posted April 22, 2019 10:46 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
It's misogynistic to refer to a woman as "aging scraps". What the hell?

@Dumuzi. Getting laid is easy. Finding someone compatible, who isn't a douche, etc - that's the hard part. Bitterness can come from being hurt a lot - and I think that TuxLuigi is a man. Not sure, though.

Good old Lindaland. Always a fight going on. Linda was an attractive woman, and I wish that more women could be seen as attractive in various ways, instead of what's considered to be "hot" - and I say this as someone who only ever heard that she was "hot" and "sexy".

It would also be nice for women to be respected as they age.

~ April 14th Ram.

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true, relationships are the hard part yeah if that was as easy as getting laid that'd be nice though

i'm not sure that tuxluigi is a man or a woman but i imagine they frequent the parts of the internet where "there are no women" either way which is why they speak like that (@tuxluigi inb4 you're really a frog posting neckbeard who normally frequents a chinese basket weaving forum and is bad at pretending to be a terf sjw) and why they think i must want to **** them for being (or pretending to be) a woman by default and mentioned traps etc

i'm not emotionally invested in them being anything in particular so it's all good, not like them being either really makes a difference ultimately i was just talking to them to make noise same as they were doing to everyone tbh

i engage for the sake of it just to see where the other person will go with things

as for not finding linda goodman hot that doesn't mean she was ugly, but she didn't exactly age well and she was average before that

it's not that i find older women unattractive by default that i say that btw, there's women who look better older and older women can have qualities i find more appealing but her in particular nah

i don't just see a specific kind of pretty as attractive or think looks are everything though, looks are a nice bonus and finding someone attractive can make unpleasant **** easier but ultimately there's a lot of qualities that are important that have nothing to do with what someone looks like in regards to sex or a relationship

posted April 22, 2019 10:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
you post on here too do you question your own? very inconsistent with the way you speak and what you actually do

why are you telling me i'm not your type? i haven't hit on you, do you think that just because you have a vagina every man in your vicinity wants it? that's not how it works you know

the projection argument works in the sense that you're speaking to me by responding in a manner that comes off like you're speaking to someone you've made up and are projecting your imagination onto instead of reading what i'm saying and actually processing it and responding

when someone is responding to their assumptions instead of reality that's projection, it has nothing to do with how much you care or not so i'm not sure why you're telling me how little you care

i never claimed you did or assumed you did so how is it relevant? what i said is you seem insecure because generally speaking people who put themselves on a pedestal while lashing out at everyone around them are and it's typical behavior

does that mean you care about anyone here? no, and usually people who are both those things lash out on people they don't care about or know well because it's inconsequential so assuming you cared would be odd on my part which is why it was never brought up

also projections generally happen during conversation as a result of not caring what an individual is saying or who they are because substituting your own reality will suffice when what you really want to do is argue

so you not caring is almost a given

when i read charts on my own i actually don't use the methods most people here use, however i still find discussions intriguing and it gives me something to do

i also enjoy posting on anonymous message boards about political views i don't have to argue with people i agree with just to see how they defend their views and how convincing i can be (i also enjoy seeing how easy it is for me to talk to people i disagree with as if we felt the same) because i just like to talk **** to kill time

whether or not you feel like this is a quality site or agree with the use of tropical/placidus houses (the default here) etc has nothing to do with the people here and blanket insulting all of them just seems petty

you're legit just being petty now yelling "i'm better than this and all of you" for reasons i have yet to see you display because everything you've shown me of you hasn't exactly been worthwhile and i think you know that much

you're illogical and inconsistent but you're not a complete idiot so i assume you have some level of self awareness and can look back at all the **** you've said thus far and know it's not exactly impressive when you act like that then fall back on a holier than thou attitude

on the bright side you only seem to care about your own views and perspective so at least all your ranting is leading to some self satisfaction regardless of how it comes off to anyone outside of your head

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posted April 22, 2019 10:54 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
It's misogynistic to refer to a woman as "aging scraps". What the hell?

@Dumuzi. Getting laid is easy. Finding someone compatible, who isn't a douche, etc - that's the hard part. Bitterness can come from being hurt a lot - and I think that TuxLuigi is a man. Not sure, though.

Good old Lindaland. Always a fight going on. Linda was an attractive woman, and I wish that more women could be seen as attractive in various ways, instead of what's considered to be "hot" - and I say this as someone who only ever heard that she was "hot" and "sexy". Didn't have the prettiest face, so I wasn't a complete catch, but my body was a draw. To the men who matter, all of you will be important to them. Personality, intellect, dreams/wishes, and so on.

It would also be nice for women to be respected as they age.

~ April 14th Ram.

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It's also misogynistic to call women manly just for telling them to not conflate femininity with pleasing men, but okay.

posted April 22, 2019 10:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
This is fun astrology. Some of it is more serious and some of it is just fun.

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When all you do is "fun" astrology it starts to seriously degrade what it's supposed to be. also OP is very obviously taking this VERY seriously.

posted April 22, 2019 10:59 PM            

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Originally posted by TuxLuigi:

I'm not reading all of that. Quit being so emotional

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>you wrote a lot it must be emotional
that's not actually how **** works you know, but if you want to continue talking to a projection instead of me feel free just realize you're not "winning" a conversation by refusing to have one

posted April 22, 2019 11:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
>you wrote a lot it must be emotional
that's not actually how **** works you know, but if you want to continue talking to a projection instead of me feel free just realize you're not "winning" a conversation by refusing to have one

are you this passive aggressive irl too?

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posted April 22, 2019 11:11 PM            

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Originally posted by TuxLuigi:
If you mean by indifferent, yes.

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i mean what i said, the funny thing about that approach is it's a fake sense of control over a conversation

maybe you ignore what's being said to you and substitute your own reality well enough for you to exist without any actual feedback from the outside world, but that's not actually having the upper hand or any power it's just your imagination

posted April 22, 2019 11:18 PM            

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Originally posted by TuxLuigi:
Also, who said anything about winning an argument? Lol

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you speak like someone who's constantly trying to gain the upper hand in a passive aggressive fashion, rather than actually discussing what's being said to you

so when i say "winning" i'm referring to that sort of behavior that you're displaying

if you have nothing to say back you either default to "i don't care" "i'm not reading responses to things i've said but i'll stay to tell you i don't care" etc and so on or you respond to something you've made up that has nothing to do with what was actually said

both these methods are typical of passive aggressive people seeking control when they speak because they can't actually have a discussion in context and have it so they resort to other means

posted April 22, 2019 11:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
you speak like someone who's constantly trying to gain the upper hand in a passive aggressive fashion, rather than actually discussing what's being said to you

so when i say "winning" i'm referring to that sort of behavior that you're displaying

if you have nothing to say back you either default to "i don't care" "i'm not reading responses to things i've said but i'll stay to tell you i don't care" etc and so on or you respond to something you've made up that has nothing to do with what was actually said

both these methods are typical of passive aggressive people seeking control when they speak because they can't actually have a discussion in context and have it so they resort to other means

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posted April 22, 2019 11:38 PM            

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Originally posted by TuxLuigi:

Okay.
I honestly don't care though. U taking this more seriously than I was lmao.

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i'm curious why do you assume i'm taking this seriously? why would i be very emotionally caught up in talking to a passive aggressive woman who probably got tired of /x/ and is here to make noise? if you can respond to me as often as i do to you without caring why do you think when it's the other way around it matters much more?

edit: btw i didn't question whether or not you cared, why do you keep repeating yourself? i got you the first time, saying it more doesn't change much

i believe you have no emotion towards me as an individual because i have none towards you because neither of us has interacted before tonight and we're having a meaningless conversation, you don't have to prove it by repeating it, i never questioned it

posted April 23, 2019 12:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i'm curious why do you assume i'm taking this seriously? why would i be very emotionally caught up in talking to a passive aggressive woman who probably got tired of /x/ and is here to make noise? if you can respond to me as often as i do to you without caring why do you think when it's the other way around it matters much more?

edit: btw i didn't question whether or not you cared, why do you keep repeating yourself? i got you the first time, saying it more doesn't change much

i believe you have no emotion towards me as an individual because i have none towards you because neither of us has interacted before tonight and we're having a meaningless conversation, you don't have to prove it by repeating it, i never questioned it

i think i could be anyone and you'd have the same exact conversation

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You're replying in like a 5 minute integral and writing at least 3 paragraphs in it.

posted April 23, 2019 06:16 AM            

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Originally posted by vickymadness:
Also while I'm at it, my aquarius rising won't let me sleep if I don't say this; people who are assigning gender to qualities... are you for real? How does it feel living in a cave?

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It's pretty clear that you can't politely disagree with another person without attempting to insult them.

posted April 23, 2019 06:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
They are beautiful but they have an inner strength that some people may say is not "feminine" as in damsel in distress kind of feminine.

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posted April 23, 2019 06:30 AM            

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Originally posted by TuxLuigi:
You're replying in like a 5 minute integral and writing at least 3 paragraphs in it.

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i write a lot about everything, and have a lot of free time how does that imply emotion? because you've decided to talk to a projection instead of me you made up the "says a lot when he cares" thing you're going with, you know that right? that's not actually me it's just that you're speaking to people like they're a stand in for characters you build in your head

posted April 23, 2019 10:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:

i write a lot about everything, and have a lot of free time how does that imply emotion? because you've decided to talk to a projection instead of me you made up the "says a lot when he cares" thing you're going with, you know that right? that's not actually me it's just that you're speaking to people like they're a stand in for characters you build in your head

why would i feel emotion towards that? is it because when you speak you think people care or that you inspire a lot of feelings no matter what you say? read what's being said to you not what you want to see

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posted April 23, 2019 10:31 AM            

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Originally posted by TuxLuigi:
Okay.

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posted April 23, 2019 11:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
good girl, knew you had it in you to do what you're told

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posted April 23, 2019 11:47 AM            

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Originally posted by TuxLuigi:
You sound mentally special tbh

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posted April 23, 2019 12:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i thought you weren't reading anything i said because you didn't care

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posted April 23, 2019 12:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i thought you weren't reading anything i said because you didn't care

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Just leave it alone at this point.

Tell us more about Aries Moons.

posted April 23, 2019 12:57 PM            

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Originally posted by TuxLuigi:

Are you retarded?

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i keep hoping you'll say something that i'll find mildly entertaining, but you keep disappointing me

at first you seemed like maybe you would, but you quickly dissolved into passive aggressive catch phrases and now you're onto intelligence insults, do you realize how many people do this sort of thing when they have nothing interesting or new to say and started things off with an argument?

it's amazing how many of you there are

posted April 23, 2019 01:10 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Just leave it alone at this point.

Tell us more about Aries Moons.

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i don't like leaving things alone i prefer to see if there's anything interesting about them for a little while

i find the aggression endearing though, with aries moons sometimes it's over the top in this way that's funny or attractive and i'm fine with either one, but i appreciate being able to move on and change the tone of things quickly that comes with them

last week my fiancee threw something across the room while we were arguing and i didn't care because it wasn't mine but i told her to chill with trying to break **** and she said to me "i'll break everything in this ******* room i don't care" and it was kind of hot not gonna lie, but funny too told her we'd talk more when she calmed down

then i shut up and she calmed down nothing was broken but even if she did she wouldve most likely broken her own **** , the only thing of mine that she couldve gotten was my guitar and she'd feel guilty about that later when she calmed down and they're replaceable, have others anyway so it wasn't a big deal

posted April 23, 2019 01:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:

last week my fiancee threw something across the room while we were arguing and i didn't care because it wasn't mine but i told her to chill with trying to break **** and she said to me "i'll break everything in this ******* room i don't care" and it was kind of hot not gonna lie, but funny too told her we'd talk more when she calmed down

then i shut up and she calmed down nothing was broken but even if she did she wouldve most likely broken her own **** , the only thing of mine that she couldve gotten was my guitar and she'd feel guilty about that later when she calmed down and they're replaceable, have others anyway so it wasn't a big deal

all worked out fine

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You sound so calm about it all. Like you're comforted during a hurricane and smiling while set on fire.