posted January 02, 2020 12:32 AM
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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosion:
Looked at your chart earlier. You are by far, astrologically at least (if your chart is more or less accurate), extremely Venusian attuned. This is because Venus is much closer to the Ascendant point and in it's own Sign.
Pluto would be your 2nd or 3rd most highlighted Planet AFTER Venus. (Moon is fairly strong/highlighted as well, but more projected onto partners most likely).
seeing that typo in bold really made it stand out
had to fix that
yeah i figured venus probably outweighed pluto for me given how heavy the focus on it is in my chart, my moon is prominent too yeah
but i'm really laid back though as far as aries moons go
people are always telling me i'm the most laid back person they've ever met, and it's really hard to get me angry and whatnot
in work settings and with friends and **** i pretty much never fight and ive had exes and roommates actually get mad at me for being too calm
even this guy i'm getting to know now one of the things about me that he said made him anxious for some reason is how accepting i am and how hard it is to bother me because i tend to just generally like and get along with people and flirt with everyone it makes people feel less special i guess
i can see it i suppose, i get the perspective but there's a difference between that sort of thing and me loving someone or having deeper feelings but i suppose that isn't something anyone sees of me til i actually express that openly to them if those feelings are there
it makes me feel kind of bad that he feels that way though because it's just how i am and i can't really help it, but i figure as things progress i'm going to have to really watch myself more with the flirting and **** because i wouldn't want to upset him or anything
figure it's only fair to at least try to be more mindful
my ex fiancee and i argued frequently but she'd go off on me for weird ****
like asking what was wrong when i could tell she was upset because she'd pull some dumb **** like say everything was fine and then go on about something that upset her 10 minutes later and get mad that i'd ask why she didnt just tell me in the first place when it was obvious
it was always some dumb **** too like her insisting i was satisfied about being right rather than just caring that she was sad
so being fair it's hard to avoid that **** when it's a daily thing and you're living with it
she's pretty heavily plutonic in a lot of the stereotypical terrible way always plotting revenge and spiting herself and others etc and so on scorpio mercury, scorpio venus with pluto conjunct, pluto square ascendant, scorpio midheaven (mercury conjunct)
dont get me wrong she has good qualities and **** who doesn't? but yeah all that pluto ****
i think maybe the more negative side of pluto being as explosive as it is just stands out more
also when i really think about it when people talk about plutonic things it's the obsession and the spite, revenge, destruction etc aspects that tend to come up and a good deal of that isn't the better side of it
the depths rebirth and **** that kind of thing gets pretty overshadowed, so maybe that's why i find it easier to see when there's hard aspects
that personal bias with the traits i'm looking at
that sort of thing does a lot, but there's a lot of factors to consider i suppose
i'm rambling but yeah my own chart i think venus overshadows it a lot so it's not really the same in my case