posted June 30, 2022 02:43 PM              

And agreed, balance and integration is where it is at. I have found, that the more mature/spiritually developed the Soul, the more balanced/integrated they tend to become between the inner Yin and Yang, whatever the gender of their body.

The ultimate example of this, can be found in Robert (aka Bob) Monroe's 3rd and last book, Ultimate Journey's. Bob was known for his OBE ability and experience. Anyways, at some point later on his life (apparently while writing that above book), he became curious about the most mature/spiritually developed human, and asked his nonphysical guidance if he could meet a human that fit the bill from his space/time cycle.

He was told "sure, but it might not be what you'd expect.."

He is directed to said person during one of his out of body experiences, and he is initially overwhelmed by the person's radiation/consciousness emanation. He can't tell if the person is connected to a female or male body, because on an energy/vibration level, they feel so balanced and merged between inner Yin/Feminine and Yang/Masculine, so with some humor, he temporarily labels this person, "He/She". "He/She" apparently also has quite a sense of humor, and telepathically chuckled at this label and said, "I've never had that name before."

But, I think it is important to keep in mind, that there are indeed differences in our bodies. We can't go around pretending like we are exactly the same, when we are not. Difference doesn't take away from equality of value. We have equal value, though we are different.

Source/The Creator loves variety. Variety is the spice of It's creative life. (and note, how I don't call Source either male nor female, because like "He/She", the Source is perfectly balanced/merged/integrated between the two, though, actually started off Yin polarized itself, interestingly enough).

posted June 30, 2022 08:35 PM              

Tbh, I haven't noticed too many repeating patterns to be found in Sun sign only synastry. But what I have noticed repeatedly and consistently in the Synastry of people unusually close and long term, is an emphasis on a combo of opposite and same Signs but between different symbols.

So for example, Taurus Sun with Scorpio or Taurus Moon would be "stronger" or more affecting that a Taurus Sun with a Scorpio or Taurus Sun or the like.

For example, my Leo Rising is opposed my partner's Aqua Sun and South Node conjunction, my Aqua Venus is conjunct her Aqua Sun more closely, her Cap Asc is conjunct my Cap Sun, her Pisces Mercury and Mars is conjunct my Pisces South Node (and in my 7th) and opposed my Virgo Jupiter Mars conjunction, my Libra Moon is conjunct her chart ruler--Saturn, which is very closely conjunct her Jupiter in Libra.

posted July 01, 2022 10:59 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
^^Being a Libra ASC myself - you know I know. 😁 All you said above was well stated.

So are you surprised that Aries Women's marriages last longer with Capricorn & Taurus than they do with Gemini or Libra?

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I'd blame the Gemini more so then anything else.

Mutable Air, so it's "whichever way the wind blows".

You know a month ago I probably would have said to myself i'm bored with my "IT" job there not even giving me any real software development work or exciting projects.

Let's go volunteer, fight in Ukraine under the foreign legion and I whould be full into the cause.

Then I get stuck in Lysychansk or Severodonetsk which has fallen..there are volunteers from the UK, Canada and the US holding the line there.... then suddenly I do a 360 and change my mind about everything.

posted July 01, 2022 08:24 PM            

That's exactly it. 💯 Gemini "blows with the wind" more often than not and can't regularly be relied upon. Aries is very adventurous but we also like to know that we have consistency from our partner when it matters. And that your word is your bond.

posted July 01, 2022 08:40 PM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
Wasn't aware of that specifically, so yes, I guess I would find it somewhat surprising.

Tbh, I haven't noticed too many repeating patterns to be found in Sun sign only synastry. But what I have noticed repeatedly and consistently in the Synastry of people unusually close and long term, is an emphasis on a combo of opposite and same Signs but between different symbols.

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I never said that compatibility is based on Sun Sign ONLY. So please know that I'm fully aware that there are other factors. 🙂

The marriage stats don't lie though. On average - Aries Women often have their longest lasting relationships with Fire Signs, Capricorns, Taureans & Aquarians. Makes sense to me!

With Sag & Leo - we're kindred spirits that bring immense joy to each other. Period. ⚘

With Taurus & Cap - Aries brings spice & passion to their lives. They bring us stability & sensuality. ⚘

posted July 01, 2022 10:30 PM            

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I am a bit surprised by the Aries-Capricorn connection, since they are innately squared Signs and square indicates tension, conflict, and inharmony. Maybe it is because both of these signs tend to like and welcome challenge more than most?

Perhaps coincidentally (or not) I happen to have a part of self that is still madly in love with an Aries Sun woman. But then again, there is A LOT going on synastrically and composite wise in that connection. (And there is another part of me that wishes I could utterly and completely forget her, because I can't be with her).

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I do remember you saying this before GC. And I empathize. 💜 Certain connections can stick with us, for better or worse.

Aries & Capricorn may be square but they are both Cardinal Signs as well. Both are typically straight shooters, hate playing games and despise fake people. 💯 Both usually have no problem putting in strong effort to manifest their desires. So we have quite a bit in common! Funny isn't it?

There can indeed be tension if they are trying to boss each other around excessively. For sure! Or misunderstandings if intentions aren't explained properly. But honestly, if both parties are mature & fair-minded... this pairing can work out fine. ❤ It ends up being complimentary because the Aries Woman can feel safe enough to let out her girlish, vulnerable "inner child" with the secure Cap Man. The Cap then feels a sense of duty & unconditional love towards that side of her. Add to that - Aries brings him OUT of his shell and rejuvenates him and encourages him to be the best man that he can be. And the sex?? It's like a slow burning surrender to each other that turns explosive. 🔥🔥

Passion + Power = BOOM!! 😂
*neighbors call the cops*

posted July 01, 2022 10:57 PM            

Take a look!
http://youtu.be/XGCj2XlHVGI

"You are the bain of my existence. AND the object of all my desires."

posted July 01, 2022 11:07 PM              

That woman brought out my Scorpio IC, Pisces 8th House, Leo Asc, Mars, Fire 5th House with Neptune in same, and Pluto energy like no one ever has, or ever will again.

posted July 02, 2022 12:12 AM            

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Lol, yep, know these feelings all to well, and don't particularly like it. Doesn't sit well with my Aqua Venus.

That woman brought out my Scorpio IC, Pisces 8th House, Leo Asc, Mars, Fire 5th House with Neptune in same, and Pluto energy like no one ever has, or ever will again.

Verily, I spaketh to thee, I bite my thumb at all the above!

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Not surprised that your Aqua Venus is disturbed by the intensity with her. 😂 (2) men in my life that I've cared deeply for had your Venus. It's not my favorite placement. Due to the push & pull of emotions with you guys! Both men were magneticly drawn to me YET were afraid of me at the same time. Both craved the transformative love that I possessed... but also hated feeling so "out of control" as they are used to being rather detached & intellectual. 🤷🏾‍♀️ The realm of *emotions* was a completely different Monster for them. Our chemistry was UNDENIABLE regardless though. No regrets.

posted July 02, 2022 02:06 AM            

Let's do a brief pivot to Aries Women & Cancer Men! On average - we certainly are not each other's best match. According to the marriage stats, we fall in the lower-middle of the pack in terms of longevity together. So it *can* work if other major factors in their synastry are supportive to the union.

For instance...

Pauly from 'Jersey Shore' and his girlfriend Nikki. He's a Cancer and she's an Aries. 💙❤ He wears the pants - but she's no doormat. She's open & expressive and he's VERY attentive to her feelings. He loves how confident & affectionate she is! Their relationship is healthy yet spicy. 💯

Watch the video below! They had insane chemistry right out of the gate. And that says a lot - considering that Pauly had previously been an eternal Bachelor and slow to commit. This ALL changed for him after meeting this Aries dynamo. All the other ladies on the show hated her guts!! 😂 As she maintained Pauly's attention with such ease and he ALWAYS wanted to be around her instead of them. It was amazing to watch. Lol. People tried hard to tear them apart but they ended up together in the end. And they are *still* partnered (3) years later!
http://youtu.be/8bbHu5srBEw

Pauly is also an Aries Moon - hitting her Sun/Venus - so that helps a ton. ♈ Nikki is either a Libra Moon (conjunct his Pluto) or a Virgo Moon (conjunct his Mars) as well. So their connection is deep & primal. 🔥🔥 And because he is the Masculine Leader in their relationship w/ her being the spirited supportive Feminine - it works! If he were a passive crybaby type of Cancer... Nikki would not have been interested. I assure you lol

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FYI - I have found that many Cancer Men (whether healthy or toxic) secretly enjoy when a woman calls them on their sh*t and hurts their feelings. It's like giving their ego a slight bruise makes their d**k hard!! No lies. 😂 They'll often run all over & crush the feelings of a Water Sign Woman... yet they'll MOVE MOUNTAINS for a Fire Sign Woman in many instances. 🔥 And then potentially drown out our fire with their sea of insecure emotions.

For example...

Tommy Mottola (Cancer) married Mariah Carey (Aries) and made her a Megastar. But he became so obsessed with protecting her "inner child" that he turned into a tyrant, putting cameras all around the house and controlling her EVERY move.

posted July 02, 2022 05:26 AM              

It was "after the fact" that my Aqua Venus felt uncomfortable with it all, and more so with how the intensity lingered and wouldn't leave even after we parted ways. I was not and am not used to that. I am used to being able to detach from people, situations, etc fairly easily. And my very strong Capricorn is used to having good control of self.

I can't really call her an "ex", because we were never officially together, and our connection, in toto, lasted only about a month and a half.

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posted July 02, 2022 11:46 AM            

Thank you for being so open & honest about your experience. 💜 Sounds very intense! When you said that she ran & ran... and you chased & chased - I could *feel* your passion for her. You wanting "the fire" of desire to consume you even though it was out of your character - speaks volumes.

You may not have heard this song before. But it's VERY fitting for your dynamic. 🔥
http://youtu.be/CPikYsi6_zU

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In my (2) scenarios, I guess I wasn't "all in" with them the way you described how you were above. I cared a lot about them though and would have been open to taking that "plunge" with them had I seen more consistency. One felt rejected by me, the other felt he wasn't good enough for me. 🤷🏾‍♀️ So they (Aqua Venus) had insecurity issues to sort through.

posted July 02, 2022 12:49 PM            

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I don’t find Aries women all that feminine tbh esp Aries moon women and sometimes Aries Venus and Suns but esp the moons. Even some of the examples you mentioned like Liz taylor and Marilyn yes i agree they were feminine but i don’t think it came from their Aries side at all.

But true hard core Aries women are not that girly even Rihanna with all her makeup and heels ain’t a girly girl at heart and it shows tbh. I feel Pink is another very good example of a hard core Aries. And the Fire and Earth mix you mentioned i really feel like it depends on what you have in your own natal chart But Aries with Earth people i have found it’s not good at all unless something else is compatible between the pair.

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Hi there. May I ask what your Big 3 is?

You are correct that a person's entire chart must be taken into consideration. But this is precisely *why* I created this post. And you have further proven my point.

Pink is a Virgo Sun.
Rihanna is a Pisces Sun.

Yet it is primarily Aries SUNS who are being labeled masculine. Which is inaccurate & unfair. Many of us have strong Taurus and/or Pisces influences just like Liz Taylor & Marilyn Monroe! 💕 So you can't say "the whole chart matters" for one Sign, then turn around and generalize an entire group of women based on another Sign instead of THEIR individual charts. Can't have it both ways.

As for Aries Moons - do you consider Pamela Anderson & Celine Dion to be feminine? I sure do! 🦋 Not every woman with Aries Moon looks or acts like Pink LOL

Mariah Carey has Sun, Mercury & Venus in Aries. ♈ She's very different than Rihanna - who also has an Aries stellium. So I stick by my original comments.

Aries *can* be masculine. And *can* be a fighter - depends on what's taking place. But Aries Energy AT ITS CORE also represents youthfulness, innocence, joyful living, pure intent, openness of the heart & trust of the intuition -- all qualities associated with The Feminine. 💜 Inside of the Aries Woman often resides a girlish "inner child" that wants to feel safe & cared for. There is much *more* to her than the Warrior Princess Archetype. That's my point here.

And what I stated about Aries Women & Earth Men is not simply MY opinion. There are marriage stats to back it up. 💯 Contrary to popular belief, Aries Women's relationships with Air Men typically LACK longevity. The unions are fun but often LACK substance. And going back to individual charts - don't many Aries Women have Taurus & Pisces placements in their chart? Hinting at compatibility with men who possess Earth Energy? 🤷🏾‍♀️ Come on now, you people gotta use your heads and look at the FULL picture.

Unless an Aries Woman has TONS of Air in her chart... we usually desire partners we can trust & rely upon. And that damn sure ain't Gemini!! 😂 Fellow Fire Signs (Leo especially) are generally best for us. Aquarius can work due to their fixed nature.

posted July 02, 2022 03:00 PM            

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Hi there. May I ask what your Big 3 is?

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posted July 02, 2022 03:37 PM            

Thanks for answering.

I loved barbie dolls as a child. 💕 And loved to dance! Was never into sports. So now what?

^^Not every Aries is the same in this area.

I've also known Cancer Sun Women (regardless of outer appearance) with very Masculine Energy with ZERO Aries in their chart. Who used their "nurturing" instincts to lead, provide for and baby grown a** men. It's nuts! Lol. I know some Taurus Women like this, too.

posted July 02, 2022 04:25 PM            

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@SleepyDiary

Thanks for answering.

I loved barbie dolls as a child. 💕 And loved to dance! Was never into sports. So now what?

^^Not every Aries is the same in this area.

I've also known Cancer Sun Women (regardless of outer appearance) with very Masculine Energy with ZERO Aries in their chart. Who used their "nurturing" instincts to lead, provide for and baby grown a** men. It's nuts! Lol. I know some Taurus Women like this, too.

Most Libra Women I've know are indeed Feminine. Or rather "balanced" in their energy. I'm a Libra Rising and balance is important to me.

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In my opinion and personal experience i find the moon to show the real essence of any sign, which is why i said esp Aries moon women can be like this. Cancer moons will be much more ‘’Cancerian’’ than someone with just their Sun, mercury, mars, ascendant or Venus in that sign. Like the Aries moon i mentioned she had a Cancer venus while i have the Moon in that sign and i was the one that was the ‘’mom’’ of the group being really nurturing, sensitive intuitive and giving them a lot of emotional support while she wasn’t so much like this. The only Cancer traits i saw in her was her being really close to her mom and being needy and clingy, but 90% of time she was much more like her moon sign. I have also noticed that friends of the same gender esp women if one has the Venus in the same sign of the other’s moon the Venus person might admire the Moon person because the moon person expresses very naturally what the Venus person tries to ‘’put’’ on when they want to attract or impress someone and Venus is also qualities you find beautiful or admirable in others and the moons don’t have to ‘’put’’ on anything they just are those things. The moon really is the core i have noticed in many people and also in myself.

posted July 02, 2022 05:02 PM            

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In my opinion and personal experience i find the moon to show the real essence of any sign, which is why i said esp Aries moon women can be like this. Cancer moons will be much more ‘’Cancerian’’ than someone with just their Sun, mercury, mars, ascendant or Venus in that sign. I was the one that was the ‘’mom’’ of the group being really nurturing, sensitive intuitive and giving them a lot of emotional support while she wasn’t so much like this.

The moon really is the core i have noticed in many people and also in myself.

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I do agree that the Moon is *especially* important for Women. 🌕 In more ways than one. Our menstrual cycles literally revolve around it!

I have Cancer Moon conjunct MC. So I relate to being "the Mother" of the group. But I also have Leo 11H Cusp - so I'm also seen as the "fun friend" that they want to simultaneously nurture them. 😂

posted July 02, 2022 06:00 PM              

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@Galactic

Thank you for being so open & honest about your experience. 💜 Sounds very intense! When you said that she ran & ran... and you chased & chased - I could *feel* your passion for her. You wanting "the fire" of desire to consume you even though it was out of your character - speaks volumes.

You may not have heard this song before. But it's VERY fitting for your dynamic. 🔥

https://youtu.be/CPikYsi6_zU

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In my (2) scenarios, I guess I wasn't "all in" with them the way you described how you were above. I cared a lot about them though and would have been open to taking that "plunge" with them had I seen more consistency. One felt rejected by me, the other felt he wasn't good enough for me. 🤷🏾‍♀️ So they (Aqua Venus) had insecurity issues to sort through.

Now Aries, Virgo & Scorpio Venus Men on the other hand?? Have been very vocal about their desires or having fallen in love with me. The last man to propose to me was a Scorpio Venus (Sag Sun). 💕 And Leo Venuses can be very expressive as well, in my experience.

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And thank you for appreciating that. Yes, it was extremely intense. Tbh, by the end of writing that previous, once long, reply, I was in tears. I have no idea how 3 years later, I can still be this emotionally affected by all this, but it is, what it is I guess.

Yes, I did find the song pretty apropos. And heck, I didn't realize what a great singer Rick James was! I think I only knew of his Super Freak song, which doesn't really highlight his soulful vocal talent. On a lighter, humorous note. Every time I hear his name, I get flashbacks to the old Dave Chappelle show skit where he says, "I'm Rick James Beeatch!" (I miss that show).

Hmm, wonder what else was going on in the Aqua Venus men's chart, because I would say that Aquarius in general is probably one of the more secure signs on average. Capricorn for example, can definitely be more insecure and struggle with self worth/value issues.

So you keep saying no to these proposals? Just haven't met the fully right guy yet? Don't you have Mars in Capricorn and Cancer Moon? That would go a long way to correlating with why you tend to have a strong attraction to men with strong Capricorn. I used to know a woman that was Virgo Sun with Cap Mars, where I have Cap Sun and Virgo Mars, and I was intensely attracted to her (she also had Aqua Moon in my 7th, etc). But, tbh, it was not a deeper attraction. It was mostly sexual. And I'm a little more sensitive to the Mars to Sun connection since the Sun is my chart ruler.

posted July 02, 2022 07:12 PM              

I was once with (many years ago) an ultra Aries woman. She has Aries Sun, Asc, and Mars, with Sag Moon. Her Aries Sun was conjunct her Aries Asc, and the Aries Mars was Rising in the 1st and closely opposed Libra Pluto.

posted July 02, 2022 07:30 PM            

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I do agree that the Moon is *especially* important for Women. 🌕 In more ways than one. Our menstrual cycles literally revolve around it!

I have Cancer Moon conjunct MC. So I relate to being "the Mother" of the group. But I also have Leo 11H Cusp - so I'm also seen as the "fun friend" that they want to simultaneously nurture them. 😂

Cancer Suns are quite different than Cancer Moons in several different ways. I'm neutral towards Cancer Venus.

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Yes they are very different it’s like when I mentioned the Venus sign i did that because the same qualities that are written for Cancer moons are also put on Cancer Venus which i find to not be completely true in my experience. Cancer moons are much more moodier, sensitive and more absorbing and intuitive than someone just having this Venus sign but having their moons in Fire, Air or Earth signs. I even related more to this Venus sign than someone that had this Venus sign. The moon is very important and a very strong influence on a person’s personality it’s not like the other planets or ascendant where it peaks out here and there, it’s always there at your core this is the ‘’real’’ you. People will remember you and know you as your moon. Like Marilyn for those that knew her and even some of the public saw her as someone that was unpredicable, marched to the beat of her own drum and just stood out for being different compared to other women at that time. The same with Princess Diana both had Aquarian moons.

posted July 02, 2022 07:49 PM            

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And thank you for appreciating that. Yes, it was extremely intense. Tbh, by the end of writing that previous, once long, reply, I was in tears. I have no idea how 3 years later, I can still be this emotionally affected by all this, but it is, what it is I guess.

Yes, I did find the song pretty apropos. And heck, I didn't realize what a great singer Rick James was! I think I only knew of his Super Freak song, which doesn't really highlight his soulful vocal talent.

Hmm, wonder what else was going on in the Aqua Venus men's chart, because I would say that Aquarius in general is probably one of the more secure signs on average. Capricorn for example, can definitely be more insecure and struggle with self worth/value issues.

So you keep saying no to these proposals? Just haven't met the fully right guy yet? Don't you have Mars in Capricorn and Cancer Moon? That would go a long way to correlating with why you tend to have a strong attraction to men with strong Capricorn.

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Aww. 💜 *virtual hugs*

May I ask how you continued your primary relationship after falling hard for the Aries Woman? I just imagine that it's difficult to go backwards once you've felt such an intense connection with another.

BTW - I'm not saying that Aqua Venus is a placement associated with a lack of confidence. Just that the (2) men I dated with this placement had some insecurity issues that blocked their growth & happiness. One was a Sag & the other Pisces.

As for marriage/commitment proposals - yep, it's all about the RIGHT one for me. 💯 I don't play games with men and use them as placeholders until my "real" Knight in Shining Armor comes. Lol. Many other women do though! They'll say "yes" just to brag about being engaged, knowing good & well she'll be divorced sooner rather than later. That's not my style.

I do enjoy being in Relationships. ⚘⚘ But I'm not desperate for one. If I agree to be committed to you - I'm VERY serious about you and not just "settling" out of loneliness like so many do today. If I agree to be your wife - I deeply admire you & see you as my FOREVER. ❤ Period.

So do I date? Yes. Do I have companions? Yes. Is it easy to gain my commitment? No. Am I loyal & loving once you do have me? Hell Yes.

And you are correct - my Mars & Neptune are in Capricorn. My moon in Cancer. 🌕 So I do have natural compatibility with Cap Men. But this is the case with MANY Aries Women, not just myself. And again... Leo & Sag are huge for us as well.

I've encountered more Capricorn Men over the last year than I have in my entire life! It's funny how that happens. Lol. I dated one (w/ Scorpio Moon & Venus) for a few months earlier this year before his job took him back to MI. He asked me after (2) dates to be his woman. 🥂 Like woah! Lol. I asked him if we could go a bit slower. And he totally understood. He's a good guy. GC - so you say that insecurity is common for Capricorn Men? Why is that? You guys often seem so composed, calm & confident. Which I respect! So this is interesting to discover. Along with seeing how *emotive* y'all can be once you DO care for someone. Otherwise, y'all are ice cold. 😂 And Aries relates to that part cuz if we don't like you or f**k with you we will not fake it.