10 PM            

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Originally posted by TuxLuigi:

All that writing and typing just to sound like a little 15 year old. How are you so emotionally undeveloped at the wizened age of 32? And also, I doubt you have a long term relationship or any man who stayed with you and actually wanted you just based on your posts here. As I said, [b]triggered.

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Am I supposed to care about what you doubt?? Take your needy, irrelevant a** on somewhere already! LOL

posted April 22, 2019 08:17 PM            

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Originally posted by TuxLuigi:
Oh look, another male giving his unwanted opinion. You know you wouldn't have a chance with any of the women listed, right? Why does your sex think they can have any women insofar they desire them?

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well of course i wouldn't a few of them are dead lol

i can pretty easily get a lot of women and men with little effort though in all honesty so i'm sure if for some reason i wanted to spend my time trying to **** celebrities i might get lucky from time to time if i put in the work; they're just people afterall

in spite of my terrible qualities i'm attractive, good in bed, and know how to make a woman feel special

i'm curious though in regards to your other post how do you define femininity if not by its opposite masculinity? because one doesn't exist without the other they provide balance and opposition to each other

there are many concepts of masculinity and femininity that are about how they play off each other and aren't one sided i notice you ignore those and choose to go the angry at men route which is interesting and says a lot about you

i imagine you're the sort of woman who defines femininity as having a vag because you're unfeminine otherwise and uncomfortable with it, which is why you come in here in triggered attack mode looking to argue with everyone for defining feminiity as a specific look or attractive quality

you can be unfeminine and still a woman, but you can't really be feminine just by being a woman there's a difference and it isnt about sex appeal some of those women listed were unattractive they just had that strong femininity quality in commom with the hot chicks listed

do you have trouble getting laid or something is that why you're like this?

posted April 22, 2019 08:20 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Am I supposed to care about what you doubt?? Take your needy, irrelevant a** on somewhere already! LOL

You get no more attention from me at this point. Good night & peaceful dreams thinking about me, Ms. Manly!

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You hate other women so much and you're also childish, trust you're no catch to any man on this planet except the ones willing to settle for aging scraps. You are very emotionally and mentally unstable lol, spoiled goods as a man would say, and I know you do put stock in male opinion more than female.

posted April 22, 2019 08:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
well of course i wouldn't a few of them are dead lol

i can pretty easily get a lot of women and men with little effort though in all honesty so i'm sure if for some reason i wanted to spend my time trying to **** celebrities i might get lucky from time to time if i put in the work; they're just people afterall

in spite of my terrible qualities i'm attractive, good in bed, and know how to make a woman feel special

i'm curious though in regards to your other post how do you define femininity if not by its opposite masculinity? because one doesn't exist without the other they provide balance and opposition to each other

there are many concepts of masculinity and femininity that are about how they play off each other and aren't one sided i notice you ignore those and choose to go the angry at men route which is interesting and says a lot about you

i imagine you're the sort of woman who defines femininity as having a vag because you're unfeminine otherwise and uncomfortable with it, which is why you come in here in triggered attack mode looking to argue with everyone for defining feminiity as a specific look or attractive quality

you can be unfeminine and still a woman, but you can't really be feminine just by being a woman there's a difference and it isnt about sex appeal some of those women listed were unattractive they just had that strong femininity quality in commom with the hot chicks listed

do you have trouble getting laid or something is that why you're like this?

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I have no problem having a man or getting male sexual attention, so it's funny you're trying to use that as an insult to undermine me. I assume you think a man who wears high heels and lipstick is a woman as long as he's feminine enough? Strange.

You also sound unattractive, corny, and rather silly, also considering the average mental age of the regular person who posts on Lindaland that is also a negative. Men are like dogs, you're easy to please as long as the woman is pleasant looking, in relative shape, and has a youthful appearance. There's no prize to be had in the majority of men, and admitting this has nothing to do with my femininity, or lack thereof. Dick has no value. However, vagina does.

You seem to get triggered that I said you couldn't get the women you said, you were talking about ******* them like they would **** you. Women don't have low standards like men do, the only women who put stock into what every dick wants tend to be aging (like OP), unattractive, or fat. Women in their prime or attractive women know how disposable men are and irrelevant the vast majority of them are. Men obsess over and emulate women, you never see the opposite happening, unless when women want equal rights and I guess that's emulating a man in a way.

It's weird how you think femininity is hating other women like the OP is doing, tho, surely being feminine is loving your other woman in a sisterly fashion, like how men put "bros over hoes" and whatnot?

posted April 22, 2019 08:45 PM            

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Originally posted by TuxLuigi:
I have no problem having a man or getting male sexual attention, so it's funny you're trying to use that as an insult to undermine me. I assume you think a man who wears high heels and lipstick is a woman as long as he's feminine enough? Strange.

You also sound unattractive, corny, and rather silly, also considering the average mental age of the regular person who posts on Lindaland that is also a negative. Men are like dogs, you're easy to please as long as the woman is pleasant looking, in relative shape, and has a youthful appearance. There's no prize to be had in the majority of men, and admitting this has nothing to do with my femininity, or lack thereof. Dick has no value. However, vagina does.

You seem to get triggered that I said you couldn't get the women you said, you were talking about ******* them like they would **** you. Women don't have low standards like men do, the only women who put stock into what every dick wants tend to be aging (like OP), unattractive, or fat. Women in their prime or attractive women know how disposable men are and irrelevant the vast majority of them are. Men obsess over and emulate women, you never see the opposite happening, unless when women want equal rights and I guess that's emulating a man in a way.

It's weird how you think femininity is hating other women like the OP is doing, tho, surely being feminine is loving your other woman in a sisterly fashion, like how men put "bros over hoes" and whatnot?

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i didn't assume i knew your sexuality, so i wasn't necessarily talking about men but there's that projection, you being an angry lesbian wouldn't have surprised me though if i'm going to be honest

the reason why i assume you must not be getting laid is the level of bitterness you're displaying towards men and also women (seems like you could use another person paying attention to you to help get rid of some of your hostility)

i'm bi so if i want sex it's not really a big deal to me if there's a vagina involved, and whether or not you'd like to believe i'm unattractive because you dislike what i've said it doesn't change my reality that's more projection on your part

insulting me based on your imagination doesn't hit home, you should try something else

anyway being hard to please isn't exactly a virtue as far as anyone other than the person who's overly critical is concerned, so congratulations you view other people as worthless while elevating yourself based on genitals you have through biological chance

you don't look at people you find physically attractive and think you'd **** them? it's not something that's solely about women for me, they could be either gender if i see something i like my mind goes to sex just how it is

does it matter to me if i'm actually going to **** that specific person? not really there's a lot of people out there and i literally judge every single adult who isnt way too old i meet sexually in my head at one point or another regardless of gender

you think it's woman specific because then i'm whatever man you want me to be that you feel superior to

there are women who obsess over and emulate men, and vice versa that's not gender specific happens both ways, maybe not in your bubble but outside of it sure

that's irrelevant though

no i don't see femininity as women hating each other (you seem to be the only actually hateful one here, i wonder if you realize how much what you say comes off like bitter projection and insecurity) but i do see it as playing up inherently feminine features and roles regardless of sexuality being involved or not because that's just what it is

like i said having a vagina doesnt make a woman feminine

posted April 22, 2019 08:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i didn't assume i knew your sexuality, so i wasn't necessarily talking about men but there's that projection, you being an angry lesbian wouldn't have surprised me though if i'm going to be honest

the reason why i assume you must not be getting laid is the level of bitterness you're displaying towards men and also women (seems like you could use another person paying attention to you to help get rid of some of your hostility)

i'm bi so if i want sex it's not really a big deal to me if there's a vagina involved, and whether or not you'd like to believe i'm unattractive because you dislike what i've said it doesn't change my reality that's more projection on my part

insulting me based on your imagination doesn't hit home, you should try something else

anyway being hard to please isn't exactly a virtue as far as anyone other than the person who's overly critical is concerned, so congratulations you view other people as worthless while elevating yourself based on genitals you have through

you don't look at people you find physically attractive and think you'd **** them? it's not something that's solely about women for me, they could be either gender if i see something i like my mind goes to sex just how it is

does it matter to me if i'm actually going to **** that specific person? not really there's a lot of people out there and i literally judge every single adult who isnt way too old i meet sexually in my head at one point or another regardless of gender

you think it's woman specific because then i'm whatever man you want me to be that you feel superior to

there are women who obsess over and emulate men, and vice versa that's not gender specific happens both ways, maybe not in your bubble but outside of it sure

that's irrelevant though

no i don't see femininity as women hating each other (you seem to be the only actually hateful one here, i wonder if you realize how much what you say comes off like bitter projection and insecurity) but i do see it as playing up inherently feminine features and roles regardless of sexuality being involved or not because that's just what it is

like i said having a vagina doesnt make a woman feminine

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Oh "le angry lesbian" projection. What's the problem with being a lesbian, anyways? Women are sexy, they are beautiful, certainly more attractive than men, who usually don't care about their appearance because they deluded themselves into thinking women don't care about looks. LOL! If I said you're an angry homosexual, you would call me homophobic. But yet lesbophobia is accepted for some reason.

>I'm bi

Say no more fam, I don't even consider you a viable sexual partner for me. Bisexual men are honestly sexually repulsive to me, and also considering bisexual men like dick in the booty and like to suck it, it's no wonder they don't think simply having a vagina is feminine, because they would **** a guy in drag if they were hot enough.

posted April 22, 2019 09:06 PM            

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Originally posted by TuxLuigi:
Oh "le angry lesbian" projection. What's the problem with being a lesbian, anyways? Women are sexy, they are beautiful, certainly more attractive than men, who usually don't care about their appearance because they deluded themselves into thinking women don't care about looks. LOL! If I said you're an angry homosexual, you would call me homophobic. But yet lesbophobia is accepted for some reason.

>I'm bi

Say no more fam, I don't even consider you a viable sexual partner for me. Bisexual men are honestly sexually repulsive to me, and also considering bisexual men like dick in the booty and like to suck it, it's no wonder they don't think simply having a vagina is feminine, because they would **** a guy in drag if they were hot enough.

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it isn't projection, i said it wouldn't surprise me because a lot of the women i've encountered who speak the way you do are lesbians so just like i expect a knife to be sharp but understand that's not always i felt the same about you possibly just not liking men at all

i agree women are beautiful, and have nothing against women who recognize that, though i prefer bi women for obvious reasons i'm not exactly caught up on people's preferences

if you said i seemed gay i'd assume i said something that made me seem that way and wouldn't connect it to homophobia not sure why you instantly go there

here's an idea though since you don't know me maybe don't assume you know where i'm coming from and talk to me based on things i'm not actually saying, it doesn't work well and it leads to you saying irrelevant **** arguing with projections and whatnot

i don't care if you would think i was a viable sex partner because you're not my type regardless of what you look like, i prefer women who know the difference between being an individual and being overly aggressive assuming that makes them stand out as somehow better when it seems more like feeding a personal inferiority complex by being hateful

it's hypocritical at best that you even say it given the first thing you said to me, though i guess you think gender reversal makes it so different, which honestly undermines everything you've said at this point

no i don't think having a vagina makes someone feminine because there are many qualities associated with femininity and it takes multiple ones for me to consider someone feminine (this has nothing to do with a person's actual gender like i said a woman can be masculine and still a woman that's separate)

i'm not usually into feminine men, but i wouldn't turn one down if they were hot enough no same could be said for a masculine woman though if someone isn't usually my type i can still like them

but that has nothing to do with anything

btw i'm here as a bisexual man because i've been with an aries moon woman for 14 years and i was initially just responding to what someone said about not being sure how two aries moons work together

edit: wouldnt me being effeminate just mean i understood femininity on some level and was? since a man being effeminate just means he displays feminine qualities

i'm not getting the logic behind that last statement

posted April 22, 2019 09:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
it isn't projection, i said it wouldn't surprise me because a lot of the women i've encountered who speak the way you do are lesbians so just like i expect a knife to be sharp but understand that's not always i felt the same about you possibly just not liking men at all

i agree women are beautiful, and have nothing against women who recognize that, though i prefer bi women for obvious reasons i'm not exactly caught up on people's preferences

if you said i seemed gay i'd assume i said something that made me seem that way and wouldn't connect it to homophobia not sure why you instantly go there

here's an idea though since you don't know me maybe don't assume you know where i'm coming from and talk to me based on things i'm not actually saying, it doesn't work well and it leads to you saying irrelevant **** arguing with projections and whatnot

i don't care if you would think i was a viable sex partner because you're not my type regardless of what you look like, i prefer women who know the difference between being an individual and being overly aggressive assuming that makes them stand out as somehow better when it seems more like feeding a personal inferiority complex by being hateful

it's hypocritical at best that you even say it given the first thing you said to me, though i guess you think gender reversal makes it so different, which honestly undermines everything you've said at this point

no i don't think having a vagina makes someone feminine because there are many qualities associated with femininity and it takes multiple ones for me to consider someone feminine (this has nothing to do with a person's actual gender like i said a woman can be masculine and still a woman that's separate)

i'm not usually into feminine men, but i wouldn't turn one down if they were hot enough no same could be said for a masculine woman though if someone isn't usually my type i can still like them

but that has nothing to do with anything

btw i'm here as a bisexual man because i've been with an aries moon woman for 14 years and i was initially just responding to what someone said about not being sure how two aries moons work together

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I don't care if you don't care, son, you unironically post on Lindaland. This automatically makes me question your intellectual capabilities, and you wouldn't have been my type even if I saw you and liked you as a friend.

No, feminine and masculine are societal boundaries with SOME biological bearing. Dude, I'm not of the obsessive "feminine" and "masculine" fake socially engineered crap that's been pushed out in Western society for the past 60 years, considering how much it changes based on society, ect.

Also the projection argument doesn't work here, what am I projecting? I personally don't care for your existence, or 90% of the userbase on here, so what are you even going on about?

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posted April 22, 2019 09:53 PM            

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Originally posted by TuxLuigi:

I don't care if you don't care, son, you unironically post on Lindaland. This automatically makes me question your intellectual capabilities, and you wouldn't have been my type even if I saw you and liked you as a friend.

No, feminine and masculine are societal boundaries with SOME biological bearing. Dude, I'm not of the obsessive "feminine" and "masculine" fake socially engineered crap that's been pushed out in Western society for the past 60 years, considering how much it changes based on society, ect.

Also the projection argument doesn't work here, what am I projecting? I personally don't care for your existence, or 90% of the userbase on here, so what are you even going on about?

The fact you're even humoring OP to begin with,... lol smh. This site is full of seriously touched people is all I will say. It's no wonder it's a joke to serious astrologers.

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you post on here too do you question your own? very inconsistent with the way you speak and what you actually do

why are you telling me i'm not your type? i haven't hit on you, do you think that just because you have a vagina every man in your vicinity wants it? that's not how it works you know

the projection argument works in the sense that you're speaking to me by responding in a manner that comes off like you're speaking to someone you've made up and are projecting your imagination onto instead of reading what i'm saying and actually processing it and responding

when someone is responding to their assumptions instead of reality that's projection, it has nothing to do with how much you care or not so i'm not sure why you're telling me how little you care

i never claimed you did or assumed you did so how is it relevant? what i said is you seem insecure because generally speaking people who put themselves on a pedestal while lashing out at everyone around them are and it's typical behavior

does that mean you care about anyone here? no, and usually people who are both those things lash out on people they don't care about or know well because it's inconsequential so assuming you cared would be odd on my part which is why it was never brought up

also projections generally happen during conversation as a result of not caring what an individual is saying or who they are because substituting your own reality will suffice when what you really want to do is argue

so you not caring is almost a given

when i read charts on my own i actually don't use the methods most people here use, however i still find discussions intriguing and it gives me something to do

i also enjoy posting on anonymous message boards about political views i don't have to argue with people i agree with just to see how they defend their views and how convincing i can be (i also enjoy seeing how easy it is for me to talk to people i disagree with as if we felt the same) because i just like to talk **** to kill time

whether or not you feel like this is a quality site or agree with the use of tropical/placidus houses (the default here) etc has nothing to do with the people here and blanket insulting all of them just seems petty

you're legit just being petty now yelling "i'm better than this and all of you" for reasons i have yet to see you display because everything you've shown me of you hasn't exactly been worthwhile and i think you know that much

you're illogical and inconsistent but you're not a complete idiot so i assume you have some level of self awareness and can look back at all the **** you've said thus far and know it's not exactly impressive when you act like that then fall back on a holier than thou attitude

posted April 22, 2019 10:16 PM            

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Originally posted by TuxLuigi:
You hate other women so much and you're also childish, trust you're no catch to any man on this planet except the ones willing to settle for aging scraps. You are very emotionally and mentally unstable lol, spoiled goods as a man would say, and I know you do put stock in male opinion more than female.

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It's misogynistic to refer to a woman as "aging scraps". What the hell?

@Dumuzi. Getting laid is easy. Finding someone compatible, who isn't a douche, etc - that's the hard part. Bitterness can come from being hurt a lot - and I think that TuxLuigi is a man. Not sure, though.

Good old Lindaland. Always a fight going on. Linda was an attractive woman, and I wish that more women could be seen as attractive in various ways, instead of what's considered to be "hot" - and I say this as someone who only ever heard that she was "hot" and "sexy". Didn't have the prettiest face, so I wasn't a complete catch, but my body was a draw. To the men who matter, all of you will be important to them. Personality, intellect, dreams/wishes, and so on.

It would also be nice for women to be respected as they age.

posted April 22, 2019 10:19 PM            

BY MAYA ANGELOU

Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.
I’m not cute or built to suit a fashion model’s size
But when I start to tell them,
They think I’m telling lies.
I say,
It’s in the reach of my arms,
The span of my hips,
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lips.
I’m a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That’s me.

I walk into a room
Just as cool as you please,
And to a man,
The fellows stand or
Fall down on their knees.
Then they swarm around me,
A hive of honey bees.
I say,
It’s the fire in my eyes,
And the flash of my teeth,
The swing in my waist,
And the joy in my feet.
I’m a woman
Phenomenally.

Phenomenal woman,
That’s me.

Men themselves have wondered
What they see in me.
They try so much
But they can’t touch
My inner mystery.
When I try to show them,
They say they still can’t see.
I say,
It’s in the arch of my back,
The sun of my smile,
The ride of my breasts,
The grace of my style.
I’m a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That’s me.

Now you understand
Just why my head’s not bowed.
I don’t shout or jump about
Or have to talk real loud.
When you see me passing,
It ought to make you proud.
I say,
It’s in the click of my heels,
The bend of my hair,
the palm of my hand,
The need for my care.
’Cause I’m a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That’s me.

Maya Angelou, “Phenomenal Woman” from And Still I Rise. Copyright © 1978 by Maya Angelou. Used by permission of Random House, an imprint and division of Penguin Random House LLC. All rights reserved.
Source: The Complete Collected Poems of Maya Angelou (Random House Inc., 1994)

posted April 22, 2019 10:19 PM            

BY MAYA ANGELOU

You may write me down in history
With your bitter, twisted lies,
You may trod me in the very dirt
But still, like dust, I'll rise.

Does my sassiness upset you?
Why are you beset with gloom?
’Cause I walk like I've got oil wells
Pumping in my living room.

Just like moons and like suns,
With the certainty of tides,
Just like hopes springing high,
Still I'll rise.

Did you want to see me broken?
Bowed head and lowered eyes?
Shoulders falling down like teardrops,
Weakened by my soulful cries?

Does my haughtiness offend you?
Don't you take it awful hard
’Cause I laugh like I've got gold mines
Diggin’ in my own backyard.

You may shoot me with your words,
You may cut me with your eyes,
You may kill me with your hatefulness,
But still, like air, I’ll rise.

Does my sexiness upset you?
Does it come as a surprise
That I dance like I've got diamonds
At the meeting of my thighs?

Out of the huts of history’s shame
I rise
Up from a past that’s rooted in pain
I rise
I'm a black ocean, leaping and wide,
Welling and swelling I bear in the tide.

Leaving behind nights of terror and fear
I rise
Into a daybreak that’s wondrously clear
I rise
Bringing the gifts that my ancestors gave,
I am the dream and the hope of the slave.
I rise
I rise
I rise.

posted April 22, 2019 10:42 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
Thank you for the lovely thread, LovelyAries. I don't know if she's around lately, but our very own lalalinda is an Aries, too.

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You're very welcome!

BTW - I adore Maya Angelou. That poem is EVERYTHING.